If Someone Says THIS Phrase, They’re A Narcissist Trying To TRAP YOU! | C.S Lewis 2025

Many of us have felt the sting of words that seem harmless at first but leave us questioning our worth, our choices, or even our God-given purpose. Narcissistic behavior, especially in the form of manipulation, often comes disguised in phrases that sound innocent but are designed to snuff out the light God has placed in you. It's like a cold wind extinguishing a candle's flame, a deliberate attempt to rob you of the warmth and clarity God has given you to walk boldly in His truth.

A narcissist's goal is control—subtle, insidious control that keeps you in a cycle of confusion and self-doubt. They use words not to build, but to bind, crafting phrases that echo like chains in your soul. But let me tell you this: God did not create you to live under manipulation, fear, or control.

He created you for freedom. Jesus Himself said in John 8:32, "Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free. " This is the foundation of our discussion today: the unshakable truth that God desires your freedom, your clarity, and your confidence in Him.

Imagine standing in a fog, unsure of where to go, when suddenly a beam of light cuts through the haze, guiding your way. That's what the truth of God's Word does for us; it reveals the schemes of the enemy and empowers us to walk in discernment. Narcissistic manipulation is like that fog, designed to keep you trapped in a false reality.

But the Word of God slices through it like a sword, bringing clarity and freedom. Today, we will shine a light on the phrases that reveal a narcissist's attempts to trap you. These phrases are not just words; they are tools meant to undermine the truth of who you are in Christ.

But don't be discouraged; with God's wisdom, you can recognize these traps, step out of the fog, and stand firm in the identity He has given you. This is not the end of your story; it's the beginning of your victory. If this resonates with you, drop "I choose freedom in God's love" in the comments and declare your victory over manipulation and falsehood.

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Let's dive into the truth that sets you free now. Take a close look at how manipulation works, especially through the subtle power of words. Narcissists are masters of turning phrases into traps—snares designed to create confusion, self-doubt, and dependency.

Have you ever heard someone say, "You're just too sensitive," or "You wouldn't manage without me? " At first, these words may seem small, even insignificant, but over time, they begin to chip away at your confidence, leaving you questioning your worth and abilities. The Bible warns us of this destructive power: Proverbs 18:21 says, "The tongue has the power of life and death.

" Words can either build someone up or tear them down, offering life or spreading destruction. Narcissists understand this truth all too well; they wield words like weapons—not to encourage, but to control. Their phrases are carefully crafted to erode your sense of self, isolating you from the freedom and clarity God desires for you.

Let's break down some of these common phrases. When a narcissist says, "You're too sensitive," what they're really doing is invalidating your feelings. It's a way of saying your emotions are wrong, exaggerated, or even burdensome.

Over time, you may begin to second-guess your reactions, wondering if you truly are too sensitive. But let me remind you: God created your emotions as part of your design. Your sensitivity is not a flaw; it's often a strength that reflects His compassionate heart.

Another classic phrase is "You would manage without me. " On the surface, it may sound like care or concern, but underneath, it's a tool of control. These words are meant to make you feel incapable, as if your success and survival depend entirely on the narcissist's presence.

But that's a lie; your strength comes from God alone. As Psalm 46:1 declares, "God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. " No human being has the right to claim power over your ability to thrive because your sustenance and support come from the Lord.

C. S. Lewis once wrote, "A man can't be always defending the truth; there must be a time to feed on it.

" This wisdom is so relevant here. To recognize manipulation and defend against it, you first need to ground yourself in truth. Feeding on God's Word equips you with the clarity to discern between the life-giving truth and the death-dealing lies.

Without this clarity, it's easy to fall into the trap of believing these phrases, letting them define your reality. Let's consider an example: imagine a woman who has always dreamed of starting her own business. She shares her vision with her partner, but instead of encouragement, she hears, "You wouldn't make it without my help; you're too naive to handle something like that.

