REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY: 9 Foolproof Techniques to Make EVERYONE Respect and Admire You | Buddhism

have you ever felt that despite your heartfelt and genuine efforts they go unnoticed leaving you on the outskirts of others attention imagine you're working on something meaningful in your life whether it's an idea a project or simply helping someone out of kindness yet instead of receiving the recognition you hoped for you're met with cold silence as if all the effort and energy you've poured in have been overshadowed we both understand that feeling these difficult moments when we Face such situations leave us wondering why our value goes unseen this sensation particularly when it affects our closest

relationships be it with family friends or a partner can be deeply painful if we spend too much time trying to gain approval from those who fail to appreciate us we risk losing the joy and energy needed to keep moving forward although Zen Buddhism teaches us not to expect recognition understanding it's beyond our control the truth is that we still desire our efforts to be valued but what if there are ways to change this situation what if we could learn how to ensure our presence and actions are met with more respect and instead of chasing others

attention we begin to receive it effortlessly the truth is if you understand and apply what I will tell you in this video you have the opportunity to completely transform your current situ situation the nine psychological strategies you're about to discover have the power to bring recognition and Harmony into your life now that you understand what you're facing it's time for change it's time for a new approach that will allow you to rise above the limitations you've experienced until now so turn off all distractions First Step the delicate art of distance evoking longing through absence among

the subtle threads that weave relationships there is one especially fragile and sensitive the fear of losing someone close this feeling doesn't emerge overnight but is woven slowly over time and space where you allow the other person to appreciate your value through temporary absence in a world where closeness is often associated with security The Sensation that something we took for granted could disappear generates intense emotions these emotions may lead the other person to reflect on the important role you play in their life people are far more motivated by the fear of losing something than by the

desire to gain something new it's paradoxical but deep down we prefer to hold on to what we already have rather than seek something new to become a priority in someone's life it's useful to consider the use of distance not as a tool for manipulation but as a means of introspection and building a healthy relationship imagine a relationship as a garden where each shared moment is a new plant that requires attention and Care however if you don't allow the soil to rest giving space for desire to grow your garden could become overburdened and the plants wouldn't

have room to flourish similarly for someone to truly appreciate your presence sometimes you need to give them the opportunity to experience your absence start with changes share fewer of your feelings secrets and worries let the silence that will eventually arise lead the other person to reflect on how much you mean in their life balance your time with other people and activities that bring you Joy and allow those small changes to provoke natural nostalgia in that person it is precisely this delicate and balanced distance which carries a sense of uncertainty that will make your presence more

meaningful however don't forget that every garden needs balance excessive absence can cause the relationship to wither this technique requires not only skill but also sensitivity and understanding your distance should not be a wall but a Mist that temporarily covers your bonds allowing them to bloom again later only when you use this art with care will you have the chance to build a relationship in which you are truly treated with respect step two the charm of Mystery creating interest through suggestion in a world where almost everything can be known with a single click mystery has become

a rarity and thus a special attribute people are drawn to the unknown they are fascinated by enigmatic personalities that hide more than they are willing to reveal behind a veil of suggestions if you want to become a priority in someone's life it's worth Mastering the Art of Keeping Secrets curiosity is is a natural driver of action people want to discover solve puzzles and explore the unknown when you're too open and quickly share everything about yourself you take away the opportunity for others to discover you on their own instead offer subtle and discreet hints about yourself

allow the other person to work a little to learn more about you you don't need to share every detail of your past your plans for the future or even your daily thoughts instead reveal only small fragments of the whole story Leaving others with a certain level of ambiguity for example you might mention a hobby you've been practicing for years without immediately revealing all the details give the other person space for speculation and in doing so spark a natural desire to know you better remember mystery isn't just a veil you surround yourself with it's a way

