This Will Make A Woman Think About You NONSTOP!

hi everyone welcome back to my channel if you're new here i'm courtney ryan and today i'm going to be going over things that will make a woman think about you non-stop so most of the videos that i've seen cover this topic come across as pretty manipulative which i don't like at all so i wanted to kind of put a healthier spin on this how can we naturally build attraction how can we make sure we're not coming on too strong how can we make sure we're leaving a little bit to be desired there are definitely some

little shifts that you can make to naturally build attraction and you won't have to force that of course at the end of the day i want all of you guys to be authentic and show up as your best self but if you've never dated before and you're watching a video telling you to act a certain way to be a certain way you might be a little bit confused and in the end you might be self sabotaging when you naturally build attraction often that other person can't help but to think about you when you're not together

or at least i know i've definitely been that way before there are just certain things that make you more memorable and we want to utilize what we already have to make sure that we're putting our best foot forward and showing up as our best self so how do you do that number one is to be attentive and there are a few different points on this that i want to touch on the first one being listening and remembering what she says to you being attentive to small details makes you stand out in a good way women

are incredibly attentive to detail and i think that's why we notice this when a man does it because we are this way too so you really want to be present and give her your full attention when you're together if you're constantly having surface level conversations there's really nothing meaningful or memorable about that so again making sure that you're being present and listening to what the other person is saying to you instead of just thinking about what you're going to say next is incredibly important you really want to listen to what the other person is saying

and in return you'll have a better deeper conversation because you'll be genuinely listening the secret recipe for a memorable date is a good conversation and i've actually done an entire video about how to have a good conversation with a woman if you are someone who has no idea where to start with this that would be a really great video for you to check out so i'll leave a link down in the video description so again be attentive be present listen have those deep conversations remember something she says to you and bring it up after the

date when you're texting or something or the next time you see her and she will be impressed number two independent equals attractive the absolute last thing you want to do is be needy and clingy this is a sure-fire way to kill attraction and send her running to never think about you again you really want to have your own life going on and be an independent guy you should have your own purpose and passions and hobbies and interests and things that you enjoy on your own so you aren't always relying on other people to provide that

for you and let me just tell you as a woman it is incredibly attractive when a man has his purpose passions hobbies interests things that he enjoys doing and shares them with you the more that you're aligned with your purpose and things that bring you joy in life or really just having your own life going on the less needy and clingy you will be because you know that you're fine on your own so if you have things you enjoy or you're good at don't be afraid to share that with the other person it's really attractive

when a guy is skillful when he's interesting i've done an entire video also on being more interesting and one of the main points in it is to just do more things in your life and it makes you more interesting and another important aspect of being independent is having boundaries having boundaries with the person that you're seeing is also really important so knowing that you wouldn't just drop anything and everything to go see her i know that sounds very romantic and like something in a movie but that's not a good or healthy thing to be doing

in your relationship from the very beginning so you really want to make sure you have those boundaries say you're a pretty busy guy because you have your own purpose and life and passions going on but you made time after work on friday to see her maybe you couldn't hang out during the week because you know you gotta show up and be your best at work that's really important to you but you still made her a priority and made time for her on a friday after work this is a good look for you because it shows

that you're still willing to make that time but you aren't willing to neglect everything else in your life for this person that you just met so again having those boundaries is incredibly important in the beginning of a relationship in the end of a relationship whatever it is just having boundaries in your life with everyone is very important for you your well-being and your mental health and it makes you look attractive when you make time for someone but that person knows that you're busy she's going to come out of that being like wow i know he's

so busy he has all this going on but he still made time for me on friday i must really be important to him great sign number three be a gentleman if you are actively pursuing a girl being a gentleman makes you stand out in the absolute best way i promise you she will remember that you opened the door for her or gave you her jacket when she was cold small gestures like this seem small but they're incredibly meaningful and i promise as a woman i promise you she's going to remember them and i'll give you

