THE 7 FEMININE ARCHETYPES: what type of woman are you and what makes you unique!?

there are seven different feminine archetypes and they all have their own unique strengths and potential weaknesses and are all magnetic and beautiful in their own way so let's figure out which one you are and what that means for you hey guys welcome back if you're new here my name is jills and i talk about things like feminine energy self-improvement and wellness for women so if that's something you're into you should absolutely hit that red subscribe button below and join this wonderful community so there are seven different feminine archetypes there's the maiden the mother the lover

the queen the huntress the sage and the mystic these archetypes were originally brought to life by carl young but they've kind of been adapted to fit our more modern life now i think we all have at least a little bit of each archetype within us but we usually tend to really resonate with like one or two or maybe three we can also embrace different archetypes during different periods of our life as well and while discussing the feminine archetypes and figuring out which one you are it's definitely super fun but this can also be a very

powerful exercise understanding the different feminine archetypes is a super powerful way to tap into the different parts of yourself and learn how to embody a specific archetype or embody the strengths of that archetype when you need it or when you want it so yes although you may really resonate with one or maybe a few we all have the ability to tap into all of these archetypes within us so in today's video i'm going to share the characteristics of each archetype there are potential shadow sides because they all have their own potential weaknesses some examples from

women in pop culture and media as well as how to embody this archetype more you know how to embrace some of that inner lover or inner huntress within us before i begin i actually made a quiz that you can take to figure out your dominant feminine archetype so i will link it below definitely go take that quiz it probably only takes like five minutes that will again tell you your dominant feminine archetype although you can definitely embody more than just that one so either pause this video and go take that quiz now or to take

the quiz at the end but either way i highly encourage you to watch the entirety of this video so you can understand all of the different archetypes hear the examples that i give and learn how to better embody each one also a great book wreck to learn more about this topic is a book called goddesses in every woman i of course will link it below so let's finally get started first is the maiden and she is portrayed by the goddess persephone so the maiden is youthful receptive she can oftentimes be a little bit more girlish

that doesn't mean that she can't also be mature though but she has more of that youthful almost childlike curiosity and wonder she's creative usually more flexible and adaptable she's empathetic and usually a little bit more sensitive as well she also tends to be a little bit more innocent and sweet or at least she gives off that vibe and she might also give off that like take care of me kind of vibe however some maidens can be a little bit rebellious as well not all but some so although she has all these wonderful qualities her potential

weaknesses is that she may lack commitment she might lack direction she might be a bit codependent or a people pleaser she might embrace some of that victim mentality or get taken advantage of or be possibly a little bit too childish and kind of live in our own fantasy world but usually there's some sort of event and it's likely some sort of struggle that the maiden has to go through in her life that kind of causes her to mature kind of forces her to step into the more mature maiden and if a maiden can grow past

her potential shadow side and mature she can be an incredibly powerful and capable woman and through that rebirth process she can become very intuitive much more creative and much more wise to the world around her and she'll be able to actually see her capability in power because a lot of younger maidens they tend to doubt themselves my favorite example of a maiden is honestly elle woods from legally blonde she displays this transformation so well you know she's youthful fun innocent but in the beginning almost a little bit like helpless or oblivious and when she gets

dumped she first wallows in her pity she kind of victimizes herself a little bit but then she steps up her being dumped forces her to step up she gets into harvard and becomes a lawyer flat like it's hard and through that process she is totally transformed you know she finds a better man she becomes so much wiser more intuitive more confident more capable and she just becomes a very successful woman daphne from bridgerton is another really great example of this maiden energy she's youthful innocent sweet but also you know a little bit naive and she's

very oblivious to her sexuality you know the duke kind of has to guide her a little bit in this area and help her to bring it out because maidens are often very oblivious to their sexuality when they're young and they need a little bit of support to help tap into that side of themselves but through daphne's marriage and becoming a mother you can see she's really grown up a lot in season two she's wiser she's way more intuitive she's capable and she has this amazing soft leadership qualities and she was one of the only people

to originally notice the whole chemistry and spark between kate and anthony a bit of a different example though a maiden who's a bit more rebellious is serena vander woodson from gossip girl you know she's magnetic playful fun she's carefree and she has some of that rebellion in her but she also kind of seems very innocent at the same time some other examples of maidens are carrie bradshaw from sex and the city and emily from emily in paris we all wanted to be serena vanderwoodson now if you want to embody more of this maiden energy bring

