First Date Locations (TIER LIST)

all right what's going on guys today's video we're going to be talking about first date locations as you can see here we have plenty of locations I'm basically just going to be ranking them from friend zone spot meaning don't take your first date to this place ever it's probably going to end in the friend zone all the way up to insane spot which means well played brother now here's the thing about first a locations I'm not going to lie to you guys the black pillars are right in this case where you take her should not

matter at all if she's attracted to you right you're going to get the same results regardless of whether you take her if she's very high interest however with that being said we have to plan First Dates to account for potential flakes to make sure that it's low investment you know you don't want to be pouring your heart and soul out into a first date with somebody that you don't even know so it's just like a good precautionary measure to make sure that your first date goes well you guys get to know each other and whatever

but at the same time you're not overly investing and you're not doing anything crazy or over the top to where you know if she ends up ghosting you were flaking you just had like an insane memory with somebody that you're never going to see again so I'm going to be ranking the places based on how big the investment is for a first date remember this isn't a second or a third date this isn't a place to take your girlfriend this is somewhere you're going to meet with a stranger right so we have to take that

into account as always if you like my content and you want to see more videos like this subscribe and let's get into the tier list so the first thing we have here is your house I'm not going to lie this is an insane spot right who doesn't want to go to their house on a first dat cuz we all know what that's going to lead to we all know the implications of her going to your house on a first date and her being willing to go to your house without without knowing you at all it's

a pretty big deal it means that she's very very interested and you don't have to do anything you don't really have to invest however with that being said Just remember the fact that cuz a lot of guys have big ass egos right they think that if she went to his house that means that oh she was willing to come to my house that means she really likes me specifically um no dude she's willing to go to any guy's house who she likes and you're probably not the first guy who's been able to get her to

come over on a first day I hope you know this cuz the women with a lot of self resect and a lot of religious values and stuff they're just not going to you know want to come to your house on a first date think about it from their perspective right it's too risky it's too dangerous you're a stranger it's a little bit weird but I'm talking about like the extremely extremely highin girls they're all willing to go to your house on a first dat so yeah if she's willing to come over that quickly something's going

to happen that day you guys are probably going to hook up there's not many things you could do at the house right it's probably just going to be you guys Netflix and chilling let's be real and the thing you have to realize about these girls specifically is they're only there to hook up right you're not going to get a relationship out of the girls who are willing to come to your house on the first day cuz girls who want a relationship with you typically what they will do is they'll actually make you wait they're not

just going to give you the [ __ ] on the first [ __ ] time of you meeting them but if your goal is exclusively to hookup or whatever me personally I don't do that [ __ ] but if if that's your goal then I'm going to have to put it at insane spot if it's not your goal then it's probably lower next up we have her house uh this is also an insane spot for the exact same reason if she's willing to invite you over to her house on a first date you're going to

smash 100% but again make sure you keep in mind the disclaimers that I talked about before all right next up we have museums this one's a little boring not my personal cup of tea if you enjoy museums and stuff look I'm not hating right this is a personal preference a lot of these are going to be opinion based right so if you like going to locations that I don't just take her to these locations bro the best first date place is where you want to go right take her to the places that you enjoy going

to me personally however I think museums are cool to go to with family and stuff but on a first date you know you guys are looking at a bunch of stuff unless you're like a historical or archaeological expert and you want to show off how much you know about stuff sure take her to a museum right you're displaying competence it's good other than that you guys are kind of standing around uh you could obviously make conversation and stuff I'm going to say it's an okay spot you know I'm not going to put it at bad

or anything but not my personal cup of tea next up we have coffee dates I love this going at an insane Spot Coffee dates are very low investment you guys can actually talk to each other um nobody's really doing anything over the top or anything crazy you guys are just going to meet each other and grab some from Starbucks or whatever this is a great way to filter out the girls who have a problem with like low effort dates cuz Tik Tok has created this like entitlement culture among women where they're expecting like overthe toop

