If I Wanted To Become A Millionaire In 2025, I'd Do THIS!

like I just see potential in human beings like I look at you I see potential and if I saw that you were happy doing the regular thing if I really believe that then I would leave it as it is but what I find is most people when you dig under the surface are not even necessarily happy so they're not happy and they're bored doing the same kind of thing and then they're not living to their potential why not kick them in the ass a little bit so for me when I think about um you know

helping someone with their self-love but their life is [ __ ] up well then I think that there's an element of that where yes you do want to have a base of self-love but I don't want to make that the main primary focal point I want to make that one focal point among many focal points okay so if you're leg like for example I actually broke my leg I was in a wheelchair for six months this year I blew the crap out of my leg I had a bad accident and I was in a wheelchair

for half a year Well when that doctor came to help me do I want him to just tell me oh it's all going to be okay do I want him to just pet the leg do I want him do I want him to stroke the leg or do I want him to Bam put the leg back in place so I can begin my healing Journey okay so for me because I'm someone where I am an empathetic person when I see you and I see that you're [ __ ] up and I see that your life

is [ __ ] and I see that you're unhappy as someone who's empathetic I'm not going to come in there and go okay well you know it'll be fine right when Winston Churchill was analyzing the state of the state of United Kingdom when Hitler was coming okay do you guys remember do you guys I'll see if I get out of speech okay what did what did uh Churchill say it was a great speech okay so he says um I have nothing to offer but blood toil tears and sweat uh the basic point being that he

was saying was the Hitler's [ __ ] coming we're in deep [ __ ] we can win but we've got to acknowledge where we're at so that we can start to win okay so what I just believe is that if you're an empathetic person you're going to be honest with somebody about where they're at if you believe that they can change so when I talk to you if I talk to you in a way that's aggressive or if I talk to you in a way is intended to antagonize you like a lot of what I'm

doing here is meant to antagonize I'm trying to antagonize you I'm trying to piss you off I'm trying to get you a bit upset about your current situation why do I do that what's my goal in trying to antagonize you or to piss you off about your current situation why am I doing that well what happens when you're comfortable pain not motivated you're not motivated it's painful right now here's the thing I would not have the ability to piss you off if you didn't know you had more potential because if I come in here and

I say you know you could be flying you could go to Mars by yourself you know can you believe you haven't gone to Mars yet can you believe that why hav you go to Mars like a regular cool guy would just go to Mars would that piss you off no why haven't you live to be 90,000 years old would that piss you off so why does it piss you off when I say yes you could make your first couple million yes you could have a fun social life and dating life because you could do it

because you could do it okay so that's that's kind of what I want to put in your head is I'm aggressive with this stuff because I believe that you could do it if look if you see me on the street and I'm talking to some you know I'm talking like to like the weed infused cashier at 7-Eleven right okay he's up working late he's smoking his weed and he's just trying to get through the day and he's got this bugged out look in his eyes you think I'm going to go to that guy and start

trying to piss him off like come on man 11 [ __ ] sucks bro you're up in the middle of the night you know night shift workers have uh higher incidents of cancer look at your like am I going to am I going to say this to that guy no yeah I mean right but no I don't say no how do I talk to someone who I can tell does not want to change how do I talk to them comforting kind very kind and comforting baby actually if you want to really know okay people laugh

at this because they see me in here and it's like this big gap I actually talk to most people in society like like it's a baby for real I'm not even kidding if you see me out it's kind of funny this how I talk I'm like I'm like hi hi like I talk like this is for okay I'm going to sh gears if I if I'm in a restaurant and I walk up to to to a server I'm going to I'm going to say hi there just the two of us how's your night going right

you ever see those uh like that music that they use in mainstream like commercials and bits where it's like it's like it's like a certain soundtrack like it's like a for a baby right stock music yeah it's the stock yeah the stock music it's like for a baby so I try to speak to most people in mainstream Society like a baby because they they're not asking to change I'm not I'm not there look it's like peos before swine I'm not saying they're swine but I'm saying that they're not they're not at a point where they're

looking to change yet so as a result of that I'm not going to waste my energy but in in this room this room right here is like a funnel okay and so the videos that I put out are not exactly short little Tik toks right what's my average video length two hours it's like two hours so if my average video length is about two hours and you're and you could be watching Tik Tok you could be watching a cat on a skateboard you could be watching J shete telling you how awesome you are you know

whatever else it is and then again I I love those guys I'm just saying it's a different Focus um and you're choosing to watch very aggressive very focused uh broad topic but also folks on self self-development content that I assume that you want to change I assume that you want to do better so what I would say is the first principle here is make yourself a little bit uncomfortable allow yourself to try things that are different allow yourself to try things that are uncomfortable allow yourself to try things that fail that push your limits okay

I have a really really really fun life but let me be clear about this that came through a lot of failing forward so what I would tell you is first of all I've been rejected I believe most likely aund times more than this entire room combined okay I've had relationships where I'm in love with a girl and then the relationship failed and I was left destroyed and feeling very betrayed and heartbroken and sad about it for years after I have business Partnerships where I trusted the person with all my life and heart and soul and

they completely stabbed me in the [ __ ] back and it was embarrassing I've also done things like release YouTube videos for years and years and years and have to go delete them okay I've had I've I've had money up Millions up I've been Millions down so I'm not saying that you're going to have some perfect [ __ ] life but what I'm saying is aren't you bored with what you're doing now are you a little bit bored with your current life situation and by the way if you're not you don't need to be in

the room you know if you're like I'm totally happy with where I'm at you don't need to be in the [ __ ] room I'm not even trying to be weird and like be all weird and like kick you out I'm just speaking honestly to you you don't need to be there you don't need to be here but if you want something better then that's what I'm trying to kick this off with because we're going to have a big weekend here together is if you want something better for yourself and you see that then you

want to start to say to yourself okay well what are the different thought processes that I could begin to apply and that I could begin to experiment with and I could go try those things now to understand the basis of a lot of what is that we teach you here so that's sort of like the foundation of what it is that we're teaching is I'm trying to make you uncomfortable because I believe that human beings are comfort-based and because we're comfort-based we have to be a bit uncomfortable the next thing that I want to show

you is that upward Mobility for most people not us in this room but for most people is largely a myth most people will make less money than their parents most people are not going to go on to become multi-millionaires what are what are most people's path to making a lot of cash how does it work for the average person like I grew up middle class how will it work if you grew up middle class how is it going to work for you like how how are you going to even get back to your parents Baseline

of middle class what does that look [Music] like yeah I mean you you yeah you either yeah yeah he said you know get hit by a car and win a lawsuit you know you win the Power Ball by the way even things like Powerball do you realize the inherent meaning in something like a lottery or like American Idol what is that what is that trying to I I don't even think people do it on purpose but what is what belief system is a lottery or American Idol coming from and American a could be a fun

show to watch but I'm just saying what where does that Bel come from it's the idea that that this kind of establishment just comes along and just plucks you up and just puts you on like these higher ups these overlords put you on even people like Justin Bieber who now actually thinks improved a lot as an artist but let's say when he's a kid or people like Britney Spears again they've improved as Artist as they've gotten older um Justin actually got better as an artist because he started delving into his pain more it's kind of

interesting but what does it say to you psychologically when the most famous people are the Kardashians Bieber Spears what is that Comm are these the best singers of our time so what is that what is that communicating to your brain what is the underlying message to your brain if the most popular most successful person is Bieber it's called the this establishment just comes and if you're just a good little boy or girl and it will just pluck you up and put you in front of a bunch of cameras and a big crowd and pre- purchase

radio and then they're going to tell all these other little pleum what to listen to do you guys realize that like they will make you listen to Bieber right like they have a million bavers oh Bieber got all drugged out bye Bieber Next Bieber Next Bieber Next Bieber Next Bieber Next Bieber Next Bieber Next Bieber Next Bieber I'm going along here to emphasize you how long this been happening right they've been doing this since like what the 50s 40s next Bieber Next Bieber because they own the machine they have ownership of the [ __ ]

machine what do I mean by this what I'm getting at is that they own the distribution and then human beings want to know what other human beings are looking at so human beings will sit there listening to Bieber because they are attempting to indoctrinate themselves on the mass vibration they're not listening to Bieber because it's okay I I just dropped to bomb on you here that you're probably not going to fully let sink in they're not listening to Bieber because they're impressed by Bieber they're listening to Bieber because they are trying to mass indoctrinate and

put themselves in sync with the collective okay very few people are are genuine fans of most Pop um AR artist right they're looking to see what everybody else is looking at so that they can Mass indoctrinate themselves in the belief system of the collective people are [ __ ] crazy like that human beings have massive group think issues so there's an underlying mechanism of just to be a little good boy or girl now by the way imagine if you made a trend on podcasts where you said at the beginning of every interview your podcast you

said hey look we're going to start this conversation by asking you what is your most single most controversial opinion that you have that would piss other people off and that would cost Social Capital like you would lose Social Capital if you gave this opinion but that you genuinely believe the world would become better if other people understood it what is something that you see that you think that the collective does not see it would make the world better now imagine if we as a society would allow for that where even if the person said something

really [ __ ] up like it was really bad and toxic what they said that we would mutually agree you know what we're going to let them say it because it took courage to say it and we're going to debate we can debate we don't need to like take their idea and implement it we're going to debate them but in this moment because every single podcast again imagine this is a culture I'm just not going to happen but I mean not anytime soon anyway but imagine if there was a culture where said this podcast begins

and you will give us the [ __ ] sauce what do you see that would that would cost you Social Capital you'd pay a social penalty to say it but you see something that if the world knew it the world would be a better place share it now and we give a Collective Agreement that we will not hold it against you if it's super [ __ ] up what you're going to say imagine how many great ideas would come out imagine how fast society would move forward if we're not on eggshells okay but people like

