Ep 27: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli

[Music] n n n hello everyone and welcome back to my channel it's your host arlet and we are here with another episode of pop the balloon or F love and we've got some beautiful Single Ladies line uh Make Some Noise ladies yes so we're going to be bringing out some single men they're going to come around this corner one by one if he comes around and he's your type you're feeling what you're seeing what you're hearing all that good stuff do not pop your balloon however if there's anything he said that you're just like oh

red flag no this guy is not for me go ahead and pop your balloon and then I'll go over to a few of you and see why you ended up popping are we ready all right so with that being said let's go ahead and bring out our first single guy hello welcome in what's your name Dexter how's everyone doing okay L they say good sound a little Qui Dexter how old are you 35 and what do you do um my background is in social work um but I do work in education as a program manager

and I do mental health therapy as well very nice now dexer what are some things you like to do for fun uh I would say travel is like number one for me um I love traveling anytime I get an opportunity to go to the airport that's like my number one thing right there so I definitely like to travel um in addition to that uh content creation I'm into content creation so I just started a podcast not too long ago on all things mental health so um definitely check that out if to get a chance and

um my new thing has been bartending oh yeah so I picked up uh bartending as like a new gig after I finished school a couple months ago so I like it it's cool cool now what are some things you look for in a woman um I'm looking for my wife you know somebody with wife qualities um definitely looking for one of God's daughters for sure um somebody that's kind caring nurturing um somebody likes to have fun for sure you know somebody that have a good time with someone that's family oriented yeah that's really big for

me I have a big family so I'm big on family for sure good now what are some deal breakers deal breakers um someone that is not uh is not a Christian you know I am Christian so I'm definitely big on that for sure um yeah somebody that's not family oriented um I would say in addition to that you know somebody that doesn't really like to have fun you know somebody that doesn't really know you know what it is that they want to do and whatnot um somebody that feels like they're entitled to things I don't

like that somebody that's not humble um yeah so pretty much like the opposite of what what I'm looking for right okay well we have not got any pop balloons yet so we are going to he said Thank you so we're going to actually switch it on over to you so let me hand you a pck oh boy let me have you hold on to that all right how many ladies do we have here eight okay so first round I'm going to have you pop let's go with three balloons based off of what you're seeing who

doesn't really fall into your type whatever it is go ahead and pop those three balloons three balloons three of them mhm nothing personal ladies I don't even know y'all you look nice though it look nice stuff okay two more and one more okay you can stay down there we'll start there all right if we can start with your name and AG Jana I'm 31 and Jana what do you do um so I'm in customer care and then I also have a couple things I do on the side like hair and things like that hair is

really cute thank you it is it is all right so Jan why did you have your balloon unpopped um he's very handsome um very well-dressed so just was hearing what he had to say I also like that he said um he was family oriented all right so Dexter why do we end up hopping her balloon um it's a really tough decision you know having to pop three off the bat just like that uh so again it's not personal just off the bat um very beautiful but uh just traction um for me it's um I'm thinking

of like in a scenario of like if I were to walk up to somebody like if I feel that inclination to do so just didn't feel it at the moment so okay all right thank you and then let's go right over here your name and age Australia and I'm 32 okay and Australia what do you do um I have a consulting firm okay nice now sh we did have you on episode before and you did end up matching what happened with that match hey broa with meet the next day it just didn't work out okay

religious beliefs okay well welcome back glad to have you so why did you have your balloon unpop for him uh he's attractive okay and a lot of things that he said as well family orientated love to travel that those kind of things okay okay so why do we end up hopping hers we're along the same lines too a tough decision but definitely want to hear from everyone but just part of the game you know all right thank you and let's go over here let's start with your name and age my name is Chenise and I'm

31 and Chenise what do you do I'm a registered nurse yes NSE so why did you have your balloon unpopped for him um I just wanted to hear what he had to say I thought I think he's handsome but also I mean I just wanted to hear it out but I think I'm taller than him and I usually like taller guys so yeah just wanted to hear him out okay sounds good so why do we end up popping her thank you for the chance but um again more along the same lines as well too okay

we're very put together very well all of y'all thank you thank you all right oh right here name and age Jasmine I'm 31 okay and Jasmine what do you do um I am a full-time dental hygiene student right now very nice so why did you end up popping your balloon um you are very well dressed very handsome um just the content creator that's just not what I'm looking for I just I'm very private um don't really have any like pictures on my social media so I just this just not my thing okay okay I respect

it so now is Jasmine someone that's your type yeah I would say so I would I would definitely wel up to Jasmine thank you thank you Jasmine let's head on back okay so we have four balloons left unpopped let's go ahead and ask these remaining ladies a question to help us narrow it down okay all right um start off with something like where you you from and what do you do okay start right here with your name and age uh my name is Kaya I'm 26 I'm from Washington DC and I'm a rapper oh okay

she got bars right right let's go on over here your name and age and the answers his questions hi my name is Dena I'm a realtor and I am 30 years old I moved to Dallas four years ago but I'm from Boston Massachusetts sorry to hear that from New York so what I I was born in New York okay okay so Brooklyn okay Yankees all day you know just saying let's go over here your name and age hi I'm Shay I'm 27 and I'm from Mississippi and I am an accountant okay nice to meet you

so on over here your name and agent and answer this question hi my name is Naila I'm 24 I'm in the child care field and I'm also starting my business in real estate but yeah that's it and then you got where she's from oh yeah I'm from Wisconsin Wisconsin yes all right thank you let's head on back okay so you just got a little bit more information so I am going to have you pop one more balloon based off of what you've seen what you've heard whatever it is okay I think I need a new

oh you lost a pick I think so ready let me hand you that there you go I'll make sure I keep this one all right um I have to pop this one all right so why did we have our balloon unpopped for him um he's very well spoken looks handsome dressed well see seems clean I didn't hear exactly where he said he's from so I think I would have popped myself for that but everything else seemed pretty cool okay yeah got it so where end up popping hers I would say more so age um I'm