$500 spent on a date which is like ridiculous for the first time so if she accepts to like going somewhere to seeing coffee with you it's a sign of very very high interest and the date itself can be pretty enjoyable you know it's calm it's chill the vibe is really casual so like you can talk to her freely it's just an overall nice spot I'm going to put it at insane spot okay now we have Cheesecake Factory and the reason I included Cheesecake Factory specifically on this list is because again there's like this weird tick

to thing about how if you take a girl to Cheesecake Factory on the first date you're cheap and you're broke and you don't deserve to go on a date with anybody so if you're a very smart guy and you have suspicions that your girl is spending a little bit too much time on Tik Tok take her to Cheesecake Factory right if she [ __ ] blows up and explodes congratulations you just performed a control detonation so just for that reason alone because there's this weird reputation among Cheesecake Factory and how apparently it's too cheap even

though the food there is pretty good and it's not even that cheap you're not taking her to [ __ ] McDonald's right so I'll put it at Great spot next we have trampoline park you see the only problem I have with this is you know if you're jumping around on trampolines flailing your arms around she could probably get icked out by that if you guys saw my last video jumping on a trampoline was one of the icks right so if you want to play it safe maybe not but if you're like this cool trampoline guy

and you can do back flips and like a bunch of these cool [ __ ] Maneuvers and [ __ ] but I mean a trampoline park on a first date is a little bit too much you guys aren't going to be talking it's too much of an activity based thing to do where you're not really talking you're not really getting to know her there's no opportunities for you to pass [ __ ] tests and stuff so I'm going to put this at bad location next up we have karaoke uh you know if you if you

really enjoy singing and you're actually good at singing key word good at singing right if you suck but you still enjoy it do not take her to karaoke do I think it's the best for a first date probably not it's a pretty intimate thing to go to karaoke with someone so I guess if you have no other options it can be an okay spot but from the context of a first date since there's many better things to do I would probably put it at bad spot not going to lie especially because don't quote me on

this but every time I've done karaoke it's always been with like a group of people so on a one to one date night I don't think karaoke is the best idea next we have Escape rooms yeah I don't know about this on a first date bro it's a little too HEC if you're like a crazy hectic guy or whatever fine and the thing is me personally I actually like Escape rooms but I'm so bad at them right like I can't figure the [ __ ] out fast enough so if you take her to an escape

room and you're like me and you're just not competent at [ __ ] escaping then you guys are just going to be there for so long and I don't know women like Puzzles and [ __ ] though so both of you are going to be way too focused on escaping rather than connecting so you know I'm going to have to put this at friend zone spot I don't know about this one maybe if it's like a third or fourth date escape room could be fun but you know on a very first date you don't know

this person you're already getting trapped in a room with them uh who knows though you you might end up hooking up in the escape room but remember there's cameras in there next we have bowling I like this but the thing about bowling is you kind of have to supplement it with something else right you can't just go bowling on a first day it's more like yo let's go bowling and then we can get drinks at this place after cuz if you just go bowling it has the exact same problem as things like trampoline parks and

Escape rooms where it's too activity based you're only doing the activity um but bowling is pretty fun dude it's a pretty pretty chill activity it's not too intense you can still talk in the middle of it and stuff so I'm actually going to put this at okay spot but it would go even higher if you're just able to supplement it with other things next up we have theme parks amusement parks Etc I actually like this I really like this and the reason I do is because even though yes it does get a bit hectic and

you know there's not much room for conversation if you guys are like doing rides and stuff there's a psychological phenomenon I don't really remember what it's called somebody comment it down below where essentially she's going to attribute the emotional High that she experiences on the roller coaster ride with you as a person so in her mind it's like oh my God I'm having so much fun oh my God this is so intense it must be the guy I'm with even though it's actually the roller coaster right so use this dumb female logic to your advantage

make sure that you give her emotional experiences that she attributes to you I think amusement parks are great there's a lot of flexibility as well you guys can get food and [ __ ] but you know since it's a first date I can't put it too high it's somewhere you want to take her to once you get to know each other a little bit more cuz like with a stranger the goal of a first date it's just to kind of scan them out talk get briefly get to know each other or whatever so you know

