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There are two ways to live, swimming against the current or following the flow of life, the first is what we are programmed to do as an unconscious collective and the second is the one that truly brings the desired results and tunes us into a naturally rich abundant life this life that we all have by divine right in today's video I will help you understand how And why you are programmed to constantly create problems in your life and how to finally get out of resistance stop rowing and learn to Navigate So Let's go people, let's go

there are two types of people because there are two types of optics paradigms this first person, as we said in the opening, she has already seen that there is an operating system, call it nature, call it God, call it the universe, there is a Universal chord, something that It's bigger than her, right? You can call it, like I said, God, the universe, you can call life itself, right? Life is what life wants from me, so there's a group of people who have already realized that there is a force greater than her. own and there is

a group of people who have not seen this who simply say that there is only me besides me, there is nothing else, right there is only the other person with his perceptions and me with my perceptions, but this second group of people who say that there is no universe or God or a greater force there is nothing that organizes life the world is chaotic and there is only me with my perceptions and the other with his perceptions this group of people if they were really talking about themselves there is I myself exist, this being that

I am would be great because regardless of the word used and there are many atheists there are many people who say I don't believe in anything but it lives on the basis of a larger organization So you don't even need to give a name but in this second group of people actually what I put here is that what they are calling themselves only exists I are the psycho-emotional programming are the limited options about life so I have lived I have had a series of experiences I have seen people experiencing life in certain ways and then

I am, right? I think I am this compendium, this cluster of programming, judgments, what life has to be like, how people have to act, well this is not the person itself, it is just a conglomerate of programming that the person is programmed the way she is programmed to see the other person to see life and then she lives in such a way that there is nothing organizing there is no greater force life is chaotic but it is me with everything I am programmed with versus the other with everything that it is programmed versus life and

the vagaries of life is a great game of luck or setback and undeniably I will live fighting with life, right? So sometimes I will feel that I am winning at life and that I am winning at others because my programming my judgments my perceptions about who I am, what the other person is and what life has to give me sometimes I'm going to win sometimes I'm going to lose And that's what ends up happening So you see that the person who is in this paradigm it is impossible to tell them to let go it is

impossible to tell them to stop rowing they have to row if there is no organizing force it is always me versus the other versus life it is a game of win and lose we saw that on a Live on Instagram, if you don't follow it on Insta, follow it and Mea I do some surprise lives that are really cool, there are things that I'm noticing, channeling some ideas and I put them there for you, it's really cool, so this thing about who is losing who is winning will have to happen and if I put the

oars in the boat life will do what it wants from me others will do what they want from me there is no way or act in a way to follow the flow in this paradigm Now the person in the first example understands that there are organizing forces, there is a universe that is not chaotic, right? And then they will always be asking themselves, Wow, what does life want from me ? with my quequé, I with my individual desires and desires, just life, if this didn't work, how can I learn, how can I evolve with this

situation and then it's always growing, it's always evolving in this perspective that we are talking about this first perspective, we then have Taoist philosophy, right? What is the so-and-so ? walk then walk and the path will open is one of the phrases from Taoist philosophy and It seems controversial but no it is not controversial it is paradoxical, right so every paradox has an intelligence of a circuit of a functioning the controversy not the controversy really the person believes in something that proves the opposite, the person thinks one thing but it's another, so it's not controversial,

people, but it's paradoxical, there is a path, I can't know the entire path, so there's a bit of mystery, right, but I need to trust Because, in the same way as I need the path I need the path I can't live my chaotic life, right? I need the path to manifest what I want for my life to work I need the path but the path needs me because if I sit with my arms crossed and stand still I don't walk, walk and the path will open up so the guy says there is a path this

path is a bit unknown it has a bit of mystery a lot of mystery there is no way I can discover all of this path but I need to walk so life life is the the path, right, is the truth, also the path, the truth is life, we will arrive at this I am in a little while, so life is the path, but this path needs you. You walk and it opens up and then there is co-creation And then there is the cooperation is not true I will give many illustrative examples here once again I

say not to get too abstract because the videos have a philosophical connotation because philosophy is thinking about life and if we don't have philosophy we are programmed We need to philosophize, we need to understand how I see life, how I can change, right, how I can get closer to my path, so let's understand the following, your heart needs you to think for it to beat, no, it needs you to you want it to beat, no, it needs you to believe it, my heart is beating for it to beat, no, life doesn't need your beliefs. Have

