Oprah Winfrey || "LET THEM MISS YOU" || YOUR VALUE INCREASING BEST SPEECH

ladies and gentlemen you know sometimes life has a way of reminding us that we don't always have to show up to be recognized there's power in your presence but there's even more power in your absence it's in The Quiet Moments when you step back that people start to realize the depth of your value and that's what I want to talk to you about today I want you to let them miss you you were born with value it's not something you have to earn not something someone else can give to you it was stitched into the

very fabric of your being the moment you took your first breath but here's the truth many of us forget that we get so caught up in proving ourselves to others whether it's at work in our relationships or even in our friendships that we begin to tie our sense of Worth to how other people see us and that's dangerous because the moment you do that you give them control over your value let me tell you something no one can determine your worth but you no one not your boss not your partner not even your closest friend

your worth is is not measured by how much you give to others or how well you meet their expectations it's not measured by your accomplishments your status or your title your worth is inherent it comes from knowing who you are and owning that regardless of what anyone else thinks you are valuable because you exist we live in a world where we're constantly seeking approval craving recognition or hoping for validation from others but here's the hard truth you don't need anyone's approval to be worthy the the moment you start looking for external validation is the moment

you start losing sight of your own value when you rely on others to make you feel good about yourself you give them the power to Define your happiness and self-esteem and let me tell you that's a power you should never hand over to anyone else so when the world doesn't seem to see your light I want you to remember one thing it doesn't mean it's not shining sometimes it's in the Stillness in those moments of solitude that we realize just how bright we really are you have to own that light you have to believe in

it even when no one else does your worth is yours and it's constant it doesn't waver based on someone else's ability or inability to see it so stop seeking validation from people who don't recognize your value know your worth stand firm in it and watch how the world around you begins to change sometimes stepping back is the most powerful move you can make in our quest to feel valued we often find ourselves overextending showing up when we're tired giving when we have nothing left to give and being present for others long after we've neglected our

own needs we think if I'm just there a little longer if I give just a little more they'll see my worth but here's the thing people don't often appreciate what's constantly available to them familiarity can make them blind to the gifts you bring into their lives by stepping back you create space for reflection not just for others but for yourself it's in that space that people begin to notice what they've been overlooking your constant presence your unwavering support your energy all the things they may have taken for granted become more visible when you're no longer

offering them so freely but this step back isn't about punishing anyone or playing mind games it's about reclaiming your energy your time and your peace you have to understand that it's not selfish to step away from people who don't appreciate your value in fact it's one of the most loving things you can do for yourself when you step back you're telling the world I know my worth and I don't need to be constantly present for you to see it it's a powerful statement and often that absence does what constant presence cannot it reminds people that

you were never an obligation you were a blessing this isn't about abandonment it's about recalibration you're giving others the chance to see who you really are without the noise without the constant availability without you always filling the gaps when you step back you allow people the opportunity to understand your value in ways they couldn't when you were always right there and even if they don't come to realize it you'll have gained something far more important a deeper understanding of yourself your needs and the importance of being appreciated for who you truly are when you step

back something amazing happens you create the space to focus on your own growth too often we pour so much energy into others that we forget to nurture ourselves we get caught up in the expectations and needs of those around us losing sight of our own goals dreams and well-being but when you step back when you let people miss you you reclaim that energy and redirect it towards your own development this is your time your time to invest in the things that make you better stronger and more fulfilled it's about reconnecting with your passions setting boundaries

and pursuing the things that light a fire in you when you start focusing on your own growth you begin to realize that you are more than what others perceive you are more than the roles you play in their lives you are a whole person with dreams Ambitions and potential that can only be fully realized when you stop pouring everything into everyone else personal growth is a journey and it's ongoing but here's the thing you can't grow if you're constantly available to everyone else but unavailable to yourself you can't evolve if your energy is always scattered

trying to meet everyone else's needs stepping back allows you to Center yourself it gives you the time and space to figure out what you want what makes you happy and how you can become the best version of yourself and when you invest in your own growth you start to attract the kind of people opportunities and situations that are aligned with that higher version of you focusing on your own growth isn't about leaving others behind it's about elevating yourself so that when you do show up you're showing up as the best version of who you are

you have more to give when you're fulfilled more to share when you've taken the time to nurture yourself and in that process you may find that the people who took you for granted start to see you in a whole new light not because you change for them but because you change for yourself let them miss you while you grow into the person you're destined to become as you begin to focus on yourself and step back there's something essential you must remember reclaim your energy in this life your energy is your most precious resource it's the

fuel that powers your dreams your relationships your work and your entire existence but so often we give it away too easily we hand over our energy to people who don't appreciate it to situations that drain us and to thoughts that keep us small now is the time to reclaim that energy and invest it where it matters most into yourself and the people in places that nourish your soul it's easy to get caught in the cycle of trying to prove yourself to others you give and give hoping they'll finally see your worth but the truth is

