guys i'm disappointed like honestly i don't know what i did to you guys for me to get asked a question like this because there must be something that i am doing wrong because ain't no way that i've been putting out content for almost eight months and i get asked this question so basically i'm just having a great night wrapping it up and one of my followers she messaged me she's like hey liz um i've been seeing this guy for two weeks uh we went on a couple of dates uh after those two weeks he basically
ghosted her so he didn't reply anymore when she sent something and he doesn't want to like you know reach out whatever she basically said he goes to me right so she already said something he ignored it whatever he doesn't want to see her anymore she asked me liz do you think i should ask him why he goes to me what did i do to you guys like no honestly like what did i do to deserve this what is this what is this behavior i do not get it you are telling me this man did not
even find you worthy of a reply and you want to ask hey why did you not find me worthy of a reply is it like is it a game like i don't know are we playing a game like how much more can you embarrass yourself like i don't know was was the was the whole ghosting not good enough for you no no i'm being serious no you know what actually let's you know come here come what are we gonna send him like what exactly is a message please please online to me what is the message
is it why did you ghost me hey question mark i don't get it what are we sending here anyways instead of um texting him when you're on your phone anyways uh i want you to go to um a shoe site yeah like any shoe site whatever w shoe.com and uh click your pair like your shoe size or whatever and i want you to find uh clown shoes yeah uh when you find the clown shoes i want you to take them and put them on because that's what you it's literally what you are you're just a
clown and you know what matter of fact while you're at it wait one second i have this lovely oil it's from lokitan basically you can what you can do is you spray on your hands right oh it smells so nice you rub it inside of your hands and then after actually send that message of course you take the guy's feet right and you start massaging it and ghosting is one of the most disrespectful thing a person can do to you i'm not like i'm literally being serious here unless of course there are these scenarios somebody
has a mental illness somebody uh his mom died or he died or she died i don't know whatever you guys always like to be like oh yeah but there's people that are ooh okay yeah there's people that are ill i am talking about a normal healthy person right a healthy person that you were communicating with and that all of a sudden when blank sees your message doesn't want to answer doesn't want to give you any explanation how disrespectful is that and i've been ghosted once in my life uh by this guy i was talking to
he did not even live in my country um but we were talking and whatever and all of a sudden he goes to me he probably went to his other girlfriend or whatever i don't care listen listen i asked hey like i tried to send him and i asked like hey why did you go with me listen listen i yeah me i do embarrassing things for you so you guys can learn from my mistakes don't do it because you know what i didn't get any answers nothing you know what i did afterwards i i literally changed
my phone number and sometimes when i lay in bed i think about that and i think wow wow liz that was an embarrassing moment in your life it comes off so desperate like how desperate are you to be like hey listen i know i'm not even worthy of an explanation but i still want you whoa you know what to be honest like if if you do behave like this every time listen listen you are going to send someone whether it's a girl that goes to you or a guy whatever if you are going to send
that person hey why did you ghost me or double text them please please do not say that you know me do not say that you subscribe to me do not say that you watch my channel because i'm embarrassed i'm literally embarrassed because there's all ain't no way ain't no way that my subscribers do behaviors like this we do and somebody goes to us um we don't do anything okay listen to me listen people will ghost you in life this is normal i got ghosts uh a lot of peop people get ghosted whatever this is normal
you're maybe not his match or her match uh they didn't feel the vibe anymore they have somebody else's interest uh there is uh someone else in the picture so many reasons so many things maybe they don't they don't even want a relationship so you have to go into things thinking that thinking like hey listen this might not work out but that's okay because there's so many other people so many other chances that do want me and that i am good enough for and you know what if i don't even want someone that's fine too because
i enjoy my own company as well always have to go into dating knowing that you know people date other people especially in this day and age you know what your issue is with you people you guys like to fantasize you meet someone you're like oh wow i'll marry this person i'll have seven children with them no no that's just not reality hey keep being real in your head just think like hey listen this might work out this might not work out if it does work out fine if it doesn't fine i don't care who likes
desperate people please please who likes desperate people show me one person that likes someone that's desperate i mean narcissists like desperate people they do because then you're you're easy to manipulate and they they like that you're like feeding their ego that you're like chasing after them that's what they love so especially if you're if you've been ghosted you know what best thing to do is just ignore them ignore them act like you didn't even realize you were ghosted oh you're left amazing without there's this guy that i used to watch on youtube his name is