I'm going to put this at okay spot next up we have very fancy and expensive restaurants never take a girl here on a first day I don't care how rich you are you're essentially setting yourself up for failure because essentially when you take a girl out to like a really expensive place on a the first date you're setting it as a precedent right that she's going to be stuck on the highest setting cuz she's going to be like he took me to the best possible restaurant on the first date if you take her any anywhere

that's even remotely worse or like lower quality or like coffee or Cheesecake Factory on a second or third day she's going to be like wait a second how come he started off up here but now he's down here so you always want to start off low investment and then increase the investment level once you know that she's actually interested in you a lot of guys who are simps are already taking her out to like these really expensive dates hoping they can smash after the women see right through this nice guy act and they will actually

use you instead of giving you what you want in return so just be careful next up we have paintballing yeah this isn't a date this is a war next we have getting ice cream I'm going to put this at an insane spot right next to coffee for the exact same reason low investment pretty cheap uh if it's a nice hot sunny day you guys can go out get some ice cream talk it's a pretty good vibe all around so it's honestly one of the best places next up we have ice skating you know this is

actually good it's not that intense unless you're really bad at ice skating you can initiate physical contact if she really likes you and she goes oh I'm slipping and I can't skate help me and then you're like holding her up and [ __ ] but I would supplement this with something else to make sure that you know you're getting the full experience but overall ice skating I would say it's an okay spot all right next up we have art galleries uh same problem as museums really I'm not a fan of art galleries actually I would

put museums above art galleries come on dude if you're a dude why would you just want to stand there looking at paintings all day unless you're an artist and you have the appreciation for that stuff most of us guys we find art galleries boring you're just inclined to take a girl there because she wants to go to an art gallery but do you really want to stand on looking at paintings all day you know to each their own I'm not hating but it's not my cup of tea next up we have arcades you know there's

something to be said about this for sure lots of fun little activities you could do a great spot to Vibe and connect and have fun I see so many couples going to like arcades I don't know if it's a good place for a first date specifically I would hold off on it but if you still want to take her here on a first day I don't see anything wrong with it I think it's cool I think you guys are going to have a blast so I'll probably put this at uh great spot next up we

have hiking uh yeah I don't like this at all for a first date cuz imagine you match with a girl on Tinder you're like oh she's bad let me uh let me just take her hiking and then you see her in the [ __ ] hiking trail and she catfished you and she's actually a four you thought she was going to be a seven she turned out to be a four and now you have to hike for 5 hours with a four next up we have swimming listen dude if you got a private pool and

you say hey you want to come for a swim and she says yes 99% chance she's very very high interest in you cuz you're both going to be in a body of water she's going to be wearing her little you know whatever you have a lot of options to maneuver here I'm just saying if your goal is to you know hit and quit I'm not promoting that behavior I'm saying to each their own but if you want things to happen take a for a swim dude I think it's a great first date I would put

it a great spot next up we have roller skating same thing as ice skating next we have the mall mall is great cuz there's a lot of options like you could walk around you could go shopping you could do any of the other activities here so Mall actually is pretty good um it's it's a good starting point cuz if you don't know what you want to do after you guys can just walk around maybe go grab like some food and then leave so uh I'm actually going to put this a great spot next up we

have the movie theater I love movie theaters especially horror movies you get the girl scared you get her to experience like this fear you can use movies to your advantage psychologically you're watching a horror movie she gets scared she looks at you she looks towards you for comfort and protection I know it's kind of manipulative and it's kind of weird but it actually works right you watch a horror movie with her and she's absolutely [ __ ] herself you're stoic standing there watching the movie [ __ ] laughing she feels safer she feels comfortable movies

are very casual as well you're both not like directly staring at each other you're both looking at the screen so you could crack jokes whisper in her ear like basically just [ __ ] talk to her throughout the movie overall it's a pretty fun low investment activity so I'm going to put this at you know insane spot and lastly we have the park imagine just telling a girl hey meet me at the park you have nothing you have no money the girl who really really like you are always willing to meet you at the park

there's no food there's no activity it's the lowest effort date in the [ __ ] world right there's nothing else except grass and trees so you guys can have a very wholesome conversation it's just a great one-on-one vibe to actually connect with someone I love the park so I'm going to put this at Great spot