DO THIS!! She Will Think about You NON-STOP

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The Dark Needle
If you've been following the How to Attract Women series for a while, you'll know that the fastest w...
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if you've been following the how to attract women series for a while you'll know that the fastest way to reach a girl's heart is by making her think about you for a long time in this video I'll show you how to make her think about you 24 hours a day without being able to get you out of her mind imagine the mind of the girl you like as having two doors to get inside you need two keys in this video I'll give you those keys the first door is uncertainty this uncertainty was one of the
most challenging things I faced when I was learning about women's psychology it took me a long time time to master this secret because women are very perceptive and if you don't know how to play by their rules they will outsmart you and take away your certainty but don't worry today in this video I'll explain this game to you in a simplified way and you'll understand it well with me uncertainty means that the girl shouldn't fully understand your feelings scientifically women are attracted to men whose emotions are somewhat mysterious which gives them uncertainty and uncertainty leads
to thinking and thinking leads to love so how do you do this the first thing a woman does when talking to you is to look for certainty that's her primary goal there's a scientific theory called the uncertainty reduction theory which states that people interact because they want to reduce uncertainty this means that certainty plays a big role in the interaction between two people but this Theory applies to getting to know others in general not necessarily in a romantic context so I'll save a deeper discussion on this theory for another video in the social skills series
for now please don't interrupt me let me explain the impact of this Theory specifically in in a situation where you're talking to a girl you like a woman likes to know the answers to fre questions do you really want her how much are you interested in her who likes the other more does she like you more than you like her or the other way around the moment you start talking to a girl her subconscious wants to know the answers to these threee questions if you don't give her the answers she becomes yours but remember she'll
want to know these answers and will'll keep playing games with you to find them out but don't worry I'll show you how not to give her the answers first don't compliment her look you need to understand something if a woman woman is attractive her ego is likely very high especially with social media and dating apps she could be 5 ft tall weigh 180 lbs and have a square shaped body yet act like she's a goddess of beauty you could go up to her just to ask for the time and she'd immediately assume your interested in
her anyway ego is a big topic and if you're interested I could make a video in the how to attract women series about breaking her ego just let me know in the comments but the main point here is that when you talk to her especially if she's attractive she'll immediately assume that you want her now it's not a problem if she knows you're interested but what she shouldn't know is whether you actually want her so the first rule is don't compliment her especially during the early stages of getting to know her and attracting her at
the same time don't start insulting her either just talk normally without giving compliments like you're beautiful you have amazing hair your eyes are gorgeous and so on these are things I often see men do and I used to do them too please avoid this and if you feel the urge to say them remember this advice and stop yourself second don't ask for a date let's say you two went out talk and had a good time don't say we should go out again or after the meeting say wow I had a great time we should do
this again sometime I see a lot of people doing this wanting to show the girl that they enjoyed the date but when you do this you're giving her certainty when she goes home and thinks about you she'll say to herself I went out with that guy he enjoyed it and he wants to go out again and that's where their Intrigue ends she won't think about you much afterwards however if you don't say anything if you just go out meet talk laugh and then leave without mentioning a next time when she gets home she'll keep wondering
did he enjoy it does he want to see me again she'll start analyzing the meeting reflecting on what she did and wondering whether she made a good impression or if she made any mistakes this thought process is crucial for sparking interest or let's say you've just started talking and you send her a message saying let's go out I've addressed this in a previous video about texting in the beginning never ask for a date third don't ask her for anything when I say don't ask her for anything I mean don't request anything that shows you need
her or her affection for example if you're talking to her don't ask for her Instagram or social media accounts don't ask her for a hug or a kiss and don't ask her to call you I see many guys doing this they send her messages like why don't you reply to me or why don't you call and check on me as if she were their mother live your life and make her feel like she's just a minor character in it and don't ask her for anything so you don't come across as needy for her affection and
let me repeat a girl's egoo might be high and all these guys talking to her constantly seek her approval and affection when you don't ask for anything anything you begin to stand out as someone unique and you make her start asking herself questions like who is this guy does he not like me doesn't he want me and if he doesn't want me why does he keep talking to me at this point she starts to question herself and think about you which keeps you on her mind as she wonders where did this guy come from doesn't