you noticed that it's happening, right ? it exists, it's not true It needs you to look at it, right? The Observer Alters reality so if you're not seeing it, it continues to happen but it doesn't happen in your life so if you don't walk the path it's still there but you don't follow it because you didn't take the road right, my son observed then everything that is natural like your heart your veins pulsing mitochondria all this miracle that is your body this miracle that is nature this miracle that is life is existing But you can

deny this you can living in chaos you can live a life of I don't know what's happening as the meme says, right what's happening, what's happening you can see it like Sona Abrão in that meme, right you can see it like this in the chaos without understanding what's going on happening in your life you understand PR cov cotô right as they say so you can why Because when you are too much into what you think about what has to be in judgments naming things all the time you are saying that your thoughts precede existence and

essence, right I think therefore I exist So your beliefs precede the natural world the one the way the universe now Saturn is there with his rings right the ant is there doing what the ant does your ex-boyfriend your ex- wife is there living her life it doesn't depend on your beliefs it doesn't depend on your thoughts that's not how it works so if you already understand that there is a life an organizing force you understand that there is such and such a path and that path needs you to go releasing this other paradigm of what

I have to do to force the bar, otherwise nothing happens, it doesn't work, just see your heart beats like I gave an example here because it is life, that is natural, it is the path of being, having the contraction and expansion but if you eat a lot of things that increase your cholesterol a lot you end up doing harm to your heart it's not true so what do you need to do the being that already exists in me the life that is pulsing in me I need to collaborate with her I need to cooperate with

her so for me to have a path of health this path already exists for me health already exists for me but I need to cooperate I need to follow a path of health for the path of Health to open the same thing in love same thing at work and throughout this video We will see countless exos exos and several video games are like that, right, I remembered one called boxboard that you will put in the boxes and there are several others that you can see in an inside profile of the earth under the earth and

you're digging And you have to find some mines, in other words, there is a path but you have freedom, you can come here, you can go there, right, but since there is already a path, it's not you versus life and It's not even life bossing you around because you can stay here learning RPG games, it's a lot like that, right? I used to play Final Fantasy five men there in the middle of the woods, right, very interesting people, sign , and then I was playing, and sometimes I was wasting time, you know, walking with a

chocobo, getting experience points, getting a weapon, and it wasn't even a waste of time, exactly that's why because you 're acquiring XP, right, you, you Wow, I've been walking with the chocobo for two months, but you 're finally getting more experience. You're traveling in your car, you're talking to NPCs, you're getting some little gifts, so in your life nothing is a waste of time, you're free to choose, aren't you? It's true, but there is a path, there is a path of flow, right? It's just that what keeps us away from this, what keeps us away

from our path of flow, what I believe is believing, I believe, I want Robertinho, I believe Robertinho is mine. soulmate I want Robertinho and I to get married this year Robertinho doesn't want Robertinho is toxic Robertinho is stringing you along and doesn't want a relationship with you so who wants this to believe when this precedes being when thought the locubrations and and mental right precede being you if it strays further from its path, it's not true, that's why I even wrote down here one of the definitions of so-and-so, the true so-and-so is a comprehensive form

beyond our understanding, it governs the universe, it's a force of immense depth, but we can't control it alone. we can move with it and not against it and then within this understanding Talía exists or what is this path of non-action, but you see, it was translated like this for the West to not act, not to act, not to do, however, the understanding or the less literal translation, right? What will bring a correct understanding is non-interference, not interfering if there is a flow and you go there and interrupt, interrupt, you are acting in a counterproductive way

and when we interrupt the one When we interrupt the correct path, the good path for our life when we have an excess of wanting to think and believe in life an excess of Interpretation of life then we must actually, as the Way says, the path of non- interference, not interfere so much with the path, not interfere so much with the flow, it is smart to be cooperative, it is Being intelligent means being powerful, we can interpret life as we want, as we want, but it is undeniable that actions have consequences and that when we are

far from the flow, when we are in Remar, we are forcing what we we want what we believe and what we think And then there will be problems if there is a flow, it is smart to cooperate with this flow, just what we learned, especially here in the West, that power is wanting, in fact, we learned the opposite but within this structure and unconsciously we end up being programmed to understand this, right, we say, believing is power, whoever believes always achieves, shouldn't be the one who observes life as it is, always achieves, but wow, it's