35 uh that's a little a little bit below my age limit but okay yeah yeah it's a big deal all right thank you nice Mee you nice okay why did we end up popping our balloon I'm so mad I really didn't want to pop it I swear but I'm not a Christian and I was trying to hold on I wanted to like try to ask you a question and see if that was a deal breaker for you but I actually really don't practice like any religion I do believe in God but I didn't want that

to be like a thing but I really didn't want to pop no listen I it's all good though I appreciate you being honest though and respect I was trying to like hide it little would came out at some point but I appreciate the honesty for sure okay honesty is Big all right so is she someone that's your type um to be honest I probably would not approach um but definitely respect what you got going on so best of luck to you and everything thank you and why would you not approach um honestly chess tattoos not

really my thing uh per se I don't got a problem with tattoos per se but I think location is uh everything to me too but it's not a judgment of you or your character but just preference I understand yeah thank you okay we do have two ladies left let's go ahead and ask them another question all right um let's go with this you would make so before your man leaves for work or wherever he's going to start his day you're going to make sure that you do this before he leaves the house you would make

sure that your man doesn't leave the house without you doing what for him okay let's start right here so my family's watching the show um two things um I'm an affectionate person so that's one thing and then food like I'm Haitian I like to cook oh food good I say we don't eat cat and dogs no we don't we don't but yeah um just food and you know a little physical affection good loving yeah okay all right good loving clean up okay what about over here um so I'll probably leave the house before him so

um I would say reassurance um so I'm always making sure that my man knows that I love you I hope you have a good day um as far as cooking wise sometimes I don't have time for it and but I do like to cook um but I mean that's not something on the top of my mind you know cuz I'm leaving the house around like 6:30 so yeah so it's not that's it's kind of like reassurance in that aspect okay okay all right appreciate the answer thank you both ladies any questions for him let's go

over here now you emphasized I I want someone likes to have fun and likes to have fun what's what do you what's fun to you what do you like to do with your your woman that's fun yeah um I say like I said the biggest thing for me or one of the biggest things for me is traveling so I do like to travel um I do like exploring new you know locations destinations or whatnot um I'm very chill also like I can be a bit of a homebody I do work a lot too so I

don't always get the luxury of getting to go out um but every now and again I do like to part of that would include like going out to eat trying out new restaurants new experiences um I could be a little bit spontaneous in terms of you know experiences uh date night and all that stuff so so okay music dancing all that so yeah much Clarity any questions here I do um so how do you feel about kids um I love kids uh I have one myself U my son Elijah he's 6 years old um that's

my boy uh as far as dating somebody with kids I do have limitations with that um I do have a limit in terms of like multiple children um not something that I have the capacity for and children like really young children like under the age of like four okay yeah um I have twins they're nine so I don't know how you feel about that I know kids are a touchy subject and yeah yeah yeah they're great they're part of me so I just want to know how you feel sure they yeah I'm sure they are

but yeah multiple children that's uh it's a bit outside of my capacity for me all right thank you so any further questions over here um um so you stated that you had a child that's 6 years old correct um how's your relationship with your um child's mother yeah it's a good relationship it's really healthy um we have a great co-parenting situation you know we're both there for him we work very collaboratively so we're in a good space okay so it's only it's strictly about the child strictly about the child yeah okay um how are you

guys High School sweethearts how does that go no we met uh shortly after college uh we were actually married but we were we got divorced um officially last year but sorry sorry that's all good I get it I asked that for a reason so okay ask why dis um when it comes to I guess from my experiences I can't speak for everyone but majority when it comes to uh when you're growing up with your partner and you're you stay year 36 right five yeah oh 35 so you were what maybe 20 years old 21 years

old when you guys met that's kind of a a lengthy time and I just feel as if it's going to take some time for you guys to um depart from that type of uh relationship you guys have mentally cuz a divorce from last year I I mean we're in the new year I mean it's only what 360 days so I mean it's probably going to take some time that's in my mind you may say no it's not I don't really know you like that you don't know me but mentally I don't even want to be

there you know I respect it yeah I mean there's definitely more context but that's not the platform isn't for that but we yeah we've been apart for a while so it wasn't just like the year um so it took some time to get to that point but yeah but I respect it though thank you for your honesty of course thank you all right well unfortunately that is all the balloons popped we do thank you for coming on let's give it up for him ladies I'll take that mic so thank you all right let's go ahead

and bring out our next single guy hello welcome in what's your name my name Lawrence Lawrence how old are you I'm 30 and what do you do uh I'm a business owner uh I own a successful business in Las Vegas Neva something I'm really proud of because um I'm able to take care of my whole family now nice so um very nice can I ask what the businesses it's a it's an entertainment business so it's like where uh um parents can book like characters for their kids birthday parties oh that's amazing okay nice now what

are some things like to do for fun uh something I like to do for fun it's like it's different from like you know what everybody like to do fun I like to like give back so I go like the Hess shelters I go like to just like a random like Park and just give back you know I'm saying that's something I like to do fun but I still like know how to do things like you know go out you know uh party I'm a dancer so I like to I like to dance you know what

