will she regret losing a good man you're sitting here wondering if she's in pain if she's happy and seeing other people and dating again and partying did she ever even care about you did she even love you did she mean the things that she said you're wondering what she's thinking if she's going to text you and ask to start all over let me tell you this right now when it comes to a woman's regret regret of losing someone that was good she will regret you if you're telling me Tru truthfully right now that you were
in the relationship to the best person that you were the best man that you were to her you gave her a high quality relationship and you were a good person let me tell you she will regret you but follow these three tips that I'm about to talk about to really get your life going and start understanding what you need to focus on in order to truly get her back and make her regret losing you hi hi I'm christe welome to men's Mental Health Institute where we talk about life mental health and relationships specifically men's mental
health I know guys you guys are through a huge time of your life right now losing a woman specifically when you've given it your all is one of the most biggest struggles that I hear in all of my clients but I need you guys to understand that if you are telling me with utmost truth that you were a good person you were a good man to her and you brought your best self in trying to work out the relationship and trying to make this relationship work and you were communicating you were trying your best to
meet her needs and she still left you let me tell you that your attachment to her and dwelling on the fact of wondering about all these questions if she ever cared if she ever loved you did she mean the things things that she said why did she lose interest in you is going to keep you attached to the relationship she's taking up free space in your head and most of all the biggest problem with this mindset is she is going to prevent you from really moving forward and being a better version of yourself and that's
the number one point I need you guys to ask yourself if you're dwelling on it do not dwell on wondering what she's thinking and number two when it comes to a breakup when when she's the one who has dumped you if she lost you if she lost a relationship right it will take a time lag for her to realize she lost something amazing she will take time to realize she's lost something that was really great a good man she probably when she broke up with you is thinking about the analogy that the grass is always
greeny on the other side it will take time for her to realize that the grass really isn't greener on the other side it's obviously Greener where you water it and that is why it will take time for her to realize that she is regretful of losing you I'm saying number one is do not dwell on the fact of whether or not at this very moment if she regrets losing you if she's in pain if she's going to text you back if she's reflecting on the relationship if she's happy if she's sad if she's angry because
right now you need to let her go through the stages of realizing this sense of regret on her own the number one point is that you need to understand what she's facing right now and the possible traumas and the problems relationship problems that she had with you that she was no longer willing to fix is going to come up on her second relationship if she gets into one and that brings me to the second point is do not be salty and do not go into detective mode I don't want you to spend your time investing
in looking at her social medias looking if she's seeing other people if she's going out for dinners if she's seeing hanging out with her friends more and if there's men around if she's talking to other people if she's following new people this is when you're salty this is when you've spent too much of your living space and your time wasted on investigating in time that could be used for other things that could be used to improve your life number two is when it comes to a time lag of regret do not use that time lag
to investigate in her life look at her social medias lurk on her stories lurk on her following list to see if she followed other men please understand you dwelling on the fact of wondering what she's thinking is exactly the actions that will prevent you from realizing what you should have done for your yourself to begin with to prevent losing her so that time lag is going to take time the grass is not your rules for how you want a woman to behave around you always greener on the other side and she needs to realize that
on her own and number three brings me to my very last point is embrace your wins and embrace your losses what does that mean is if you're telling me straight up right now that you were a good man you you were a man of high quality you set your standards your boundaries and it just went sour she just became toxic and was not willing to come halfway and meet you halfway in what you need in a relationship you knew for a fact that you were trying to meet her needs while she was just withholding it
if you're telling me that there is nothing that you can be working on at this point of your life I'm going to tell you very very straight up that is probably why you will never realize why the relationship went sour to begin with as a man everything in your life and man or woman to be quite honest with you is utterly and completely your responsible and you need to be accountable for what you need to do now in order to be the version of a person a human and a man that that she never thought
you could be for whatever reason that she chose not to work on this relationship with you anymore and she could be already jumped started to another relationship to another man and giving everything that you have ever wanted to him but you have to understand that with that time lag with that grass is all she thinks grass is greener on the other side that this comes to your place right now and what I work on with my clients is who was the man that you lost to sacrifice and try to please her and who is the
man you haven't even realized was supposed to be here today sitting here right now what was the time wasted in this relationship what was the values the beliefs the practice the commit commitment to yourself that you've sacrificed in order to make this relationship work you have to understand you have to become the man that you've always known yourself as needing to work towards and number two is you have to become the man she never thought you could become and that very last point that very last trajectory of getting a woman back is all always always
not focused on dwelling on what she's thinking is she regretful when is she going to be regretful if she's going to be regretful will she text me back what is she doing is she partying in La is she partying here and meeting other men what is her following list oh this is an extra extra man that she followed do not spend your time wasted on her life anymore more you have to start focusing on being the version of a man that you never thought you could even become so understand the same path to getting a
woman back is always the same path to yourself your identity your masculine identity the standards the provisions the rules that you didn't set in the relationship that made her lose respect for you so to win an ex back to make her regret losing you to make her regret losing a good man you have to understand that you cannot dwell on what she's thinking do not let her take free space in your head and number two is her thinking that the grass is always greener on the other side is exactly going to show her that she
has lost a good man because the same relationship issues the same relationship problems her trauma her triggers are going to manifest itself in the men that she handles and deals with next so even if she's in a new relationship and you think her social media is happy go lucky she's happy with this other man you best believe and you must believe that her problems will manifest itself in the relationship her traumas her triggers her problems her in ability to come close and recognize with self-awareness with logic and structure what her issues are will manifest itself
in the next relationship so please understand those two points and the very last point is getting her back or making her regret you making her losing a good man the very last point is you have to understand you need to become that man she never thought you could become and underlying that underlying that is you need to become the man you never thought you could become stop spending time dwelling on her stop lurking on her social medias it's time to get that piece of yourself back and it's by embracing your losses embracing your wins reflecting
on what you can work on and what you're good at if you're telling me you were a good man you can't be 100% good there there needs to be spaces in your weaknesses and that is where you need to start what are your weaknesses why does she lose respect for you were there times that you did things that you didn't want to do in hopes that you don't lose her this is the first step please start doing this you need to start reflecting on it if you're interested in working on this together embracing what the
man that you should have been after after a breakup life after breakup the man you should have been that never loses her the man that you should have become to always have a respect for a woman have her respect you you can message me DM me follow me on my socials follow me on my Tik Tok and fill out that form in the link in my bio right now the link will show you some steps that I've done with clients similar to you but life after breakup wondering if she is going to regret losing a
good man is exactly why it's preventing you from realizing your true potential and you have to understand there is 12 very very specific steps to making a woman realize she regret losing you that she lost a good man but if you don't start doing this right now today she won't regret losing you hi everyone if you enjoyed our content don't for forget to follow us on Tik Tok and IG where we post daily and YouTube where we post weekly