not power, it's not power, so understanding that we have is that power is forcing what I want the way I want it when I want it look how cool and we learn what from this so this forcing is the power why Because we are in a society in who will say that Young energy, action is characteristic of a powerful person See well you are not alive because your heart makes your cyst you are alive because your heart goes through systole and diastole, contraction and expansion, you're not alive because there's a sun. You're alive because there's

a sun, but there's also a moon . but also because you rest and you rest you are not alive Just because you put it in but because you receive it then the The denial of energy in a masculine society which is a society oriented towards doing, right, Without rest without pause Because doing, doing, is power whoever speaks louder who makes more noise whoever is logical brings in us this programming that being receptive, observant and cooperative is a weakness But when you look at the truly Powerful people, people who truly get there, one of the greatest

characteristics of these people is Blessed resilience that many people also confuse with being slapped and punched and kicked, let's understand something here, right, polarity doesn't mean, but polarity for a wise person to be truly wise means integration, which is why we will often talk about a Sartre who will to say that existence precedes The Essence within a video that is talking about essentialism So we are going to talk about existentialism and essentialism So we are going to talk about Plato we are going to talk about Aristotle remember the last video of drumom's little poem so

When we have the Sun and the Moon, we have what to do and rest, we have true power, whether you are a man, a woman, whatever sexual orientation you have, it has nothing to do with anything, a pet needs everything in life, there is a day and at night then the true power is for you to observe there is such a thing there is a path designated for me the name destiny is often given to such and such Because in the West we do this a lot there is a destiny or or there is a

power, right as if you can't reconciling the two things in the East they are more integrative they are more holistic but here we understand the male and female polarities day to night the stories of how opposites you see that all the reality shows that we have here all that bomb is is a versus the other is men against women and it's all separate what's going to boom what's going to catch the attention of this western man is polarization because in what we integrate we don't see power we see power me Against Them US and them

from Pink Floyd, right? So I always put it here and then you don't understand, is it God or is it me, as if you could share it, right? So the true power is this U is for you to walk and and side by side with the one so that you are on your path you need understand that you are interfering too much that your ego is interfering too much with your beliefs your judgment about who you are about what the other is about how life should be is interfering too much and that true power is

being an agent Remember, you have to walk for the path to open up, that's why this literal translation of not acting caused the Western man who already has this fragmented view of life Me and them, God or I, right, good versus evil, caused this person who It is unconsciously programmed to fragment and divide and everything and not unite the polarities. Believe exactly what it is. I'm not going to do anything and my daddy in heaven is going to give me everything, right, because God is my daddy, I'm just a boy, Mat, I'm a little playboy,

a project Playboy So God will give me everything I will do nothing and that is the law of attraction, no, it is the egoic non-interference of wanting, wanting, believing, thinking, judging, giving names to things, believing that your thought precedes the entire essence from life, another example of a little game is O fol gas, right, to mention exactly what we're talking about now, Way is the easy one, like all the little games , most of the little games, but these little games like obstacles, the little doll is there and he has to wait for the right

moment for a little thing to turn around so he can jump like Faustão's Olympics, right? So he has to wait for the little thing to turn around PR for him to jump the obstacle he has to wait for the little door to open if he does it when he wants it the way he wants it falls down there in a big vacuum, right? It's just that it's easy, you start again, again, again, and in your life In your life, sometimes you can start over, start over, start over, but sometimes the conditions are not the same,

right? So that specific door that opened sometimes doesn't open anymore if you're in a relationship with someone and you abuse, abuse, abuse, abuse, abuse the patient's patience. person you cross the limits And then the person closes the door so you may have other doors open in a while to find a nice person a loving person but that person closed the door on you there is no way for you to come back because it is not a game of video games that you reset whenever you want, but the path to Health from the abundance of Love