Bieber will only tow the party line he will only tow the party line he's put in place by The Establishment and he is a mouthpiece for the establishment okay that is why you cannot trust a celebrity what they say because their entire existence is B based on say the things that the establishment wants Now understand I'm I'm going to try to put a basic I'm going to try to lay down a framework for you here and if you could understand this framework then you'll have a greater understanding for what is that I'm teaching you okay

so I'm going to call it the pimp ho relationship between the elites and the masses or we will call it the subd relationship between the elites and the masses so here's what it is okay so the pimp hates his [ __ ] life and is miserable but he's evil as [ __ ] the hoe all also hates her [ __ ] life and is doing Behavior that's pretty [ __ ] up neither are happy but they are in a relationship with each other okay likewise a sub and a Dom it's like this dark relationship you

guys ever look up uh Financial do uh Financial Piggies yeah like pay pigs Financial dominatrix you ever look that [ __ ] up okay you can actually look this up it's called like it's called Financial domination what happens is like some some girl will put herself out there and she'll basically say uh like I'm a financial dominatrix like you're a little piggy um you're going to you're I'm going to I'm and they do what's called a cash dump and they literally just show up at the Dom's like house or like even out in public and

they just give them all their money and worship them that's it and then they're told that they're scum this is real look it up look up pay pigs my ex girlfriend CJ like she had a lot of friends do this stuff yeah pay pigs uh Financial dominatricks all this crazy [ __ ] okay and so what happens is um with the pay pig is they have an inherent low self-esteem an inherent low self-worth and because they have that low self-worth the result of that is that they they they resonate with just doing a cash dump

and being told that they're garbage okay the pay Pig Dynamic exists specifically because there's people in society who just want to be enslaved they just want to be a pay Pig here's what you don't realize you watch the pay Dynamic and you're like oh that's so [ __ ] up like I would never do that no no the pay Pig Dynamic is not something that you should wash away you shouldn't just watch that and go oh that's like some weirdo I don't have any of that you also have the pay Pig Dynamic you also have

a lot of that weird Behavior there's a lot more pay piggy in you than you realize so that Dynamic that you have is every single time that you put food in your [ __ ] mouth and that food that you put in your [ __ ] mouth is garbage it hurts you what is that food doing that food is giving you some a good little good feeling on the front end but it's harming you on the back end okay so like take Tik Tok right when you're scrolling through Tik Tok what's it giving you on

the front end you're enough you're awesome all your exes are evil like you know all that like anything uh anything that is uh feeding your dopamine right but you know no personal accountability no ability that you could change the world is just [ __ ] up you know you've been you've been oppressed it's all it's all their fault not your fault so just sit there and say that you're awesome right so that gives you that on the front end once's it take away on the back end attention span personal accountability any personal change that you

could make anything like that right well that's being created by people that are making billions of dollars off of that but here's what's funny are the people making billions any happier than the [ __ ] loser consuming it they're not I promise you I I coach them a lot of what I tell you guys I learned because during covid I couldn't pay my bills and I started coaching Rich guys one-on-one over the phone and that was how I kept my staff paid I I'd start learning how to do oneone with with the super rich and

what happened was I found out that most of them are [ __ ] super unhappy I'm like wait a minute y'all are y'all are creating all this chaos and you're just as unhappy as the people living it it's a pimpo dynamic it's it's a subd dynamic like you think that that woman doing the financial dominatrix [ __ ] is happy no of course she's miserable she feels like [ __ ] she's going to tell you otherwise she's going to say oh I feel great doing this no she feels like [ __ ] garbage so anytime

that you're consuming this crap that's giving you something on the front end but it's not helping you on the back end you are entering into the pay Pig Dynamic okay you are being the pay Pig you're you're you're a you're like the sub it's like it's like you're paying some dominatrix to come in like twist your titties electrocute your your nipples and like you know put hot wax on you and beat you up and tell you that you're garbage and like basically just speak to your trauma and speak to your Lo self-esteem and speak to

like these horrible horrible parts of you and so on and so forth it's actually really really [ __ ] [ __ ] um and then from there as you're watching the dynamic taking place it's like you know oh Bieber is the best [ __ ] guy to listen to now we're going to pay to put Bieber on every [ __ ] radio station Bieber here Bieber there can't escape him you're like no Bieber no oh it's Bieber oh no oh Bieber oh no wait ask Bieber right but look at poor little Bieber he's as unhappy

as anyone too he's not like yeah laughing all the way to the bank he's traumatized too the elites putting him on are traumatized Bieber's traumatized his listeners are traumatized then they just go watch [ __ ] Tik Tok get told to love themselves look at more dopamine [ __ ] probably get further traumatized and this just goes on and on and on and the thing is there's a trajectory and momentum to any Dynamic okay there's a trajectory add momentum to any Dynamic you ever been in a ro in a romantic relationship say you had a

girlfriend boyfriend for girls in the room same-sized couple whatever right and you have a significant other who is just mad at you all the time right and you're like baby I'll take you here I'll take you there I love you what do I have to do to make you love me like back in the day is there a single person in this room where that ever worked did that ever work did that ever work or did they proceed to go like you know you drop more money on them you give them more attention and then

they go no I even more annoyed at you then you drop more money on them you give them even more attention you're business suffers because you have the attention do they go you know what babe I can see that you are taking a lot of time away from your business to help me and I love you now does that happen is there anybody that ever happened with no because it's a dynamic that is amplifying that is moving that has a momentum that has a trajectory so when we look at 2020 with the lockdowns what was

2020 the lockdowns it was an inevitability of the trajectory and momentum of the dynamic that we're talking about here it just has its own momentum it has its own trajectory it's like oh we got him listen to Bieber oh we got list we got him eat this [ __ ] food we got him to look at all this [ __ ] now we're just going to lock him down that's what it is they're just like lock these [ __ ] down and and that's what you saw the question is is society going to wake up

and say [ __ ] this and it creates a mass Awakening or because the the mask is down now like that's what 2020 was right it was just the mass came down the mass slipped it was like boom the mass slipped for the whole world to see everybody saw everybody's now seing the mass slip you've seen it you got put in your house you've been on house arrest right so then from there does that create does that put this little part in your brain where you go wait a minute I got put on house arrest

does it do that you're like wait is there like a Dynamic here that's [ __ ] crazy why can't I escape Justin Bieber right they're like we're going to lock you in your house and make you look at Justin Bieber right we're we're going to we're going to shut down the gym but the the liquor store is still open right all these huge companies are mandatory essential services but little Mom Pop Shop is gone and so on and so forth right they never suggest anything that actually helps but they suggest all the [ __ ]

that doesn't help that obviously didn't help so and then if you talk about it they Muzzle you like it's it's epic right it's epic so the mass slipped and now you get to see that Dynamic naked on its [ __ ] face so does that result in people waking the [ __ ] up and saying wait a minute there's a trajectory to this Dynamic and it's going to get worse and worse and worse and worse or you know and and then we wake up and we snap out of it we say I don't want to

be that anymore or do we just keep going down that rabbit hole and in 30 years from now maybe even five or 10 years from now I mean it happens quick everything just goes to [ __ ] and what do you think society's going to look like by the time that we have ai goggles all everywhere Ai and now you don't even need to go [ __ ] skiing you don't need to you don't need to go buy an icon pass get a hotel drive to the ski resort and do skiing for real you could

just put on the [ __ ] little goggles and go do the same [ __ ] then you can just put some [ __ ] catheter in your [ __ ] arm to just drip you some weird [ __ ] drug eventually AI comes out people start to merge with AI the I the AI becomes very intelligent do you notice how many of the conversations about AI are centered around what AI is going to do for us like what is your role in this sir look I run a business I can what do you think

happens to employees that are the fat during a recession cut they get cut even not in a recession if they're not adding value what happens to those employees okay so what is some little delusional tick tocker sub ho and and like the AI God you know not a real God but you know comes online and it's like oh I am here to serve this little Tik Tok minion yes your ex-boyfriend is a narcissist like this giant thing to just Pander you and tell you how great you are and feed you all your little [ __