I mean so uh it's like in basketball too all right nice now what are some things look for a woman uh real honest and um um know who they are you know what I mean so yeah that's that's it that's good now what are some deal breakers uh being a follower okay you know um you know doing things for other people just to oppress other people that's probably like the number one okay all right so we did get a few pop balloons let's go on over there and see why they ended up popping let's start

over here with your name and age I'm Jasmine I'm 31 and Jasmine why did you end up hopping your balloon um you seem very nice uh it's just you're a little too flashy for me um and that's really about I'm not really digging the fit to yeah and then the chains and the belt and the watch unfortunately but you seem very nice appreciate it all righty so now is Jasmine someone that's your type uh no just because I like know people who like me but she seemed like she answer so yeah I would say no

fair answer no matter how you look just no I I appreciate your honesty you're not a follower definitely not a follower let's go on over here your name and age my name is Chenise and I'm 31 okay and Chenise why did you end up hopping your balloon just initial initial physical attraction I mean you seem like a really nice guy I like what you're doing for your community and all of that but just attraction that was it got it now same thing here is she someone that's your type no okay she don't like me so

that's real I mean you know so you know um you know I don't even know where to even say yes so it's like I'm G just say no just because I don't know you but you're probably a cool person you know fine thank you all right let's go here your name and age hi my name is Naila I'm 24 okay and Naila why did you end up popping your balloon I pop my balloon just because I'm looking for something different along the lines of like more clean like image per se you know I don't want

to go for guys no more with the street wear Vibe that's all it's it's it matters so so about what I got on right now yeah so if I had a suit on and we match and then tomorrow I'll put this on you you done well just because you did put this on for the dating show shows me that's mainly what you do put on M right oh I always wear my jewelry but um I do wear C no like the leather pants you know what I'm saying yeah I like what I like it's okay

you look nice though I appreciate it for sure all right then we did get one more down here your name and age Jana I'm 31 okay and Jana why did you end up popping your balloon um I popped I just heard him I thought I mentioned um that he mentioned partying um as one of his things that he likes to do so that was one of my reasons why I popped okay okay party no I own a entertainment business so like okay it's a party business where parents can book like a Mickey Mouse whatever whatever

character they want you know what I mean to their kids birthday party so right now like I'm making money because so many parties going on so it's like I don't party you know what I'm saying this party entertainment business indry okay okay I guess I popped too early but yes all right now she someone that to your Ty uh I don't know her to say yeah but she just had like a little misunderstanding what I was saying but uh okay all right thank you why are we getting all these pops back here all right your

name and age and why you ended up popping your balloon uh I'm Shay I'm 27 and I just don't think it will be um a a mutual connection um just because I'm on a different side of things in life I would say what you mean um I feel like you're more so on the go constantly like your chain says Hustle Hard right so it's I mean I I'm not knocking you who not hustling nowadays you know even prior to this year but um I I just don't think it'll work out because of that way like

I just because I hustle hard no it's not just cuz you hustle hard I just feel like trying to figure out what I guess um you're always on the road right on the road no meaning like no you you misunderstand just like her okay uh no I don't I don't have to be like at my business to make money or to do things like right here I'm I'm here you know I mean like I can do whatever I want cuz I owne my own business but I'm not always on the road but uh probably misunderstood

that well I'm sorry if I misinterpret that um but still I just internally I just feel like it's not a connection got you so I appreciate it course thank you all right your name and age and why did you end up popping your balloon hi my name is Dena I'm 30 years old um I don't know just the energy I just wasn't feeling it too high too low yeah what what energy is he given what are you not feel I'm I'm a chill person too so I don't mind low energy but I don't know it's

just maybe the initial attraction I'm not sure he didn't look me in the eyes [Music] looking maybe she here for different reasons I don't know but I was looking at you the whole time oh okay going back your name and age and why did you end up popping your balloon hi I'm Kay I'm 26 um you're very handsome I just think like your fashion Choice sometimes I feel like what a person put on it kind of speaks to their personality and I'm not saying it in an offensive way I feel like it's just a lot

you know what I mean like the jacket the watch the belt it's just really a lot and I feel like it kind of speaks to probably like your personality I'm sorry you got a lot of things on to though I really don't know I have one but it's like the prince what's that Versace no actually uh you know came from different B I don't even know I got it from Amazon that's what I'm saying I got these shoes from Amazon probably like $23 I got these pant from Amazon probably for like $30 my watch is

real I got this from like burlon for like I love 30 bucks is really dope got this shirt Burton too you know but I really like what I like like it don't matter if something cost $1,000 or a dollar if I like it I'm going get it like I I respect that I respect that no matter how much money I got but I do think it look like you got it from Amazon so if I if I if I took this off and then would be too much you saying so if I had my like