Yes, it is always available, but again, if you abuse your health your whole life for many years, if you stay in very, very negative habits, even food of this that or drugs a lot of things you can because health is always available to you being such you can start over n times but you feel that your body is no longer the same so now you will start over on your path of health But now you've already created some limitations for yourself, that's not true, so that's why people, we need to understand that power is asking

life, life, what you want from me, but if we don't understand that we're just talking about lip service that there is a God that there is a universe that there is an operating system that there is an organized universe But this is just lip service and in our attitudes we are wanting and believing and thinking that our thoughts precede everything we are taking it and we are creating a more restricted life because every time we restart on this path of health, love and prosperity, if we have messed around a lot before, we will have open

doors, yes, because the universe always has open doors for us it's not true because God doesn't judge because this system is organized he understands that you will try and you will have many possibilities even though the context you created deviating too much from Health deviating too much from prosperity deviating too much from Love, it opens up inside from a context in which you will have to again If you prove Worthy of this but if you prove Worthy understand this phrase because it is a phrase that can be loaded with guilt and it is not about

guilt but it is about regret what repentance is a positive word, even though today it is loaded with a lot of things, right, it has nothing to do with guilt, repenting is really putting yourself before the path and saying it like that, wow, I went astray, right? I knew that it wasn't good for me and I I was I was I was I was I was I was I knew that person wasn't a worthy relationship for me I was I was I was I was Wow so I'm here before myself in front of this energy

that organizes everything saying I'm sorry I want to go back to my path I want to realign myself but it's not with guilt, this regret, it's with the understanding that now I'm going to start being more receptive and asking myself not only what I want but what life wants to teach me, what life wants from me And then every time I reset, every time I enter a new path , I'm not going in circles, but I'm growing like a spiral, right? factors why you can't enter this flow of life the first part of the video

was for you to understand that sometimes you are saying Oh I believe in God I trust in life there is a force that organizes everything it's not just me with my beliefs But Are you truly acting like this? So the first moment of this video was dedicated to you realizing that it's one thing for us to talk and another thing for us to live the paradigm now that you've realized exactly how to live this Paradigm and how much you are in reality aligned or not with the one and with the non-interference of the U I

will mention the four factors and soon after we will unravel them one by one And how are you going to deprogram yourself from them so Sit Here It Comes content ok I hope you are taking notes and the first is a state of disorder and internal chaos the second lack of confidence in life and excess control the third is the lack of commitment and work and mental pressure and the fourth it's Sabotage and resistance now I'm going to go through point by point explaining each one of them seeing Where are you maybe you identify more

with the first, the second, the third or the fourth but I believe you'll probably see a little bit of each one acting in the your life and I will give you tips on how to deprogram when we are in a state of chaos and inner disorder. Do you agree that we will need to control everything that is external because our internal state reflects the brain, so when we are born into an environment from a very disoriented family For example, when we live with people who, oh my God, the world is going to end all the

time, the world is going to end all the time, or when we live with very undisciplined people, people who are very given to pleasures or impulses, right? for some reason or another or people who put their lives in our hands, right, the famous child who has to save his family, many of you who are watching the videos came from that scenario So whatever the scenario is, we don't have an understanding of the life since we are little we are bombarded by programming, you know, and often this programming like inner peace, there is no way for

me to have inner peace, Barbara, there is no way for me to have inner peace, to learn to have inner peace in my life, also because of this context that we have already seen here socially culturally It is not Inner Peace that gives money it is anxiety that gives money to do do do do so there is already this culture there is already this sociocultural programming but this often comes up I didn't have any example Bárbara I didn't have no reference from a centered person from a really wise person, right, so it was a lot

of burden for me to deal with since I was a child or teenager or there was a moment in my life as a young adult when the world fell and I was in that emotional state when we have people that lack of internal peace we will look at events and life and say like this, God is organizing and everything there is an intelligence an operating system we will not do this I just I need myself I only depend on myself I can't trust in no one else is it a Matata Matata, right ? I always

give the example here of bloggers, not all of them are people, I give examples, there are some bloggers, influencers themes, right, better speaking influencers, which is the right term, there are some influencers that you open the influencer's Stories there, you can't even see the lines but it's a mon like this, the person records everything, everything, everything, everything, this person is a Millionaire, but she has peace, she has peace, we had an example, that girl who went on Big Brother, right, a cute girl, cute and everything, but like interviews with her before to go to Big

