Understand how valuable you are

listen you might be wondering why I look like a detective well it's because I'm trying to figure out why you haven't realized your work yet okay while you are constantly under selling yourself to everyone and everything so recently I was meeting up with my friend and she's a lovely woman she's 20 years older than me and she's such an amazing artist right so she basically she made this like painting and guys the paintings that she makes is so detailed like it's c crazy she works on these paintings for months on end came to visit her

last week and I was like oh my God like I love your painting the one in the middle that you made now I was like how much is that and she goes like yeah that's $11,000 I looked at her I'm like how long did you work on that painting and then she goes like Oh I worked on it for 9 months okay so you worked on that painting for 9 months and you're selling that for $11,000 when it's minimum worth 10,000 100,000 even and then I looked at her I'm like listen you are underselling yourself

I go to art galleries I'm very involved with art listen some of the art I've seen I just question mark okay I know the artist supposed to make you feel something yeah it makes me feel angry like the audacity that some of these paintings have because they're so bad yeah but they're charging such a high fee and every time I walk around there I'm thinking my friend should be here like she should literally be in one of these things and selling her paintings for so much and then I asked her I'm like why do you

undersell yourself and then she goes like yeah because you know in this place people that's the only thing they can afford like that's a prize they can afford I mean I would love to sell it for more but they can't afford it for more listen my love first of all we're living in a city where there's a lot of wealthy people first of all so that's not true second of all never ever yeah go down in your value because of your environment your painting should have a set price and if your environment cannot meet that

price then you change the environment don't go down for anyone because that also makes your paintings look less than they are worth because when I look at your painting I think that should be millions of dollars but when you look at it you undersell yourself listen guys I literally started painting I think a couple of months ago I don't know I work on my painting for 2 hours they are so ugly that they're good they're hideous yeah but I am literally thinking my head you know what I should open an art gallery I should put

my paintings you know 100,000 for each painting and I genuinely in my head believe that I can do that this is how delusional I am I am delusional but I get the stuff done and as much as my friend is underselling your I know you guys are underselling yourself too whether it's in a relationship whether it's in a job whether it's in whatever you're doing I know that you're not realizing who you are and your value and when someone doesn't meet that value you go down in value no hi guys my name is this and

welcome back to my Channel okay let's get right into it first things first you should influence the room and not just adapt to it I hear this so many times just like I said my friend who is selling her paintings at a lower price because of her environment or I hear my friends say yeah Liz I can't find a good guy because this is just how guys are in this country why are you guys acting like once we are somewhere or we've been born in a country or whatever we're like trees and we cannot move

you know you don't find someone you like in your country you go look in another country I do not care but you don't just go settle and lower yourself and accept bad behavior because that's just how my environment is or you constantly let people walk all over you because this is how it goes in my culture you have the power to change things in your life you have the power to move and go for what you actually want but you are the one deciding to settle see you should be so powerful ful when you walk

into a room that room becomes more valuable because they have you in it you should be so powerful that when you put your paintings in a room that room is more valuable because it has your painting in it do not unell yourself to adapt to your environment if you are here we do not go down here to just make others feel comfortable I need you to realize that you matter listen I don't care how someone has made you feel I don't care whether your parents have made you feel this small I don't care whether it

was a teacher your culture your toxic friends your toxic ex I do not care you have the power to make your confidence go back up you have the power right now to believe in yourself again see I can sit here all day and tell you that you matter but if you don't realize this and if you don't start acting like you matter nothing will ever change you matter to your loved ones okay you're important you matter to to maybe a stranger on the street that you smile to and then you completely Chang that stranger day

or life or you gave them a compliment and that completely changed them or made them feel better about themselves you matter you had an impact in this life and you just matter because you're alive and breeding you know how hard it is to survive in this day and age you know like you should just be so proud of yourself because you're still here he God still has a bigger plan for you your mission on this Earth is still not completed because you're still here there's still things to be done if your mission was completed if

if if nothing was about to happen anymore you would not be here another thing is realize that not everyone should have access to you you know how I always say I'm not better than everyone that's true but I also should not sit with everyone some people are not good for you toxic people are not good for you people that drain you are not good for you you're valuable your energy is valuable your time is valuable not everyone can sit with you okay energy drainers vampires people that just constantly want something from you they shouldn't be

able to sit with you choose your company wisely if you sit with your company and after that you feel so bad you're sitting with Bad Company times we expand our mind sometimes we learn new things in life and that's why we go to a Next Level right when we're at that next level consciously we cannot sit with our old friends and you might feel sad because you're like you know what I I vibed with them so well when I was toxic myself but now I can't it's okay it's time for you to move on evolve

and let go it's very sad but this happens when you start healing so accept that this is a part of life not everyone is meant to be forever and I would say I don't even believe in meant to be forever I believe that we're meant to evolve and we meet people people at those stages in our lives so stop resenting or hating people for it or trying to force a connection when the connection is not there anymore it's okay to move on never doubt yourself because of other people's opinions see when I started out and

when I was going viral I saw opinions everywhere I saw news articles everyone saying I'm a narcissist everyone saying I'm a bad person blah blah blah but I know I'm a good person I know I have pure intentions and I have a good heart so I go to bed knowing who I am okay so those opinions couldn't influence me cuz I knew who I was and they didn't other people's opinions can make you sad if other people's opinions can make you happy then you're just their little puppet why would you want to be a puppet

know thyself know yourself first before you know anyone no one will tell you who you are when you know who you are understand that in life people will perceive you the same way you perceive yourself if you think you're not deserving of certain things other people people also think that you're not deserving of those things okay I see women they're like oh my God why do I never get spoiled why does a man never do anything for me blah blah blah you don't think you deserve it you don't think you deserve that treatment I know