] dreams and then the other question is would that even be good for you would that even be healthy for you where does growth come from struggle pain growth comes from struggle it comes from Pain and it comes from from doing cool [ __ ] look what I take off on average about 9 or 10 months a year and I go travel but by the way just because you don't work to make money because you have your money sorted out okay I got my money sorted out really well the past couple years well if you're

not working anymore is that the only way to have challenge what are other ways you could have challenge you could go ski every ski resort you could go hiking into every uh beautiful outdoor environment you could go make a challenge to go see most of the world there's so much cool stuff that you could go and do you don't have to just work at a job that's kind of rep repetitious there's so much cool stuff that you could do there's so many you you could build a charity you could go travel to third world countries

and help there's so many different things that you could do you could do free tours so there there's so many different things that you can do once your money is sorted out so is this even healthy is the trajectory of that Dynamic even helping now here's the next building block that I want to show you okay so because most people are not going to learn personal branding or internet marketing the average person is not going to go learn about AI well then because of that most people are not going to have upward Mobility they're just

not so if someone people are natural optimizers people are going to optimize for whatever situation they're in right so if people are natural optimizers if you don't have upward Mobility what are you going to optimize for pleasure pleasure to some extent but like I think the average person doesn't even know what pleasure is I would call it more like minimization of discomfort removal of boredom removal of having to sit with yourself and all your own personal drama and all that [ __ ] just removal of all that so that is what the average person is

optimizing for in general um basically it's just a cope it's like how can I feel as good as possible I remember a good buddy of mine who I used to live with in Hawaii I love this guy to death and we had all these different plans that we would make and we were we so first thing we did was we hiked almost all of Hawaii it was super crazy this was many years ago couple decades ago so we like hiked like almost all Hawaii it was crazy it was awesome went to Nepali Coast like we

did every island all through Maui Big Island aahu uh laai molai like smaller Islands you probably never heard of we hiked the crap out of it okay we went we went everywhere overnight camping it was super awesome right so we always had kind of a goal or a mission but what happened was at one point he finally said [ __ ] it I'm going to go work for Uber not uh as a driver but as a programmer a really high level programmer so he actually went back to San Francisco to work was a programmer and

what I noticed was he started doing a lot of drugs on the weekend why do you think he started just doing a lot of drugs on the weekend to the point that now he's just full-blown like kind of druggie to some extent I still love the guy he's so smart so my friend but why do you think you just started doing a lot of drugs on the weekend like job I think he actually even kind of likes his job somewhat working 90 hours a week no purpose um I would just say no purpose like if

the job is kind of predictable right so there's a limited degree of upside with that job well then on the week so you've got to optimize something so it's like okay well I've got 2 days off and I got like a twoe vacation a year maybe he that six weeks whatever it is right but there's a limited degree of upside so as a result of the limited degree of upside he's like okay well how am I going to do my weekend and look this guy's one of my best friends really smart hope he doesn't see

the video so um really smart guy so he says okay I'm gonna start doing little parties and get togethers I think that's cool right so he starts doing parties get togethers with his friends maybe hikes around Northern California a little bit but then it's like okay well we're doing a we're doing a dinner party how do we optimize the dinner party I don't know maybe we could get high maybe does a little bit of weed no big deal weed's not going to I don't smoke weed myself but it's not going to kill you right maybe

some drinks then it's like okay maybe a bit of mushrooms again mushroom has a lot of I don't do mushrooms myself a lot of people talk about a lot of upsides from that but then it's like okay maybe we'll do a little bit of Molly maybe we'll do a little bit of cocaine maybe we'll start doing mushrooms every [ __ ] weekend maybe we'll do cocaine every weekend and it I'm not sure exactly what drugs he digs it breaks my heart to even ask too many details but you could just tell it's too many and

you can see how it [ __ ] with his awarness well why did he do that because there's no reason not to what's like what would be the reason not to what would be the outcome of pleasure or fun or expansion if he just is a good little boy and stays in San Francisco and doesn't get High I mean think I mean can we use our imagination because I I don't really have anything I mean maybe you guys could think of something it's like the same thing but without the drugs yeah same thing but you're

not high and unless there's some big payoff I mean to be fair there's I mean again I don't I'm not encouraging this but you know as a thought experiment you might even argue that he's better doing what he's doing I mean hey at least he's going to have his kind of boring weekend in san friend on coke I mean you can't say it's not a party so he's optimizing for it right what happens however when you have unlimited upside because you're doing something that is true to your nature true to your purpose true to your

calling connection to God connection to Spirit and you have unlimited upside because you have maybe your own business or you're working within a business that's in Rapid growth maybe a younger company or you have a lot of influence you're not just like a male person what happens now whatever well now you have unlimited upside right so someone like me I mean this sounds ridiculous but like I take Jin sang that is $1,500 a bottle I want to try it now when you hear here's what's sad okay when you hear about this $1,500 bottle of ginang

you know what you you guys are thinking you're like damn that must be some good [ __ ] jinang no it's not here's why I say that guys it's harder to create than to destroy it's hard okay look if you're at an elite level right to get to like that next level that next like like to get from here to here that's like a certain amount of effort certain amount of effort but at a certain point when you're splitting [ __ ] hairs it's very hard to get to that next little bit so for me

like I will like I have mentors that I'll pay 30 grand 50 Grand I know you guys hear it sounds crazy and you're thinking to yourself like what does that 30 to 50 Grand get you I mean that Mentor must be amazing I'm like no they're not what they're okay when Tom Brady is throwing the football and he goes and gets a coach that he probably pays half a million bucks a year or two for that coach coach is that coach Taking Tom Brady you know 10% better 20% better what's he getting Tom Brady fraction

of a point of a point of a point of a point of a point of a point right it's what you're doing is you're playing a game at a different but you're playing a game at a whole different level but why is Tom going to do that what is the upside for Tom if he gets that little 0.1% what's his upside R well yeah he he's got seven rings right so he Lo he lost one ring okay Jazelle but I'm sure it's very hard being Tom Brady single I'm sure it's very hard I'm sure he

cries every day but um yep must be very hard to produce enough seen to keep up with the demand so um yeah but you know caus problem the kids obviously so look it's uh you know touchy subject but anyway Tom has unlimited upside so from his perspective because he has unlimited upside he's more likely to you know not eat the crappy food not drink I mean that guy won't even eat a [ __ ] tomato because he's afraid to has a bit of inflammation in it or things with oxalates or things like that okay so

that unlimited upside what it tends to do is it it gives you encouragement to look at how to drill down on every last little thing on every last little kind of micro nuance and to actually get it down like one of the big reasons why I think a lot of you in this room are probably struggling right now is you don't really believe there's an upside if you if you knew for a fact that there was an upside if you knew for sure and by the way I'm not guaranteeing you there is you're like are

you going to tell me I'm like no I'm not but if you did if you did know 100% that there was unlimited upside and then you knew what your life would look like and that you could build that then how tight would you be on everything okay and it wouldn't be hard to do you wouldn't struggle with it a lot of things that would seem hard are only hard because you don't see a point like my buddy yeah it might be hard to not do Molly on the weekend it's hard because there's no point okay

do Molly super high don't do Molly what does he get same it's just the same boring [ __ ] you just sit there [ __ ] bored now look my my major thing okay so look I speak to three different levels of motivation spiritual and higher self motivation contribution Legacy based dayto day and ego-based dumb [ __ ] okay because I think that is everyone is valid in its own way although I wouldn't encourage you to live in the ego- based dumb [ __ ] um here I'm speaking a bit more to day-to-day life and

your enjoyment that has validity okay I'll talk later about higher degree motivation but as far as just day-to-day life my biggest thing is I don't want my life to be like this blob where every day is the same that is my big thing okay so if I'm back in LA and I can see that the days are beginning to form a blob in my memory where every single day just feels the same again and again I don't like that anymore okay I'm like no I don't like this so by the way even if I've got

an incredibly attractive girlfriend or if I have an incredibly attractive different girls I'm seeing and my sex life is great I still am pissed off even if I'm living in a big fat mansion in the Hollywood Hills I still am pissed off even if I'm going to five star dinner and to cool parties I still am pissed off why is that based on what I said about the blob after a while ites noral because it's a blob it's it's it's not distinct memories yes you yes you're very attracted to your significant other yes you have

great sex but it's a blob in your brain there's nothing distinct about it so you so what I will do is that if I can tell that I'm just in this kind of weird blob I will very very very aggressively make sure that I break myself out of that no matter what Now by the way I'm a little bit different cuz I'm a bit older than a lot of you okay I remember I was doing these seminars back when I was like a kid do you guys know how weird it is for me to be

doing these seminars as like one of the older people in the room I started doing seminars when I was 22 I was always like hey guys I'm like 22 there's mystery you should really listen to him but I'm the little upstart right so so I come in a room as the older person now it feels weird but what happened to me was towards my later 30s when I'd gotten the Baseline I want I started to find it very repetitious you know I've got younger friends that they only want to do the sickest parties and just

date the hottest women in La some of my best friends and they're like bro like what do you mean you're going camping with your [ __ ] kids and I'm like no dude like look I've done that you understand like I've been there I've done that and I'll do it with you to an extent but like I've never been to this other place I want to do something different like I would like look I'm the kind of guy we like you know I'm not I'm not like a big porn guy but if I was going

to watch porn I'd want to watch the [ __ ] [ __ ] the Donkey okay like I don't need to see like another like hot couple doing like reg like like let's see the [ __ ] [ __ ] break out that donkey okay so kidding obviously for the clickbait but but what I'm saying is like I just just show me something [ __ ] different I don't want to just see the same [ __ ] again and again and again now by the way why is that because look my kids what I've noticed

is they want unlimited simulation why do kids want unlimited stimulation in certain ways there's a Good Side Bad Side of that but what would be the good side of learning they're learning right they want to see things they want to experience things because they want to learn so I think that the problem is when we get stuck in this Loop dayto day it really really really [ __ ] sucks because we're not learning anything where you know it's just this loop it's the same thing and the mind is craving simulation it's not because you can't

just be at ease with yourself although it could be that it's not just that you're not able to be present although it could be that there's like the unhealthy side of needing lot of simulation is that maybe you're traumatized and you're not comfortable with yourself and rather than running around doing stuff you should learn to sit with yourself the downside of needing a lot of simulation is that maybe you don't know how to meditate or you don't know how to be present that would be the downside of it right that's the bad version but what