Brother where I caught an interview with her and she said, okay, wow, I'm awake, I already have to Hi, good morning guys, good morning and then I saw there was an outbreak, she thought everyone was against her because her universe doesn't have inner peace I have to wake up with my cell phone in my hand I don't have space I don't have a vacuum I don't have silence in my life I don't have seclusion I don't have it you know so if I don't have my inner universe you're just outside I'm going to do it

a lot of money if I have the standard of beauty and I make Stories all day long, I'm undeniably going to make money, right ? mental health for example so mindful I didn't have any reference example Barbara in my life of a centered person you will start to have this example to be this example sorry to be this example right so moments of silence for me when I'm eating I'm eating That's what mindfulness is when I'm eating I 'm eating when I'm doing it I'm doing it I'm dedicating myself to that thing one thing at

a time it's been proven that our brain is not multitasking we don't do several things at the same time we micromanage a little bit of this a little bit of this a little bit of this and it's so fast that it gives the impression that you're doing everything at the same time but you're not doing everything at the same time , right? so you are outside outside outside you are oriented outside and you don't have you inside you there are people who traditional meditation sitting silent closing your eyes helps me in my case it's mindfulness

every thing I'm doing I'm doing completely I'm doing it completely, so if I'm in this video with you and I'm in several places at the same time and I want to control the response from my followers, I'm screwed. There's such a thing. There's a flow. The video depends on me, but it also depends on the so he is a living force I'm following the path I have a script I have a script but it's an open script why Because otherwise it becomes plastered isn't it and people notice when the person is reading when the person

is plastered and the people realize when something has energy when it has energy it is alive So this video is a Living video and then it has a transformative potential there is what I studied there is my knowledge but there is a channeling of things that need to be said here and there is also the work of the editor who is a third force that will edit this video will give it a little touch at times and this video will have a very favorable and very positive final result because it is being created because I

am here with you at this moment as the time does not exist, it is timeless, no matter when you watch it, you will see that it is a living force, this video, right, while there are other audiovisual productions or self-knowledge or lectures that you see are very misleading because the person is not present at the moment She's here, she 's there, she's worrying about 300 things at the same time, so when you have inner peace, everything you produce doesn't have to be much, but the little you do is powerful, it's strong, it brings financial results,

it brings customers, it brings love, all that, right? in love it's also not like that when you put too much too much you push the person away and we will see that ISS No in the last step in the third and fourth factor here but you push the person away so sometimes you don't have much time if you It's very busy but in that time you have with that person you have dedication You have the affection you have the dedication that love can become strong it can become powerful than people who are sending you messages

every day but it's a weak energy, right? You're focused on n things, so this focus, this inner peace, this concentration through mindfulness through these mindfulness practices will make you free yourself, get out, it's one less thing to get you out of the way, to get you out of your true self. Power is trusting life and cooperating, but what we are programmed to do is exactly the opposite. I distrust everything, I distrust doors opening, I distrust wonderful things, I distrust this perfect organization of the universe, and I don't cooperate, well, right? If you have a manager,

for example, on your team and you are a collaborator and this manager is horrible, he is terrible, he promises not to deliver a lot of things that the employee ends up doing Wow, my manager is horrible, I won't do it either nothing done well, so you're right, that's how it happens, that's how it happens, my manager is very bad, he's a person who should be organizing ideas, a person who should be valuing the smooth running of the company, he does the opposite, you know what, as an employee I'm not going to cooperate even if See

this attitude towards your own life it's a poop it's terrible it's feces why Why Hello, how are you? The coordinator is horrible And then you say I'm not going to do anything that you're creating in your life of prosperity, you're at risk From being fired, what do you have to do? I'm going to look for another opportunity, I'm going to ask to leave, I don't want to stay on this team anymore, or I'm going to send my resume to other companies, but I'm going to show up in a place where the manager, the employee, will

respect for the good functioning of the business because if the person has a negative attitude I will harm myself and I'm going to stop cooperating and run the risk of being fired or being sent away, but we have this thought about life, but life is not this pig manager, this rude manager, we're talking about God, we're talking about the Divine Universal operating system Guys, we 're talking about this one, right? It's a mystery and it becomes clear as you cooperate with him, so I understand this dynamic. If my manager is a pig, I'm going to

be even more of a pig, but my dear, you're doing shit in your own life. Get up and leave this company, a better business for you and it's not easy but no one said it was going to be [Music] easy, right no one said no I'm not saying that I'm just saying that life isn't easy even you know you're here watching deprogramming video if you thought that life is a strawberry you doing other things it's not true then that's how it is, you have a dirty management I'm going to be more of a pig then