out that childlike curiosity and wonder let yourself relax soften your body let yourself be more receptive let yourself be taken care of let yourself be more flexible you know you don't have to control everything bring out that inner wonder and innocence and playfulness and see every day as a new little adventure you know don't take things too seriously let yourself live a little bit and let yourself empathize with others and feel your emotions fully that is how you tap into your inner maiden now let's move on to the mother and she's portrayed by the goddess

demeter so as you might expect the mother has a very natural strong maternal instinct she's nurturing she's comforting she loves to feel needed she loves to help others she's truly very fulfilled by that and many of these women probably not all but most of them usually have a strong desire to have kids and become a mother themselves and that is a very important part in their life so you might really enjoy cooking for other people nourishing other people or just being there emotionally for other people and these women likely feel like they're the mom of

the friend group you know they're the ones always checking in on everyone you know if one of your friends drank too much and they're throwing up in the bathroom the mother is the one who's holding that girl's hair back the mother is really grounded you know she has this strong earthy energy she's usually very approachable much more down to earth and naturally just has that comforting energy you know she just makes people feel good and feel safe and these are the women who oftentimes are very gentle and soft but they can be fierce and protective

when they need to some examples of the mother in media are glinda the good witch from wizard of oz i'm linda you know she's beautiful nurturing has this soft comforting presence also the mom from forrest gump you know she's willing to do what it takes to protect her kid and take care of her kid and she has this soft grounding energy monica from friends she's another example she's more of the mom of the friend group also people like jennifer garner rhys witherspoon even angelina jolie they all give off strong mother energy now the shadow side

of the mother is that she loves to nurture she loves to feel needed right so sometimes she can lack boundaries and she can give and give and give to others and leave none for herself she can get burnt out she can struggle to say no so although giving to others and helping others can be an incredibly fulfilling thing for the mother archetype it can also be draining if they have no time for themselves or if they're not being nurtured too you know if they're not being taken care of as well another potential shadow side of

the mother is that she can sometimes suppress her feelings her emotions her needs and kind of bury it down because you know she's usually more focused on other people than herself so if a woman who really embodies this archetype is upset or sad or struggling or angry instead of talking about it and expressing her feelings sometimes she will bury it down and then become a bit passive-aggressive about it or resentful about it later and lastly they might have that mother's know best type of personality where they know the right answer to everything they know how

to do things the best they know what other people need and they can sometimes be a little bit controlling and so they can unknowingly give off the message to either their kids or other people in their life that they aren't capable or what they're doing isn't good enough because she has this tendency to sometimes take over you know she's trying to help but sometimes you have to let people do things on their own even if you think that you could do it better and this can help prevent you from getting burnt out too now if

you want to embody more of that mother archetype nurture comfort others be more approachable be welcoming cook a delicious meal for your friends and family let that love you feel toward others let it radiate from you let other people in your life truly feel it and take care of the people and things you love and this does not just have to be kids this could be your friends your pets your plants your house your community even yourself many women will naturally embody this archetype when they become mothers and when they have you know a newborn

baby especially when they're fresh out of the womb you know they're very dependent on you and your life kind of revolves around them for a little bit and you really have to step into that mother role so i'm not saying to have a kid to turn on that mother archetype within you but what i am saying is that usually having children will naturally bring out the mother archetype in every woman next is the lover and she is embodied by the goddess aphrodite the lover is sensual slow she's present in everything she does she's magnetic and

she kind of radiates sex appeal even when she's not trying to and she's usually much more in tune with her sexuality as well than other women she's passionate usually very creative she's extroverted she's expressive possibly a little bit dramatic and she loves love she's moved by love how is she going to have any time for being in love and she can fall in love pretty quickly and pretty easily but with that same regard she can also fall out of love pretty quickly and easily the lover's main priority is feeling her way through life and experiencing

everything to the fullest you know she wants heightened pleasure and she really wants to enjoy her days so this energy is very captivating and it captures the attention of both men and women and although she is more in touch with her sexuality that doesn't mean that she necessarily acts on it but it does mean that she's got a fire going in there you know it's burning this can be a bit uncomfortable for the lover woman sometimes because you know on one end society says that sexuality and sex appeal is everything but on the other end

