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my brother destroyed my life and only later did I find out that he got my wife pregnant and that the son I created was not mine now he is coming back humiliated after being disinherited while I inherited two million from our parents everything looked perfect in my family until the day in that I discovered a secret capable of destroying any relationship years of lies were revealed in a way that I never expected how to react when your worst enemy is blood itself i have a younger brother named keileb who always hated me all his life if you you're thinking maybe this is about jealousy is wrong I wasn't the favorite son he was so he had no reason to be jealous of me let me explain a little my mother always spoiled my younger brother he was the golden child of our family mommy prepared her meals washed his clothes and even asked me to help lo with school duties i was obliged to help simply because he was family but the same favor was never extended to me I ended up accepting this situation since i was quite independent maybe it was partially my fault for having accommodated your desires and needs without receiving anything in return he never helped me when i needed him and only came to me when he wanted something from me I was 1 quiet boy introverted who liked to study and be alone while he was just like our father rude I also tended to be straightforward and honest without sweetening things up and saying everything as it really was I believe my mother may have developed a negative perception of me because of my personality in childhood made him everyone's favorite in the family I didn't care about it growing up the problem started when he found ways to provoke me and make fun of me for being different from him he made jokes about my height or the fact that I wear glasses he broke into my room and tried to read my diary to claim with my mother about anything I wrote I screamed at him complained to my parents about he invaded my privacy but they laughed and said it was nothing much he made things worse how almost to break my glasses and put disgusting things in my food 1 time he even put pebbles in my cereal more I found them before I could knock out my teeth I spoke to my mother but she ignored saying that's how brothers relate whenever we argued that elebe insulted me purposefully focusing on my insecurities we studied at the same school so he knew I was bullied by some students instead of supporting me he allied himself with them calling me an ugly loser or furry monkey encouraging abusers to physically hurt me because according to him I was a big failure again we discussed something I don't even remember probably something silly but at the end of the fight he told me to kill me other insults I managed to ignore easily but this one really hurt me because at the time I was struggling with my mental health today i am better but at that time hear my own brother say he wanted to that I died was hit as our father was often at work and my mom didn't seem to care much even scolding me once saying it was my fault for provoking and irritating him things only got worse there was 1 time in that he tried burn my hair when we were in high school and shockingly my mother stayed by his side insisting he was just who plays like that seriously felizmente my dad finally stayed by my side and pointed out that there were serious problems he threatened to call the police to keileb that was a shocking moment for my brother for until then he had never been reprimanded for none of your actions my dad kept saying it was enough that keileb needed to start respecting me as older brother then he came to my room and talked to me I never expected my dad to support me since he always said that keileb how they looked when they grew up what was true my father told me that he had waited patiently for years so that keyleb mature thinking he was just being immature but I was starting to realize that keyleb was becoming a big bully when I heard my dad say that I felt such a validation that I almost cried I confessed to him everything keileb had done with me along of the years and even opened the game about the he suffered at school my father was shocked to learn that I was passing by for so much the next day he went to talk to the school principal so that my aggressors be warned about the consequences severe in case they continued later that night my father enrolled me in m classes at the local gym he said that I needed to strengthen myself and face the bullies in my life I admit it must have been poison see a nerdy kid like me trying to learn to fight but as with everything in my life when i want to learn something I'm very focused I organized my study time so I could work out every day and attend m without wanting to brag but it completely changed my life and my physique one day ilebe brought it back together he had stolen my money that we gained if we helped our parents with homework I had been saving up for a while and that Lebe broke into my room and took my money I caught him when he was about to leave with your friends firmly told him to return my money because I knew Berlin was wrong but that ilebe laughed and zombou saying that all I knew how to do was run to daddy ask for help I don't know what you gave me but I punched Caleb hard in the face he was in shock Things on the floor I raised I took my money from his pants pocket and then I threw it back on the floor kayleb started crying like a baby it was comical to see a teenager crying on the