I'm going to be saving my energy it's not about that and think God is not that Rude rotten manager who is going to do it anyway, there are not always open opportunities so Eh Get out of this mechanism, he observed this in you, this programming, right, so if life is bringing me some things like that that are not so interesting Ah, I'm not going to do anything at home either, try no life not bringing me interesting things But life God is the universe It's not that manager, it's not that he's ill-willed with me, it's not

that I also need to walk for the path to open up so Get out of this system, right, lack of cooperation, start cooperating, start not to believe that life works like this but to understand why at various times you can do this reflection Well, I remember when I asked or when I prayed or when I positioned myself in a grateful and positive way a little door opened there because that's how it works the doors open but they also depend on you so don't leave this flow of exchange with the universe and the third is a

link that is very difficult to separate this second from the third they are almost the same thing but I wanted to separate them to give some examples here, right? lack of commitment and mental pressure, right, so it's not a lack of pressure, it's a lack of commitment and a lot of pressure to counterbalance it, so haven't we already said that there is this internal programming of I'm not going to trust life, right ? give me the possibility when there is nothing like that but it is unconscious then you stop cooperating So when you stop committing

yourself when you stop giving of yourself when you stop putting yourself into life and consequently increases the pressure Of things having to happen example ah I was in a relationship Bárbara in which the person sucked everything from me and took a lot of things away so now I'm also in relationships but I don't give it here I don't put it here about me or ah Bárbara something happened in my life and I was left with nothing now I'm also going to create positive expectations now they also robbed me in my last job they stole everything

I had for in my last job they were abusive towards me I wasn't earning well now in this new job I'm not going to put myself out there, I'm not I'm going to put it myself, right? So let's suppose that I'm in a store and I'm serving people, that's not true, I'm going to serve people in a cheerful way, in a helpful way, I've been treated so badly by customers, but it's not about the customer, it's not about the life you give yourself every day, right? It's about that, it's about you and yours. If that

customer entered a store being arrogant, arrogant, right, treating you badly, that says about him, it doesn't say about you, it's about yours, it's about the path you take. want you to open up to you, so many people, in addition to having this belief, you know, that if life didn't provide me with good things, now I'm also not going to do anything, there is also this lack of commitment, joy , love, generosity, why? We're like this, we're in the same place I want it so much I want it so much I want it so much that

my wanting has to be enough, your wanting won't be enough, your wanting doesn't precede life, right ? that you have good results with customers, for example in this store Good friendly service, go look in the stock and see if there is business, do it with good will, it doesn't mean that you will control the response of all customers Do you know why Because as we saw here in the appreciation video being valued We saw that there are people who the more loving Generous and helpful you are the more rotten they become there are these types

of people and always it will exist because they see in your love Good service a weakness you understand but this is what the person is generating in their life they are generating power play in their life they are not generating love they are not generating true prosperity it can be rich it can be a lot of things because we saw that anxiety lack of inner peace lack of scruples makes a lot of money so what the person is putting a jet there for them is putting a few dollars there for them and they went into

the store in which you are an employee and she treated you badly but that has nothing to do with you You are going to serve the next customer with generosity with love because you want generosity you want love in your life you want this flow to pass through you and you are not putting pressure because you don't control how the client will act, so you're not being Generous , loving, dedicated and working hard because you want an emotional response from that person, in the same way you're not loving with someone you're dating, a person you're

meeting Because you You want me to marry you because you want me to give you children and a house and an apartment me huh Because you want me to fulfill your dream of being a prince or a princess, no, you're being loving Because you want love to pass through your system because you are love you are generosity in the same way you don't commit yourself to a nutritious and good diet for you just because you want to be thin because you want to be ripped not because you are health makes sense to you right so

the teacher is here committing to a video of course that we have objectives in our life, so many views, revenue, sales of courses. So we have an objective, yes, people, for which we do things, right? But if we put pressure on that result, you are in scarcity, and if you are in scarcity you will save yourself, you understand I'm not going to give my all, not because I have to have a guarantee that there will be this result. I'm not going to give myself in this relationship, not because I want a guarantee that there will

