all right so in today's video I'm showing you how to outsmart female manipulation and emasculation and this is the exact guide be sure to take notes on this video because this is all going to come together and make sense and I really mean this the most important piece of this whole video I saved for the end okay because after I show you these points what I'm also going to do is I'm going to show you how to put it all together and why it has to be this way and if you don't understand this last
concept the these other points won't really make sense okay so I really need you to stay with me in this video because I know that this will help you because a lot of the beliefs that you've probably held around your relationship or your past relationships with women have probably failed you so I'm here to help you implement new beliefs that will actually help you on your path and inside of your dating life so let's dive in okay first and foremost we have to understand the prerequisite step to relationships and the prerequisite step would be this
you have to understand proper dating Dynamics in the first place between the masculine and The Feminine and this is something that most men don't know they don't learn you know they don't know how to carry themselves until multiple relationships fail and now there is emotional pain associated with the failure so what they're able to do is actually reflect I'm here to help you okay the only reason that a relationship starts to end okay if she was with you and she liked you and she liked your personality and she liked who you are and she was
sleeping with you the only reason that that comes to an end or one of the only reasons that this comes to an end is because you took on the traits of her okay you took on the traits of the feminine causing her to act distant and take on the traits of the masculine this is why this is why things started to dissolve so what happened was you became weak emotionally you became a man who really started to need need companionship you probably stopped doing other things in your social life you made a lot of time
for her and because of that she no longer respected the time that she had with you on top of that you probably wanted excess communication okay you're going to notice the boyfriend or the guy who she's with that always is able to see her or go out on dates with her that she wants to be with this is the type of guy who's ignoring phone calls this is the type of guy who isn't responding to text messages and this is the type of guy who just doesn't really care okay so you became weak emotionally you
became a guy who is needing companionship you needed communication and on top of that you probably wanted to start spending all of your free time with her now what did this do this caused her to become distant this caused her to tell you that she wants to focus on herself and this caused her to think that you are now lower value okay in the relationship so here's what happened okay the dynamic was reversed and now she starts to open up new options so that's the prerequisite if you can understand that you can start to learn
what not to do but I'm telling you this and I'm being as serious as I can you have to stay with me until the end because this column is super important because I really believe that I'm going to illustrate something you've never seen before okay so how to outsmart female manipulation and emasculation step by step this is the exact guide number one okay step one this is the most important piece okay of the steps this isn't the most important piece of the video which is at the end this is the most important piece of the
steps okay always signal that you have had other women at or above her current level of attractiveness why because women are constantly looking at how you act okay so you could be a famous movie star or a famous musician right and the second that you start to act like this is the first time you've ever been on a date with a woman who is this attractive you're going to watch her desire start to go down so always signal that you have had other women at or above her current level of attractiveness what are the three
characteristics or what are the three things that you have to look at to Signal this well you have to pay attention to number one your vocal tone number two your body language and number three your mannerisms so I'm going to dive into each of these number one your vocal tone here's how you have to come across you can't be too excited to see her if your vocal fluctuation or your vocal tone fluctuates a lot she's going to notice that you're overly excited you also should attempt to have very little expression okay especially the more you
get to know her here's what happens is men do really good in the beginning to come across as you know a type of guy who has it together or you can conceal your interest level but over time he starts to become something different you want to really make sure that you have very little expression because that expression is going to open you up to deeper level interest tests now on top of that your vocal tone needs to demonstrate that you are going to use fewer words than other men so here's what I mean by that
if a woman is very attractive most men will use 10 words in that sentence or in that text message when five or six would have done the job just fine they overc communicate through added words that they don't need which makes them actually overcommunication [Music] you are not always trying to initiate touch basically what you're doing is you are keeping your hands to yourself at all times now when you do this she's going to have a question mark in her mind that says does he like me this is very important most guys when they're really
attracted to a woman you always want to cuddle and you always want to kiss her and that's why she doesn't like you because now you're showing that you have not been with other women at or above her current level of attractiveness now number three last but not least is your mannerisms you need to get used to not giving certainty if you will be around okay so if she says hey will you go to the mall with me on Saturday you say maybe okay if she says hey we have dinner plans at 5:00 can you be