he see how attractive I am what's going on in his head these questions and this curiosity make her want answers making her want to meet with you more to learn more about you in this way you've built strong attraction without her even realizing it one small note don't be overly old or completely indifferent because then you'll just give her a clear no answer to her questions giving her the certainty she's after so be smart fourth don't always be available this is a point I've discussed many times in this series in short don't always be available
don't keep responding to her messages immediately and don't be there for her every time she reaches out if you went out with her today wait a week before you suggest going out again talk to her today don't talk to her tomorrow and don't cling to her some people might say if I don't talk to her often she'll forget me this is a miscon ception erase it from your mind I'll explain why and clarify something important about women for a girl to develop feelings for you and start liking you she needs time some of that time
will be spent with you but most of it should be time apart from you for her to start liking you she needs to think about you she'll wake up in the morning and remember you go to work and talk about you with her friends walk down the street and see something that reminds her of you attraction builds when you're not around that's why I say give her some space to think about you and I'll give you a golden piece of advice which I hope you'll follow follow for Life a girl will forget you if you're
afraid she'll forget you if you ever catch yourself thinking this girl might forget me or I should message her so she doesn't forget me remember this advice a girl will forget you if you're afraid she'll forget you and I'm telling you this from personal experience because you need to understand something important the modern world we live in with social media dating apps movies and all that has placed a high value on women making men always available if you're talking to an attractive girl rest assured there are dozens of other guys clinging to her afraid she'll
forget them and as I said before a girl will forget you if you're afraid she'll forget you this means she'll forget everyone except the person who isn't afraid of losing her finally trust in this process the last step I want you to follow to achieve uncertainty is to resist the inner urge to give her certainty look when you're talking to a girl especially if she's the only girl you're talking to you'll feel internal pressure to give her certainty you'll find yourself wanting to compliment her to suggest meeting again to ask her for something to be
available or even to worry that she might forget you these feelings will come up but I want you to have a sense of adventure to resist that urge and to control yourself following this approach will also teach you self-control that will benefit you in all areas of life not just with women so please trust me and every time you feel that inner desire to do the opposite of what I advised hold back and stick to what I've suggested when you do all this you'll have the key to the first door the second door is the
door of expectations always be the opposite of her expectations and don't worry I'll explain how to do this step by step just stay with me never let a girl predict your actions or understand you completely this is a very important rule listen carefully I'll explain this in detail when you give a girl uncertainty you make her think about you as she thinks about you she'll start wondering about your next move and try to predict what you'll do whatever she expects do the opposite if she expects you to do Zig do zag if she expects you
to do zag do Zig and this will make her think about you even more leaving her stuck in this endless loop I know this may seem a bit complicated and you might wonder how you'll know what she's think thinking but don't worry it will all make sense soon the human mind is simple it expects you to repeat what you did before imagine you know someone who always Lies when he tells you a story you'll expect him to lie it's the same with the girl if you call her every day to talk she'll expect you to
call every day if you talk to her one day and skip the next she would expect you to keep that pattern so always do the opposite of what you usually do if you went out with her three times this week next week don't go out with her at all or just once if you've been sending her messages every day stop messaging her for a while if you always laugh with her try sometimes to meet her without laughing at all in other words keep her guessing when she's with you and make her feel puzzled and unable
to figure you out by the way let me tell you a story to illustrate another important point one day I went out with a girl who told me about a guy she talks to on WhatsApp she mentioned that he constantly messages her and it's clear he likes her and wants her but she isn't interested she told me that whenever she takes time to reply he mirrors her timing if she replies after 3 hours he also replies after 3 hours if she takes akes a full day to respond he waits a full day before replying too
when I heard this I wish that guy was in front of me so I could shake some sense into him and say where did you get this naive T he probably thinks that by mirroring her response times he's maintaining his value or something but no first he's handing all control over to her which is a huge mistake second women aren't naive if you're playing these kinds of games with her she will see through it and realize you're not genuine this might be hard to hear but if you're playing these games with the girls thinking you're
doing something clever and that she won't notice you're being naive yourself please don't play these types of games sometimes respond right away sometimes take your time other times don't reply at all do what feels right for you and don't worry about her reaction keep changing things up and this way you'll come across as less interested while also making it impossible for her to predict your next move these are the keys to the doors of any girl's mind and when this video hits 1,000 likes I'll leave a link in the first comment to download a PDF
summarizing everything so you can remember remember it all also don't forget to check out my online course which you'll find Linked In the description this was the dark needle and I'll see you in the next video
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