jacket it this be too much I think I think you got to take everything off okay because you very handsome I swear like a white T-shirt some jeans and like some so you think this takes away from his look yes cuz he's so handsome it's like you don't got to do all that you could have literally put on a white T-shirt some jeans and some some loafers and everybody would have been sand unpopped not sand sandals okay thank you we got one more down there that we ended up missing all right let's get your name

and Age and what did you end up popping look y'all got him zipping up his sweater now Australia and 32 um I think it's the communication style um not being able to clearly articulate what it is that you want to say so you mentioned followers but then you said that you popped those ladies because they didn't like you that isn't that being a follower so that was my only reason uh that's not being a follower okay you got to understand what's the definition of a follower is uh liking somebody because they don't like you that's

not being a follower that's just like what I like you know what I mean but like um but you didn't say what you didn't like though it was just because they popped on you PO on me well you if if I if I don't like you you're not going to like me if I don't like you okay but it's not being a father I a have nothing to do with that like okay probably misunderstood like everybody else absolutely thank you all right let's head back all right well unfortunately that is all of the balloons popped

we do thank you so much for coming on let's go ahead and give it up for him ladies thank you okay let's go ahead and bring out our next single guy hello welcome in what's your name how y'all doing he on how y'all doing today my name is Daniel Daniel how old are you I'm 32 years old and what do you do uh so I'm an entrepreneur uh I have a business I started call for those at the front uh we created the world's first multi-functional compact hairbrush for men um also used for women as

well it has a mirror a brush a comb and a case and it fits right inside your pocket so you can get that on my Instagram check out the the bio um I funded my business working as a registered nurse I'm actually have a masters of Science and nursing education also have a doctorate in nursing as well okay and uh I'm working on my fourth Nursing degree right now as a nurse practitioner psychiatric mental health nurse practitioner so that's what I do that's it all right nice now what are some things you like to do

for fun uh so for fun I like to get money um I like to that excites me I like to travel the world and just see new experiences meet new people try new food um I also like to just stay at home okay like to work out go to the gym but I'm really most of a homebody though I like to stay home and just chill spend time with my family um getting around with my loved ones is always a good time even if you're just sitting down chilling laughing we going to have a good

time that's fun to me okay now what are some things you look for in a woman uh so in a woman I look for a God-fearing woman I look for a woman that has some Independence to her right she can hold her own for sure um I like a woman that uh is not scared of dogs cuz I do have a dog a French Bulldog uh so if I need you to watch him while I go out real quick I need you to do that for me uh and besides that I like a woman just

to have a good time with you know woman I can Vibe with um I don't get tired talking to her like I genuinely enjoy spending time with her so that's the most important thing got it now what are some deal breakers uh deal breakers for me is a woman that's not God-fearing um a woman that smok cigarettes a woman that's not fun to be around and um a woman that has kids as well okay oh all right so we did get some pop balloons let's go on over there and see why they ended it popping

let's start here your name and age hi my name is Dina REM I'm a realtor I'm 30 years old um I popped my balloon because I have twin boys they're 9 years old so so now before part of me yeah all right so now before he did say the kids thing you had your balloon unpopped why so um I just wanted to hear him out um I want to be open-minded with this experience I'm not too big on the nose ring thing even if I have one for my man I don't want to be matching

he took it out oh but but you didn't pick me so um but yeah that was the one reason that I would have popped but I liked everything he was saying he has nice teeth a nice smile so yeah all right so now is she someone that's your type said Dena Dana nice to meet you is definitely my type um very beautiful he look great with that red on so for sure my type yeah very cool thank you we got one over here your name and age and why did you end up popping your balloon

I'm Jasmine I'm 31 um I have a 12-year-old so if that's a deal breaker then that's so that's okay right right okay so prior to him saying that did you have your balloon on pop yeah I did I'm not really a pet person um so me watching the Frenchie was a little I was about to pop but um yeah other than that you're very very handsome educated I like that um so yeah you like to have fun I like to have fun you like to travel like it and we matching yeah yeah but okay so

now is Jasmine someone that's your T Jasmine is my type she's a beautiful girl as well and like you said we're matching so you like we ready to go on the date right now we was but I'm sorry I don't have any kids so I just want to start you know with a woman understandable yeah for sure I respect that thank you nice to meet you go over here your name and age and why you ended up popping your balloon my name is chenice and I'm 31 and I like your tattoos and I like your

smile just the physical attraction and the connection wasn't there when you came out yeah and I also have kids all right same thing here is she someone that's your type what's your name again shenise shenise shenise is my type as well U beautiful right dressed nice and I love the earrings I love the boots as well so thanks nice to meet you shenise all right let's go over here your name and age hi my name is Naila I'm 24 and Naila why did you end up hopping your balloon because I have an angel at homes

so yeah so before he said that you had your balloon unpopped right yeah um it was a few things that threw me off like the dog but I feel like I'm special so somebody might not want their dog no more I want mine yeah that's my son okay I understand but yeah okay she said get herid of the dog keep me all right so now is uh NAA someone that you NAA is my typ is we beautiful that's a beautiful dress you have on beautiful yeah you just look good from head to toe so yeah

my son that's my dog he's my son so he not going nowhere I'm sorry but you didn't say you had kids so now you want to say he your son that's okay we are pack his deal we pack deal for sure thank you nice to meet you your name and age and why did you end up popping your balloon Australia and 32 I don't have children it was just a physical attraction for me okay okay so what was it just overall I didn't get them you know yeah okay so is Australia someone that's your type