the people who truly value you don't need constant reminders they don't need you to chase them or pour every ounce of your energy into winning their approval in fact when you stop chasing something remarkable happens when you reclaim your energy you regain control over your life you start directing your energy towards the things that serve your higher purpose and away from the people and circumstances that leave you feeling depleted reclaiming your energy means setting boundaries it means saying no when you need to even if it disappoints others it means choosing rest when your body and

mind are calling for it instead of pushing yourself past the point of exhaustion it's about understanding that you are not obligated to be everything to everyone and you you certainly don't have to sacrifice your well-being for anyone's validation when you protect your energy you become more grounded more centered and more aligned with your true self and here's the beauty of it when you stop giving away your energy to those who don't appreciate it you start to attract those who do the right people will meet you where you are they'll respect your boundaries and they'll cherish

the energy you bring so don't be afraid to pull back to reserve your energy for the things that truly matter reclaim it redirect it and watch how your life transforms when you're no longer pouring into spaces that don't pour back into you let them miss the energy you once gave so freely and let that space be filled with the power of your own self-worth leaving a mark is about more than just making an impression it's about ensuring that your contributions resonate even when you're not physically present when you think of the impact you want to

have on the world consider this what do you want people to remember about you what Legacy do you want to create it's easy to become so absorbed in the day-to-day hustle that we forget to intentionally leave our mark But when you step back and let them miss you you create an opportunity for your true contributions to be appreciated and remembered the reality is we often underestimate the power of our influence every interaction every gesture of kindness every moment of authenticity adds up these are the Footprints you leave behind but if you're always in the thick

of things giving without pause people may not fully grasp the impact you have when you create a little distance you allow others to reflect on the value you bring into their lives they begin to recognize the strength of your presence and the warmth of your support think about it how often do we take for granted the people who are always there when someone is consistently present their influence can fade into the background but when you step away it becomes a moment of realization for others they start to notice what you brought to the table the

laughter the guidance the support you become a memory they cherish a lesson they learn from and a person they long to connect with again leaving a mark is not about grand gestures or making headlines it's about being authentic in your interaction showing up with your whole heart and being true to yourself it's about understanding that your presence matters that your contribution tions have weight and that your absence can lead to deeper appreciation the key is to focus on quality over quantity instead of spreading yourself thin pour your energy into meaningful interactions and relationships that allow

your true Essence to shine when you step back don't underestimate the power of your legacy let the impact you've made echo in the hearts of those you've touched create a foundation of respect and admiration and remember that the mark you leave can last long after you stepped away let them miss you and when they do let it remind them of the Incredible Gift you are in this way you'll not only leave a mark but also create a space for Meaningful reconnection when the time is right welcoming the return of those who recognize your worth is

a profound Act of Grace and wisdom when you allow people to miss you you create an opportunity for genuine connections to flourish it's essential to understand that not everyone will recognize your value right away and that's okay sometimes it takes stepping away for them to see the depth of what you bring to their lives and when they do come back you want to be ready not just to receive them but to engage with a sense of clarity and self assurance when people return after realizing your worth it's an affirmation of your value and an acknowledgement

of what they once took for granted this doesn't mean you should simply Overlook the time you spent feeling unappreciated rather it's a chance to redefine the relationship based on mutual respect and understanding you have the opportunity to set new boundaries and expectations ensuring that both parties recognize and honor each other's contributions this is where wisdom comes into play when people come back it's important to approach the situation with an open heart but also with discernment you've grown during your time apart and it's crucial to ensure that the Dynamics have shifted in a positive direction engage

in conversations that Foster openness and honesty share what you've learned during your time away and invite them to do the same it's in these discussions that you can create a stronger foundation for the relationship going forward also remember that welcoming someone back doesn't mean you have to compromise your newfound sense of self-worth it's about establishing a connection that adds value to both your lives if someone comes back wanting to rekindle a relationship it's an opportunity to reassess what that relationship looks like are they willing to meet you at a higher level of understanding are they

prepared to invest in the connection in a way that honors your growth when you allow others to miss you and they come back it speaks volumes about their journey and growth as well it shows that they've taken the time to reflect and recognize the significance of your presence Embrace this opportunity with gratitude and wisdom let the reunion be a celebration of mutual respect and a chance to deepen the the connection remember it's not just about their return it's also about the journey you've undertaken during your time apart this is the moment to reinforce your boundaries

clarify your needs and ensure that your relationship is built on a foundation of appreciation and understanding as you embrace the power of stepping back remember that your worth is not defined by others but by the incredible person you are letting them miss you allows both you and those around you to grow and appreciate what truly matters by reclaiming your energy leaving a lasting Mark and welcoming the return of those who recognize your value you create space for deeper connections so honor yourself trust in your journey and understand that your absence can illuminate your significance you

are deserving of love respect and appreciation never forget that shine brightly and embrace the beauty of your worth