there you say yes and then Friday night when the dinner plans roll around at 3:45 you flake and then last but not least you don't give direct answers if most guys would say yes or most guys would say no you're going to be like oh sure that'll work sure okay so what you're doing here is you're nonchalant and your energy is going to demonstrate that you have been there done that if you demonstrate that you've already been there you've already done that before this isn't anything new for you she's going to really like you okay
so that's the first step in outsmarting the manipulation that you will probably have happen to you if you're not aware of it now number two never date only one woman at a time never date only one woman at a time and I'm going to explain why the reason being is because one is too close close to zero two is too close to one and three is about perfect to start with I'm going to say that one more time one is too close to zero two is too close to one and three is about perfect to
start with so here's what you got to remember about women women copy what other women do she's going to tell you things like oh you know I decide who I like for myself okay but what you have to remember is the main thing that she's deciding on is how many other women also find you attractive so if you're dating only one woman she goes oh well this is his only option well if nobody else wants him I don't either if no other women find him very attractive why am I with him this is what she
thinks you could have a huge bank balance you could be very rich you could have everything going for you you can be high value you can be high status and you can be attractive physically and you could be good-look and she still won't like you because what's going happen is you're going to signal that other women don't like you keep that in mind she says well if nobody else likes him I don't either okay here's what you're going to notice okay they think that something is wrong with you if they are the only one that
you see they will literally start to look at you and say well what's wrong with him what's going on with him why does nobody else want him okay keep that in mind so competition typically will create jealousy and better behavior that she demonstrates towards you so number two never date only one woman at a time now the third step in this okay is you need to remove all of the Care and only focus on leading yourself so you're going to hear a lot of content creators where they'll say you need to be a good leader
you need to be masculine and show what a good leader you are okay in order to do that in a relationship do you know what that's going to require time energy and effort do you know what that's going to Signal your interest level you being willing to demonstrate masculinity shows that you're invested this was one of the biggest turning points for me in my own dating life okay I'm GNA say that one more time you demonstrating masculinity automatically signals that you care so stick with me here you need to remove all the Care and only
focus on leading yourself life is way too short to try to spend time leading a woman when you try to when you try to be a good boyfriend you try to be a good companion you try to be a masculine man most of the time okay here's what will happen when you try most women will just take it as you showing interest and then doing the opposite just to piss you off anyways and then here's what happens I'll show you okay other content creators will say be a man and Lead show that you are not
a pushover so you need rules and you need boundaries for how you want to live communicate what you want okay or communicate what you consider to be disrespectful so that way she knows that you have these boundaries and here's what actually happens if you try to do this in real life she goes oh wow look at the man with big muscles get all frustrated and she laughs at you that's what happens because she's going to watch you actually care and as she watches you care she thinks it's hilarious that you're even trying to have this
discussion in the first place so you will watch her chase a guy who doesn't care who appears like he's super nonchalant and goes with the flow doesn't try to lead anything you will watch her okay you will watch her chase this type of guy who doesn't care at all okay what she does year after year after year after year he literally doesn't care what she does at all she could be out at the club till 1: in the morning 2: in the morning she could be out over here he doesn't care if he doesn't hear
from her for 4 days he's just literally living okay that's the type of guy that she will consistently pursue and she will put effort into and she will show feminine characteristics to for all of you wondering how to actually get good feminine characteristics out of women who are caring and nurturing and try to love you this is how you do it okay it's not by you being a good stable strong masculine man and I'm going to show you why in just a second long story short here's what I'm trying to say you need to lead
yourself okay to your own purpose you need to lead yourself to God if you want to call it that okay and you need to specifically lead your own finances because that way you sleep good at night knowing that you have you together together that's what you got to do for every second that you spend trying to lead her or be a good man to show her that you're a good man watch her take that kindness for weakness now putting this all together I told you in the beginning this was the most important piece and I
was very serious about it so this is a carry-on of Point number three or this is going to stem into what I just talked about for those of you who don't necessarily see what I'm talking about I'm going to also show you my own real life experience with this so putting it all together here's what you have to know any form of masculinity any form of rules in the relationship that you would like or order hey this is how things should be or boundaries hey I think that that's disrespectful so I don't want that kind
