How Men Fall in Love: 5 Steps to Make Him Love You

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Curious how men fall in love? Find out the 5 steps to his heart… No BS. Learn how to trigger Emotional Attraction - https://lovestrategies.com/emotion/ Have you ever wondered how men fall in love? Or if it’s a different “process” than women go through when they fall in love? If so, you’re in luck. This week’s video is a special one. It dives into the five steps most men go through when they are falling in love. It’ll help you “see the signs” when it’s happening… or when it isn’t happening. Have you ever noticed these signs? Let me know in the comments below. Your Coach, Adam PS. If you’d like to learn how to spark attraction in your man with a few simple texts, click here → http://lovetexting.com/book/ Summary- I'm going be talking about how it is that men fall in love and the 5 steps to capturing his heart. Finding your way to a man's heart is kind of like solving a Law and Order crime. You need to follow the clues each step of the way in order to make it happen. The only difference is that you're looking for love, not murder. So I'm gonna show you the map to a man's heart and this map includes the 5 stages men go through as they fall in love. 1. Physical Attraction Listen, it's true. Men are very visual creatures. We fall for a woman initially just based on physical attraction. When we first see that person, if that physical attraction Isn't there it's unlikely that we're going to pursue that woman. Now, this doesn’t, I cannot emphasize this enough… It doesn’t mean you have to be perfect looking in any way, shape, or form, I promise you. And I've coached a lot of men over the years. No matter what you look like, there are guys who will be attracted to you and your type. So that's the first stage. If he's physically into you, then you can move on to the next stage: chemistry. 2. Chemistry Does the conversation flow? Do you have things in common? Does it feel like you can just talk for hours and hours? Do you have a similar sense of humor? Do you just have great banter? Are you likable? Is he likable? Are you guys playful? Do you have an intellectual curiosity with one another? These are the types of things that make up chemistry, and these things really matter. Now, the good news is that you can really improve your chemistry with men through what you say, but also your body language. Make sure you're smiling, be open, be animated as you're talking, and make sure you have great posture. Most importantly, have a great attitude. Men love women who are incredibly positive, and have a great attitude & vibe. I assure you, you can really start bonding with men and creating that great chemistry you really want. So now that he's physically attracted to you and he likes you, this brings me to stage 3: the trust phase. 3. The Trust Phase Now, believe it or not, us men, we have feelings too. And if we're going to get emotionally involved with a woman, we want to know that we can really trust you. So now he's attracted to you, you have great chemistry, and he trusts you. On to the fourth stage: long-term compatibility. 4. Long Term Compatibility Do you share the same values? Will this relationship logistically work? I mean… do you guys live near each other? Do you want to live in the same places? Do you want the same things out of life whether it's children, where you want to live, and the things that you want to achieve in your life? Now, you don’t necessarily have to have the same hobbies and interests. Those things aren't necessary. But you do need to share the same basic values of how you live your life and what it is that you want out of life. Otherwise there’s just going to be way too much friction between the two of you. So now let's say that you pass all of these stages of love, you get to the final stage: the comfort stage. 5. The Comfort Stage This is when you finally meet the real person you've been dating. You end up becoming really comfortable with the type of person they are and as you get to know that person you really become best friends. You always wanna spend time with that person, that person supports you, wants to make you happy and works hard every single day to make you happy. And once you reach the comfort stage, you know, that's when the love becomes very real and very awesome.

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Hey there, Adam LoDolce from SexyConfidence.com where I help the 21st century woman create a love life that she absolutely loves. And in this video right now I'm going be talking about how it is that men fall in love and what are the 5 steps to capturing his heart. Keep watching. Finding your way to a man's heart is kind of like solving a Law and Order crime. You need to follow the clues each step of the way in order to make it happen. The only difference is that you're looking for love, not murder. So I'm gonna show you the map to a man's heart and this map includes the 5 stages men go through as they fall in love. Psst. Hey. Hey, Adam. Yeah? Hey, Adam. Yeah? I approve. Me too. Listen, it's true. Men are very visual creatures. We fall for a woman initially just based on physical attraction. When we first see that person, if that physical attraction Isn't there it's unlikely that we're going to pursue that woman. Now, this doesn't... I cannot emphasize this enough. It doesn't mean you have to be perfect looking in any way, shape, or form, I promise you. And I've coached a lot of men over the years. No matter what you look like, there are guys who will be attracted to you and your type. So that's the first stage. If he's physically into you, then you can move on to the next stage: chemistry. Does the conversation flow? I mean, do you have things in common? Does it feel like you can just talk for hours and hours? Do you have a similar sense of humor? Do you just have great banter? I mean, are you likeable? Is he likeable? Are you guys playful? Do you have an intellectual curiosity with one another? These are the types of things that make up chemistry, and these things really matter. Now, the good news is that you can really improve your chemistry to men through not only just your body language, of course, the things that are coming out of your mouth, the things that you're saying, but also, of course, your body language. Make sure you're smiling, be open, be animated as you're talking, make sure you have that great posture. Most importantly, have a great attitude. Men love women who have incredibly positive, great attitude and vibe. And, I assure you, you can really start bonding with men and creating that great chemistry you really want. So now that he's physically attracted to you and he likes you, this brings me to stage 3: the trust phase. So, like, I was walking the other day and I was walking down the street and, like, Colin was there and... Hm, I wonder if she's a hoebag. Now, believe it or not, us men, we have feelings too. And if we're gonna get emotionally involved with a woman, we want to know that we can really trust you. So now he's attracted to you, you have great chemistry, and he trusts you. On to the fourth stage: long-term compatibility. Do you share the same values? Will this relationship logistically work? I mean, do you guys live near each other? Do you want to live in the same places? Do you want the same things out of life whether it's children, where you want to live, and the things that you wanna achieve in your life? Now, you don't necessarily have to have like, of course, the same hobbies and interests. Those things aren't necessary. But you do need to share the same basic values of how you live your life and what it is that you want out of life. Otherwise there's just going to be way too much friction between the two of you. So now let's say that you pass all of these stages of love, you get to the final stage: The comfort stage. This is when you finally meet the real person you've been dating. Hello, Adam. What the f***?! No, not like that. In all seriousness, you end up becoming just really comfortable with the type of person they are and as you get to know that person you really become best friends, ideally. You become best friends, right? You always wanna spend time with that person and that person ends up supporting you and wants to make you happy and works hard every single day to make you happy. And once you reach the comfort stage, you know, that's when the love becomes very real and very awesome. So if you're ready to start getting out there again, finding that love, and being able to build more attraction with men, when you do go out there and meet men, then make sure you head on over to SexyConfidence.com. You can click on this link right here, yup, right here. And that's gonna give you instant access to videos, ebooks, webinars that are gonna walk you through a proven process to build confidence to find that relationship you really want. And, also, if you enjoyed this video please give it a like on YouTube, that really would help me out a lot, and don't forget to subscribe on YouTube for more videos just like this every single week. And, finally, if you have a friend who needs to watch this or should see this, make sure you email this over to her or share this or send it to her on Facebook. I'm sure she'd also appreciate it. Thank you so much for watching and I'll speak to you soon. Bye bye.

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