says that embracing your sexuality and being in tune with your sexuality is not okay so the lover can sometimes struggle with this balance of like how do i express myself marilyn monroe is a typical lover and she definitely embodies some of that maiden energy too though for sure but marilyn monroe was slow and sensual and present in everything she did you know she was very expressive with her face she was captivating and magnetic and even just like by the way she walked she was a lover jessica rabbit is a lover you know that sultry voice

her outfit the way that she carries herself and holds herself and she just radiates sexual energy sofia vergara gives off a lot of that love or energy you know she's passionate can be a little bit feisty she's beautiful and she kind of knows her power and knows how powerful her beauty is she's very expressive too samantha from sex in the city another great example of a lover you know she's very in tune with her sexuality and that's a very important part of her life now some of the potential issues that a lover can have is

that they might focus too much on pleasure and living in the moment and what feels good and although sometimes that can be a great thing if that's what we do all the time then that can lead us to make some really poor choices you know this is the type of woman who might spend way too much money on something because in that moment they want it even though it means their bank account will be totally drained and totally empty before the end of the month they don't necessarily think about the consequences of their actions and

they will likely learn some painful lessons in life and learn from some uncomfortable situations that they have accidentally created but it's important that the lover actually learns from them and uses these lessons going forward a lover might also struggle with long-term relationships because to them passion is everything you know it's the most important thing in their life and in long-term relationships what can sometimes happen is that that passion can ebb and flow you know it depends on what you have going on in your life or you're really stressed or whatnot but this is very hard

for the lover woman because she always wants that magic so if she feels like she's not feeling that anymore that might cause her to suddenly break up with our partner and move on to someone new create that new magic that new spark that new passion and then this cycle can happen over and over again so for the lover if you want a successful long-term relationship you have to make sure that that passion stays alive and you have to work to keep that passion going and not let it fade away if you want to embody more

of this lover archetype slow down be more present be more sensual with everything you do you know swing your hips when you walk wear red lipstick eat a delicious meal slowly and savor every bite and just feel that love and passion within you you know that love and passion is in there and every single woman for some woman it might come more naturally than others but it's in there get more comfortable with your sexuality don't shy away from attention let yourself live a little bit and embrace pleasure now obviously there is a balance to this

in life but not a hundred percent everything in your life has to be practical life is meant to be experienced and fully enjoyed all right let's move on to the queen and she is embodied by the goddess hera so the queen is incredibly loyal and committed she just naturally has that regal elegant energy and she can be a really good leader but one of the defining aspects of the queen is that marriage and having a partnership is very important to her you know she wants to have her king she wants to love someone and be

the backbone of her partner and that is very fulfilling to her these women are naturally very confident and are very good at taking charge when they need to and in a relationship they tend to look for a partner who you know is powerful and has high status and is a leader and kind of embodies that king energy and like i said the queen woman they're very very loyal and they expect that same loyalty in return so in a partnership they desire a high amount of loyalty now because marriage and a loyal companion is so important

to her sometimes that means that she doesn't feel as fulfilled in her single years a wonderful example of this queen energy is blair waldorf from gossip girl of course you know she just radiates queen energy she knows how to take charge she is confident all of that comes naturally to her also emily from gilmore girls you know rory's grandma she is very fulfilled as a wife she takes her role as wife very seriously and is very loyal to richard her partner let me do that and she is just naturally very regal and elegant i think

gilmore you are one classy bride also nancy reagan ronald reagan's wife she was a queen as well now the potential shadow sides of the queen we can see in some of these examples as well and again these are just potential weaknesses but sometimes the queen can be a little bit judgmental especially of other women and they can also be a little bit jealous sometimes too and we can see both of these traits in both blair and emily she can also be the type of woman where like if you cross her like you are gonna get

it revenge and like i said many times she is very loyal which is a great quality of hers but sometimes she can be loyal almost to a fault like she can keep her loyalty to someone or for her husband for example even when they don't deserve it anymore even when she should let it go the example for this would be you know if a husband cheats the queen woman might get angry at the mistress as opposed to the husband sometimes she may struggle with long-term female friends too you know female friends might not be as