is the good version of wanting variety there's a healthy version Le your mind wants to learn okay so if you guys watch my videos I'm 45 now go watch my videos at 35 and my mind if you just watch it it's just sharper better clearer at 45 than 35 it will be sharper better clearer at 55 I will look at these videos and go oh I was so stupid I was in a derp State at 45 is what I'll think unless I got injured or something you know you get a disease you get injured but

assuming that everything goes okay we'll see what happens right assuming the AI overlords hav overtaken everything and destroyed us so we're not on some permanent lockdown I have to kill myself so as far as like um the mind it's meant to be getting sharper and clear well why is that it gets sharper and clearer because you keep exposing it to New Challenges or new things and that is what is going to create real happiness when you think about human beings we migrated they think all the way from South Africa all the way up into Europe

all over the world We crave new challenge We crave new experiences but if you get put in this sort of modern-day slavery where all that you do is the same routine every day your mind isn't expanding and as a result of that that's why you wind up watching [ __ ] Tik Tok because why wouldn't you watch Tik Tok that's why you wind up taking drugs because why wouldn't you take drugs there's no reason not to take drugs there's no reason not to get drunk on the weekend there's no reason not to eat the fast

food when you guys look at the price of organic food compared to something like McDonald's I'm I've eaten at McDonald's a tiny handful of times when I'm on the road and every time I go in there I am shocked first of all by how good it smells alth but then if you leave it out it's garbage because as soon as it's not piping hot and the oils calm down it's garbage but second of all how cheap is I walk in there like you know my average meal in La is like $2 $300 you know for

me and my friends I walk in they're like $12 I'm like no no the for the whole the whole thing like how much is the whole meal like I'm thinking they just put like one thing like no it's $12 open 24 hours is 12 [ __ ] dollars it smells great although it's going to make you sick how are you going to say no to that it's the pimp ho Dynamic it's to temp tempting right things like drugs look the problem with taking drugs once you're used to even smoking weed who actually quits smoking weed

almost ever but why wouldn't you quit smoking weed because there's no point if you're just stuck in that same reality there's no point so this is the problem with this whole drugs and bad okay like that whole thing that they would do in the 80s where they would say that weed is going to kill you weed is not going to kill you no one's going to die from smoking weed weed is not going to kill you any more than she Cheetos is going to kill you you're not going to die if you eat a Cheeto

they got these kids you know so you're a kid they tell you weed's going to kill you you see your friend smokes weed and all that happens he gets laid so you're like wait a minute you're like why you're like weed's not going to kill you I've been lied to what they should tell you is no weed is not going to kill you weed is actually going to be a lot of fun that's the problem you're going to have a great night that's the problem the problem with weed is you're going to have a great

[ __ ] time for $10 sitting there doing [ __ ] nothing and then day goes by and the day goes by and the day goes by basically weed is the food it's like it's like the party version of the masses it's what a broke person does to have a good time but not just a broke person it's okay to be broke but it's a broke person who doesn't see the upside to being able to do anything else look if you want to smoke weed here's what I'd say go make four or five million dollar

travel the world build new hobbies go do new things have a fun life and then if you still want to smoke some weed after all that then I'll listen to you but if you're someone where you're using the weed to stay there in this kind of loop then I'm not going to listen to you so that's the difference between those two sides okay so from there we're now seeing what you call coping versus thriving now let's make the last piece on top of that what that is is learning tools that you can do to break

out of that Dynamic now I'm gonna say something a little bit weird this is like sometimes I say these sort of abstract things that will fly over people's heads and I say it for like that one person in the room that gets it but it's going to fly over most of your heads okay for most of you in this room part of why you're not able to let the tools land is because you're you're not either spiritually awaken enough or a [ __ ] psychopath so what you'll find is these tools will be adopted either

by a [ __ ] psycho or by somebody who's very spiritually elevated here's what I mean by that okay so somebody who's very spiritually awake is able to just calm down the mind and get out of the chaos of the mind and then what they're able to do is they're able to audit their situation accurately and they're able to say well what do I resonate with do I resonate with better in my life and then they're able to locate the tools quickly that will get them there and they don't resonate with gossip drugs alcohol processed

foods time- wasting media [ __ ] talk they don't resonate with that they just want to go do the good stuff they just want the fun stuff that's it okay they don't resonate with relationships that are filled with bickering they just want the fun stuff so somebody who's very awakened they're going to look at a bunch of [ __ ] and they're going to go ah I don't this is weird like I nah I I don't want to do this I just want to like make four or five million bucks I want to go into

nature I want to go explore with my friends I want to go see beautiful museums in big cities um I want to eat organic food or healthier food or whatever like I don't resonate with this [ __ ] here you know I want to make that kind of like life can be a heaven or hell not just in the afterlife but while you're alive and they want to have that heaven on Earth Heaven on Earth or Heaven and Hell it's not just the afterlife it starts right now it's a dimension that you live in right

now so somebody who's very awakened is able to see that quickly and they're able to adopt it quickly now the other weird thing is that weird people with cluster be personality disorders narcissists Psychopaths sociopaths people like that also often gravitate to tools like this because they are takers they are inherent takers they're not givers they're takers so they look at a situation and they say how can I just extract value out of this okay um people with NPD as an example are very good at looking at people and scanning them for what they can extract

from them or a psychopath or sociopath like they look at you and they'll see they'll they'll like they'll start actively looking at your insecurities at the buttons that they can push at the things that drive you at the [ __ ] lie of a self-image that you have a lot of people that are kind of psycho they actually like Psychopaths for example um often don't even have this very detailed self-image um they're often have kind of a flat self-image and they're just like looking to extract out of situations a bit like a shark it's a

shark like mentality and so if you show them something like internet marketing a psycho will look at that and go oh that is a tool that I can use to extract maximum value and they will immediately jump on it and they'll use it or they'll go build a CT or they'll go uh they'll go use social media tools or so on and so forth they'll do that because they understand that this is also why a lot of uh psychos are very Charming a lot of psychos are very uh have a lot of Charisma right now

notice what's going on here which is kind of crazy to think about this kind of like this is like a very very very deep Point why are there so many psychos who use things like social media or internet marketing or Charisma or Swagger or building a cult why do a lot of psychos do that they have nothing else to offer those are the tools because they're very good at auditing situations objectively and then just saying here's where I could extract the maximum value so you know a psycho is like a psych you know you're a

regular person they're going to see you and they're going to want to go say hi to you right and they're like well you know if I'm a regular guy I'm like what does he think of me will he like me will he judged me well I look stupid a regular person is thinking that they'll they'll say well I impose on on him you know will I make him feel bad and so on and so forth right so they have they're nervous that's actually healthy that's actually healthy a psycho doesn't have that kind of impulse control

so as a result of that they just see you and they just scan you for how your brain works they they they rapidly develop social calibration because they're not thinking about how they look and feeling embarrassed that they just rapidly audit you scan you see what you will add see what you will take and then they learn Charisma quickly cuz they're just like well I can get what I want if I learn Charisma so they rapidly learn Charisma then a lot of these [ __ ] go build a [ __ ] CT because look at

Apple right Steve Jobs was that a cold right you've got people lighting up outside the Apple Store cheering for him oh look it's a phone right okay Seth Goden calls that tribes you ever you ever heard the book tribes by Seth Goden okay in other words just building a tribe building a group building a following so a lot of psychos do that because they know it's a effective so what you'll find is there's two main groups of people that use the best tools it's either people that are very awake and they want to add value

and they want to do good things they want to create a heaven on Earth for themselves and for others and they just say I don't care about gossip I don't care about [ __ ] I don't care about complaining I don't care about coping I don't care about all this [ __ ] I just want to build a fun life and then you have psychos who achieve that same Clarity of vision but and here's the big thing but what a psycho usually has and this is sort of a weird thing is they always have one

fatal flaw one fatal flaw and that is a lack of discernment they they'll always [ __ ] it up somehow they'll always make that one key mistake like maybe they kill somebody or maybe they hurt somebody or maybe they you know maybe they steal right they always take it a little too far so what happens is that um the psycho basically is is almost like we'll say metaphorically metaphorically metaphorically that Satan comes in and says I will give you the power of a spiritually en liven person but I'm just going to tweak your discernment a

little bit and make you kind of evil and because of that you're going to have rapid rise success and then you're going to fall down super hard and it's going to [ __ ] you up so I have actually watched as even because they talk about people being psycho as like uh um you know you're probably bored with it or maybe you're you're bored you're traumatized like there's all these different reasons why they talk about I've studied this stuff but I have watched as regular people who are completely nice and regular turn dark I have

watched that up close and personal I've seen what it looks like it is really scary but you'll see someone who actually has empathy is a nice person is a sweet person and you'll suddenly see it's this weird thing where they suddenly raise in confidence like before they were kind of in the middle like they were sort of in the middle and and then all of a sudden boom they have way more confidence but they turn [ __ ] dark and you'll you'll actually see this happen so I think that it's not just a uh thing

that people are just born with I think it's actually a spiritual decision where you're kind of being offered what feels like this Clarity in your mind like it feels so clear what you're being offered and it's like you're finally confident you finally have Clarity you finally see what you have to do you finally see all those idiots that are not giving value to your life and you can see you would add value to your life and you can see um you can see the path that you need to take and you take it but you

have that but but it's it's like a false god it's a false light and as a result it [ __ ] up your your discernment and as a result of that you actually get taken down and you get taken down super hard super super super [ __ ] hard so in the Bible where it talks about things like giving or adding value what this does the again these are really really key pieces of this the reason why giving and adding value is so key in the Bible in my opinion is because that giving and that