" At first, she might dismiss it as a moment of negativity, but over time, the words take root. She starts to believe them, shelving her dream and staying dependent on someone who seeks control rather than mutual growth. But God calls us to a different life—a life of confidence in Him and the gifts He has placed within us.

When someone speaks words of doubt and discouragement, we must return to the promises of Scripture. Isaiah 40:29 encourages us: "He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. " It's not about proving the narcissist wrong; it's about living in the truth of who God says you are.

It's important to recognize that these phrases aren't always obvious. Sometimes they come cloaked in concern or care, but the underlying intention is to plant seeds of doubt. This is why we need God's wisdom and discernment as believers.

We're not left to navigate this alone; the Holy Spirit equips us to distinguish truth from lies. Through prayer and time in God's Word, He sharpens our spiritual ears to hear the difference between. What brings life and what brings death?

Remember this: God has not called you to live under the shadow of manipulation or control. You are not meant to carry the weight of someone else's insecurities or lies. Instead, He has called you to freedom.

His Spirit empowers you with strength, love, and clarity of mind, enabling you to live confidently and with self-discipline. This is your inheritance as a child of God: power, love, and clarity. So when you hear phrases designed to trap you, take a moment to pause and reflect.

Test those words against God's truth. Are they bringing life or sowing doubt? If they're meant to control or confuse, recognize them for what they are: a trap.

But take heart; you don't have to fall for it. With God's help, you can break free from the fog of manipulation and walk boldly in His truth. Your identity is secure in Him, and no one has the power to take that away.

Let's move forward in the confidence that God equips us to see through the lies and live in His freedom. But why do narcissists seek control? What drives someone to manipulate and ensnare others in webs of doubt and dependency?

At its root, this behavior is born out of insecurity. The narcissist's need for control often stems from their own internal fears, weaknesses, and emptiness. They try to fill the void by dominating others, but this control isn't just harmful; it's suffocating.

It's like a tangled vine that wraps itself around a tree, choking its growth and stealing its vitality. C. S.

Lewis, in "The Screwtape Letters," sheds light on this dynamic. In the book, a senior demon mentors a junior one, explaining how evil seeks to distort and diminish. One chilling line says, "To get the man's soul and give him nothing in return, that is what really gladdens Our Father's heart.

" Similarly, the narcissist's tactics reduce others to shadows of their true selves. By constantly asserting dominance, they strip away confidence, joy, and identity. This behavior isn't just human weakness; it mirrors the enemy's desire to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10).

But here's the good news: God's plan for you is radically different. He has not called you to live under the oppression of fear or manipulation. As 2 Timothy 1:7 declares, "For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.

" These three gifts—power, love, and self-control—are the antidotes to the lies of a narcissist. Power reminds you that your strength comes from God, not from human approval. Love grounds you in His unshakable affection, and self-control equips you to set boundaries and walk in freedom.

Let's return to the tangled vine. Imagine a tree bound tightly by a vine that twists around its trunk and branches. The vine represents the control of a narcissist, restricting the tree's growth and stealing its life.

But when the vine is cut away, the tree begins to breathe again. Its roots deepen, its branches stretch toward the sky, and its leaves flourish in the sunlight. That's what God intends for you.

He desires your life to be one of flourishing, not suffocation. The Bible speaks often about growth and fruitfulness. John 15:5 says, "I am the vine; you are the branches.

If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me, you can do nothing. " Notice the contrast here: when we're connected to Christ, the True Vine, we thrive. But when we're entangled in the controlling vines of manipulation, we wither.

This is why it's so important to recognize the roots of control and turn back to God's truth. One way to break free from the suffocating dynamics of narcissistic relationships is to understand the insecurities that drive them. A narcissist may feel unworthy, fearful of rejection, or desperate for affirmation, but instead of addressing these insecurities healthfully, they project them outward, using control to mask their inner turmoil.

They thrive on creating dependence because it reassures them of their significance. However, no amount of external control can heal an internal void; that's a job only God can do. When we understand this, we can approach these relationships with both wisdom and compassion.

