Gaur Gopal Das: Remove NEGATIVITY From Your MIND and Become UNSTOPPABLE!

[Music] do you know something in the game of life you're playing a cricket match against an entity called the mind no one on planet Earth can stop you from accomplishing and achieving what you want if you can bat against the Googlies that the Mind bowls at you how many of you have trouble in studying and you come here you hear all of these things don't get distracted by WhatsApp don't get distracted by internet pornography don't get distracted by Twitter study how many of you wanted to wake up early in the morning raise your hand and

how many of you have done something called as setting an alarm clock and then after setting the alarm clock whether you want it or not it rings and when it rings the Mind puts its first googly what does the Mind do by putting the googly when you do the first snooze you are out if you snooze you are out hey it's EV Carmichael and I make these videos because in my first business I struggled to believe in myself I quit on my business partner and the thing that saved me was watching the successful stories of

entrepreneurs they gave me the inspiration to keep going as well as the strategies of what to do and quite honestly I still need their stories and motivation today as well so today let's live your best belief life and get some incredible motivation from the one and only G gal Das I want to say one thing just one and probably this will change the direction of your life you know something when you snooze the alarm what happens you decide to give into the mind's ball and this is how your morning Begins by giving into the [Music]

minding in and it's no problem giving in sleeping 5 minutes extra is no problem the problem is you develop the attitude of giving in you tell yourself that what I decided last night is not as important what is important important is what the mind says because we listen I'll tell you something my humble advice because it's not just about getting up in the morning it's about every aspect of life whether it's your work if you're working whether it's your study if you're studying whatever we do the problem is it's not about one thing it reflects

in every area of life [Music] don't allow that snooze there is a concept called sledging in cricket where the opponent team comes and gives G to the batsman G they try to distract them and take their focus away one thing that Sachin is adored for in the history of cricket is sledging hasn't bothered him this man is is cool are you cool when people do sledging against you in The Game of Life are you cool or you lose your cool there will always be people who are out of control can you stop a guy from

criticizing you can you start an opponent team from sledging it's called things which are out of our control people are out of our control sometimes our situ situations in your control many times no the guy who was batting was expecting an inswing ball and that's what the bowler bowled and one gush of wind an inswing becomes an outswing and it's caught out lot of things situations people are just out of our control how many of you think question paper is in your control and when things go wild now I'll tell you what happens with us

this is what happens with us you know this is what happens with us see see how it forms up we react the stimulus of a person sledging against us criticizing pulling us down envious of us conspiring politicking makes us react and form out we start reacting also and look at this this is also [Music] sealed the question is do you want to be a 7UP can or a oxy cool bottle of water and I'm sure a lot of us would says and thus in our life we will always have a stimulus and we can choose

to respond because between the stimulus and response is our choice a great personality is not born in the maternity World a great personality is born by the choices that one makes and therefore when there are all kinds of stimuli we have to learn how to respond if we are not strong spiritually it is impossible if we are not strong culturally it is impossible all this sounds great and good and we know yes I want to do it I can't be a can of soda I want to be a water bottle but is it so easy

no that is why coming here is so important that is why this foundational eth ethics of spirituality are so crucial in this age as all of you are going to be successful in your own areas of life if not Cricket per se and thus we have to learn how to respond what is the most selfish onlet word I isn't it everything revolves around I iPhone iPad iPod and the man says I paid for what everything revolves around the eye and what does I stand for I stands for expectations I should be treated like this I

should be loved like this I should be dealt with like this I should be respected like this I should be given these many marks I should not be given this you're all leading a life of super high expectations everything revolves around my opinions my desires my likes my dislikes I love this I want this I don't want this I I I I I you think life will be a very happy life when it revolves around I from our childhood we have grown up like this we've only learned to take and everyone has to fulfill my

expectations everything has to be up to my expectations therefore when people come to God people come to Temple also they're only asking give me what I want no one comes to say I love you I want I want to give you when the president of the United States John F Kennedy came up to Stage for his first presidential speech his voice rumbled into the public address system when he said ask not what the country can do for you ask what you can do for the country and so we are saying ask not what God can

do for you ask what you can do for God but no one asks that because the eye is so big my expectations my desires my things are so powerful that even when I come to a temple and ring a bell all I'm doing is asking the more we lead a life of ey our eye will always be first frustrated because people don't exist in this world to just fulfill your expectations therefore ladies and gentlemen the most selfish one lettered word is I which stands for expectations and therefore avoid this word how do you avoid this