floor but mine mother came running to hear her little baby crying and helped him up to find out what had happened when she found out that I had fought with him she was surprised and began to scold me she said that as older brother i should teach keileb better things while he looked be loving to see me being punished my mother also claimed with my father about how I had beaten Caleb and how EU needed to be controlled my father as a serious expression asked the two of us to explain ourselves I told how Caleb had stolen money that I had worked hard to save while Caleb tried to justify who needed the money for 1 date and that as a brother I should help you however my dad told keileb he was lucky i was just have punched him for stealing my money because anyone else would have called the police my dad kept saying that keileb had no right to take things of others without permission Caleb didn't like it and started tantruming probably hoping that our mother stayed by his side but my father stood his ground when Caleb realized that I he wouldn't be punished for hitting him he screamed he hated me and ran into the room locking up inside after that incident kayleb distance from me he finally understood that he couldn't intimidate me anymore and that even my father no longer supported his attitudes for the 1st time in a long time I felt we were police although he couldn't hurt me physically anymore he was still trying to hit me verbally with horrible things always who knew our parents wouldn't be around the situation got worse as he got older it seemed that every year he became more angry and with less patience if I approached him to ask something he would just ignore me and leave the room murmuring things like nerdy or loser as he walked away when you needed to tell me something he only did it through our mother who passed the message to me I asked my mother about because keileb couldn't just talk to me directly if you wanted something and she always asked me to be more understanding didn't know if he was going through 1 phase of adolescence that I needed to wait to pass OR if he really hated me I could handle with the things he said over the years but it got to a point where I just wanted to leave the house to run away from him I asked for countless times for my mother to mediate 1 conversation so that all we could sit down and work things out but she always refused saying he didn't want to get involved I even asked her opinion on because he treated me that way but she deviated from the subject eventually I went to the university of my dreams since I was a student and got a scholarship my dad had a party for me and my mother looked proud too but keileb remained indifferent barely recognizing my achievements the day I went to university it was a mix of excitement for the future and relief for finally escaping the toxic environment at home the first months at the university were Libertadores I made new friends I liked the classes and started building a life separate from the oppressive atmosphere I experienced the constant fear of kayleb's verbal attacks disappeared and i felt a new sense of peace I started dating my wife Karen when we were a sophomore at university a friend introduced us to a fraternity party and we connect instantly from a religious family having children without being married was unacceptable but we found that she was a student in our senior year of college what led us to get married once we graduate our wedding was a small ceremony quieter our parents were happy for us and we had a good time at that time I really believed that she was the love of my life I always had the mentality of wanting monogamy in life a woman to come home and be together for the rest of my days although other women try to get involved with me over the years I never moved on with anything because it was genuinely delicious with my wedding Karen was the woman of my dreams and I never wanted to paint her however over the years there were two occasions when I found out that she was being unfaithful at our wedding one case was an intermittent relationship that lasted a few years with a married co-worker and the other was a with her ex-boyfriend of high school when she went to visit family in another state I'm sure that some people might call me a fool and looking back I can't deny it after 1 parting period in both situations decided to forgive my wife never wanted to raise my son in a broken home and brilliantly that we could overcome these challenges we were very young when the case happened with co-worker then attributes this to youthful mistakes and lack of maturity for a while things seemed to be fine between us I could never fully trust her but I did my best to clear my doubts because she knew that if she chose to forgive her I would need to work to overcome this and start over from the it's been four years since the last time she was unfaithful and I feel like I made the right decision by giving you a chance to show who still wanted to be at our wedding during those years Karen seemed to have changed and we were genuinely happy. with plans for our family's future however three months ago my reality was once again shattered by another incident that in my mind was much worse than the others she revealed that she was sleeping with someone else some time and suggested that our son maybe it wasn't mine when he hears your words I felt like the ground had been ripped off. .