While we are called to love others, we are not called to be ensnared by their brokenness. There's a fine line between helping someone and allowing their insecurities to entangle us. Boundaries, guided by the Holy Spirit, are essential.

Think of Jesus as our example. He was full of compassion for the broken and lost, yet He never allowed Himself to be manipulated. When the Pharisees attempted to trap Him with their words, He responded with wisdom and clarity rooted in His identity as the Son of God.

In the same way, we must remain grounded in who we are in Christ, refusing to let the insecurities of others define or control us. So how do we flourish as God intends? First, we immerse ourselves in His word.

The more we know His truth, the easier it becomes to recognize the lies of control. Second, we pray for discernment; the Holy Spirit equips us to see beyond the surface, understanding the motives and intentions of others. Finally, we trust in God's power to set us free.

As Isaiah 61:1 proclaims, "He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners. " I want you to hear this clearly: you were not created to live in fear, under domination, or as a shadow of your true self. God's Spirit within you is stronger than any manipulative force.

You are a child of the Most High, called to grow, thrive, and bear fruit in abundance. Let Him cut away the tangled vines of control and insecurity, and watch as He brings new life to your soul. Take heart in this truth: the God who began a good work in you will carry it to completion (Philippians 1:6).

He is faithful, and He is your source of strength. You don't have to remain tangled in the vines of manipulation. Trust Him to free you and step boldly into the life of flourishing He has prepared for you as you step into this freedom.

You may wonder why your independence feels like such a threat to a narcissist. The answer is clear: independence, the freedom to think, act, and grow without being tethered to their control, exposes the limits of their power. To someone who thrives on dominance, your ability to stand on your own is not just inconvenient; it's terrifying.

Independence reveals that their manipulations aren't indispensable, and their influence over you is neither total nor absolute. Therefore, they will do everything in their power to undermine your growth, keeping you bound to them instead of flourishing in the freedom God has for you. C.

S. Lewis, in *Mere Christianity*, offers this insight into the hearts of those who crave control: "How monotonously alike all the great tyrants and conquerors have been; how gloriously different are the saints. " A narcissist's worst fear is to see you living fully, thriving in the purpose God has given you, because it contradicts their need to be at the center of your world.

Instead of celebrating your growth, they feel threatened by it. Instead of encouraging your independence, they subtly sabotage it. This dynamic reminds me of the fable of the eagle and the wren.

The wren, too weak to fly high on its own, cleverly rides on the eagle's back, boasting of how far it has gone without putting in the effort itself. This metaphor paints a vivid picture of the competition in toxic relationships. Narcissists may appear supportive on the surface, but their goal is often to ride on your strength while ensuring you never fly higher than they do.

In their minds, your independence challenges their superiority, so they try to clip your wings before you soar too far. You may notice their attempts to undermine you in subtle ways—backhanded compliments that disguise criticism or moments when they withhold support when you need it most. For example, if you share a personal victory, they might respond with, "Well, I wouldn't have done it that way, but good for you, I guess," or when you step out to pursue something new, they might plant seeds of doubt: "Are you sure you can handle that?

It seems like a lot for someone like you. " These aren't random comments; they're calculated moves to keep you questioning yourself and tethered to their influence. But here's the truth: your worth and identity are rooted in Christ, not in anyone's approval or validation.

Narcissists may attempt to weaken your confidence, but their schemes pale in comparison to the strength you have in God. As Romans 12:10 teaches: "Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.

" This is the hallmark of healthy relationships—encouraging one another, lifting each other up, and celebrating each other's successes without envy or control. Contrast this with the narcissist mindset: while healthy love seeks to empower, narcissistic manipulation seeks to dominate. This is not of God, for His design is one of mutual respect, not one-sided control.

In Christ, you are called to pursue your God-given purpose boldly, unencumbered by the need to appease others who fear your independence. Let me tell you something: independence is not rebellion; it's not selfishness. Independence, when rooted in Christ, is an act of worship.

