4 Ways to outsmart women who play games with your heart

today we talk about how to act smart women who play games now if you clicked on this video it's obvious that you've experienced this before or maybe you're currently going through it you're into someone things seem to be going well and then suddenly you're caught in this Whirlwind of mixed signals and mind games it's frustrating it's confusing it can leave you to questioning everything but don't worry cuz today I'm going to show you how to outsmart these games and find true love if you're ready let's get into it Jessica OS here welcome to the channel

so you're on a date with someone you've been interested in for a while the conversation is Flowing the chemistry is undeniable and you think to yourself this could really mean something but then out of nowhere they start pulling back the texts become sparse the enthusiasm Fades you're left wondering what went wrong and maybe this sounds familiar but it's a classic example of relationship G games the push and pull the hot and cold it's like a roller coaster you didn't sign up for but why do people especially women play these kinds of games let's break it

down so women might play games for a variety of reasons sometimes it's about testing your interest in commitment other times it's about it's kind of like a defense mechanism to protect themselves from getting hurt and yes occasionally it's just plain old manipulation but here's the thing you don't have to play along the key to outsmarting these games isn't about out manipulating the other person it's about understanding the game and changing the rules now before I show you how to do this let's try to First dig a Little Deeper to understand why women play Such games

in the first place why do women do it because they can most of us just want to test a man's commitment to see if he's genuinely interested in something longterm by observing a man's responses to certain situations we can gauge their level of interest and investment in the relationship some women do it to protect themselves from potential hurt or rejection maintaining that sense of control over the relationship helps them feel less vulnerable yet still others do it because they probably have had bad experiences in the past and they're protecting their heart there's also still a

good number who send mixed signals if they're unsure about their feelings or the direction of the relationship a lot of women are un aware that when they do this they actually create uncertainty and confusion about her true feelings and intentions if they meet a man who has a short fuse they could lose him entirely because it's simply emotionally draining and he's not up for it men hate that feeling that they're being controlled or manipulated so armed with this knowledge let's delve into understanding the games women play and how we can change these rules step one

recognize the signs you'll not be able to beat them at their game if you can't recognize game playing when you see it if someone is giving you mixed signals pulling away without explanation or constantly testing your reactions chances are they're playing a game let me elaborate on that so let's talk about mix signals right one day they're all over you texting calling nonstop and the next day it's radio silence this push and pull Dynamic is designed to keep you on your toes making you crave their attention more it creates an emotional roller coaster that keeps

you hooked there's also the pulling away without explanation I mean you're having a great time everything seems perfect and suddenly they start to distance themselves no explanation no reason just a change in Behavior this will of course make you feel insecure and desperate for their approval then there's the constantly testing your reactions they might bring up past relationships flirt with other people in front of you or even create scenarios to see how you react this is a way for women to gauge your level of interest and commitment and to see how much control they have

over you now recognizing these signs is crucial it allows you to see the game for what it is and once you see it you can choose not to play along instead stay grounded don't let their behavior dictate your emotions that's how you win step number two do not take the bait stay calm don't let their actions dictate your emot emotions responding with your own games will only fuel the cycle let's dive deeper into this so you've recognized the signs the mix signals the pulling back the constant testing the next step is really important don't take

the bait when someone is playing games they're looking for a reaction they want to see if they can control your emotions and your actions but here's the thing reacting impulsively will only give them that power that they're looking for think of your emotions as the ocean when you stay calm and steady you're like a peaceful sea no matter how much they try to stir the waters you remain Serene but if you let their actions dictate your emotions you become like a stormy sea turbulent unpredictable and that is exactly what they're looking for when they send

mixed signals or pull away take a moment to breathe and collect yourself instead don't immediately react this doesn't mean you ignore them or pretend you don't care it means you respond thoughtfully from a place of calmness and confidence for instance if they suddenly pull back and you feel the urge to Chase or confront them resist the impulse instead give them space continue living your life focus on your own activities and happiness this not only shows that you're not easily manipulated but also that you value yourself and won't tolerate inconsistency and here's a crucial tip don't

retaliate with your own games it might be tempting to give them a taste of their own medicine but this only perpetuates that cycle of manipulation true strength and confidence come from rising above the games and not engaging in them remember staying calm and composed in the face of these games not only protects your emotional well-being but also sets that standard for how you expect to be treated in the relationship you're showing that you're serious about finding genuine gamefree connections step number three make sure that you're communicating concisely so when you find yourself puzzled by someone's

actions the best approach is to address it head-on instead of making assumptions or reacting impulsively you want to take that moment to have a candid conversation sit them down for purposes of this discussion let's assume that your partner has been giving you mixed signals and it's just driving you up the wall now instead of stewing in confusion or retaliating invite them to have an honest discussion start with something like hey I have noticed some changes in your behavior recently and it's left me a bit confused can we talk about what's going on now here's why

something like this would work first it shows that you're mature and willing to address issues directly this can be very disarming and can shift the dynamic from one of playing games to one of mutual respect second it opens the door for your partner to explain their actions which might be based on misunderstandings or insecurities rather than intentional manipulation when you communicate openly be sure to listen as much as you speak pay attention to what they're saying try to understand their perspective Sometimes women act out because they don't feel heard or understood so by giving them

that safe space to express themselves you're Paving the way for that deeper connection remember stay calm stay composed during these conversations the goal is to gain Clarity and strengthen your relationship not to accuse or to blame approach the conversation with an open mind and a willingness to find a resolution together and finally step four set boundaries boundaries are important in any relationship they Define the behaviors that are acceptable and what are not protecting your emotional well-being and ensuring mutual respect and understanding when someone plays games it's a sign that boundaries may be lacking or unclear

so you want to start by identifying your own limits what behaviors make you feel disrespected or uncomfortable write them down if you have to this could include things like consistent mix signals um disrespectful communication or emotional manipulation now once knowing your boundaries make sure you're talking to her about them communicate them clearly you might say something like look I need consistency and communication to feel secure in this relationship or I won't tolerate being manipulated at ated or tested constantly be firm but respectful in expressing your needs enforcing boundaries is just as important as setting them

if your partner continues to behave in a way that violates your boundaries it's crucial to address it immediately remind them of your conversation and the agreed upon standards if the behavior persists it's a sign that maybe she's not ready to respect you or the relationship enough to change remember setting boundaries isn't about controlling the other person it's about protecting yourself healthy boundaries create a safe space for both of you to thrive if despite your efforts she continues to be erratic and manipulative it's time to walk away and I know walking away can be tough but

staying in a toxic situation is even tougher so there we have it outsmarting relationship games is not necessarily about beating someone at their own game it's about refusing to engage in the game altogether don't settle for anything less than you deserve if you're in a relationship where you feel undervalued disrespected unloved listen it's time to re-evaluate your position you deserve to be with someone who cherishes you for who you are without the need for games remember the right person for you will love you unconditionally without requiring you to play games or pretend to be someone

that you're not they'll embrace your flaws and celebrate your strengths when you find the right person you won't have to outsmart Rel relationship games because there will be no games to play listen if you found this video helpful don't forget to hit that button subscribe for more candid relationship advice and leave a comment below sharing your own experiences with relationship games I'd love to hear them let's support each other in finding true love until next time stay strong and stay true to yourself Jessica OS here bye for now