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""" from my feet a mixture of shock, betrayal and disbelief took hold of me I struggled to understand the enormous age of what she had just revealed to me in a state of confusion I managed to ask her because I had kept this secret so significant and how could you do something so devastating your reaction was cold and indifferent she looked far away almost unconcerned with the pain it had caused your answers were vague leaving me with more questions than answers it was a surreal and magical moment confronting shattered trust and Questions about my own family I continued to insist on Karen to tell me the truth felt polka dots who had the right to know who the my son's true father since I created from birth she admitted it was Caleb my eyes squirted in shock as I asked exactly what she meant with this it was then that Karen told me how she and keilab became friends when I introduced my family and she stayed with us during the holiday until the new year I remember that Caleb that it was usually cold with me but he was quite polite and warm to her. I was happy because I didn't want Karen to feel uncomfortable she wanted to be accepted by my family so I spent a lot of time with my mother whenever I could she noticed that keileb and I weren't close and asked me about it finally opened my heart to her about my complicated relationship with keileb since the childhood and how thought we'd never be able to fix it for he could never overcome his resentments Karen understood but it started to include that me and Lebe whenever we left perhaps in the hope that the two of us would get closer if we were going to watch a movie she invited keileb and then we had to watch the movie that keileb wanted to think that during this period keilebe or we exchanged a few words here over there what was a significant improvement compared to how he treated me with lighting years ago I remember that Karen and kayleb used to play video games together but I never thought much about it Karen told me that one day kayleb opened up to her about her difficulties and the term recent with his then ex- he looked so vulnerable to her who ended up creating 1 she told that he sometimesedly with she when i don't was close by and apparently it evolved up to 1 point where she couldn't control herself anymore I closed my eyes while the image of my wife and the my brother sleeping together almost made me throw up she told me how she felt guilty after that and ran away from him right after what was true because my girlfriend suddenly told me who wanted to come home when I thought she would spend the new year with me I tried to convince her to stay but she was determined to leave after the parties when we met at college as soon as classes started again she was back to her usual happy state so i never questioned anything two weeks later we found out she was pregnant now Karen told me she had no idea if it really was my son or Caleb's and that there was no way to prove it because I was already taking responsibility she knew two two i was the most trusted brother so decided to stay with me and that's why we got married felt as if my world wasling around me the son i loved and with whom I spent countless hours maybe it wasn't even mine I asked if she was still sleeping with keileb currently and she slowly nodded her head told me how she and keileb always kept in touch because the chemistry between them was undeniable they escaped to hotels when she lied saying I was working overtime at work she told me that half of your business trips they were just romantic getaways with him I asked why she would still be married to me if you really wanted my brother but Karen said no wanted to be responsible for ending a wedding seeing how I was a wonderful father to our son she stayed with me all this time in her words she made a mistake and didn't know when to stop I just told Karen I was happy for she telling me the truth that I would pack my things and leave Karen started to cry and asking my forgiveness saying i should scream and curse but in the meantime I was calmly thinking about my next step remained silent as I walked to the closet and I started putting some clothes in the Karen kept saying that if I really loved should at least fight for her and what mistakes happen in all marriages when he realized that I wasn't going to do anything changed tactics and said that our son would be affected if we divorced and that the children shouldn't grow up in 1 broken home I reminded her that maybe I wasn't even the father which made her cry even more and start screaming that I was being cruel and how could i just walk away since I was there for a child since birth looked like that my wife believed that nothing could do to me want to leave our marriage I think in part it was my fault for letting many things happen in the past though I still had some love for her looked more that it came from the fact that I find who took a child together we've been together since college Karen continued to say that it was not too late.