It's recognizing that you are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14) and that God has equipped you to live a life of purpose. Pursuing independence doesn't mean you reject relationships or accountability; it means you refuse to let fear or manipulation dictate your path. Think of Moses leading the Israelites out of Egypt.

Pharaoh didn't fear the Israelites as slaves; he feared their independence. He knew that once they were free, they would no longer serve his purposes. Similarly, the narcissist's fear is not rooted in love but in the knowledge that your freedom diminishes their control.

But just as God parted the Red Sea for the Israelites, He will make a way for you to walk in freedom if you trust Him. To pursue independence in a healthy, God-honoring way, you must first recognize the lies of the narcissist and replace them with God's truth. When they say, "You can't manage without me," remember Philippians 4:13: "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.

" When they try to make you feel unworthy, stand firm in your identity as a child of God. I urge you to rise above their attempts to diminish you. Don't let their insecurities become the anchor that holds you down.

Instead, let your life be rooted in Christ, who empowers you to grow and flourish. The Lord has not called you to live in fear of someone else's approval or control; He has called you to walk boldly in the plans He has for you—plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11). Take heart and be encouraged: your independence is a gift from God, a reflection of His Spirit within you.

As you step into the freedom He provides, know that He goes before you, preparing the way. You don't need to fear the loss of human approval when you have the unshakable love and approval of your heavenly Father. Stand firm, and let the truth of who you are in Christ be the wings that lift you higher than any attempt to keep you grounded.

You were made to soar. So, as you soar in your identity, keep in mind that boundaries are not barriers of rebellion; they are walls of dignity and gates of wisdom. They are the lines that protect your heart, safeguard your purpose, and honor the identity God has given you.

However, to the manipulative, especially narcissists, boundaries are seen as obstacles to their control. They push, test, and persist, seeking to breach the defenses you establish. But let me remind you of something powerful: God not only calls us to set boundaries, but He equips us to guard our hearts with strength and discernment.

The Bible warns us in Proverbs 4:23: "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. " Your heart is the wellspring of your life, a sacred place where God's truth resides and where His plans take root. When we fail to set boundaries, we allow others to trample on that sacred ground, leaving us vulnerable to manipulation.

And control—this is not God's design for His children. He desires that we walk in freedom, confidence, and unwavering trust in His protection. Consider the story of Samson and Delilah in Judges 16.

Samson, a man anointed by God with extraordinary strength, was gradually worn down by Delilah's persistence. Day after day, she pressed him to reveal the secret of his strength, and though Samson resisted initially, he eventually yielded to her relentless demands. What happened next?

His boundaries were breached, and he was left powerless, betrayed, and bound. Samson's story serves as a cautionary tale. When we fail to guard our hearts and maintain our boundaries, we risk losing the strength and purpose God has given us.

Narcissists, much like Delilah, often persist in their attempts to erode your boundaries. They may not outright demand that you surrender your defenses, but they subtly manipulate and test your resolve. They might say things like, "If you really cared about me, you wouldn't keep secrets," or "Why do you always have to make things so difficult?

" These phrases are designed to make you feel guilty for protecting yourself, to make you second-guess the boundaries you've set. But let me tell you this: boundaries are not acts of selfishness; they are acts of obedience to God. They reflect the understanding that your worth and dignity come from Him, not from the approval of others.

When you set boundaries, you are declaring, "I am fearfully and wonderfully made, and I will not allow anyone to diminish the value God has placed in me. " Practically speaking, setting boundaries starts with clarity—knowing who you are in Christ and understanding what you will and will not allow in your relationships. It's about discerning between healthy accountability and manipulative control.

It might mean saying no when someone demands more of your time than you can give. It might mean walking away from conversations that leave you feeling drained and diminished. It might even mean ending relationships that consistently violate your God-given dignity.

Some may argue that boundaries are unkind or unloving, but this couldn't be further from the truth. Healthy boundaries are a reflection of love—love for God, love for yourself, and love for others. By setting limits, you're not only protecting yourself, but you're also creating space for others to grow and take responsibility for their actions.