of behavior anytime you have to verbalize any of this listen to me very closely any kind of protecting or providing at all will signal care this is where most other dating coaches or content creators have not told you the full story with this and part of me honestly believes that because they don't have enough experience or as much experience with women as they try to show these things okay when you demonstrate these things masculinity showing that you have backbone and you're not a pushover all these things here's what you have to understand all of these
things make you a good man all of these things make you a strong man who has order in his own life all of these things on paper technically make you a good man but through your own practices or through your own testing in your own dating life here's what you're going to find women don't like these men because they have revealed their interest level so here's what it looks like okay when you do this right I'm going to show you in just a second but you really have to understand this women a lot of times
will want to spend their time trying to change a man into making him better they don't want a finished product right away they want to spend their time showing and trying to teach a guy how to act and how to be a man okay that's the man that they spend their effort and their time with they don't want good men they don't like good men good men get left okay so just stick with me here I'm going to show you what this looks like when you do it right okay this is my own text message
okay and this is how little I actually care so I'll put this up on the screen it was 2: in the morning and this woman that I was seeing I didn't ask her to check in or anything with me when she got home she goes baby I'm getting home safe now in case you care because I never even asked okay then I didn't even reply the next day I just put a heart on the message okay I just like tapped the heart button and then the next day she double texts and she says honey do
you want me to take you to the airport why because she can tell that I don't even care if she's at the club I don't care if she's out at the bar I don't care who she's meeting I don't care I don't care go do whatever you want to do when I see you I see you if I don't hear from you for 6 days that's fine you come back to me when you're ready that's the attitude and that's the nonchalant attitude of the man that she wants they look at those men as stronger than
the men who actually demonstrate real masculinity characteristics because what she sees is she sees a man who isn't willing to demonstrate those things so she questions her own Beauty and she says well why doesn't he care what do I have to do to get this man to actually act like a man if I was hotter would demonstrate these things for a different woman these are the subconscious thoughts that are going through her mind you have no idea how long this actually took me to figure out you have no idea how long this actually took me
to discover you have no idea how many mistakes I have made in my own dating life with woman after woman after woman for the past 10 years before I finally piece this together this was one of the hardest things that I have ever had to discover and because of that I want you to take this very seriously because no one in my opinion has been actually looking at these Concepts deeper than me over the past 10 years now showing her your masculine traits is caring she wants a project okay or a puzzle piece that she
has to solve she wants a man okay that she has to change or a man that she has to teach how to be a better man and how to be a man in the first place this is what she wants and this is what she gravitates towards so you'll notice first okay or you'll notice when you first see a woman she doesn't necessarily instantly just start being NT nurturing and sweet okay and caring for you and trying to cook you a nice meal she doesn't try to do any of that okay what she does is
she withholds femininity women are so far ahead of most men when it comes to strategies in their own dating life you have no idea women will typically withhold femininity and not do any of those things because what she's going to do is she's going to say he has to earn it well how do you earn it you earn it by doing everything completely opposite because your logic is opposite to her emotions and you would think that she would give all these traits being nice to a man cooking for a man being sweet to him trying
to give him a kiss you would think that she would do this to a strong stable masculine man and then when you see this play out in your own life it's completely opposite she will only give that behavior to men who don't care and Men Who demonstrate virtually no masculinity characteristics to begin with because all of those men who are trying to lead her and trying to be a gentleman and doing everything the right way guess what happens they're showing effort they're showing consistency and then she pulls away and she thinks that they have low
dating value that's what you're going to actually find in your own life yet men are so quick to try to show her okay or to try to show her how good he is and how masculine he is this is the last two points I want you to start to put all together I know that this is probably a big paradigm shift from your past beliefs but here's what's going to happen if you actually watch this play out in your own dating life you will thank me later because you're going to see that I've already made
all of the mistakes so that way you don't have to now if you want to learn understand and master the language of women at an even deeper level I created a community with over 1480 guys together who I have been showing this process too and the coolest thing about the language of women is we have a specific process that any man can copy paste into their own dating life and we break this up into three specific categories I've created category one which is front-end game this is how to act and how to operate when you
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