and that we could work things out but i fought to believe it and felt he had no more patience to deal with with her confidence was a big issue for me and her words sounded empty even if I forgave her could never forget that she slept with my own brother always blue that people could make mistakes and be forgiven because we are all imperfect but that went beyond certain limits I left her crying at the front door and I went straight to a hotel the next day I went straight to my parents' house and told me all about my wife's case with Caleb and how they had been sleeping together for years behind our backs the shock on their faces was evident my mother faithful to your nature initially tried to defend tyleb saying it couldn't be true since her son would never do something like that with his own brother determined to expose the truth I asked my parents that stayed in orbit and allowed me to call so he takes it right in front of them I asked them not to make any noise because it was like this that I could expose the true keileb's intentions I wish he thought it was just a private conversation between us so that who knows he let his guard down when keileb answered I confronted him with the revelation of his case with my wife initially he vehemently denied and refused to accept so when I said Karen had learned it all he started to blame her labeling a as characterless he told me that it wasn't his fault that women were attracted by him that he was the most handsome brother I firmly said I would expose it to everyone when keileb made fun of saying no one would believe in me and that he was the golden son of the family I laugh at his arrogance and thank you for confirming the truth since our parents had heard everything keileb was silent and then started stuttering trying to explain stumbling in words while trying to save his image my mother still trying to assimilate the shock demanded an explanation from keileb he stuttered in a weak attempt to justify their actions blaming everyone except himself and trying desperately transfer the blame to Karen i could see that my mother who always protected his favorite child now I feel a mixture of disappointment and anger in that tense moment I felt a strange sense of revenge for years i endured keileb's torment now the truth has come out and the newspapers have reversed it was keileb who was exposed your shameless actions for all to see when keileb's words began to fail my father usually contained in their expressions failed to contain his disappointment he asked me to pass the phone and began to scold him Caleb he started with a heavy tone of disapproval what you did is not just a betrayal of your brother but a betrayal of this family you slept with your brother's wife and kept sleeping with her even after they got married your actions have consequences and irreversibly damaged trust that believe in you I created you two to value family loyalty and decency what did you show today goes against everything I've tried to teach you he took a break leaving the weight of your words hover over consciousness for your brother's feelings the lack of respect for the sanctity of his marriage is unacceptable you didn't just hurt him but it stained the bonds that unite us as a family I feel that I and your mother we are guilty of what you have become and we will no longer allow you to continue with this behavior From today I'm cutting you from the bottom that i had reserved for you now you'll have to fend for yourself with college I won't finance your lifestyle anymore either do you think you are more of a man for sleeping with married women so now let's see what happens when you don't have the my money to depend me on the other hand I maintained a calm posture all this time although I initially wanted to play with freeleb seeing my father punish was ultimate revenge I exposed his true nature and it was clear that he underestimated the consequences persistent keilab in their justifications continued to try to defend itself but my father quickly ended the call ending keilab attempts to explain your actions my mother came up to me and hugged me it's been a while since we had a moment like this but in that hug there was an unspoken understanding and support amidst family turmoil she apologized for not believing in me all this time I felt like my fourteen year old self never imagined this moment be directed and embraced by my mother after that my dad helped me find one good lawyer so I could divorce Karen she and her lawyer tried to play dirty asking for forgiveness since I earned more than her more her betrayal case weighed heavily in my favor we also did a paternity test for my son and was determined that keileb was really the father of the child I can't describe how reasonable it was for me to digest this news it was worse than when Karen told me who was cheating on me I was furious to find out that my son was not mine. however I think God acts in mysterious ways because I decided to stand my ground through it all Karen begged me to keep visiting my son for he should not be punished for all this but I just couldn't bear to see him he reminded me of Caleb and I hated it after my divorce was finalized and I was finally free moved to 1 single apartment it seemed surreal to live alone since I got married so young and had never really lived on your own however as I have always been independent I quickly adapted to the single lifestyle and honestly adored 2 weeks ago my father called me to inform me who was thinking of changing his will since he didn't want to leave anything for keileb if there's anything you should know about my dad is that he is extremely as he had decided he didn't want anything else with keileb he kept his word keileb tried to get closer to my parents and even appeared at their door asking for forgiveness but it wasn't even allowed to enter my mother that normally yields keileb beers also seemed to have given up on him although this is probably hurts more than anyone else all this time keileb didn't even send me a message to apologize for what you did which clearly shows that he doesn't even regret it he was just sad