an example on one of me and my boyfriend's very first date we were walking outside it was a little bit of a walk from where we parked to the coffee shop we were going to and i was cold and my boyfriend gave me his scarf i still have the scarf to this day and i left that date being like oh my gosh she gave me his scarf and i've never forgotten it and that was about three years ago so i promise even three years later she'll remember number four is non-physical compliments so let me start

this one off by saying if you compliment someone it should be genuine i don't want you guys to lie to get someone to like you okay knowing that understand that the best kind of compliments don't have to be about something physical and if you're out with an attractive girl chances are she hears all the time how pretty she is maybe you should compliment her on something else wow you're so hot is probably a compliment that she gets all the time from a million different guys so if you give her a compliment that stands out that's

different from what everyone else is saying she's going to remember it and of course any compliment is lovely especially if you genuinely mean it but try to focus on things that aren't physical and see if she remembers them i love your energy you're so down to earth you're super smart i love the way you're passionate about whatever she's talking about i mean it really could be so many different things that have nothing to do with the way that she looks that she's probably not used to hearing because i think when we think of compliments we

automatically think of telling someone they're pretty or we like their shoes or we like their jacket or whatever it is it's normally physical but i always remember compliments when they're not a compliment that i typically get or they're a compliment that has nothing to do with the way that i look because i'm used to hearing that some of the best compliments i get on youtube when i post a video are compliments that have nothing to do with the way that i look and don't get me wrong i am flattered to receive any compliments from you

guys but the ones that really stand out to me and make me feel special are the ones that have nothing to do with the way that i look maybe it's something about the way that i speak or how much i know about a topic or something like that that i'm probably pretty proud of those are the compliments that mean the most and they're often very memorable in comparison to other compliments so keep that in mind and number five last on my list is to try something new together sometimes i think we can get so caught

up in a routine that it feels really nice when we try something new or do something different so maybe go out on a date you've never been to together or try something new that neither one of you have done before it's not so routine and predictable and will be something a little bit more fun and memorable and also trying something new or different is a really great way to bond and to make a deeper connection because you're both trying something you've never done you're both learning together and it's just a really great bonding experience as

well and she's going to remember it if she's never been to a cooking class before and you guys go out to a cooking class and you have an incredible time together she's obviously going to remember it and probably be thinking about it later on and i don't want to completely knock having a routine because i'm a very routine type a type of person and i think that can be great but sometimes when you do things that are so predictable and you do the same things over and over you just kind of lose that memorable factor

so trying something new getting out of your comfort zone doing something you've never really done before can be really great for building attraction for getting to know someone on a deeper level and for being more memorable and another little tip here that i wanted to talk about is being spontaneous and being able to think on your feet is something that women find really attractive when i went out on my first date with my boyfriend we had just planned to get brunch and then the date was going really well so he spontaneously thought of something else

that we could do um to keep the date going a little bit longer and i remembered that i thought it was attractive and ultimately it's probably why i'm still with him today because we just always think of something fun to do together and i love that aspect of our relationship so keep this in mind i'm not saying you have to be doing the craziest things like skydiving or jumping off a building or whatever the heck it is but just don't be afraid to try something new and think on your feet a little bit i also

did a video with a group of girls and every single one of them when i asked them what their best first date was said something about the guy thinking on his feet and being spontaneous so i know for a fact that i'm not the only girl that feels that way and it's something that we find attractive because it comes across very confident we can rely on you and you can easily take the lead which is incredibly attractive all right guys that is all i have for five things that will make a woman think about you

non-stop again i feel like every video i've seen on this topic always comes across really manipulative or like using psychology tricks to get someone to like you and when someone is right for you you don't have to do those things you should just really be showing up as the best version of yourself which i think is what all the things on this list kind of encompass instead of trying to you know trick someone or try to be someone that you're not i don't like that kind of content i will never promote any of that on

my channel um so i just want you guys to keep that in mind if you're dating if you're new to things and you kind of feel like maybe you're self-sabotaging or aren't having the success that you want and you want to be memorable and you want to make a good first impression i think all of these things are a great place to start so i hope you all found this video helpful if you did be sure to give it a thumbs up and subscribe to my channel to be in the loop for when i release

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