word be realistic in your expectations but understand that not everyone will fulfill your expectation and secondly avoid this word I by trying to serve others you know why because when you want to be served you're dependent on people they may not serve you when you want to serve who can stop you when you want respect people may not respect you but when you want to give a respect who can stop you when you want to be loved you may not be loved but when you want to give love who can stop you when you want

in charity people may not give you in charity but when you want to give charity who can stop you and therefore learn to begin your journey from I to you the more you want for yourself you'll remain frustrated the more you want to give you will remain happy when you want to achieve success in your career in your academics in your business in your profession we will fail and that's the example of the giraffe when the baby giraffe is born Falls from such a high distance straight on the ground the mother positions herself right above

the baby giraffe and guess what she does first gives it a hard kick so as it just coming out of that impact jka the mother gives a b second harder kick now the guy understands so this baby giraffe starts getting up on its wobbly legs you know on its wobbly legs and as the baby giraff gets up on the wobbly leg he gets up and starts running and then the mother giraff goes hugs the baby and starts kissing the baby you know why because the baby gira's flesh is very soft and supple and hyenas and

lions love it the mother knows that I can't be with the baby J all the time to go and get food for the baby how would I protect it we fail we should get up and we'll fail again we should get up and like I always say Don't just go through life grow through life also to make sure you're actually taking action after watching this video I've designed a special free worksheet just for this video the worksheet will highlight all the Lessons Learned in this video as as well as pull out our three favorite learnings

and quotes that will inspire you to actually do something the worksheet will also give you space to write down what your key takeaways are and your specific plan of action to make sure you're getting results if you want the worksheet designed specifically for this video absolutely for free there's a link in the description below go click on it and start building the momentum in your life and your business I'll see you there it's quite amazing isn't it that when something stuck in our tooth the tongue just keeps going to that tooth until unless that stuff

is out of our tooth it just keeps going there now this 31 other teeth in our mouth when nothing's stuck the tongue can go there and say hey wow look there's nothing stuck here go to one of the other tooth where there's nothing stuck and say hey look amazing there's nothing stuck here but just the nature of the tongue that it keeps going to where something is stuck and surely we have to deal with it whenever I travel in my handbag I always have dental floss and a box of toothpicks with me just in case

something is stuck I have to take it out certainly we have to deal with it at the same time there's a lot of other good things that we can focus on ladies and gentlemen it's not just the nature of the town isn't it the nature of the mind as well when there is a problem an issue stuck in a certain area of our life the Mind keeps going to that problem and just gets stuck into the negativity of trying to deal with it but this 31 or shall I say many many more good things happening

in so many different areas of our life where there's no problems no issues stuck yet the mind only keeps going to those areas where there are problems it is necessary therefore for all of us that we focus on the good that is happening in our life and deal with the bad or the problems that are happening in our life let us not consume our minds with negativity let us consume our minds with positivity Focus on the positive and deal with the negative most often if not always Our Lives seem to be out of balance and

when lives are out of balance it makes us very irritable you know when we drive a car we always drive a car and a car has four wheels a rhetorical thing to say isn't it you drive a car on these four wheels and these four wheels in the car of Life represent first first whe your personal life your health your mind yourself the things that you love to do the things that you would want to do not have to do most times we live a life of have to do I have to study I have

to work I have to pay my bills I have to pay the taxes I have to do this and I have to do that I have to go for this social function I don't have a choice I have to have to have to have to where did the love to go we just end up living a life of Have and Have Forgot about our own selves by subscribing to the pressures that come from all fronts in our lives we've forgotten to live our own lives we don't have time to unwind we don't have time to

spend with our own selves we don't have time to be with nature and take a deep breath and just relish the crispness of the air we don't have the time to do all of that especially in a metropolitan City like this when the pressures are so high and the pace is so fast we just don't have time for ourselves ladies and gentlemen and that's one car one wheel of our car isn't it personal life our health for instance such an important thing but at the cost of just running we we forget to pay attention to

our own health the second wheel of the car is Family Life demands attention isn't it your personal life demands attention your family life demands attention isn't it before marriage when you are in love they call it a crush isn't it but after marriage all that is left is Candy Crush all the crushes are and gone and all that you're left with is a Candy Crush just keep playing Candy Crush and all the headaches coming from all the pressures one lady went to a doctor and the doctor said how's your headache Madam she said he's out

of town gosh I must tell you Demands a lot of attention your personal life the first Tire do you have one do you have a personal life is my question do you have time for your health even in my hectic schedule I have made 5 days of exercise here still in all the lectures and all the talks and everywhere I go because that's what's going to keep me going I have to give time to myself because I don't get more than three and a half to 4 hours of sleep so if I don't look at

my physical fitness I'm gone ladies and gentlemen do you give time for yourself do you have time for yourself your personal time or is that wheel out of balance is it a flat tire the third wheel tire of the car of life is your professional life your personal life needs attention your family life needs attention your professional life needs attention and the fourth is your social life your friends people around you your colleagues those relationships that matter a lot to you those people who would support you in time of need because to your spouses to

your family you could speak a little sometimes certain things are not always confided with just blood relationships you need that social side people to whom you can speak open up your heart how often do we just carry this baggage of stress and load anxiety and worry in our heads lugging it all around as baggage there's a social side to our life our friends you know I've had those moments where I've snapped even as a monk because I'm a human being just because I put this Robes of a monk doesn't mean I've become you know a