women that get spoiled I know women that are Housewives you know how they think oh they literally think that's a bare minimum he should spoil me they in their head it's no other way in their head this is literally how a relationship works so for them they get those type of gu because they don't settle for anything else it's either this way or the highway they don't they don't compromise and be like okay you know what you don't spoil me it's fine we'll still be together whatever and they be unhappy no if this guy won't

do it another guy will they don't care and if I look at the women that don't get spoiled and I talk to them they literally say like yeah but you know it's hard for a man to do all these things and then I see they're so frustrated and and unhappy but I told them you know this is the reality you create for yourself it's your mindset said you think that it's it's hard for a man to take care of you so you should help so that's what you're creating you see yourself as a confident and

valuable woman yeah you will also not be around everyone be everywhere sit with anyone and have let them have access to you you will not do that you will not behave that way and other people when they see the way you behave will also not perceive you as insecure they will also look at you and think oh she's confident she has boundaries you know she likes people to respect her so we should respect her people treat you the way you perceive yourself I also need you to realize that you deserve whatever you desire I find

it really weird and people say no you know what I feel like I don't deserve that why not are we not on Earth are we not suffering enough here already by just being alive why is it that we're literally just souls in a body yeah and we're just living a human experience and then our imagination is so limited we think like oh my God like no I can never be a millionaire why not money is an energy money is not that special why do we think this is only for a certain special kind of people

are you not special because you're alive you know what I will say this it is for special type of people it is just for people that think that they deserve it and that's it they don't even need to be talented they don't need to have it all just people that think that deserve the High Life yeah are the ones that get it and people that are literally like talented doing everything but they feel like they're not good enough those are the ones that never get it and you are in control of whatever reality you want

to create see if right now me right I'm a YouTuber I make my own money I take care of myself I SPO my family if tomorrow I want to quit being a YouTuber I want to quit helping people and I just want to be be married to a wealthy guy I can do that and then I will be in the reality of a housewife I can choose whatever I make of this if tomorrow I decide you know what I don't want to show my face anymore I just want to be an author I create books

and I'll be an author new reality baby this is how I will jump and whatever I desire whatever I want to create will happen also realize that people will try to project their own lack onto you like they will say like oh no you know what no I don't think you can do it like when I was starting out my social media right they're like you know you're not that special like I don't think you can do it and stuff I had literally friends that would tell me that I don't think you can do it

like no you know you should just go for a regular job no honey you can't do it I can I can do whatever I want to do I can be as big as I want to be and as I decide to be but this is how strong of a character you have to have like even though your family your friends they will tell you you can do it you have to tell them you know what that's your opinion and in yourself you say you can you can do whatever you want cuz I'm telling you baby

once they see you going up they will be very quick to pull you down back to our level back to our level then you have to say no I'm creating a new level here you guys rise up to mine you guys are not good enough right now rise up I'm not going down for anyone so realize that you are an unlimited being you are literally a soul in a body having a human experi erience why do you think that things are so hard to get for you huh so so God put you on this Earth

to suffer is that what you believe is that what you believe to put you on Earth to suffer is that a loving God for you no God wants you to win okay he's rooting for you he is rooting for you now you have to start rooting for yourself okay you just once you realize that you know what I'm an unlimited being like literally we're literally flying in the universe like with gravity that's it like don't you guys understand how insane this is and then you think like you know what accomplishing my goals is very hard

what are you talking about to stop the when I achieve this mentality okay I have this mentality of like you know when I get to this goal then I'll be happy when when I lose the weight then I'll go out and socialize or work on my confidence when when I start to look better then I'll I'll do this and that listen my love if you don't start now with what you have you will soon come to realize that you never arrive you think that any of this will make you happy no you have to be

happy already with what you have right now you have to start becoming happy with who you are right now so when you do evolve that you can stay happy people make the big mistake thinking if I have this amount of money I will will be happy then they have that money and they're not happy they're shocked they think why am I not happy I thought this was the goal that was never the goal the goal was to find peace and happiness already with who you are and then to evolve when you don't do this right

now you will be in for a rude awakening and you will actually go into a big depression when you arrive because in life we never arrive in life we never stop learning in life we keep evolving you will realize that you know what nothing can make happy because we are the ones that can make us happy so celebrate yourself when is the last time you looked at yourself and said you know what I love you you did such a great job today I love you I love you for accomplishing that goal I'm grateful for you

when is the last time you've ever said that to yourself or do you say that to yourself at all you know you expect yourself to be a robot and a machine and you're like oh I don't have any appreciation I don't have any love do you give it to yourself huh when when is the last time you've given a appreciation to yourself when is the last time you thanked yourself for coming here to coming to this point when is the last time you thanked for yourself for even getting up in the morning and trying again

when how do you expect other people to appreciate or love you when you can't even do that for yourself when you can't even look at yourself and say you know what I'm proud of you you did a great job I love you how do you expect that love from others then I need you to realize that you can bounce back from anything you know life has put you to so so many bad situations life has knocked you down but who's still here you and me are still here we're still here baby and that is literally

what you need to realize we can come back from anything you know anything there is nothing that will ever stop us I saw this quote and it said you can strip me of everything I have I will smile and go get it again and that is so true that is literally my mentality I might you know what I'm very grateful for what I have today but if I don't have it tomorrow I will go get it again and maybe even bigger I'm a hustler I've always been a hustler I'm always going to be a hustler

for whatever it is that I want I will not stop until I get it hey guys this was the end of the video I hope I hope you guys enjoyed the video I hope you guys learned something and always remember never ever make your value go down for anyone or anything they don't think you're valuable you go find someone else or somewhere else where they do and when your value comes from inside of you and self-belief you don't even care you will not even care who thinks or who doesn't think you're valuable because you already

know you are I love you guys so much and yeah I see you in the next video bye-bye