Australia is a beautiful woman yes she's my type I always dressed as very well um also um so that's all it is all right and then our last Lady over here your name and age and why you ended up popping your balloon my name is Jana I'm 31 and I po my balloon because I have a six-year-old son okay okay did you have your balloon unpopped before he said that yeah yeah I did um he seemed like he's very ambitious um just everything he said was was really well so okay got it I feel like

I know this response now she someone that's well let me let me say I don't I guess I don't have a physical type I used to go off I used to have a physical typ in the past and then once you have a physical type you really narrow down the dating pool by so much and I just got tired of doing that I'm 32 now uh so I really just go off The Vibes for real and every lady I talk to is just giving good energy so you that's my type right there like I said

I like to Vibe and go the V that's what I said initially so that's my type okay thank you thank you nice to meet you okay we miss you over here your name and age and why did you end up popping yes I'm Shay I'm 27 and I end up popping just because because of the statement where he said I like to get money you know I like to get money too anybody likes to get money because that's what it is right now in the world but you know it just seems as if you're putting

the money before what you actually love to do like what it just seemed to me it's just about money you know to me I don't know if that makes sense of course that makes sense yeah cuz I'm not all like listen I'm all about I'm very career Ori oriented don't get me wrong my career is same way but I'm not thinking about the money I'm just thinking about the knowledge and where it can take me and how I can feed that off I'm when I go to somebody I don't say oh I like to get

money I don't you know I don't I don't like that okay so no offense I'm not offended okay okay so she said you're all about the money so I'm not all about the money I am very ambitious I'm not all about the money um I do like to get money ask me what I like to do for fun so that's what I like to do for fun um personally but I don't I don't it's not always about money um like I said I have a doctor's degree but right now I'm a nursing Professor um professors

don't make so much money I really just love what I do um I love teaching and motivating my students that's what I do naturally um so that's what it is it's not always about the money I love what I do I love making a positive impact in people's lives and that's why I became a nurse and now I'm a professor so it's not always about the money for me okay I appreciate clear just don't like that when you're coming out like it's just I guess it's a me thing okay thank you of course nice to

meet you all right name and age and why' you end up popping your balloon um Kaya 26 I popped it because the height it's not like these are like the shortest heels I have and I kind of feel insecure when I'm like really really tall and it's something that I got to work on but I feel like we kind of like neck and neck and I don't know how tall are you I'm five five and a half but my heels be like 6 s in I'm 6 feet oh wow I'm exactly 6 feet I don't

know you look a little tiny to me I am not tiny I mean sorry not tiny but we look like the same I'm 6 feet I'm 6 feet for sure sorry okay but it's all good what's your name again canay Kaya Kay is a beautiful woman as well dressed very nice um and all the ladies gave off beautiful Vibes so um yeah all right thank you okay well that is all of the balloons popped we do thank you so much for coming on let's give it up for him ladies thank you so much thank you

all right let's go ahead and bring out our next single guy hello welcome in what's your name I'm Marvel marll how old are you I'm 33 and what do you do I'm at Healthcare Management okay nice now what are some things you like to do for fun uh for fun I like to go hiking for walks uh I love bowling okay um and a hobby is going to the gym okay nice now what are some things you look for in a woman um so what I look for is a woman that's funny that's like to

have fun okay um someone that's outgoing MH um and a woman that's healed that's a good one yeah so now what are some of your deal breakers deal breakers I'll say uh a coup a couple of my deal breakers would be U someone who lies assess ofely um uh a woman that turns every disagreement into an argument okay um and a woman who doesn't take pride in her appearance okay all right so we did get a few pop balloons here let's go on over there see why they ended up popping let's start here okay your

name and age and why did you end up popping your balloon hi I'm Kay I'm 26 um I pop I just don't I feel like the physical attraction wasn't there for me and I didn't really like the outfit now is she someone that your type uh she's very attractive thank you it's going on over here name an age and why did you end up hopping your balloon hi my name is Dena REM um I'm 30 years old I popped because I don't know the physical attraction wasn't there as well okay so what is it I

don't know I don't know if it was like the all Michael korus thing I don't know I felt like you was coming to work even though we match right we match but I don't know it just wasn't there I like energy I go by energy and I feel like the energy wasn't there okay all right so same thing here she's someone that's your type um I'm not really attracted but she's beautiful though okay okay so what is it uh just the attraction like a visually it's not attracted Co what's go on over here your name

and age and why did you end up popping your balloon I'm Shay I'm 27 and um it's just not there I don't I don't see the connection I don't feel it either so sorry okay so what aren't you seeing what what do you have to see for there to be a connection um I I'm just not attracted to you um I mean yeah I'm just not attracted that's pretty much it I'm sorry all right now is she someone that you type um no okay why not her legs what's wrong with her legs they're hairy that's

smell leg that's my hair oh my thighs yeah that's it that's it though okay I don't do the thighs yeah I just don't I just I feel like it grows back like thicker so but so you do the bottom half you do the bottom half not the top exactly so yeah let's go all right thank you let's go over here your name in age and why did you end up popping your balloon uh my name is Jasmine I'm 31 um your dress very nice I don't mind the course on course but um the physical attraction