expansion is what actually allows you to stay sane during your Ascension so what happens is it allows you to achieve that because here's here's why it happens okay this is very very subtle one of the biggest reasons why you feel anxiety and why you look at things like Tik Tok and all this [ __ ] is because you're too obsessed with yourself if you were only obsessed with adding value to others you would draw from a deeper well of motivation you would no longer have anxiety when you're talking to people or public speaking or doing

a personal brand or things like that You' have a lot more Charisma why because it's no longer about you so if I'm up here and I'm public speaking is this about me or is about y'all it's about you guys right so because of that I don't have a lot of anxiety when I'm public speaking now as soon as I'd be up here and I would start to think about myself you'd watch me go into contraction you'd see me lose power you'd see me go into my head you'd see my voice tighten up and and weirdly

even though I've done public speaking for years you'll actually see this happen I'm not perfect I promise you can you could tell if you watch so you'll see me go into this very expansive swaggy Charisma and that's when I'm just thinking of you and then you'll see me contract a little bit and that's when I'm thinking of how I look okay so if I'm just if I go to a bar club and I'm just wanting everyone there to have a lot of fun I've been have a lot of Swag I'm G have a lot of

fun it's going to be awesome that doesn't mean by the way just buying people free drinks that's not fun it looks like a beta meal looks like bribery okay but a real fun person who they actually want to meet who's cool so you want to be able to achieve this kind of clarity of mind and then once you've achieved this degree of clarity of mind all this other [ __ ] the Tik Tok the weed the booze the processed foods the gossip the trash the wasting time all this stuff where your time and energy and

focus goes to die and it gets depleted from you all of that you no longer resonate with it so understand for me I don't I'm not someone where you have to try to get me to not [ __ ] talk I'm not like waiting to [ __ ] talk I'm not waiting to go get drunk and suppressing it because in my brain I just want to have fun I want to do fun things so the way that I teach this this is what I recommend to a lot of people I recommend create a list in

your city of free things to go do that are [ __ ] fun that are really cool that are really fun make a bucket list and then just start knocking off that bucket list of free stuff as you do that that will start to give you a taste for actually winning Because unless you do things like that you're not even winning you're not getting a taste for winning right so in La you know I'll say to people like like a simple example I say this all the time all my videos I say look have you

ever been to SEO National Park have you ever been to Catal Island and I use that as an example for People based out of LA because you have a private island just off the coast of La that looks like San Francisco and Greece had a baby that you can get to for about $50 so you're saying you want to be a multi-millionaire and yet you can go to a private island now for $50 and you're not going but somehow you want to be a billionaire or millionaire you're lying it's just a way to disassociate from

your life or I'll say you know uh SEO national park has the biggest tree in the world it's called The General Sherman well you say you want to be a billionaire you say that you want to win the biggest tree in the [ __ ] world is basically the same amount of time to drive to as to drive from Hollywood to Santa Monica and rush hour that's a joke for the LA people if you're not from La you don't know what that joke means yeah it's a uh the rush hour in La is brutal right

so yeah Santa Monica to to Hollywood and rush hour is probably about an hour 45 but the point being is that if you just went in proper traffic in three hours you could be the biggest tree in the [ __ ] world it's stunning and I tell guys and I tell everybody go do that because that will give you a taste for winning and that will give you a taste for doing something fun so you don't want to sit there being pissed off and wasting your [ __ ] time and just time being sucked away

from you and energy being sucked away from you so once you have a taste for that and like little small things like that then you know do all that around your city that takes you about a year to two years well by the time that you start your business now you've got a little bit more money and now you can afford to Branch out a little bit maybe you do a $1,000 trip $2,000 trip then you keep making more money and you can kind of Branch out from where you're at right like it's all free

up close everything's free or very cheap doesn't require overnight accommodation then you Branch out a bit maybe you could do some camping cheap Branch out a bit Branch out a bit Branch out a bit go see the local national parks around your around your area go do all that stuff right here in Austin you guys have a lot of great local stuff in your city you're also only a couple hours drive away from one of the most beautiful caves in the entire world anyone know what it is you guys are literally a short drive away

from the mo from probably a top five cave in the world right here it's called Carl's Bad Cavern okay it's a short it's you could drive in a day and the hotels there are like $45 a night because it's so it's so uh nothing going on out there right and you're and it's near Guadalupe as well okay which is a national park so um you guys could go see that you can go see Big Bend you could go see uh you could go atving I bet you the atving out here around Austin is sick um

I would start doing stuff like that start to Branch out you guys are not that far from Louisiana you can go to New Orleans go see the French Quarter I'll be doing that this week okay so you know you're not you're not that far away from uh Houston or Dallas go see some other stuff local cities you guys know Houston has an entire Museum District go see all local museums go actually educate yourself and see things that are local that are actually fun start to live your [ __ ] life what if you got killed

in two years from now and you didn't get to go do all this stuff right start getting in the habit of living your [ __ ] life it's not just about money and stacking savings it's also about living your [ __ ] life now you guys here in Austin what do you guys have locally for going out what of the best scenes in the country I mean even dirty 6 which is such a [ __ ] show is so fun like come on what is more fun than the [ __ ] hole that is dirty

6 I mean if you've got a place in your city with the word dirty in front of it like you know you have to be there so right I heard that rainy is not as good anymore I heard that it's there's been construction is that true yeah they tore down all of rainy almost all man I feel like one of these old men is like back in the day rainy street but that I can't believe they tore down rainy so I guess West 6 is really good now is that the best East 6 oh East

okay East 6 Okay so so man that changed quick cuz I was here a year ago rainy was popping that sucks but look you got dirty 6 right which is like a National Monument of debauchery right people talk about Marty gr you literally have Marty gr every [ __ ] weekend at your house here okay yeah I mean that's part of the fun you know it's like the grizzly bear when you go hiking it's like someone could shoot you on dirty 6 I don't I'm not afraid I'm out there all the time I'll be out

there tonight so yeah so you guys have a lot of fun stuff you could go do so now from there then what you do is you start to lock in on actual tools that will help you so then okay so now you're seeing it okay you don't need to be a psycho to realize that Charisma is going to help you okay because do you realize that that the average person that has a lot of Charisma is a [ __ ] psycho like if you're hiring and someone you and someone has Charisma you would do well

to not hire that person of course most people with Charisma will be the ones that get hired but as the owner like as soon as I meet someone I've never met and they got a lot of Swag I'm like what kind of head is this because they've optimized for something that is low effort but High Roi that's why see me I'm smart like that right I want that marketer that I'm going to hire that's a [ __ ] nerd that has no Swagger and looks angry looks kind of pissed off you know why cuz that

that swaggy marketer he just banging hoose on the weekend probably smoking weed I don't want that guy okay I want the marketer who just is like hates his life hates himself hates bemon his existence and believes that after the next marketing campaign then he'll be happy right he'll be happy when he'll be happy at some point in the future so he's going to work damn hard on that thing but look here's the deal I'm smart like that but 99% of employers are not smart like that they're like oh this guy's Charisma he must be really

know what he's talking about but most people Charisma don't know what they're talking about because the time that the expert would have spent studying is the time the person with Charisma spent just building swag you realize like it's like they say pimp It Ain't Easy having SW swag is a full-time job y'all okay so if someone has that much swag like if I was a woman and a guy swag I'd be get the [ __ ] out of here like how do you have this much swag how do you have the time for this much

swag how many women did you practice the Swagger on Sir okay I'd be looking for the least charismatic guy possible that has a [ __ ] job can pay for these little shits okay I'm going to have a little alien growing out of my stomach someone's got to pay for that okay his little swag ain't going to pay for that [ __ ] but you know just means he going to cheat on you but most people don't know that right most women will choose the guy with swag most employers will choose the person with swag

most people watching on social media will choose the person with swag because they're entertaining listen to they're fun to listen to It's like this moving morphing flame you know human beings we watch a fire and we watch the fire it's moving and it's morphing then we watch TV because it's moving and morphing what am I doing up here with my communication to engage you moving changing moving morphing changing the stimulus engaging you right so I have learned that I can either be a coal miner or an Uber driver and those people work man I'm not

a hard worker you ever heard the expression work harder work smarter not harder I'm not a hard worker I don't work hard hard work is brutal you see the people working here they're s they're sitting up at the front like welcome to them welcome to the hotel welcome to the hotel welcome to the hotel sometimes I will sit there and meditate and stare at people working jobs like that and contemplate their existence cuz we view them somewhat as NPCs right you know you walk in like the 7-Eleven you're like hey you know you see some

like low self-esteem guy he's like here like you know do you want to get cash back here's your thing you know and you say see later you forget the guy exists sometimes I'll just sit in the 7-Eleven I'll just look at him this is I'm going to say something so [ __ ] like this like my [ __ ] up thing of the week I'm going to say okay but we've all been thinking it I think is there a part of you and this is so bad this is terrible but a small part of you

where you see someone that works at a job like that and you wonder if they even exist yeah you're like yeah God wouldn't be so cruel as to condemn someone to to live this life right is it possible that this is a real NPC has anyone here ever had that thought be honest that's my controversial remember I said at the start of this if if they would get celebrities say a controversial thought I don't think they're NPCs at all I understand the downward spiral that people go through to land at that point I get it

okay that's why I get scared when I see it but the point is is that it's so hard to watch it's so depressing when you see it that your brain almost goes there and says I don't know maybe it's maybe it's like we're like in in like a video game like open world game and like that's not real right cuz it looks like you know how in an open world game you just like you go to the little village and like the guy's just sitting there they just say the same [ __ ] it looks

like that it looks like that so you're and then you think of like some countries with mass poverty where like a whole continent or bit large parts of a continent is in deep poverty and you just can't believe it look I was so uh struggling to believe that this is real that I went to Africa I went to South America I drove around South America around Africa I drove almost all of Mexico just to go see what the world actually looks like and to make it real and I hung out there I would go into