to have been cut by our parents well my dad told me he would leave everything to me just to make sure keileb doesn't protest then he would only leave $1 to him my eyes squirted in shock since my father worked a lot all his life including assets retirement fund and life insurance that would add up to almost two million dollars the only clause in the will was that if my father passed away before my mother she would continue to live in the house though the property passed into my name of course I didn't care about that because I would like to take care of my mother until its last days I don't know how but keileb discovered it all and how can you not talk to our parents he called me yesterday trying to fix the things between us he told me that was having difficulty continuing in college that after that Karen discovered about her son's paternity she was pressing on the food cloud he told me that had no money and was looking for part-time jobs but I couldn't find anything he begged me to talk to our family to start over from scratch because he really needed my help I started laughing in his face said I was fed up with him he should have thought of all this before bed with my wife and get her pregnant Caleb started to argue that I was being unfair and that it was her fault too with what I agreed remembering that I divorced her and now she was his responsibility then he shouldn't call me complaining about her or the child for these were the consequences of their own actions Caleb started to raise his voice tone but i interrupted and reminders that he was no longer the family's favorite son but black sheep who slept with his own brother's wife Caleb started crying at this point and told me that everyone was pressing including our and relatives what was true but that was no longer my problem I told him we were done and never to call me again for I was no longer your brother since then I've recalled the conversation several times in my head although i hate my brother I had never heard him cry at least not since we grew up I will not lie but it hurts a little to see him so helpless so i guess i'm here for ask if I should talk to our parents about him or if you'd be an idiot for not doing that first update many of you have asked me because I no longer have contact with my son Henri some of you also called me cruel well sorry to say that but i don't feel comfortable raising another man's child this is not a stepchild situation in this case I was led to believe he was my son and then I found out that he was actually my brother's son of course i'm hurt and cried for days but the reason why I don't want any contact with Henri it's because I don't want Karen in my life anymore if i talk to her son she will find a way to infiltrate my life again and i need my own space you can call me cruel or selfish but I can't see him again at least not for a long time update two most of you guessed correctly that it was in fact my mother who told here web about the change in my father's will and he called me like last resort to fix things I confronted her in front of my father and she collapsed she told me that i had already punished that he was enough that he had learned his lesson my father firmly told my mother that if she felt that what keileb did was forgivable so he couldn't stay married to her for I could never forgive him for this betrayal his threat seemed to silence my mother my father made it clear to her that if she any day talk to keileb and we find out she could pack her bags and just leave like I said my dad is very I hope my mother learns from her mistakes update 3 it's been 5 months since my last update my relationship with my parents has improved in recent months my dad and i play golf every weekend he behaves more like 1 friend than my father my mother though I miss Caleb stayed away from him the last time I heard about keileb went through my cousin who told me that keileb was asking everyone for money had to drop out of college when you can no longer pay the monthly fees he and Karen are living together and he even has a job as a part-time student apparently they are equal in laughing together what I think is good I never mention what I take in my conversations with my parents and neither do they for those who are asking I'm doing great I was admitted to work 2 months ago then my salary improved significantly I'm not dating anyone because I feel like I still need time and space to heal me I have been doing some therapy sessions so I guess we'll see how that works if you stayed until the end of the story comment there I stayed until the end comment this story really left me speechless and it's hard not to feel outraged with the absurd betrayal that ope suffered the brother himself someone who should be an ally chose to cheat in the worst way possible it is unacceptable that he is now trying to play the victim looking for compassion and help after ruining ope's life let's be honest certain actions are unforgiving and sleep with his own brother's wife and still having a child with her is one of them there is no way to justify or alleviate keileb's guilt in this situation ope made the right by completely cutting the contact and following front we must not give in to manipulative suggestions who only regrets when facing the consequences of the acts themselves ope finally managed to rebuild his life and deserves peace and freedom as for the brother he needs to learn that there is a high price to pay by selfish and treacherous choices I respect Hope for maintaining her firm position.