be a marriage if I have one guarantee that this person will marry me then I give myself it's still a game of interest, right? Of course there are limits limits And for that we have hundreds of videos here on the channel to show you how to have this wisdom So it's not for you to be a rag workhorse, on the contrary, you go to work with joy and commitment, you bring good energy to the people you meet because by doing this you are already having this abundant life, prosperous and rich And then, my son, the

clients who will come they won't want someone else, right? Wow, I want to do the service with that guy with that girl because there are people who come to the store and ask isn't so-and-so here because you want to be served by that so-and-so by that so-and-so because your energy is that good service , good dedication and then you don't need to put pressure, that's why there are people who do do do do to have a good result and there are people who put an attitude or serve two customers a day but those two customers

are capable of paying a value sometimes five times 10 times greater, it is clear that within a notion of the market, not an exploratory market, but a notion of your value, you will acquire value as a company as a service provider, you will acquire value and with the people that you will meet in your circle of friends in the possible romantic suitors that the person says wow this person she doesn't put pressure on me but I want to be with her the customer says wow and this store attendant doesn't put pressure on me but he

is he has such good energy I want to be attended to by him I stay away from stores that have employees who put pressure on me I won't go I won't stay at all I won't go at all but to that person who serves me well and he also lets me choose the pieces, sometimes he brings guidance, another person there who had a problem with my physical type who understood what What did I say, look, I don't like clothes like that because it doesn't look good when I go to Bendita in the store, which is

something that sometimes happens, the seller changed, I say, I'm so discouraged about going into that store, I'm going to meet the new seller I I already spoke to the seller that I didn't want yellow clothes, give me 10 yellow dresses, do you understand why he isn't seeing me? He's seeing the yellow dresses that are sitting there that no one has bought . I like this color I already said it doesn't look good on me but he's just looking at his goal, putting pressure on it, that's not true guys, at the end of the day it's

being driven by desperation and not realizing it Wow, but my manager is going to fight with me because I don't I'm selling the yellow dress, okay , trust me, do you have the goal of selling your yellow dress? If a customer arrived, you proposed the idea of ​​the yellow dress and that person was open, wisely, with diplomacy, you're going to put on a piece, you're asking, no. It's true, but the person is already closed to that shade for that business, they trust that customers will come who need the service of the product you have and

when they don't come, don't put pressure on them because then you sold the purple dresses to the person. The purple blouses the person liked. She'll come back other times, so you'll observe this in your life, right, put work, put commitment, put dedication, it's not the literal non-action that it is, or it's really you not putting too much interference in the flow that already exists, the customer who wants purple clothes is closed with the yellow clothes, if you put pressure on him, you will lose him and you will even lose others who would come in to

buy that stock of what you need to sell, right, so know how to observe what the customer wants, sometimes what that suitor wants will fit in, what that one the person you are meeting wants, sometimes they will fit in, sometimes they won't, so you let go of the person, let them go and another person more compatible with your lifestyle and what you expect from love comes too, but if you put pressure on them you lose that person, that customer who arrived and the others who are more compatible with you and the last understanding is sabotage

and resistance. Self-knowledge is for this purpose . company, right, the customers aren't coming, things aren't coming, what do I have to do in this case, I have to do a better study of the market, I have to learn, but many times you will come to the conclusion that you already have an understanding that you you're already applying the success formulas, there are some formulas in the Matrix that we need to apply for success, right? So sometimes you're applying them, you have knowledge but you have resistance to growth . I understand that life is naturally abundant

if I'm making a commitment if I'm working I wonder if there's something inside me that's saying like this oh my God if the love of my life gets to the bottom I'm going to have to make some changes I 'm going I'm going to lose to one side I wonder what I want so you're telling the universe that you want the great love of your life you're saying but aren't you afraid of when that person arrives how your life will change because life changes people when we finally get to where we want Are you not

afraid of losing your freedom? Is resistance to growth what needs to be worked on in this last factor in this last point here, right? I'm very optimistic. I have a lot of information I have a lot of knowledge I'm very dedicated But if my company grows as much as I'm saying, it won't give me much work or it won't make me stand out or it won't make me have to be a leader and I don't want to be a leader What are my no's, they're not just my Yes's, they're my no's, start observing, I'll leave