Shanty towns where there's kids with machine guns and just hang out there I've been in villages in Africa with like a 90 plus% HIV rate and just hung out there because I wanted to see it and I wanted to make it real in my mind and I because I couldn't believe it I was like this can't be the world this is crazy but what you don't realize is that it's a it's a it's a spectrum and someone in Mass poverty might be over here someone thriving is over here but you're not as over here as

you think you know you're still in your NPC life to an extent as well right there's a NPC type Continuum that's going on so in order to break out of that you've got to be looking at tools and saying to yourself okay well what are the tools that will actually break me out of this okay what are the areas that will actually break me out of this and and you've got to want out and and you've got to say [ __ ] this [ __ ] just say the word [ __ ] this [ __

] yeah see you guys aren't serious you can hear it in your voice [ __ ] this okay okay do you see why you're not going to get out say [ __ ] this [ __ ] this okay now go into your pain on it say [ __ ] this [ __ ] this okay that okay and even crazier one last time do it [ __ ] excellent come have a SE guys so what I what I'm getting at here is that your [ __ ] this has to increase look my [ __ ] this

is high like my [ __ ] this is very High I am like [ __ ] this [ __ ] and look I can stand on that because back in the day when I didn't understand social skills and dating I was like [ __ ] this and I just went out and went out and went out and went out and went out scraping and pushing for little 1% increases in my understanding so when I said [ __ ] this I was not joking okay I am deadly serious about it okay when you meet someone who

only works 2 3 months a year that doesn't happen on accident guys okay that is me saying no I'm not I I'm like no no no I am not going to sit here working all the time I want to only work a small amount of the year and I want to break out of this and do you think that I got that just by having so much cash I don't have to work or do you there was a huge amount of strategy behind it strategy now when I implemented that strategy was that like it was

all smooth and my staff liked it and my girlfriend was thrilled and my family was thrilled and everyone around me was just so happy that Owen doesn't want to work anymore was was I highly supported in that strategy no my staff perpetually was pissed off look I've got staff here that were here today that [ __ ] hate me because I only work that much my girlfriend dumped my ass because I was always struggling to figure out how to pull this [ __ ] off a lot of my clients are pissed because I'm not just

pumping out the content that they want everybody got mad when you say [ __ ] this and you say no no no I am not just going to [ __ ] be the little peon for all of you so that you can have your perfect wedding and so that my staff can just have endless raises for the rest of your life so I'm working and so that my students can have endless free tours and endless videos [ __ ] all them even though I love them and they support me so I'm not trying to be

mean but you have a right to exist as well you also have a right to exist so when you do this it's going to be hard okay like when I said no no no I'm not just going to be a peon and just have an average dating life I'm going to go out like crazy and I'm going to learn how to do that you think that made people happy no it it it is internally threatening to people when they see you saying you know this Dynamic that you're okay with I'm not and I want better

for my life and I want to show other people how to have better for their life people will get pissed off because when I build this it was not easy for example I had to learn to run the on less work which meant that I would I'd go to a trip and then the money would start running out and I start going broke and then I'd have then I had to run back to LA and I'd have to figure out how to it's like spinning a bicycle tire and you'd have to make the bicycle tire

Spin and you're kind of on the road and you're looking at the tire like it's still spinning okay it's spinning by spinning I mean the money's still going right yeah and you're like you know and then you're like I think it's not oh wait wait no it's spinning you know and you're like oh [ __ ] it's stoping [ __ ] you know you got run back home and I did that for a couple years and it was super [ __ ] scary because you know I because when I built my business I built it

sort of as a codependent where I needed so we call it a business but I'm needed at every little corner so you've got to start unwiring where you're actually needed and saying no I don't want to be needed I want to be replaceable so so what happens is you try to make it where the tire is spinning and you put a system in place and you're like okay is that thing that I replace that I normally do is it working is it working they they seem pretty good oh [ __ ] they [ __ ]

up [ __ ] and by [ __ ] what I mean is that you have fixed expenses and you go into negative and look I had it where I went I went uh so negative at certain points that I'd be like half a million or a million behind and then you have then you start having a self-esteem crisis and you start to look [ __ ] in the head and you start acting [ __ ] in the head and then people leave you you lose your girlfriend you lose your staff you lose friends you lose

fans right but I chose that like because I'm looking at this [ __ ] bicycle tire and I'm like man like I don't just want to stay here no no okay so when I say [ __ ] no [ __ ] this like I was I show that I'm not kidding okay like I am not [ __ ] kidding when I say I don't want to work all year I don't just want to work there's already been a [ __ ] lock down we don't know if they're just going to not lock everyone down again

they're already flirting with [ __ ] Putin like some weird flirtation with [ __ ] Putin and could nuke the whole [ __ ] country and hopefully that's resolved by the time this video comes out but you know what's even happening now we don't know that the world's even going to be here in 5 years so I don't want to just sit here like a [ __ ] just working all the time I want to go have fun okay I want to have fun and so I'll say this I they my editors will clip videos

of me where I say I just want to have fun now on the surface When I Say I Just Want to Have Fun what does that sound like in the negative if someone doesn't hear the context of what I'm saying LAX Daisy doesn't laxi daal what else drugs drugs Hedonism no social responsibility so on and so forth right no guys actually saying I Just Want to Have Fun is a commitment to appreciating the life that God gave you amen okay thank you thank you thank you thanks yeah because you're alive you're [ __ ] alive

like you have a life that God gave you and so what happens is we procrastinate living life it's always next year next year next year next year so you know the example that I always talk about is I would go run these big events in Vegas every uh summer right it's called the world Summit I did that for many years really fun anyone ever go to world Summit yeah they're super fun right so I'd go every summer to Vegas and I'm sitting there and I'm like oh this year I'm going to go to the Grand

Canyon for sure I mean it's just the grand I mean first of all the Grand Canyon is [ __ ] incredible but it's also kind of like a cliche thing to go see right it's like every like kid and their parents RV go to the Grand Canyon and the thing is is that even though it's kind of a clich thing who here in this room's ever been a Grand Canyon okay that's probably the highest of any hands I'd ever see up but so that's pretty good but still not enough right so I'm like okay every

year I say I'm going to go to the Grand Canyon and it would just never happen I just never go and I'm and I'm looking I'm like how did I hit 40 years old and I still haven't been to the [ __ ] Grand Canyon and it's a short drive or or very inexpensive helicopter flight like 180 Buck helicopter flight to just pop over the Grand Canyon but I but it's always later later later later later later later later so what I realized this is how I broke out of it was I said you know

what I'm going to do I'm just going to plan trips with no idea how I'm going to pay for this I mean I don't recommend you guys do this but I was like I don't know how I'm going to pay for this and I'm literally just going to I'm I'm going to be willing to run about 50 to 100K behind on expenses for the business before I run home and assume that within about 5 days I can make up the money so I would go on the trip I would wait until the money ran down

and then I would and then and we'd be super behind and then I'd run home like drive drive drive drive home and I'd be like we are going to figure out the next five days how to come up with 100 Grand and every single time I did it now here's what's funny if I wouldn't have done that if I wouldn't have taken the trip and I didn't have the 5 days would I ever ever have figured out a way to come up with money that quickly so it was all but now it was scary my

friends hated it girlfriend hat IT staff hat it everybody was mad at me and I get it I would be mad at me too so I'm not mad at them but what happened to me was I just hit 40 and I'm like when is when do I get to live and now by the way that's coming from a standard that my life before 40 was amazing so if I'm saying that what does that say about your life not to be mean but um okay so but not doing the things that I wanted to do so

then I started training myself on that I'll tell you one last kind of funny one about it um I always would say that I would go to Winter nature Expeditions and every year I'd have an excuse not to do winter nature Expeditions I grew up in Canada so I'm like I got to go to Nature winter I used to really like it again I wouldn't recommend this for you guys but another thing that I did was I spent about 30 grand a winter clothes now that sounds like a lot but you'd be surprised how Brands

like Canada Goose and mclair can eat up your budget so I basic bought about 30 Grand in winter clothes and so now people would come into my closet in the basement and they go oh you must do a lot of like winter sports huh like you're like a winter Adventurer and I'm like no I haven't been out a winner in nature in like decades um but I did that to force myself to make sure that I go out a nature winter and since then I've skied every major ski almost in all of uh America I

have also uh been to almost every National Park in Winter I've been to all the cool winter spots I spent a huge amount of time out in Montana Wyoming Utah in winter so I actually went and did it so do you notice what I'm doing here is I am forcing my [ __ ] brain out of the [ __ ] autopilot now someone in that kind of psychology do I have time to smoke weed or Tik Tok or or gossip or [ __ ] talk or to have a relationship with somebody who's complaining and crying

