"You’re Not A Real Man, You’re Just A Walking ATM," My Sister’s Husband Laughed—As He Used MY Car...

you're not a real man you're just a walking ATM my sister's husband lefted as he used my car everyone laughed with him I let out a short laugh myself nodded and left without another word 3 days later he was screaming on the phone I never thought I'd be writing this but last night changed everything you know those moments when something small finally breaks the camels back yeah this wasn't one of those this was the moment I watched my brother-in-law Wyatt slide into the driver's seat of my brand new Tesla which I hadn't even given him permission to drive turned to my sister Samantha and loudly announce see I told you Ezra would let me borrow it he always does he's not a real man anyway just a walking ATM and everyone laughed my mother Isa my sister my cousins all of them like it was the funniest joke they'd heard all year some context I've always been the successful one in the family not bragging just stating facts while Wyatt jumped from one get-rich quick scheme to another I built my career steadily my sister Samantha despite her master's degree chose to support his entrepr IAL Spirit instead of pursuing her own path over the past 5 years Wyatt has borrowed my previous car and returned it with a mysterious Dent he knew nothing about asked for six temporary loans totaling $47,000 never repaid used my vacation home for his business Retreats translation parties that resulted in $112,000 worth of Damages maxed out an emergency credit card I foolishly co-signed for convinced my mother to refinance her house to invest in his latest Venture each time it's the same story come on Ezra we're family or don't be so uptight it's just money my sister's favorite you don't even have kids what else are you spending it on but last night was different it was supposed to be a simple family dinner at my mother's house I'd driven there in my new Tesla the first really expensive thing I'd bought for myself in years I hadn't even shown it to anyone yet wanting to avoid the inevitable request to just try it out I was in the kitchen helping Mom when I heard the distinctive sound of my car's door opening by the time I got outside Wyatt was already adjusting the seats with Samantha in the passenger side both of them grinning like teenagers who'd stolen the keys to Dad's car Wyatt get out of my car relax bro just taking it for a quick spin to show Sam you know I've been thinking about getting one myself that's when he made the ATM comment and they all laughed I stood there watching my brother-in-law sitting in my $95,000 car that he hadn't even asked to use making jokes about me being less of a man while my own family laughed along something inside me just clicked I smiled nodded walked back inside grabbed my my jacket and called a ride share as I left I heard my mother Ezra where are you going don't be so sensitive I didn't answer instead I spent the next 3 hours making calls and sending emails by midnight I had reported my car as being used without authorization contacted my bank about every loan and transaction involving Wyatt emailed my lawyer about the vacation home damages changed all my passwords and security codes Frozen the credit card I'd co-signed this morning I woke up to 47 missed calls and messages Wyatt was apparently stranded at a charging station because I'd remotely disabled charging access Samantha was disappointed in my childish behavior mom thought I was tearing the family apart but for the first time in years I felt like free clear my phone is buzzing again as I type this it's why it's number I think I'll let it ring because here's what they don't understand I'm not angry I'm not even hurt anymore I'm just done and sometimes being done is the most powerful thing you can be I have a meeting with my lawyer tomorrow morning I've documented everything and I mean everything they wanted an ATM well this ATM just went permanently out of service update one first thank you all for the overwhelming support on my last post you were right I should have done this years ago here's what's happened in the last 24 hours the morning after the ATM incident I met with my lawyer I brought everything every text email bank statement and photos of damages to my properties she just kept shaking her head as she went through it all the total came to $162,800 and unauthorized charges but here's where it gets interesting while I was in the meeting Wyatt showed up at my house my security cameras caught him trying to use his spare key which I'd already had the locks changed on he stood there for 20 minutes calling and texting a few highlights from his messages stop being dramatic your sister is crying because of you mom says you're acting like a child just reset the Tesla access I need to get to a meeting I didn't respond to any of it instead I was busy with my lawyer drafting formal demand letters for payment we also filed reports for the property damage at my vacation home not pressing charges yet but establishing a paper trail then Mila my girlfriend suggested something brilliant check my credit report turns out there were three credit cards I didn't recognize all maxed out all opened in the past year all with my name as a co-signer guest who had access to my social security number and personal documents through helping with my taxes last year that's when things escalated around 2:00 p. m. Samantha started calling everyone in the family according to my cousin she was telling people I had lost my mind and was destroying the family over a joke she conveniently left out the part about the credit cards or the doar 162k my mother Isa showed up at my office she was crying saying she didn't raise me to be cruel to family I asked her about the $85,000 second mortgage she took out on her house for Wyatt's investment opportunity she got quiet real fast but he promised it would triple in value she whispered and you believed him again she left without another word by evening the family group chat was on fire apparently I'm heartless cruel jealous of Wyatt's potential having a midlife crisis need to man up and help family then Mila found something else remember those business Retreats at my vacation home turns out whyatt was renting it out on a vacation rental site for 2 years pocketing the money using my property to run a business without my knowledge or consent that's when Wyatt's tone changed the messages went from Angry to panicked look we can work something out please don't dig into to the vacation home thing I can explain everything just call me back I didn't instead I froze all joint accounts canel every subscription they had access to changed all passwords reported the fraudulent credit cards had my lawyer draft a complete record of all loans and damages filed reports about the unauthorized rental of my property then I got a text from Samantha that made everything click how could you do this to us we're about to close on our Dram housee the bank needs to verify our income and assets please don't ruin this for us ah so that's what this was about they needed my financials to look good for their loan application the Tesla Joy Ride the ATM comments all just frustration because I wasn't playing along with their plan my lawyer says what they were planning to do would constitute mortgage fraud she's drafting a letter to their loan officer with proof of their actual debts to me just to ensure accuracy in their application of course an hour ago Wyatt left a voicemail he was barely coherent but I made out you have no idea what you've done no idea what's going to come out if you keep pushing this is that a threat or a confession guess we'll find out because here's the thing I'm not pushing anything I'm just finally letting go of the rope in this tug of war they're the ones who are falling into the mud of their own making the security company just alerted me that someone's at my vacation property the cameras show Wyatt's car update two Well turns out Wyatt's threat about what might come out wasn't just hot air the last 48 hours have been revealing when I last posted Wyatt was at my vacation property the security cameras showed him him removing boxes from the garage at 11:00 p.