a video of sabotage of resistance linked here, okay For you to do this inner work there is the fear of growth if you want that I also made a specific video about the fear of growing up, leave it here for me in the comments, I realized many years ago before the programs, well well before the programs, right? Eh, 2012 2013, I realized and said this, my God, I know inside me what my soul wants, I want to help a lot of people, I want to expand a message of PR transformation to people, but I'm here

accepting a life, right? At the time I had a lot of resistance to stop teaching English my soul already wanted other things I already wanted other things but I always caught myself Oh no I still need an English student because I didn't have any resistance to English student so when I wanted to come, I did it like this. English student came, I did it like this. English student is very easy because I had no resistance. Now I saw that I already had a very strong dream within me of transforming people in a another way that

wasn't just teaching a new language, right, that's already very good, right, it gives me a lot of opportunities, but I wanted to transform, but I felt like I had the ability to do it, right, but I was like, no, no, no, but Oh, no, no, no, and I started to look inside myself, what fear is this? It's the fear of being alone because I felt like I wasn't going to do it in pairs, I felt like a lot of people wouldn't understand what she's saying. Why is this woman out of nowhere saying this and English

class is much easier, you know, English class is that here, right, but I felt inside me that it was time for me to start working with the tarot with spirituality And how would people understand, so I was resistant to this growth, my fear was that, oh man, it's going to be a hell of a job because I feel inside me that it's something very authentic, very new and in my family with my friends I'm talking about this thing about self-knowledge, I keep talking about this thing about self-knowledge and for them it's a totally weird thing

that she's talking about because she's saying this is psychology but it's not psychology Bárbara is not a psychologist at the same time as she is philosophy But Why is she philosophizing about life, what does this have to do with, you know, so I had a resistance to growing in this area And then as I worked on it, as I realized, Look, there's no way, I have to follow the one, I have to follow my path, my soul, has already opened for this, which means that my psychology is that big, right, our psychology is like that,

but my spiritual is like that . it is the soul and the psychological is forced to expand on the path of resistance, on the contrary, the spirit, the soul, the vocation, the person is there pulsing and screaming, but the psycho-emotional programming wants comfort, they want security, they want everyone to understand, applaud, give recognition so that she goes And then you're choosing what are you surrendering to your psycho-emotional programming or are you surrendering to your soul your spiritual path that will position you where you need to be And then it's very beautiful because within Taoism is

placed the What a thought I want to close this video with is learning to stop paddling and start sailing and it's such a simple thing but it's so beautiful because when you row, who's rowing is who's in a canoe, right in a boat, in a canoe? of this size A boat of this size here you go rowing rowing rowing and who is the one who sails When you think of Sailing you think of a gigantic ship, that's not true so who is the powerful one the one I want I do it's my way and it's

creating a lot of problems in his life in a little boat this size that can even have material results because a game of interest, a game of power sometimes brings results in the Matrix But you lose health, you lose affection, you lose inner connection with yourself, peace, or you learn to Sailing, right, on a ship of this size that is your spiritual one that will lead you through life in a big ocean is no longer a little river and you Doing that desperate canoeing, right, it's not a giant ocean, it's the whole world, our planet

water and you with a big ship there because you already understand you will give a little touch to the mast and the ship will turn you will give a little touch to the ship's mast a little touch here a little touch there and the ship will glide through these waters smoothly So who is the Powerful one, the ship or the person? what's up in the boat, rowing, learning to navigate and cooperate with life, people, it's true power and I sailed so much, I sailed, and when we arrive here, 10 years later with 400,000 followers ,

and it's due to exactly that, right, the dedication to clearing resistance, oh, Bárbara, could you? having 4 million today is not about that one day we will get there and I am totally sure I am totally convinced but it will not be rowing against it it will be sailing because on this path of sailing to build this ship this program with 400,000 people on board right Guys, I was healing a lot of health issues that I had You don't even know, right? You won't know, I was healing a lot of emotional issues that I had

a lot of fears about, loneliness, a lot of things, insecurity, fear of life, fear of receiving a rate, right, so I was browsing in this sea and we are reaching prosperity in this Reaching people in wealth thing because we don't have a nice studio, don't we, so it's just that all this preserving my health, learning, you know, taking a lot of blows from life and repositioning myself in my way and I I want to thank you because there are 400,000 of us on this beautiful ship here and my gift to you goes this month of

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