important to her as they are for other women that doesn't mean that they're not important but oftentimes they're just not as important you know she may be the type of woman especially if she's younger like in high school or college where she gets a boyfriend and then she immediately drops all of her friends and stops hanging out with them that is one of the potential weaknesses of the queen so if you are a queen don't forget about your girlfriends because they are very important these women might also struggle with low self-esteem if they're not in

a relationship because it is usually so important to them and a little tip if you are in a relationship be sure to not lose your sense of self make sure that you're still doing things just for you and you know who you are as your own individual woman so if you want to embody some of this queen energy though practice your confidence you know don't be afraid to take charge when it feels right or even when it feels uncomfortable too keep your chin up even dress more regal and elegant all of these things will help

and let yourself be committed and loyal to the people in your life that love you and that deserve it and see the beauty in that deep loyalty now let's move on to the huntress and she's very different from what we've talked about so far so the huntress is embodied by the goddess artemis and she is bold courageous independent adventurous and very goal oriented she's a woman who has little interest in pleasing other people just for the sake of it you know she's not a people pleaser and she knows what she wants in life and sometimes

she can come off as a bit stubborn but she's usually not very stubborn she's usually just very determined and focused and knows what she wants huntress women are usually very passionate about the causes that are important to her and have a deep desire to make an impact in the world and fulfill their purpose and although they may definitely still want marriage and children and all of that it's usually not like the highest priority in their life or if they do want that it's something that might come later in their life a lot of huntress women

feel like they want to live their life first hunters can also be very competitive and focused and resilient you know think about katniss everdeen from hunger games she's a huntress she is bold she is adventurous and she is focused also kate from the newer season of bridgeton she is a huntress you know she is out riding her horse alone in the middle of the night now as the season progresses you can see that anthony kind of brings out the inner lover in her you could see that through their chemistry and their passion and that spark

and them making some you know maybe some bad decisions but at the end of the day she still very much has this strong independent huntress energy wonder woman is another example miranda from sex in the city you know she was very goal focused and for the huntress her goals are usually like her highest priority in life gloria steinem is another great example of the huntress she was a very big leader in the femininity movement and had a strong passion and purpose and focus in her life and that's another quality about the huntress they usually are

very big or outspoken or passionate about women's rights or being an ally to women so some potential shadow sides though is that sometimes she can be a little bit emotionally distant or aloof or she might be a little bit oblivious to the emotions and feelings of others uh not very empathetic you know she might come off as cold sometimes they can also be prone to anger as well you know sometimes the hunter's woman really struggles in the area of like love compassion forgiveness letting go and surrendering if they're a less evolved woman they may also

see any sort of stereotypical feminine traits like love softness gentleness receptivity as less than or weak so an unevolved huntress woman might look down on that even though at the same time they're trying to champion women's causes now if you want to embody more of the huntress focus on your goals focus on your passion and purpose in your life stay focused don't be afraid to be bold and do things on your own sometimes you know be a bit more independent speak up use your voice get behind some sort of cause or movement even participating in

more sports can help you to embody more of that huntress energy next is the sage and she's portrayed by the goddess athena so the sage is wise loves to learn and is usually a quick learner at that she's organized strategic and she's usually very mature like even from a young age she acts very mature she's resourceful she's practical and in general she tends to be ruled more by her head than by her heart and she takes logic and practicality quite seriously but she's the type of woman who gets stuff done you know she's efficient she

is smart and she doesn't crumble under pressure she is able to keep her cool and you know handle the situation she's curious she's good at investigating and researching she's a good planner she's also patient the most important aspect of the stage is that she is driven by the pursuit of knowledge and has a natural wisdom and intellect within her and even though she has all those logical practical organized qualities that doesn't mean she can't also be creative and she may also love to teach as well and similar to the huntress the sage woman is also

more independent too and her main top priority in life is usually not love and a partner it's usually has to do with knowledge and her own development amal clooney is a sage super wise very educated grounded elegant respected successful hermione from harry potter she was a sage she always had her head in a book she was always learning something new she was the smartest one in her class even emma watson herself gives off strong sage energy you know education was important to her she went to an ivy league school she was a un ambassador olivia

pope from scandal is a sage a lot of president's wives are sages actually like michelle obama she has strong sage energy and the reason for this is that stages also make really great counselors and the strategizers and they usually play a very important role not only in the success of themselves but also the success of their husbands you know that saying like behind every man is a great woman that's especially true with the sage woman she helps him to strategize and succeed and the sage woman is also very attracted to hard-working highly respected men in

