Being Confident Is Easy, Actually

99% of people fail at Charisma so I studied the main reasons why your attempts haven't been working for you and I found the solution in this video I'll show you the three main things people with Charisma exceed at while demonstrating a step-by-step guide on how you can Implement what they have achieved into your own life and by the end of this video I'll be sharing one crucial trick that will tie all three points together so you won't forget any of the major details to make you a more charismatic person yeah a few years ago I

knew someone that by definition was a very uncharismatic person even though he was a pretty chill guy he never seemed to be able to communicate his ideas and opinions well this led to people not really taking an interest in him and he would often keep to himself but over time he genuinely started to become more confident and social around the people near him what I noticed was that he developed certain traits that made people want to be around him more and as a result started to make friends easier than ever before with a good story

you engag a listener more than if you were just explaining exactly what you meant it gives a background to whatever topic you're discussing while providing important information that they later use in the conversation storytelling is also a fundamental part of a conversation which is one of the most important traits charismatic people have they seem to know how to strike up a conversation out of thin air while at the same time giving value to the other person so instead of just starting small talk they actually create meaningful conversations because a great conversation starter can make or

break a first impression now on to the three main principles of being charismatic surprisingly you don't have to be extremely extroverted to be charismatic you just need to have a basic list of social skills that will allow you to bring Branch out and be authentic it's important that you don't put yourself in situations where you have to fake Charisma people can see right through this and everything sort of becomes awkward to counteract this you can simply find Social gatherings in areas that interest you if you dislike loud parties and hangouts find a nice secluded coffee

shop or record store to strike up conversations some of the best conversations you'll ever have could end up being in line for a latte but the main takeaway is that you shouldn't force yourself to go to social events just to get outside your comfort zone no one wants to listen to someone ramble on about themselves it makes them feel unheard and ignored unfortunately a lot of people like to talk a lot the best way to handle this is to Simply listen the next time you have a conversation with someone consciously decide that you aren't going

to speak until the other is done talking this shows that you respect whom you are talking to and they will start to feel valued and heard if you're interested in what they are saying ask questions that will carry the conversation forward a healthy friendship is when both people feel heard and appreciated predictability is boring why continue a conversation when you know exactly where it's headed to avoid the Trap of small talk you must ask surprising and interesting questions this could range from what are some of your biggest achievements to what kind of books do you

like reading any question that allows your friend to answer with actual interest and excitement allows you to take the conversation in a fun lighthearted Direction asking questions shows that you have an actual interest in talking to the person you're with once you start adding surprising questions to your conversations you'll have more fun than ever before talking to other people it's like a cheat code to an interesting discussion at the beginning of the the video I mentioned one crucial trick that ties everything together and that one crucial trick is to Simply stop trying so hard when

you want to succeed at any goal we tend to completely Overlook that the process is a slow and disciplined one becoming who you want to be doesn't happen overnight and it takes self-discipline and patience to achieve what you want appreciating the journey that you're on is what makes life so fun and gives you the ability to reflect on who you truly want to be in your life so no matter how long or difficult the path to success is with a healthy mindset and clear goal set you'll be able to achieve the best version of your

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