As Paul writes in Galatians 6:5, "Each one should carry their own load. " Boundaries teach others to respect you and to take ownership of their own behavior. If you're wondering where to begin with setting boundaries, here are some helpful steps to guide you.

Start by seeking God's wisdom; prayer is key. Ask Him for discernment and insight into where boundaries need to be drawn in your life. Remember, God promises in James 1:5 that He will generously give wisdom to those who seek it.

Next, communicate clearly. Boundaries are most effective when they are expressed openly; don’t just assume. Be honest, direct, and kind when you need to set limits.

For instance, if someone repeatedly crosses a line, let them know, "I value our relationship, but I need to let you know that this behavior is not acceptable to me. " Finally, stand firm in love. Once you've established a boundary, be prepared for resistance, particularly from those who may have benefited from your lack of boundaries.

But stand firm—not in anger, but in love. Ephesians 4:15 encourages us to "speak the truth in love. " Let your firmness come from a place of grace, knowing that by honoring God's will for healthy relationships, you are upholding His truth.

Beloved, God did not create you to live at the mercy of others' demands. He created you to walk in freedom, to guard your heart, and to flourish in the purpose He has for you. Setting boundaries is not about shutting people out; it's about protecting what God has placed within you so that you can love others from a place of strength, not fear.

Let me uplift you today: do not be afraid to set boundaries. You are not alone in this journey; God is with you, guiding you, strengthening you, and reminding you of your worth. Just as Nehemiah stood on the wall, refusing to come down while rebuilding Jerusalem, so you must stand firm in guarding the walls of your heart.

The enemy may try to distract, deceive, or discourage you, but God's strength will sustain you. Stand strong and know that in Christ, you are empowered to live a life of truth, dignity, and unwavering faith. In this journey, fear is one of the most powerful chains that keeps people bound in unhealthy, controlling relationships.

For the narcissist, fear is their weapon of choice, a tool they use to create dependence, compliance, and confusion. They manipulate with veiled threats, guilt, and emotional intimidation, planting seeds of doubt in your heart. But here is the truth, my friend: fear is not from God.

Fear is the voice of the enemy seeking to drown out the freedom and love that God has promised us in Christ. Today, I want to remind you that God's love is far greater than any fear the enemy tries to place in your path. The Bible tells us in 1 John 4:18, "There is no fear in love, but perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment.

The one who fears is not made perfect in love. " Did you catch that? Perfect love—not our own love, but God's perfect and unchanging love—casts out fear.

Fear thrives in darkness, in uncertainty, and in lies, but God's love is like sunlight, shining into every shadowed corner and exposing the truth. Narcissists often use fear to distort that truth. They might say things like, "You'll never find anyone who loves you like I do," or "If you leave, you'll regret it.

" These phrases are designed to instill insecurity and create an illusion of dependence, but these are lies, pure and simple. Fear is a tyrannical tool, as C. S.

Lewis observed: "Of all tyrannies, a tyranny sincerely exercised for the good of its victims may be the most oppressive. " When we give in to fear, we allow it to shape our reality and dictate our actions. But God calls us to a higher truth.

He calls us to trust in His perfect love, which liberates us from fear's grip. Let me share an analogy with you: imagine a prisoner sitting in a dark cell, convinced the door is locked. They sit in fear, never attempting to open the door because they believe freedom is out of reach.

But then, a ray of sunlight breaks through the cracks, revealing that the door was never locked; it only required faith and action to push it open. This is how fear operates in our lives: it keeps us trapped in the illusion of hopelessness and helplessness, but God's love reveals the truth—the door to freedom has been open all along. Faith in God's love gives us the courage to step out of that cell.

When fear whispers that you're not strong enough, God's Word reminds you: "The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life; of whom shall I be afraid? " (Psalm 27:1).