and whining a lot or things like that it's like zero Time Zero time but the what I did was I found a better vision and with that better Vision it allowed me to drill down and figure out what it was that I wanted and so what happens is I don't have to resist uh those bad habits I don't I'm not like oh I have to resist I got to stay off the Tik Tok because I have things that I like that I want to go do so what i' recommend to every one of you in

here is have a very very clear vision of what it is that you want to actually go do and that will allow you to boundary off all the [ __ ] that you wouldn't want to do now from there and this will actually be the last piece is I really really really believe that every single person should learn in this generation should either learn Ai and that's going to be about one or two of you in this room because most of us are not computer programmers but if you're not going to do AI are you

you do AI I want to get okay so our future Overlord is sitting right here so get ready to put in your mouth from this man so um but other than AI uh what I'd say is you have ai and you have personal branding so like I always keep saying you have millions of dollars if not billions in in untapped infrastructure right in your phone and here's what people don't get if you have been studying my stuff for a number of years who in here has been studying my stuff put your hand up if you

known about my stuff and been studying it for over a year put your hands up okay awesome so if that's you and you've studied my stuff for a while then guess what you already know how to build a personal brand because what is more scary to go out in the middle of [ __ ] Street and go talk to people and socialize or to talk into a [ __ ] phone I think the phone's a little weirder because you're talking an inanimate object but that you get past that in about a week or two but

it is way harder to go talk to someone in real life then to do that right so um if you have all if you've already been going out working on social skills what are some changes that you've had to make you've had to have intergame shifts you've had to have self-esteem based shifts you've had to have um you know getting through your fear getting through fear of judgment fear of not getting approval um getting out of your head getting centered using your voice having some swag you've already done the work so you're basically about two

to three years ahead of the game of anybody who would be talking into a camera starting from scratch you're several years ahead of the game now let's think about combining that with things like internet marketing internet marketing same idea right learning how to do sales properly look if you're me there there's a lot of little [ __ ] conspiracy theories about why I do what I do everyone sees someone like me who's in the state of action and they've always got their little [ __ ] conspiracy about why I do what I do what's the

reason that Owen does this why does Owen do free tours why does Owen still teach this why does Owen go out what does Owen do this for and so on and so forth okay a lot of interesting theories on why I do that never just asking me but but a lot of little theories on it okay if I were to quit this business today walked out of here let's just say I said [ __ ] y'all and I just literally just said [ __ ] this [ __ ] and I just walked out the [

__ ] door and I never did another social skills trading again with my abilities in front of a crowd in communication could I pick a different Niche that would be more lucrative than Hawking a couple trainings of course yes okay do you think that I might even have some other business outside of this okay so the skills that you have here if I'm teaching this why do I teach it because I [ __ ] love it and it's a calling I love it but in addition to that you don't have to be teaching social skills

to be able to benefit from having these skills you can apply them to other things uh my buddy Sid um he does mergers and Acquisitions and by age 25 uh you guys know Sid yeah okay so Sid had achieved Financial Freedom by about age 25 so he no longer has to work and he was doing what's called m&a merged Acquisitions and he's on a trajectory to make so much cash it's ridiculous if any of you guys know Sid he's just razor sharp incredibly smart very disciplined and what happened was um he came and just started

helping me out he just started helping me out a little bit and he said Owen would you mind if I just came and helped you for free for a couple years and he and I said why do you want to do that Sid you're on a trajectory with your merged Acquisitions you're going to be like a [ __ ] billionaire by the time you're 35 like why would you come help me he said Owen if I took three years to work with you I will make 10 times the money if I just took a little

detour and then I just went back into mergers and Acquisitions but with the new skills that I have Sid went and did that now he's back in mergers and Acquisitions although Sid did just take six months to go skydiving um you want to know something hilarious too I do skiing and I broke my leg and I was in a wheelchair Sid fell skydiving a little bit and he broke his leg he's in a wheelchair right now but his his almost fixed so both all these rich guys running around their little Hobbies breaking their legs but

telling you that your hobbies suck maybe we should just smoke weed and watch Tik Tok but anyway so um yeah hell of an experience though doing what I do in a wheelchair so I was doing seminars wheelchair par wheelchair really fun dating left in a wheelchair it was great my favorite thing to do would be if I had a girl over and I was still in the wheelchair was I'd go if they're like on top of me I'd say ow you hit my [ __ ] leg they go oh my God baby I'm sorry go

no I'm just kidding like I did like I did that a lot it was very fun so anyways one of my favorite hobbies but um yeah because everyone's so paranoid around you they're so like afraid to like offend you as a you know it's like you could be out in public people like bump in you you're like ow ow right like in the like oh my God I'm so sorry I'm just kidding so um anyway I'm a prankster so yeah nothing's worth more money than I think just a Great Prank so what I'm getting at

is that um you know Sid went and did that because he could use those skills for other things so things like Charis what I recommend to everybody is a combination of massive social trading which then you can also use for dating and eventually have kids somebody um massive massive massive understanding of social media massive understanding of internet marketing and if you just put those together and then you do a huge focus on spiritual work to where because the problem is if you don't have spiritual grounding life gets too good and you'll ruin it okay like

I can't tell you how many people I've had in my life where we're just traveling around enjoying life but like no matter what we do they're just mad you know it's like we're eating at a at a at a $1,500 dinner and they're just mad about the waiter we're at a $5,000 a day ski resort you know for all the the Airbnb that we're saying and everything and they're mad about the guy at the lift because you can take someone out of the trailer park you can't take the trailer park out of the person in

some cases so what winds up happening is is they self-sabotage so in my view the the only two ways that you're going to really be successful is if you're either a [ __ ] highly transactional psycho you're like I'm not wasting time being mad at the guy I'm not being mad at the waiter I'm a psycho being mad at the waiter won't yield anything so psychos seem to get this or to be a more spiritual person who just wants a happy life and a spread positivity so what however you do it that's up to you

but like I said the cycle always has that one fatal flaw so Elevate yourself spiritually and internally whether that for you whether that means means God whether that means just being in the zone whatever you want to call that for you could mean purpose could mean True North principles but if you get down those main areas and then the other one is nutrition just like I've haven't been sick in 13 years just having your nutrition dialed so something like you know something comes up you don't have to be so afraid and so on and so

forth and so that you can just feel energetic you don't want to because you're going to get older right you know you don't want to be in your mid-40s 50s 60s and have low energy so if you just have that stuff down the end result is internally you're very very grounded you feel good uh because you're spiritual you feel good you're grounded you're tapped in or or you became a psycho if that's your thing um then from there um on top of that feeling really good you have great nutrition and look in my view anyone

who studies spirituality they'll tell you you need to have your temple ready to handle that level of vibration like you you prepare the temple with really great nutrition so that way as you bring that energy in your body just is like yes like it it's it it's like a match okay um from there amazing Charisma amazing social skills which means that you're going to have a ridiculous dating life but in addition to a ridiculous dating life or a great partner eventually um what you're also going to have is the ability to get in front of

a camera and to talk into a camera and to make money from the [ __ ] camera so now you now you're making money right out of the camera you're not getting sick or you're rarely getting sick you got a lot of energy you're feeling good tapped in spiritual now you're able to make a lot of cash because you understand internet marketing so you've done a big focus on internet marketing you understand sales and how to close sales and then from there what you do um is now you can build kind of like a thing

on the internet you can you can create you can do personal branding and now what you're doing is you're traveling to different cities and if you're a single guy or a single girl you're traveling different cities what are you doing you're meeting new people right you're creating little parties meeting new people you could go live in some random country and living in that random country you could build a Social Circle right there have a new dating life right there maybe meet the person that you'd have kids with doing that having fun traveling around seeing the

world and then as you escalate in your Finance now you can also afford to have kids and then you can bring the kids with you the way that you see me doing with my kids so you're happy you're using tools Feeling Good Feeling vitality and then whatever else you want to do you can do and let me tell you another thing a lot of the best things in life are free you know look we could have a lot of fun if we just went over to Zilker Park with the [ __ ] tennis ball you

know what I'm saying right [ __ ] frisbee you have a great time you know a a $200 bike a $75 bike you just biking around zil or Park you know you're like man like why' I make all this money like this is [ __ ] awesome you know right like like there's a lot of [ __ ] you could do for free you can go out to the go out to the bar club and just go chat everybody do that for free there's a lot of things that you could do for free nature stuff

we got an incredible National Park system camping all that's free so you can also go do free stuff but here's the thing it's also one of these things where when you're living your life properly you're going to have the capacity to enjoy that more there's a greater capacity to enjoy those things so do you see what I'm trying to show you here is I I'm trying to show you this sort of line I I I started the talk basically talking about coping versus thriving and I'm trying to show you this direction or this path that