to build a relationship where the the other person feels intrigued wants to uncover more layers of your personality and always looks forward to returning to you in this way you become more than just an acquaintance you become someone worth dedicating time and attention to because you make others feel there's always something more to discover about you mystery is a powerful tool that not only builds your value but also makes you a priority in the lives of those who want to know you better step three the art of inaccessibility building value through temporary distance in a

world full of constant stimuli and present communication it's easy to lose the sense of exclusivity in relationships what is always Within Reach can over time lose its value that's why it's so important that in relationships as in other aspects of life you apply the principle of quality over quantity if you want to become priority in someone's life you must learn the art of inaccessibility reflect on how often you're available to others could it be that you're too easily giving up your own plans to adapt to others expectations if so it's time to reassess your priorities

being always available can make you invisible and your presence might cease to be valued over time it's not about creating artificial barriers or ignoring the people who are important to you the key is to subtly remind them that in addition to that relationship you also have your own life your days are filled with other passions activities and encounters so limit your availability don't respond immediately to every message and give yourself the right to turn down a meeting if you already have other plans this way you'll remind the other person that your presence is valuable not

something they can have whenever they want the uniqueness of a relationship is built by properly balancing your presence the time you spend with someone should be meaningful and full of commitment but less frequent this way you not only create longing but also make each shared moment more appreciated remember the quality of a relationship is not measured by the amount of time you dedicate but by the depth and intensity of shared experiences in this way you become someone worth waiting for and your absence starts to increase your value step four let them invest in you building

commitment through active participation people value what they have had to work for that's why if you want someone to see you as a priority you must give them the opportunity to invest in your relationship it is precisely through this commitment that true and Lasting bonds are built this is a subtle but very effective strategy that requires your ability to balance expectations and boundaries reflect on how you can subtly encourage others to invest their time and attention in you it can be as simple as asking for help with everyday matters planning time together or even cancelling

plans to show that your time is valuable this is not about manipulation but about creating situations where the other person has to make an effort to understand you support you or earn your attention the key here is balance you can't let the relationship become one-sided where only the other person gives all the time that's why when someone invests their time energy or emotions in you reciprocate this way trust and mutual respect are built once someone has invested a significant amount of time and energy in you they will start to see you as an indispensable presence

in their life however remember to use this in moderation demanding too much investment can make the other person feel used that's why it's important to build this investment on a solid foundation of reciprocity and understanding which over time will allow you to be seen as a priority in the other person's life step five put your needs first take care of yourself to become a priority for others in interpersonal relationships it's essential to put yourself first before expecting others to do so for you a common mistake is trying to earn someone's recog recognition at the expense

of your own needs and desires however to be a priority in someone's life you must first be a priority in your own life putting your needs first does not mean being selfish it means setting healthy boundaries and taking care of your well-being emotions and time when you surround yourself with people who respect your boundaries and value you for who you are you increase your chances of being seen as someone special therefore if you feel that someone is not treating you as you deserve don't be afraid to walk away by doing so you demonstrate that you

value yourself and are not willing to settle for being a secondary option you have full control over your emotions and actions you can't force someone to appreciate you but you can make your life more valuable and fulfilling which in turn will attract people who recognize your true worth over time when you start to prioritize your needs you'll notice that others will also begin to treat you with more respect it's important to remember that being a priority in someone's life doesn't start with their decision but with yours when you show that you're aware of your value

and can set boundaries you automatically become someone others want to keep close your self-confidence and ability to care for your needs will become a natural magnet attracting those who want to be part of your life on your terms step six don't make them the center of your life give space for them to miss you in a world where everything seems immediate and easily accessible True Value is often hidden in what is inaccessible and requires effort in human relationships as in art less is more when you make someone the center of your life you surround them

with constant attention that may become obvious from their perspective and therefore undervalued imagine a gardener who Waters their plant excessively every day believing that more water will accelerate its growth however instead of flourishing the water logged plant begins to wilt the same thing happens with human attention too much can be overwhelming and too little can cause the relationship to wither the real skill lies in finding the balance where your presence feels like a gift not something obvious develop your passions and invest time in what enriches you don't let your life revolve solely around one person

