My jobless husband, not knowing I was paying a $5,000 loan, said, 'Marry my mistress and move out!

since I'm getting remarried you'll need to move out the $55,000 loan will be covered by my new partner he said his voice tripping with irony years of painstakingly working to pay off at loan left me stunned by his audacity to shift the burden onto his new wife then I guess the $5,000 monthly payments will be your responsibility now I replied making clear the true amount I had been shouldering all along seeing the divorce papers without delay I continued and just leave whatever comes next even if it's hell doesn't matter to me anymore I'm Meg Smith

a 41-year-old housewife who works part-time my husband Mike is 3 years older than me and we've been married for 10 years we first met while working at the same company back then I was deeply engrossed in my career and had little interest in marriage or romance however after turning 30 a colleague who was contemplating going independent persuaded me to switch jobs just as I was starting to settle into my new role Mike a senior colleague from my old company confessed his love for me from this start my relationship with Mike who was in his mid-30s

was viewed through the lens of marriage however 2 years later we tied the knot largely due to pressure from those around us my were incredibly supportive treating me like their own daughter which allowed me to continue working without concerns a year after our marriage we built a house that reflected our dreams and desire desires although it was a significant investment we secured a loan with a manageable repayment plan this major purchase solidified our commitment to supporting each other for the first two years we lived as a typical working couple however in our third year of

marriage as we began contemplating starting a family Mike dropped the bomshell that he wanted to leave his job to start his own business he had always dreamed of launching his business before turning 40 and had been quietly building his Network and saving money while the future of his Venture was uncertain his resolve was unwavering by the time I discovered his plans he had already resigned from his job I felt disheartened by the lack of communication between us especially since he seemed to assume that my income alone would cover our needs shortly after Mike launched his

business my father-in-law felt ill and was hospitalized it became clear that returning to this previous lifestyle was no longer feasible and his home would need extensive Renovations for his post discharge needs although my in-laws insisted they could manage on their own Mike decided that our family would cover all the expenses I wanted to support my in-laws as much as possible so I agreed to help but covering the entire cost was a different story our household expenses surged and I was left bewildered our income simply couldn't sustain such a large financial burden Mike's business was struggling

with frequent contract cancellations and few new opportunities his income had dwindled to nearly nothing and I was left to handle all living expenses and loan payments with my salary despite being nearly unemployed Mike remained indifferent to our financial strain dismissing my concerns and treating the situation as if it were someone else's problem our credit card bills began to soar as Mike frequently went out drinking claiming it was for client relations faced with the possibility of spending our lives just paying off loans I suggested we either sell the house or shut down the struggling business Mike

dismissed my proposals insisting we're not on the brink of ruin this is a time to endure the only reason we were managing it all was because of my salary and I was the one bearing the brunt of our financial strain Mike couldn't grasp this reality eventually I felt it was pointless to discuss anything with him as long as payments were made on time as the situation dragged on our daily conversations dwindled I knew Mike was spending time with other women under the guise of work but I had become indifferent to him one day after returning

from work Mike finally spoke to me after a long Silence with a smirk he waved a piece of paper in front of me and said I've decided to divorce you please sign here I took a deep breath and responded calmly accepting both his words and the divorce papers it was likely because I had been contemplating proposing a divorce myself if he hadn't acted first can we wait a moment I just got home let's discuss this in the living room I suggest it I thought you wanted to talk but now you're rushing me he asked his

tone irritated I don't need any unnecessary conversation just get it over with he snapped back deliberately took my time moving to the living room sensing Mike's growing impatience I resented how everything was unfolding on his terms and decided to prolong the moment a bit longer regardless the decision to divorce was made the days we had spent together in the house we built with so much care were coming to an end I wanted to savor these final moments at my own pace as I said hel on the sofa I picked up the divorce papers once more

they seem flimsy compared to the marriage registration we had signed a decade ago possibly reflecting my current state of mind how long are you going to just stare at them Mike asked his Tong edge with irritation I have a question what are your plans after the divorce what do you mean what am I going to do are you saying you're having second thoughts about the divorce I'm going through with the divorce but can we at least have a brief conversation before it's finalized I'm planning to remarry after all remarrying huh so there's someone else she