m. I called the police for a trespassing report but by the time they arrived he was gone what he left behind though was far more interesting than what he took hidden in the back of a storage cabinet documents lots of them bank statements loan applications and business proposals all with my Forge signature but that wasn't even the worst part there were also documents belonging to three other families same pattern borrowed money forged signatures elaborate investment opportunities why it hadn't just been scamming me he'd been running this game on multiple relatives of other families he knew I handed everything to my lawyer she's already contacted the other families involved the next morning Samantha showed up at my office not to apologize no that would be too simple she was there to inform me that she'd posted a lengthy truth about my brother's story on social media called me a vindictive sociopath who was destroying her family out of jealousy her post went viral in our extended family circles cousins I haven't spoken to in years started calling but here's the thing about Family Secrets once you start airing them you can't control which ones come to light my mother's sister called me is it true about the vacation home rentals yes then you should know he did the same thing with Uncle Rob's lakeh house last summer one phone call led to another The Dominoes started falling three other relatives had loaned him money he'd used my mother's house as collateral for a private loan he'd been running unauthorized rentals on two other Family Properties he'd borrowed and sold family heirlooms promising to replace them with better ones once his Investments matured midafternoon my mother Isa finally called her voice was different quiet scared the bank called she said about the second mortgage they say they say the paperwork might be incorrect you mean forged silence mom I didn't know she whispered I really thought he said it was just a formality that he'd pay it off before she started crying for the first time I didn't feel the need to comfort her Mila stayed with me through all of this she was the one who noticed something odd about the timestamps on Wyatt's rental listings they didn't match his business trip dates a quick check revealed he'd been renting out my place while simultaneously claiming to be using it himself double dipping and pocketing both streams of money around 700 p. m.

Samantha called she was hysterical what did you do the bank pulled our mortgage approval they're saying something about a fraud investigation this was our Dram House Ezra how could you I didn't do anything Sam your husband's actions did this he was trying to build something for us for our future by stealing from the family he he said he would fix everything once once what once his imaginary Investments paid off once he scammed enough people she hung up then came the family intervention they all showed up at my house Mom Samantha two uncles and an aunt they wanted to talk this through as a family keep it within the family I let them in sat them down played the security camera footage of Wyatt stealing from my garage showed them the forged documents the rental listings the loan application the evidence of other families he'd scammed one by one they got quieter paler until finally my mother stood up I need to call my bank she said then left without another word the others followed leaving only Samantha she sat there staring at the documents there has to be an explanation she kept saying he wouldn't that's when her phone rang Wyatt's face lit up on the screen she answered on speaker forgetting or not caring that I could hear babe don't go home he said his voice urgent they're there the other families all of them at our house with the police samanth looked at me really looked at me for the first time in years then she got up and walked out without a word my phone is ringing now unknown number the last text from Wyatt just came through I can explain everything just give me one chance please they're going to take everything I'm letting it ring finally update it's done all of it and Truth really is Stranger Than Fiction remember that unknown number calling me it wasn't Wyatt it was another victim's son let's call him James turns out Wyatt had scammed his elderly parents out of their retirement savings $230,000 their entire Nest Egg gone into Wyatt's foolproof investment opportunity James had done some digging of his own he found five more families same pattern same promises same results all told Wyatt had taken over $1.