um rsc blake jr i think and he basically told the story of uh when his wife and he were like together when they were younger whatever he basically uh he broke up with her right and he said like look this is not something that i want like i don't want to marry you whatever when he broke up with her she never reached out to him again she did not text him she did not call him she didn't know anything he said i was shocked he said i was shocked she did not care so that made
him want to chase her even more because she has this error of like okay if it's not you someone else you know what she did instead she started dating someone else and as well you people settle for like anything like literally like oh my god he text me good morning please please that is so embarrassing like literally when you have women over here that get like crazy cars they get houses whatever it's not even about being materialistic to be honest because like somebody cannot might not afford that but they give their time they get their
they give their love they try to do as much as they can and they really put in effort and you you are being ghosted you're being ghosts please just don't talk to me don't talk to me i know i just know that you want to post quotes being like if you're not even worthy of a reply then don't think that you're worthy to have me in your life who cares like who genuinely cares about your stupid quote no tell me who cares then like you start like posting really like provocative things or like a lot
of stories you having fun going out please act normal please just please act normal this person does not want you don't you get it if a person wants you you know and they're going through something or whatever at least they have the respect to tell you they uh either like will be in a like a kind of break that will be off social media whatever they will tell you if a person even remotely respects you and is normal and wise enough they will say hey listen i don't feel like this is working and they'll communicate
it if a person does not respect you at all has zero zero zero respect they'll just go to you if anything aren't you mad why are you trying to text them and be like hey why did you ghost me girl that just focus on yourself and if you want to date other people why are you only dating one person i don't get it like why is literally one person your only option so that one person and that one person goes to you really that's your only option what is that desperate everything runs from you like
imagine a guy that is constantly chasing you who's ever interested in that guy nobody is a guy that's a girl that's constantly chasing a guy like the man that watched my channel are you ever interested in that girl no nobody is even like if you go somewhere and like these annoying people that are constantly wanting wanting you to buy stuff and like they don't leave you alone they're the desperation you don't want to buy from them it's annoying just realize that hey listen sometimes people are not your match sometimes people are not interested and that's
okay let them be why do you care why do you care they're not the last people on earth you know how many people there are you haven't even met people at all you're just like what waiting for that one person holding on to that one person are you the only way you can now save yourself and not be a clown is by not replying anything not posting anything just go on like you were before and act like you didn't even realize hey let them ghost you what like that's it it just goes okay whoa so
special listen to me because i don't think you guys get it if they wanted you you would know ain't no way that a person when they want someone else or that when they want something that they will not make it known you would know you're confused because they don't want you listen if the ghost comes back right after like three weeks when his little fling didn't work out and they're basically like hey i'm sorry i was sick or oh my grandma died and whatever and you know he's lying um make him pay make him seriously
pay for something buy you something if you want to see like again if you're like you know what if they come back because they always do if they come back and um they basically you don't want to talk to them anymore because you feel so disrespected even better leave them alone you know this is your chance to go some back but i'm telling you if you're going to reach out and you're going to be like why did you go to speak i promise you either they'll show their friends and they'll laugh together have a good
laugh he show he'll show his new fling his girlfriend have a good laugh um and he's not gonna respond to you or reach out but if you just ignore her and you just go on with your life watch him reach out and if he doesn't who cares who cares and then you have like these people that are like no but you need to be grown and communicate who's communicating with you that's the issue they're not talking to you you're talking to yourself that's the issue what we don't do is we do not reach out anymore
we go completely go you know ghost the ghost become a ghost um we do not post sad stories pictures we do not post happy things we just go on what what we used to do you know like same thing and we don't care we go on with our life we date other people we become the best version of ourselves and that's it we did not reach out and if you do please always please uh stop being a clown and don't ask me this question again do not ask me a question like that ever again you
got me i will not sleep good tonight because of this thank you so much for watching guys i love you guys so much and please like i'm not even kidding this is like triggering i love you bye-bye