When fear says you're alone, God declares, "I will never leave you nor forsake you" (Hebrews 13:5). These promises are not just words; they are the unshakeable truth of God's character and His commitment to you. Breaking free from fear starts with recognizing its source.

Fear is not from God, and any voice that uses fear to control or diminish you is not speaking God's truth. Whether it's the manipulative voice of a narcissist or the accusatory whispers of the enemy, you have the authority in Christ to reject those lies. The next step is to replace fear with trust—trust in God's love, trust in His plans for your life, and trust in His ability to guide you through even the darkest valleys.

Psalm 23:4 assures you, "Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. " Faith is the key to breaking free. Faith is not the absence of fear but the choice to move forward despite it, knowing that God walks beside you.

It's the courage to take the first step toward freedom, even when the path ahead seems uncertain. And as you step out in faith, you will begin to experience the fullness of God's love—a love that does not control or demand but uplifts, strengthens, and sets you free. Friend, if fear has kept you trapped in a toxic relationship, hear this today: God has not called you to live in bondage; He has called you to live in the freedom of His truth and the abundance of His love.

You are not alone, and you are not powerless. The chains of fear may feel strong, but they are no match for the power of God's love. So take that first step—push open the door, walk into the sunlight of God's grace and truth.

The enemy may try to tell you that you're not enough, but God says you are His beloved child, chosen and redeemed. Trust in His perfect love and let it drive out every fear, because in Him, you are already free. When we take the courageous step to walk away from toxic relationships ruled by manipulation and fear, we step into the freedom to embrace something far greater: healthy, Christ-centered relationships.

These relationships are a gift from God, designed to reflect His love, foster growth, and bring us closer to Him. While narcissistic dynamics seek to control and diminish, Godly relationships are like fertile soil, providing the nourishment we need to flourish in His purpose. The Apostle Paul paints a vivid picture of what true love looks like in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, saying, "Love is patient, love is kind.

It does not envy; it does not boast; it is not proud. It does not dishonor others; it is not self-seeking; it is not easily angered; it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.

It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. " This passage serves as both a guide and a mirror, showing us the nature of love that reflects God's heart. True love, the kind of love we are called to give and receive, is not about control or dominance; it's about humility, selflessness, and mutual respect.

Contrast this with the dynamics of a narcissistic relationship. In such situations, love is conditional, kindness is a tool of manipulation, and patience is absent, replaced by frustration and blame. These relationships are like barren soil, unable to sustain the growth God intends for your life.

They stifle your joy, erode your confidence, and pull you away from your God-given identity. But let me remind you of this truth: you were not created to live in barren soil; you were made to thrive in relationships that reflect the richness of God's love. C.

S. Lewis offers profound insight into the nature of true love, writing, "Love is not affectionate feeling but a steady wish for the loved person's ultimate good as far as it can be obtained. " True love is not fleeting or self-serving; it is sacrificial and committed to the well-being of the other person.

In a Christ-centered relationship, this love seeks to honor God above all else, fostering an environment where both individuals can grow in faith, purpose, and joy. It is a love that rejoices in the truth and stands firm in hope. Picture a garden where two plants are growing side by side.

In a toxic relationship, one plant overshadows the other, taking all the sunlight, nutrients, and water for itself. The weaker plant struggles to grow, its leaves yellowing and its roots barely holding on. But in a healthy relationship, the soil is rich, the sunlight abundant, and the gardener attentive.

Both plants thrive, their roots intertwining—not to compete, but to strengthen one another. This is the kind of relationship God desires for us: one where mutual support, encouragement, and love create an environment for flourishing. Healthy relationships don't demand perfection, but they are marked by grace.

They celebrate strengths, uplift in weakness, and motivate each other toward God's best. They reflect the humility of Christ, who loved us so much that He laid down His life for us—not to control us, but to set us free. Himself said in John 15:13, "Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one's life for one's friends.

" This sacrificial love is the foundation of relationships that glorify God. Friend, let me speak life into your heart today: seek relationships that reflect this love. Look for relationships where kindness flows freely, where truth is spoken in love, and where both people inspire one another to grow in faith and purpose.