leadership positions now the potential shadow side of the stage though is that sometimes she can be a little bit too disconnected from her emotions and her body and her intuition and it might be hard to connect with those deeper emotional parts of herself and really tap into like any sort of passion and intimacy within her it's just something that the stage woman has to consciously think about you know she has to consciously think to not get too stuck in her head and also be able to tap into her heart and the deeper parts of herself

the stage woman also has the potential to be a little bit critical sometimes and possibly even a little bit intimidating because you know sages they know their stuff they're very knowledgeable in their field and they can sometimes come off as a little bit harsh or even a little bit cold sometimes if they lack empathy understanding and love now if you want to embody more of that sage energy though learn focus on your intellectual pursuits focus on expanding your knowledge let your interests guide you to books and courses and podcasts etc become wise and knowledgeable in

your field the biggest thing that you can do to tap into your stage energy is to expand your knowledge and learn new things and become so confident in what you know that you just give off this like grounded confident wise energy but you can also try to be more organized having a more organized household or a more organized way of life this will really help you as well last is the mystic and she is embodied by the goddess hestia so the mystic is intuitive usually very introverted and her biggest focus in life is her own

inner peace and her own inner tranquility and she is likely more spiritually minded or religious but she doesn't have a big ego at all like she does not focus on achievements or success just for the sake of status or anything like that that is just not important to her she is a homebody and really loves her home and really tries to take care of it because again her main focus is in her peace and tranquility and her home is an extension of that another quality about the mystic though is that they naturally feel very warm

and cozy they give off the energy of like a comforting fire that's how people feel when they're with a mystic woman like they're sitting next to a cozy fire in general the mystic is very inward focused and is usually very creative and it's possible that she is an artist or a writer or a photographer or something of that nature and the competitive corporate world is not for her like the mystics and hustle culture just do not mix she needs independence to create in her own way and at her own pace mystics are often not portrayed

in the media and they're a lot harder to find examples for but the best one that i've heard is that singer sade you know she just gives off this warm energy very intuitive like she looks intuitive she sounds intuitive she seems very inward focused and soulful and phoebe from friends she's a little bit different you know a little bit more extroverted but she still has a lot of these mystic qualities you know she kind of doesn't really care what people think she marches to the beat of her own drum she's a little bit quirky but

also kind of like wise and intuitive at the same time also i feel like angelina jolie embodies a lot of these mystic qualities as well now she seems very introverted apparently she's very into astrology i feel like she's very into all of that kind of stuff i don't know she just comes off as having those mystic qualities and same with megan fox like i feel like she's got some mystic in her as well but the potential shadow sides of the mystic is that they might coop themselves up too much you know they love their alone

time but they might accidentally completely isolate themselves or be too much of a homebody they might forget how important it is to have community and to be with friends and family so if you're a mystic it's okay to love your alone time but don't forget to balance it out with time with others the mystic can also sometimes lack the ability to be like assertive and stand up for themselves and be bold when they need to because they're naturally more inward they tend to struggle with expressing their emotions outwardly and communicating their feelings and their needs

and all of those things like that and they have this tendency to naturally pull everything inward and isolate themselves when they're struggling or when they have heavier emotions but we all need support sometimes sometimes the mystic needs to learn how to communicate and ask for help and reach out for support and love now if you want to embody more of the mystic meditate pray spend time alone but quality time alone not just like sitting on your bed scrolling on your phone take a bubble bath or read a book and journal or something like that any

sort of solo activities that put you in a zen-like state or a flow-like state can be really beneficial for embodying the mystic so painting drawing cooking or photography or anything artsy or creative that can really help here the mystic is also a little bit slower and more present in their life so try to slow down a bit and kind of forget about time sometimes and just be in the moment and of course listen to your intuition try to hear your intuition try to tap more into that side of yourself this will really help you to

tap into that inner mystic let me know in the comments which archetype or archetypes you resonate with most or what your quiz results were i'll share mine in the comments as well but i think it'd be fun if we all just kind of shared so just remember though that all of these feminine archetypes it's not about just you know finding who you are it's about learning to access the different parts of yourself so thank you so much for watching i hope you enjoyed this video and i will see you next time bye