I'm trying to take you on where I'm trying to get you from being a derper low dopamine not tapped in and basically just like where can I get some weed where can I get some dopamine where can I Doom scroll I hate my job I can't even get a girlfriend I'm fapping all day I'm getting sick all the time now they're locking me down and so on and so forth right I'm trying to get you from there and I'm trying to get you to the point where you have some self-respect and some thriving and if

you want to know my selfish reason for this I think any father any father wants to see a better life for their kids right now for all of us are our children going to have more ability to have free expression or less ability have free expression in 20 years from now on the trajectory is going right like do you ever remember just joking around your buddies and like saying something kind of [ __ ] up that you didn't mean like you said something [ __ ] up you didn't mean and it was a joke and

then everyone just laughed because that was the point of the joke the point of the joke was you said something [ __ ] up that you didn't mean because that's what made it funny I say all sorts of [ __ ] I don't mean because I think it's funny and the whole point of that thing is that you could take something that's tense or bad and put a little bit of of positivity around it by laughing at it right you got you can't take yourself too seriously you you can't take life too seriously I mean

you've got to take life seriously but you've also got to not take it seriously it's got to be a mix are our kids with the direction that things are going likely to have more freedom or less freedom in 20 30 years from now Les so what's currently what we're seeing happening is that um the more soft and compliant and consumer culture that people get the more likely they are to willfully and that's what's scary is willfully request to be a pay Pig metaphorically to be the metaphorical pay to enter into the subd dynamic to enter

into the pimpo dynamic they will ask to be oppressed they will ask for it and so in my view the major lynchpin of our ability to even have a free Society is going to be personal growth okay and because you can fight it politically to an extent but ultimately if the average person hates their [ __ ] life and then Big Daddy pimp comes in and says we'll fix everything we'll stop the mean people from saying the things that you don't want to hear and you know we'll give you the free money and all this

right if they just keep doing that right we'll lock you down because you like to be locked down you know all that kind of stuff because you're low self-esteem right it's like that will keep happening and it'll and it's not going to go away and that's where we're going to be so for me like let me be very very clear about this if all that I cared about was just me and just myself and not my kids I would not be in this room right now recording these videos okay my primary purpose for being here

is to be to record a video to be honest with you but it wouldn't be here recording video videos I would not be doing this um I would I would be literally just having fun and saying [ __ ] it and I'm going to be honest with you you may see me completely quit this [ __ ] even to like don't be surprised if I don't show up tomorrow and he even Jeff runs it like I could I'm that close to saying [ __ ] y'all I'm that close because if I don't if I don't

see a window if I don't see a lane that I can get this goddamn job done if I don't see a [ __ ] lanee I'm out okay so I am only in this because I think that I can have impact that's it I'm only in this because I think I can have impact if I don't think that I can impact the situation like if I detect that we're just [ __ ] and we're just going to let this happen then my next steps would be to start buying islands and just having places where my

kids can tell a [ __ ] joke without being persecuted so you know where my kids can live their [ __ ] life without being [ __ ] persecuted okay CU I believe in my spiritual beliefs the key the foundation of getting to heaven or afterlife is freedom because if our choice is stripped away from us we are not empowered to make the right choice that's why God allows for evil to exist because good only has meaning when you have agency so we have to have agency I believe that the people that are trying to

block Freedom are trying to block people from going to heaven that's my actual belief and I don't want my kids to to be separated from me in the afterlife that's my actual belief so my only purpose being here why I'm doing what I'm doing is I believe that they're trying to shut down Freedom including Free Speech because they want people to go to hell they want people to go to hell that's my personal opinion I I've not seen this in person although I have walked down into downtown LA um but you know but I've not

seen it in person but I'm just that everything I've told you here I'm intend to be objective this is more subjective I believe that the reason why freedom is being stripped is it's a satanic plot to just drag Souls into [ __ ] hell and when I walk down the street and I see that like [ __ ] like light in the eye extinguished look that a lot of people have I don't that's not a joke to me I mean I'll laugh at it because I can laugh at anything like I've got like Gallow humor

I can laugh at [ __ ] anything because I'm kind of an idiot but in but like as much as I can laugh at anything if I was being honest no that's not a joke like when I see that guy at 7-Eleven who's just spaced out like that's not a [ __ ] joke to me like it is a joke cuz I can imitate it and I could like it's kind of like a dualistic Outlook right like we we have to laugh at everything so I'll imitate him and you know laugh and make him laugh

and it'll be kind of funny like that's fine it's a joke in a way but if if we kind of move out of that sort of deliberate choice to make it funny because we have to make things funny we got to make things funny right but if we're being honest like that's not a joke like that guy's had his soul sucked out of his [ __ ] body how's that funny and then you just go and you're like hey man uh yeah give me give me my [ __ ] stickers bar this like soulless zombie

like yeah this is okay and remember that we're in a democracy that guy gets to vote and you know who he's voting for so you know so so the thing is like that guy has a vote that guy can vote to lock you down so okay so you're it's just when you allow this problem to just linger there like that and it just lingers then there's a momentum and a trajectory to where it's going it's you're [ __ ] right you're going to live in a society that's [ __ ] you're going to be living

in a third world [ __ ] society before you know it it will get [ __ ] now we don't know where things are going to land and I really hope it doesn't land there but the truth is you can make an argument that a large part of the country is like that now so basically you have two choices you could either do some thing that I never would recommend which some [ __ ] up thing where you just forcibly make everyone Step Up Now by the way while I would never ever ever recommend that

would that be any more [ __ ] up than forcibly locking everyone down think about this they impo they impose tyranny if you're going to impose tyranny why impose tyranny to let a bunch of [ __ ] derp get locked down why not make the Derp take vitamin D and zinc now I'm not saying to impose tyrany I will never say to impose tyy but if you're gonna why does it always go to the derper the plation of the derper but I'm not saying to do that rather what I'm saying is that it's a war

of culture and that's F what you need to understand is you're already in a war War that's what you're not understanding you're already in a war okay your grandparents they fought against Hitler in Germany maybe you're German right and the thing is you're in a war now and it's a war of culture and so every single day of your life you're making a choice for what for what you're voting for with through your behavior and through your decisions and if you allow yourself to be [ __ ] spaced out then you are basically voting for

what what you're basically doing is you're just telling these [ __ ] that they're right you're telling these [ __ ] that they're right you're saying yeah I am a [ __ ] [ __ ] now by the way where do I get some of these outlooks that I'm sharing I get here's where I get it from I get it because I am an internet marketer and I know what they say about you I am around Rich billionaires and I know what they say about you I know what they think of you okay imagine the

people I've coached imagine that right there was a point where I was the top dating coach in the world so where did the most rich people go to if they wanted help oneon-one imagine the people I've met and God to know imagine what I've seen but I'm also in the top internet marketing circles do you want to know about how internet marketers the most successful internet marketers in the world talk about you guys like cattle and the problem is you're not doing a lot to prove them wrong true I'm like they're not cattle then I'm

like [ __ ] come on guys come on like you're like you're you're just you're just giving them ammunition man right when you roll up that weed and you just burn those brain cells down you're just giving them ammunition to believe what they're doing is correct so don't give them [ __ ] ammunition don't okay there's people who hate you do you understand they hate you they hate your family they view you as cockroaches they view you as a cockroach infestation in the pantry what do you think they want to do once ai's around and

robots do you think they're going to turn you into superhero no half more they want many Androids do you need all these people so what do you what do you what are you doing when you act like that right so it's it's it's an issue of culture but the thing is when you have a culture that is in the pay mindset that wants to be locked down that is low self-esteem that wants to consume garbage that wants to live a [ __ ] life that wants to be enslaved well then when you have when when

you have that kind of low self-esteem then the result of that the trajectory and the momentum of that is inevitable so what you have now okay is you have evil and good rising in parallel so good is rising and evil is rising at the same time so you have the AI coming but you also have the internet rooms like this don't exist without the internet Internet it's also why they try to regulate it so what you have is good is rising at the same time it's rising in parallel so in other words the stakes are

going up and what you're going to see is the world is either going to be in a way better place in the future or it's just going to be gone and the problem is there could even be an argument that these [ __ ] that run [ __ ] it's like well maybe we and this is where I think the low s steam kicks and people go well maybe we do need less people maybe we do but what you don't realize if you were to meet the people that run [ __ ] who have self-elected

that they get to stay these are the last people that you would want to see runting [ __ ] the last people but let me be clear I am not glorifying the derper either this is not the great der like the real man's the derper man okay it's a pimple relationship the Pimp's [ __ ] up the hoes [ __ ] up so where you're looking to do here is you're looking to ride What's called the narrow road say narrow road narrow show me that you care do you care narrow Ro okay so it's a

narrow road which is that you're not just trying to uh you know create garbage to get paid and be transactional to get paid you remember I said that a lot of time it's the psychos that figure out what makes the money that's why a lot of psychos run the world so don't be on the side of the psychos don't be on the side of the derper you want to find that narrow road between the two where you're adding value to society and you're bringing God's light into society VI your behaviors via what you're building but

you're also building something beautiful for yourself too and being some self-sacrificial person who just hates their life and and everything's miserable that's not good either because if you're miserable you're not resonating with love or positivity so if you're happy and expanding and things are going good now you're resonating with love and positivity you have a good life then you can help lead other to have a good life right so for example if I come up here and I say to you guys I hate my life my life sucks my life's not fun and you should

just work and work and work to make money is that in any way a role model for you guys so I have to live my life in a way where you can see that and want to replicate it but not but your own version not my version but your version and then now you want to do that so that's what I'm trying to get you at here is that when you build your life it is something fun when you make your life fun and your life's awesome and you're also adding value and you're also awake

and you're also not feeding the [ __ ] up slave Dynamic and you're actually conscious and you become conscious by the challenges that it takes to achieve that because you become conscious by challenging yourself and staying present through those challenges then what happens is now you can change the world so that's the really really big message that I want to lead into this weekend with is that by taking certain actions you can change yourself and when you can change yourself you can contribute to changing the world and get us from A coping type of sub

cult into a thriving reality heaven or hell is not just the afterlife Heaven or Hell starts today Heaven or Hell starts right now so that's my intro to what we're going to be going into this weekend you guys excited thank you thank you very much