20 Things Most People Learn Too Late In Life

Life is a journey of twists and turns, peaks and  valleys, mountains to climb and oceans to explore. Good times and bad times.  Happy times and sad times.

But always, life is a movement forward. No matter where you are on the journey, in some way, you are continuing on —  and that’s what makes it so magnificent. One day, you’re questioning what on earth  will ever make you feel happy and fulfilled.

And the next, you’re perfectly in flow, writing  the most important book of your entire career. What nobody ever tells you, though, when you are a wide-eyed child, are all the  little things that come along with “growing up. ” 1.

Most people are scared  of using their imagination They’ve disconnected with their inner child. They don’t feel they are “creative. ” They like things “just the way they are.

” 2. Your dream doesn’t really matter to anyone else Some people might take interest.  Some may support you in your quest.

But at the end of the day, nobody cares, or  will ever care about your dream as much as you. 3. Friends are relative to  where you are in your life Most friends only stay for a period of time —  usually in reference to your current interest.

But when you move on, or your priorities  change, so too do the majority of your friends. 4. Your potential increases with age As people get older, they tend to think that they can do less and less — when in  reality, they should be able to do more and more, because they have had time to soak up more  knowledge.

Being great at something is a daily habit. You aren’t just “born” that way. 5.

Spontaneity is the sister of creativity If all you do is follow the exact same  routine every day, you will never leave yourself open to moments of sudden discovery. Do  you remember how spontaneous you were as a child? Anything could happen, at any moment!

6. You forget the value of “touch” later on When was the last time you played in the rain? When was the last time you sat on a sidewalk and looked closely at the cracks, the rocks, the  dirt, the one weed growing between the concrete and the grass nearby.

Do that again. You will feel so connected  to the playfulness of life. 7.

Most people don’t do what they love It’s true. The “masses” are not the ones who live the lives  they dreamed of living. And the reason is because they didn’t fight hard enough.

They didn’t make  it happen for themselves. And the older you get, and the more you look around, the easier it  becomes to believe that you’ll end up the same. Don’t fall for the trap.

8. Many stop reading after college Ask anyone you know the last good book they  read, and I’ll bet most of them respond with, “Wow, I haven’t read a book in a long time. ” 9.

People talk more than they listen There is nothing more ridiculous to me than  hearing two people talk “at” each other, neither one listening, but waiting for the other  person to stop talking so they can start up again. 10. Creativity takes practice It’s funny how much we as a society praise and value creativity, and  yet seem to do as much as we can to prohibit and control creative expression  unless it is in some way profitable.

If you want to keep your creative muscle pumped  and active, you have to practice it on your own. 11. “Success” is a relative term As kids, we’re taught to “reach for success.

” What does that really mean? Success to one  person could mean the opposite for someone else. Define your own Success.

12. You can’t change your parents A sad and difficult truth  to face as you get older: You can’t change your parents. They are who they are.

Whether they approve of what  you do or not, at some point, no longer matters. Love them for bringing you  into this world, and leave the rest at the door. 13.

The only person you have to  face in the morning is yourself When you’re younger, it feels like  you have to please the entire world. You don’t. Do what makes you happy, and create the life you want to live for yourself. 

You’ll see someone you truly love staring back at you every morning if you can do that. 14. Nothing feels as good as something you do from the heart No amount of money or achievement or external validation will ever take the  place of what you do out of pure love.

Follow your heart, and the rest will follow. 15. Your potential is directly correlated to how well you know yourself Those who know themselves and maximize their strengths are the  ones who go where they want to go.

Those who don’t know themselves, and  avoid the hard work of looking inward, live life by default. They lack the ability  to create for themselves their own future. 16.

Everyone who doubts you  will always come back around That kid who used to bully you  will come asking for a job. The girl who didn’t want to date you will  call you back once she sees where you’re headed. It always happens that way.

Just focus on you, stay true to what you believe in, and all the doubters  will eventually come asking for help. 17. You are a reflection of the 5  people you spend the most time with Nobody creates themselves, by themselves.

We are all mirror images, sculpted through the reflections we see in other people. This isn’t  a game you play by yourself. Work to be surrounded by those you wish to be like, and in time, you  too will carry the very things you admire in them.

18. Beliefs are relative to what you pursue Wherever you are in life, and based on who is around you, and based on your current aspirations,  those are the things that shape your beliefs. Nobody explains, though, that “beliefs” then  are not “fixed.

” There is no “right and wrong. ” It is all relative. Find what works for you.

19. Anything can be a vice Be wary. Again, there is no “right” and “wrong” as you  get older.

A coping mechanism to one could be a way to relax on a Sunday to another. Just remain  aware of your habits and how you spend your time, and what habits start to increase in frequency —  and then question where they are coming from in you and why you feel compelled to repeat them. Never mistakes, always lessons.

As I said, know yourself. 20. Your purpose is to be YOU What is the meaning of life?

To be you, all of you, always, in everything you do — whatever that means to you. You are your own  creator. You are your own evolving masterpiece.

Growing up is the realization  that you are both the sculpture and the sculptor, the painter and the  portrait. Paint yourself however you wish.