just isn't there um and that's really about it yeah so what does that mean for you like when you say physical attraction um I like my man a little bit thicker I guess just a little bit just a little bit more thicker got it okay now is she someone that's your type yeah she's I was to look up and down like to make sure like okay okay I appreciate that I appreciate that you thank you let's go over here your name and age and why did you end up popping your balloon my name is Chenise

and I'm 31 and it was just a physical attraction I mean you seem like a nice guy I prefer like a full beard so that was it yeah God just facial hair connection yeah that was it okay so same thing here is she someone that's your type um not particularly okay and why not just the attraction okay okay what does that mean for you you know I'm ask that um like visually I just not drawn to her that's all okay yeah that's it thank you let's go over here your name and age and while you

ended up popping your balloon hi my name is Naila I am 24 I pop my balloon because my stepdad name is Marcel and you might just remind me of him and I don't do weird stuff like that but um you seem pretty cool though but yeah what's the name well I'm not so much attracted to your face but I feel like a connection could grow so it's not a big deal to me but yeah okay got it now she's someone that your type um she's attractive it's just the age what have got me okay yeah

all right cool thank you let's go over here your name and age and why did you end up popping your balloon Australia and 32 just a little thin for my taste I prefer thicker as well okay got it makes sense is she your type oh yeah she's gorgeous I like the way you're dressed too thank you all right let's go here your name agent why did you end up popping your balloon um my name is Jana I'm 31 um and it was just kind of the energy I didn't feel like a lot it seemed like

a little bit nervousness but I mean that and that that could very well be I popped right away so that was just the reason you're I think the the dress is very well put together so okay so you wanted him to come out more I don't know I think yeah I needed a little bit more energy okay so that's what I was just looking for um but it does seem like you're warming up though as you kind of like have moved down so yeah all right so is she someone that's your type um she looks

great thank you thank you just the height that's it but yeah she's great you said the height yeah oh a little tall oh I got my on all right thank you all right well that is all of the balloons popped we do thank you for coming on let's give it up for him ladies thank you okay let's go ahead and bring out our next single guy oh well hello there welcome in how you gonna hold the mic sir oh okay there we go there you go hello how y'all doing what's your name look lovely tonight

all of y'all look beautiful okay my name is price price how old are you I'm 37 years old and what do you do I'm an entrepreneur I have a black car service I have a restaurant business I have a restoration business where I do fire and Order damage restoration okay nice so what are some things you like to do for fun um honestly I like to help people with their business cuz that's why I study my whole life so I just like to help other people have their business grow um I like to travel uh

go out to eat go out you know pretty much it got it now uh what are some things you look for in a woman um kindness like I'm looking for kindness uh I'm more focused on how a woman treats their man that's my main focus okay now what are some deal breakers deal breakers um liars I'm a very transparent person very honest and I'm looking for that okay all right so no pop balloons there probably the flowers he got you with the flowers that's funny all right so I'm going to hand you a pck let

me have have you hold that all right so you do have that pick I'm going to have you pop three balloons based off of you know whatever okay we got one so now two you're just going to pop two whatever is not really over your type whatever it is go ahead and pop those two uh oh okay one so IP just one just one okay let's start with those that's popped and then we'll come back to her let's start over here your name and age my name is chenice and I'm 31 and chenice why did

you end up popping your BL um I just wish you would have took the hat off and the glasses oh that I plan to do that yes I plan to do that but okay maybe dressed up a little bit more that was that was wild for me all right thank you but you seem like a nice guy um can I get one flowers can I give her you want to give you want to give her a flowers yes please okay can we get his flower I just need one thank you anyway you're very sweet okay

so now she's someone that you're typ oh she's Coes okay cool and then we had one back here your name and age and why'd you end up hopping your Bel yes I'm Shay I'm 27 and I don't like the sagging um I don't like that I can see your eyes when I'm talking to you um and I don't it's just kind of too showy I guess of kind of what you're doing at at this moment like oh let me get her flowers oh hold the it just it's just kind of a it's just kind of

a lot that I'm looking at I guess uh so but most importantly I don't like the sagging and I don't like that I can't talk with you eye to eye okay I I you had first said that you could see my eye so you mean that you can't see mine um did I say that I she said couldn't you just mix that oh okay sorry I'm sorry I'm sorry I was confused I was confused yeah I'm sorry um I guess what I'm saying is that I want to see your eyes when we're commun like when

we're talking face to face already over all right um yeah we go you going to pull him up too no problem that's I should all right okay oh it's already popped but I think the the ladies here probably agree with me some of them so you are PR to speak with one of them okay all right cool so now is she someone that your type not really okay and why not um just um she's just not my type uh no particular reason um I just don't find a a visual or physical attraction between us okay

all right cool thank you thank you all right and then we end up hopping this balloon um I know you kind of hesitant so we end up hopping hers uh she's beautiful honestly um just not my type uh but she's beautiful okay got it and um your name and age and why did you have your balloon unpopped for him my name is Dina I'm 30 years old um I just wanted to hear more trying to be more open-minded so so he's is he someone that is your type not off but not my type it's just

open-minded got it thank you and then we got a pop down here let's head on over your name and age and why' you end up popping your balloon hi my name is Naila and I'm 24 sorry um I popped the balloon I'm really trying not to um be Petty with certain things but I don't like Bal guys so yeah honest to that I meant to come out here and take it off from the rip so anybody who don't like bald guys could eliminate their self cuz that's the thing so I understand that yeah otherwise you