Healthy relationships are not about what you can get but about how you can serve and uplift one another. These are the relationships that align with God's will—relationships that nurture your soul and draw you closer to Him. If you find yourself doubting whether such relationships exist, let me assure you they do.

They may not always come easily, and they may require patience, discernment, and prayer. But God is faithful, and He desires for you to experience His love through the people He places in your life. Ask Him to guide you, to lead you into relationships that reflect His heart and truth, and remember you are never alone in this journey.

The greatest relationship you will ever have is your relationship with Christ, the One who loves you perfectly and unconditionally. He is your refuge, your strength, and your source of all love. Trust in Him as you navigate the relationships in your life, and let His love guide you into the richness of His blessings.

Seek the fertile soil of godly love and watch as your life begins to bloom in ways you never imagined. As we bring this journey to a close, let us reflect on the truths we have uncovered together. Recognizing manipulation is the first step toward freedom.

The subtle yet powerful phrases narcissists use are designed to instill fear, erode self-worth, and tether us to unhealthy dynamics. But we are not called to live in fear; we are called to walk in the truth of God's word. As it says in Psalm 119:45, "I will walk about in freedom, for I have sought out your precepts.

" This freedom begins with trusting God, setting firm boundaries, and stepping into relationships that honor His design for love and mutual respect. We must ask ourselves: Are there areas in our lives where fear, guilt, or control have taken root? If the answer is yes, I urge you to bring those areas before God in prayer.

He is our refuge and strength, the One who liberates us from chains we were never meant to bear. As you reflect, don't forget that boundaries are not barriers to love but acts of self-respect that honor the dignity God has placed within you. Healthy relationships mirror His love, fostering growth, encouragement, and peace.

Hebrews 10:24 exhorts us, "Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds. " Let us seek relationships that uplift, inspire, and glorify God, leaving behind the shadows of manipulation for the light of His truth. God desires for you to thrive, not merely survive.

Trust in Him, for His plans are to prosper you, to give you hope and a future filled with His boundless love. Beloved brothers and sisters, as we close, I invite you to join me in a fervent prayer. Let's seek God's wisdom, healing, and strength to walk in His truth and embrace the freedom He desires for us.

No matter the struggles you face, know that God hears you and wants to set you free. Let's lift our hearts to Him, trusting in His perfect love and guidance. Heavenly Father, we come before You today, hearts open and souls longing for Your truth.

You are our refuge, our strength, and the One who leads us into freedom. Lord, we thank You for revealing the traps of manipulation and control, for showing us that Your love is not rooted in fear but empowered love and self-discipline. Father, we ask for Your wisdom to recognize when words or actions are meant to harm and control us.

Help us discern truth from lies and remind us that we are fearfully and wonderfully made in Your image. When others try to diminish our light, may Your Spirit remind us of the dignity and worth You have placed within us. Lord, we pray for courage—courage to set boundaries that reflect Your will, courage to walk away from what is not of You, and courage to embrace the relationships that mirror Your unconditional love.

Just as Christ laid down His life for us, teach us to seek love that uplifts and nurtures, not tears down or binds us in fear. Father, we release any fear, guilt, or shame that may be holding us back. We surrender them to You, knowing that in Your perfect love there is no room for fear.

Surround us with Your light, Lord, and dispel every shadow of manipulation and control. We pray for healing, for restoration of hearts that have been wounded, and for renewal of minds that have been clouded by doubt. Help us walk in freedom, confident in the truth of Your word.

As we move forward, Lord, may Your Spirit guide us into healthy, Christ-centered relationships that honor You. Let our lives reflect Your glory, and let us shine Your love into a world that desperately needs it. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray.

Amen. If this message has spoken to your heart, I encourage you to like, subscribe, and share it with someone who may be facing manipulation or toxic behavior. Thank you for being part of this journey.

May God grant you discernment, wisdom, and the strength to stand firm in His truth.