DON'T tell your friends about self improvement.

you are trying to convince people to change their habits so their life can change for the better but they keep doing what isn't working shout out to you for trying to help these people but humans are hardheaded humans are stuck in their ways man and the only thing you really gain from trying to help someone that does not want to be helped there's a bunch of stuff like being frustrated having all these Hecks cuz you trying to wrap your mind around someone making the same mistakes over and over again having the person resent you when

all you're trying to do is help and last but not least stress stress is one of them things you do not want to have in your life cuz it's really really detrimental to your body you know what I'm saying cuz the definition of stress is when your brain and body is knocked out of balance you know what I'm saying the stress response is what the body does to return itself back to order I think the medical term is called homeostasis but I just want to give a shout out to my white blood cuz they always

fighting infections over for your boy gang gang gang but nah man living in stress is living in survival mode which means if you keep turning on those flight or fight mode systems in your brain those emergency systems in your brain man it's going to lead to you having a disease cuz you got to understand that's not normal to constantly live like that and stress you know we like animals let's say a a cheater is chasing after a deer the Dare the Dare is going to have the stress response alerted but let's say it escapes that's

it those stress responses is no longer there but as humans we like to drag [ __ ] day after day after day we get stressed we get stressed out you know what I'm saying and you don't want to be stressed out trying to help somebody else now my question to you is would you risk your life for someone that does not want to be help n right I ain't think so and I love this lifeguarding principle it just always reminds me that every time I'm trying to help someone and I'm seeing they don't want to

be helped to just back off and the lifeguarding principle is never get too close to a drwn in person cuz when you reach them just before they go under they're going to jump on your back and they going to cause both of yall to drown but my thing is you got to punch this person in the face and you got to swim back to land cuz only one person is going to die and it's not going to be you you know what I'm saying and it's going to hurt because this person's going to be a

family member this person's going to be a friend but you always have to keep your distance you know what I'm saying because that [ __ ] could rub off on you that [ __ ] could rub off on you man and we're trying to be great we're not trying to be average and you know as much as you always repeat yourself and you're yourself when you're around this person you're always vocal about about what they're not doing right once you say it two three times you just got to shut it up you got to shut

it up you know what I'm saying and we got to normalize leaving people in the reality that they have chosen we have to because people think the world is as it is but the world is as you are and all this [ __ ] is really perception and it's really about your mindset but certain people are stuck in their mindset and they don't want to grow from it or they don't want to tap in to their mind you know and there's no reason that just keep saying the same [ __ ] over and over and

over again cuz what's going to happen is you devaluing your words why would you keep devaluing what you have to say by offering it to people who is doing nothing but rejecting it who is doing nothing but rejecting it you know this this quote I love I don't know who it's from but it's it goes the lips of wisdom are closed except to the ears of understanding you are the person with all this wisdom cuz a person who is wise learns from the mistakes and you know as a wise person you always want to tell

people the things that you've learned so they won't have to go through the the those mistakes you know what I'm saying but a why the lips of wisdom are closed your lips should be closed only to people who understand you the lips of wisdom are closed except to the is of understanding you know when a person understanding you when they asking questions through their body language cuz most of our communication is through nonverbals but you can sense this person is actually understands you and they're rating notes they're taking it down but you should not be

opening your mouth to people who are not going to understand you you know what I'm saying I had this this this conversation with somebody not too long ago and there a reason why I wanted to talk about this topic and I'm on this I'm on the phone with this person and I'm not going to say no names but I'm asking the these questions and I'm I'm wondering what's going on and I'm asking questions that is very important to ask you know and the person is just giving one word responses it just feels like this person

does not want to be bothered I'm like and I'm very passionate about helping people you know because a [ __ ] went through a lot you know what I'm saying like I've been through shelters when I was a young kid and all that [ __ ] but I just want to help people you know what I'm saying especially the things I've learned that I could overcome that I overcame and that I'm pretty sure if I just tell you you won't have to go through this [ __ ] but I'm asking these questions to this person

and one word responses I'm like what are you so I just I'm like you know what I'm like yeah just have a good day and it just it just blows my mind that a person could could be like that you just have to accept that this person doesn't want to help themselves and you shouldn't want to help them because what's going to happen is you going to irritate them and you're going to frustrate yourself so what you do to make both parties happy is I'mma give you this a a wavy solution it's a nice solution

I'm I'mma solve your problem right now just shut up just shut up that that's it right there just just shut up and be quiet man that's really all I can say about that um I'mma leave it off there I hope you like the video comment subscribe see you next video