seem pretty cool I I I appreciate that VI so you all right so now she someone that's your type yeah she's gorgeous she's beautiful definitely okay thank you all right so we do have four ladies left let's go ahead and ask these remaining ladies a question okay um first question uh what's what's you guys love language okay start over here with your name and age if you know what your love language is name and age and what's your love language uh my name is Kaya I'm 26 My love language is acts of service acts of

service okay what's going down here your name and age and love language I'm Jasmine I'm 31 um I got two top ones um the first one's active service and the other one is quality time your name and age and what's your love language Australia and 32 my top two are quality time and words of affirmation in terms of words of affirmation I don't need to be told that I'm gorgeous or pretty it's just more so that reassurance okay and your name and Ag and what's your love language my name is Jana I'm 31 and one

of my love love languages would be um words of affirmation so just always like to be spoken into um even if I have something that I'm trying to get done you know being being able to be um reminded about that is something I I like all right so what's your love language I know they want to know as well um I love language is uh physical touch quality time um words of affirmation I'm a little all over you like them all Love Is Love exactly all right so based off of what you've heard so far

I'm going to have you pop one balloon um off of off of yeah mhm yeah okay um okay so why do we end up hopping her balloon um just because of I'm the least attracted to her out of my options okay all right sounds good not that you're not attractive you're very attractive beautiful everything it's just out of what I'm looking at I'm the least attractive okay cuz there was nothing wrong with your answer like you know makes sense and so why did you have your balloon unpopped for him um I did like that um

I kind of got to see that it seems like he probably is someone that's romantic that's something that I do like to see a guy display so that was why I had my balloon pop um held on to and just kind of hearing you out and I'm back okay we've got three balloons go ahead and ask them another question okay this is a little tricky question uh um if you had to choose a dinner date or someone to have dinner with um a close friend and a lover who would you choose like anybody in the

world so you said if they had to pick a dinner date a dinner like someone to have dinner with or a close friend or in your lover like if you had anybody in the world you could choose from who would you choose like to have as a best friend someone you would go to dinner with are we choosing two or one three oh um I would choose Beyonce um Elon Musk and um Kanye West Kanye West wowe okay that's surprising all right let's go on down here all right let's hear from you I'm a little

confused by the question you said a lover a friend a close friend and then who someone to go to dinner with oh just a random person to go to dinner with yeah anybody in the world Dead or Alive Dead or Alive Dead or Alive okay so um a close friend I would choose my grandpa may he rest in peace um a lover I'mma choose Chris Brown um and then um what was the third person oh just some random person to go din with um that's a hard one Arlette who not me arlet that's to go

to dinner with mhm she seemed cool she seemed like somebody I want to kick it with hey true true true all right we got one more all right let's hear from you um so I would choose Denzel Washington for my lover um a close friend will be my grandmother and then a random person will be Gabrielle Union Denzel Washington Denzel Washington uhuh okay okay what made you come up with that question what are you trying to gauge when you ask them that question uh just uh the type of people they want to be around people

they like you know like and it's like it's like a random question so very random it's not something they could have thought about before they got here basically right so what about for yourself you know we always got a throwback um if I could go to dinner with anyone um I would take my daughter to dinner okay cuz we go to dinner all the time M um and my close friend would be I'm I'mma take her answer my grandfather um he's no longer living but he was a great guy and um my lover I know

I'm trying to figure that out right now uh oh that's y all messed up y supposed to say me but I'mma chill okay all right so I am going to have you pop one balloon it's a tough one it is it is they are great ladies okay so why do we end up popping and hers I just like the other two answers better there's like no real particular reason I just like the other two answers better that's all so why did you have your balloon unpopped for him just wanted to learn a little bit more

but then after I heard the that he had a daughter I had another question so I wanted to hold on a little bit longer but yeah all right got it thank you okay we've got two ladies left ladies any questions for him oh here um how old is your daughter she's 13 oh okay okay and then how is like your co-parenting situation um I'm a single father she lives with me and that's pretty much it I mean it's no uh Bad Blood between me and her mother or anything we we get along but she just

lives with me okay you live here no I live in Georgia Atlanta oh okay mhm okay good yeah all right let's go down here any questions yeah what are two main non-physical qualities that you are attracted to in a woman um like I said in the beginning cence um someone who's kind generous um and someone who has ambition ambition they have goals they want to do something with their life okay good M for now okay all right before you pick I'll let you hit him with one more question one more question yeah um do you

believe in God that's a good one yes I believe in God but I'm not like I don't practice any religion same here down here do you believe in God yeah I'm Baptist so I read the Bible every day I've been getting better at that so I'm proud of myself for that cuz I've been a little anxious lately so reading the Bible every day has brought me some comfort so yeah I I have a relationship with God I pray every day okay okay it is time to pop can we one more question oh no it's one

you no we'll let him pop sorry now I'm curious so pop yeah it's time to pop I know okay I saw it was kind of tough why we end up popping hers just because I related to her answers more that's that's the only real reason okay got it so why' you have your balloon unpopped for him um you're very handsome I did not like how you came out with the sunglasses but I'm glad some of my fellow ladies was like take it off thank you um and I don't mind a bald man um you came