when they see that you have a full independent life they will feel more intrigued and start to miss your presence in this way instead of becoming just another part of their daily routine you become something that adds color to their lives imagine an artist who dedicates himself passionately to his painting he used to spend every moment with a friend but over time noticed their conversations became superficial and the friend began to take their meetings for granted so the artist decides to focus on his art spending more time in his Studio after a few weeks he

receives a message from his friend saying they miss him and asking when they can meet at that moment the artist realizes that sometimes to be appreciated you must allow others to feel the absence of your presence step seven stop initiating contact on every occasion let them miss you in the silence in silence lies a power that cannot be perceived if we don't give it space in our lives silence interrupted by a warm sudden gesture has more power than constant conversations in relationships communication is key but if you're always the one initiating contact you begin to

make others accustomed to your constant presence your voice although caring becomes part of the daily noise and not a special sound that everyone eagerly awaits think of ancient philosophers who knew that words have power only when used sparingly similarly in relationships sometimes it's valuable to take a step back and allow the other person to take the initiative allow them to miss your voice and your presence when you're not the first to reach out you'll see who truly misses your closeness and who genuinely values the relationship imagine that you're always the one sending the first message

proposing me meetings and making an effort to maintain contact one day you decide to pause the communication days pass and the phone remains silent finally after a week you receive a message hey how are you I haven't heard from you in a while I miss our conversations at that moment you realize the value of Silence giving others the opportunity to initiate contact allows you to discover who truly cares about you step eight create your own happiness in The Labyrinth of life where paths often intertwine and lead us to unexpected places true happiness is like an

inner lantern that shines regardless of external circumstances to become a priority in someone else's life you must first find that Lantern within yourself it is in solitude away from the noise of the world where we can begin to cultivate a joy that does not depend on others imagine a gardener who tends to their plants daily they know that for the flowers to bloom in all their Splendor they must be properly watered cared for and most importantly allowed to grow in the right environment the same goes for our happiness if we rely solely on others to

provide us with that happiness we become like a dependent helpless plant just waiting for rain think of someone who decides to start a career for example in the Arts instead of following others expectations and seeking their approval this person finds joy in their own creativity their art becomes a reflection of their inner World independent of criticism or praise over time this Independence makes their Works attract attention and admiration not because they sought it but because their Creations radiated authenticity step nine the art of leaving sometimes life confronts us with the difficult decision of staying or

leaving this seems contradictory to our nature which clings to the known and secure however in reality leaving can be the greatest act of courage and self-love by showing that we can walk away we express a deep awareness of our own value and of the boundaries we won't allow anyone to cross think of an old tree that has fought for years to hold its place in the forest when the soil beneath it becomes infertile and the Rays of the sun fade in the shadow of other trees the tree must give up knowing that elsewhere it might

bloom again the same happens with us when a relationship stops nurturing us when it becomes a shadow of what it once was we must be willing to leave to find a space where our soul can grow again I remember the story of a woman who stayed in a relationship that brought her nothing but frustration and pain she feared leaving thinking that walking away would mean failure but one day she realized that staying would be a betrayal of herself she left starting a new chapter in her life one filled with challenges but also inner peace soon

she found people who valued her for who she truly was not for what she could offer them these examples illustrate the importance of finding Inner Strength whether it's in creating our own happiness or or in the ability to leave in a world full of expectations and pressures it's precisely these silent personal decisions that Define our worth and ultimately shape our entire lives before we finish I invite you to like this video share it with your loved ones and subscribe activating notifications so you don't miss our upcoming teachings in summary we all experience moments when we

feel overlooked however remember dear friend that your worth does not depend on others priorities instead of giving into to those moments see them as opportunities for growth always put yourself first take care of your happiness and in time others will follow until next time my dear friends