must be young attractive and financially successful unlike me an old lady who didn't even have children with you so you're planning to take advantage of her next take advantage of her what do you think of me I'm simply laying out the facts I've always handled the finances and you never had to worry about payments yet you act so Superior I can lead a better life without someone like you you the divorce is actually a favor for me sure sure I'll brush off your bitter remarks as the ramblings of someone who's lost maybe I should have

said more keep talking the divorce is final and I won't have to see your face much longer so please move out by the end of the week I'm leaving today I can't stay in hearing your voice any longer by the way does your new girlfriend know about the loans you're carrying of course she does she's agreed to contribute $500 a month for living here it's no big deal for her she won't struggle with the loan payments like you did understood after signing the divorce papers I decided to leave with my belongings already packed I'll leave

the remaining Furniture behind as part of the Asset Division dispose of it if you don't need it just go and best wishes to your new girlfriend handling a $5,000 monthly loan payment will be challenging a good luck by the way I've left a note detailing the loan information for her with a smile I handed Mike the note got into my car and drove away from my former home I headed straight to City Hall to submit the divorce papers I hadn't felt this relieved in a long time and thought I should have divorced sooner without worrying

about him managing the loan payments a week after the divorce one morning I received multiple calls from my ex-husband Mike though I had anticipated this it was still quite irritating I decided to address it and answered one of his calls yes what do you want I wouldn't be calling if it weren't important that's quite rude but is it true about the $5,000 I have no reason to lie you're expecting me to cover your debt I sighed deeply at his words maybe I should have explained everything more clearly instead of just relying on the Note despite

the inconvenience all the details are laid out in that note I thought you'd understand it if you read it I'm calling because I still don't get it even after reading I'll break it down for you besides the mortgage on the house there are the renovation costs for your parents home that you chose the personal loan for your father's medical expenses the business loan for your Venture and the credit card debt you accured all under your name if there were only a mortgage I could have managed that but there's much more if you have doubts you

can verify it I helped because I was your wife but now that we're not it's no longer my concern I told you when I left that there's a monthly payment of $5,000 you must think this is a joke you spent money like it was nothing did you ever consider these payments well you'll have to deal with it with your new girlfriend that's why you divorced me right actually she broke up with me she said $5,000 a month is too much I figured as much it's understandable even someone with a high income would rarely agree to

take on a $5,000 monthly payment for debts they didn't incur no one wants to pay 10 times the value of a house over many years did you really earn that much after changing jobs yes my salary increased five-fold after changing jobs but all that income went straight to repayments I didn't realize you were making so much I wouldn't have suggested divorce if I had known it's not that you didn't know you just weren't interested after I switched jobs you never asked about my work or my salary you should have brought it up yourself you never

discussed your income either even when we work together you barely communicated once you went independent and had little to know income you continued to spend recklessly I figured it was pointless to bring it up let's start over come back I refuse I finally achieved my freedom then what about the payments $5,000 a month is unmanageable sell a house and use your income to pay off the remaining debt you might be able to handle it if you adjust the repayment plan why not continue with the payments I have no involvement with you anymore I'm not interested

in a stranger debts you're incredibly cold don't don't you have any empathy I may seem cold but I've been making substantial payments for over 6 years part of it was out of love for you and part of it was because I felt obligated to your parents if you wanted to come back it might have been different but you chose the divorce on your own technically I have the right to sell the house divide the assets and even claim alamon for adultery but I wanted to server tize with you before dealing with that I'm done with

someone who turns their own money into a facade of wealth and squanders everything I'm exhausted from covering your Reckless debts my life is my own now don't involve me in it any further with that I ended the call Mike ceas so interfered my life after that the relief I felt when everything was finally settled was immense later I learned that Mike had to give up his job and the house and create a new repayment plan for the loans returning to his previous job under the scrutiny of others must have been uncomfortable despite this he would

continue to be burdened by loan payments i' also heard that his parents decided to sell their house and move to a retirement home it saddened me to think they wouldn't have fac such a choice if we hadn't divorced I assisted with their move and contributed financially to their entry fees as a way to repay the kindness they had shown me I hope they can now enjoy a peaceful life without the strain of $5,000 monthly payments I can live comfortably by being naturally Frugal and my savings have steadily increased I'm also looking into investing to secure

my financial future currently I'm moving forward with a new partner I met after my divorce and I'm enjoying fulfilling days both professionally and personally