out here very confident the flowers like the Romantic gesture like we was all like I actually want everybody to get a flower I just want I I was like dang my girl only one with the flower just kidding oh everyone's getting a flower okay no but yeah I was interested to hear a little bit more um and we're done yes and that's it cut oh okay still going get the B lat okay let me have you stand over here so why did we end up hopping well first it was like cuz I would have went

with him like he's my type but I didn't like the giving out the flowers I feel like at this point you you it's not about being selfish you made your choice so why would you want to give everybody beautiful and I got you a bouquet of flowers I gave everybody a single flower but you don't think that's like you was Penny wise and dollar foolish just now I'm going just let you know and then you just said I gave her too so it must be meant to be that's like flirtatious no that's very FL flirta

possessive I mean yeah you supposed to be like we like you're going to be my man I we just me but we're here to be intentional if we're going to date like I respect your opinion you know what I mean that's crazy I respect that but I hope you enjoy those I hope you enjoy those though all right thank you okay well unfortunately that's all the balloons popped but we do thank you for coming on let's give it up for him ladies I'll take the mic thank you oh all right let's go ahead and bring

out our next single guy hello welcome in hey happy Saturday to you okay happy Saturday what's your name Alvin Alvin your Alvin like the Chipmunks okay and how old are you 35 and what do you do uh I'm a server and I'm a bartender okay now what are some things you like to do for fun I love to Bow I love to skate uh I like to play poker um I love chess that's like one of my Main Hobbies okay um I do that probably every day and um yeah all right now what are some

things you look for in a woman um in my head I like the the three things for me is just available beautiful and clean um I like maturity um someone who like to have fun someone um yeah pretty much it what are some deal breakers uh deal breakers obviously someone who isn't clean um uh I don't I like I like kindness okay um I believe in yeah I believe in I don't like a mean person remind me of my sister shout out to my sister but uh yeah um I just I I really uh yeah

just I would like to meet someone like I mean likeminded kind of like me all got it so we did get some pop balloons let's go on over there see why they ended up popping start right here with your name and age hi my name is Dena R um I'm 30 years old okay I just popped because I didn't see like a physical attraction I'm big on energy um but you seem really nice and all the things that you're saying kind of aligns but thank you I think just a physical energy oh I appreciate it

thank you okay now she's someone that's your type um I would say a no um just like kind of just off the physical like nothing really drawing me towards her nothing like negative or anything like that but yeah I would just say no off first impression all right all right thank you let's go to our next lady here your name and age and why you ended up popping your balloon uh Shay 27 uh the compatibility um just kind of your hobbies are doesn't align with mine no worries so um yeah no worries okay now she's

someone that's your type um very pretty I would say yeah and someone definitely I would go for yeah thank you definitely Prett for sure your name and age and why you ended up popping your balloon my name is Jasmine I'm 31 years old happy Saturday happy Saturday um you are so nice um you seem kind so um it's uh the fit okay is a little not my not my sty is just a little the pants are a little dirty your shoes are a little too big but um and that's really about it just the physical

I'm so sorry but you seem so nice and our our Hobbies align you know like I like to skate I like to bowl um totally totally get it um you know I totally understand all right so now it's Jasmine someone that's your type very beautiful definitely someone I would approach and um yeah thank you thank you g over here your name and age and why you ended up popping your balloon my name is Chenise and I'm 31 um I just don't think we will vibe out together and your outfit just isn't my style no work

yeah but you seem nice I appreciate it happy Saturday to you I right now she someone that's your type oh once again I I think she's very beautiful and I would say yes um yeah okay thank you thank you let's go over here your name and age and why you ended up popping your balloon hi my name is Naila I'm 24 I ended up popping my balloon just because of your wardrobe choice you seem very sweet and everything like that so I appreciate that in a man for sure that's very important for me but your

wardrobe does tell me different things for me to keep in mind so that's all yeah yeah all right so is she your type I would say yeah once again very attractive very beautiful and uh I I totally get it I appreciate it thank you thank you let's go on over here your name and age and why you ended up popping your balloon Australia in 32 um it's just physical attraction okay all right so now is Australia someone that's your um I would say initially no no um just uh just like the physical compatibility nothing really

draw me to her all right let's go here your name and age why did you end up popping your balloon my name is Jana I'm 31 um and I just po based off of the outfit kind of just that was what you chose to wear here so yeah um that was kind of my main reason no worries all right is she someone that's your type um I would say yeah about say yes she's very beautiful I like her skin um and yeah very cool perfect thank you and then we got one last pop down here

your name and age and why you ended up hopping your balloon hi I'm Kay I'm 26 what did you say you do for work cuz I had to ask for work I'm a server and a bartender I work two jobs oh okay yeah that's why I po I couldn't hear you when you first came out I had to ask the other lady that's why I was kind of delayed I don't think there's nothing wrong with you I think you seem like a really nice guy but I feel like I'm looking for more of like um

stability in like a provider and I don't see that in like a server or a bartender wor you know what I mean no worries I thank y'all for y constructing criticism all right now is she someone that your type gorgeous very much so um yeah yeah it's pretty cool all right well we do thank you for coming on all right ladies let's go ahead and give it up for him I'll take the mic I appreciate thank you thank you everyone for tuning in this episode of pop the balloon or find love if you'd like to

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