Celestial angel I'm still a human being when one of those tires is out of order if I haven't slept well if my health is out of place I'm going to snap out you know you can carry work pressures at home you carry home pressures at work ladies and gentlemen irritability is a symptom of an outof balance life stability in our responses is a symptom of a life inbalance we are irritable we snap we react at the drop of a hat for trivia just because we are out of balance people people who have a balanced life

know how to handle pressure people whose lives are not balanced sink under pressure and get so irritable at little things they just kind of snap off I'm actually a camera shy person believe it or not you know when people shoot me and they just post some clips that's fine with me but talking to a camera it's a machine it's just some electronic machine the camera doesn't laugh the camera doesn't cry the cam doesn't have any interpersonal reciprocation in dealings and I must tell you I felt very nervous in fact really fearful as well to speak

into a camera was more fear of failure I would say because you know when you speak into a camera and if it's relayed and it's put online how do people see it otherwise when I'm with people people have seen me speak and I decided when the motive is to serve and contribute we have to face our fears we have to deal with our fears face them and Rise about them at some point of time I had to decide to come and speak so one day I decided that's it I have to come speak in front

of the camera the first time I did it believe me we will post that video Once you must see me speaking there stiff expressionless motionless stoic nonchalant face you know and I guess I'm kind of slowly getting better because in order to deal with these fears you have to face them you to start somewhere it's a beautiful slide when followed in life I guarantee you life will be different I guarantee you if this is applied in life we can have peaceful nights sleep here it is do you have a problem in life no then why

worry do you have a problem in life yes can you do something about it yes then why worry do you have a problem in life yes can you do something about it no then why worry isn't it is it not why wor in the Journey of life as well the takeoff which it is our birth is completely beyond our control we didn't choose our parents we didn't choose which nation we were born in we didn't choose which city we were born in we didn't choose our socio economic class we were born in we didn't choose

our looks we didn't choose the religion we were born in our takeoff of the Journey of life was completely Beyond us and the landing death even that will be completely Beyond us I've heard many times people telling me that they would just love to die by getting a massive heart attack and dropping dead no trouble for them no hospitalization no tubes no needles no trouble caused to others in one shot go now no matter how much we might wish that it's just beyond us how we go and how the landing happens is completely Beyond us

and what about the turbulence the disturbances the problems during the Journey of our life some of them are within our control which we can solve but many problems and issues and the turbulence caus is completely beyond our control because it's caused by situations which are Beyond us it's caused by people who are Beyond us yes ladies and gentlemen in this journey of Life the takeoff the landing and the turbulence is not in our control what is in our control however is the choices we can make and therefore spirituality is about learning how to make those

right choices when we learn to make those right choices we learn to live a transformed happy fulfilled life despite all the turbulence and problems that are going on around us it is said when we are beautiful it's God's gift to us when we live our life beautiful it is our gift to God therefore being a male is a matter of birth being a man is a matter of age being a gentleman is a matter of choice and as a corer to that being a female is a matter of birth being a woman is a matter

of age being a gentle woman is a matter of choice let us all take to spiritual wisdom learn to make the right choices which are within our control as our gift to God and thus live our lives as thorough and perfect lady ladies and gentlemen I was telling the story the other day this is my favorite story I just keep sharing it all the time this is what really happened you can't believe this but this happened I came to London hro once and at London hro I came to the immigration officer and this immigration officer

elderly man he said so what are you here for I said to give talks he said then are you living at your W Food Center I said yeah he said how long will you stay here for I said about two weeks uh he said and can I ask you a personal question I said please sir he said uh are you [Music] married I said you are an Indian aren't you I'm a monk he said no I was just crosschecking just in case and then he said can I ask you another one please I said yes

he said are you not missing any in life he thought he caught me at the wrong foot are you not missing anything in life I said of course I am he said what I said problems you know what he loved my answer believe me hand on my heart he stamped my passport and as I'm walking out of the gate he put his hand on my head blessing me said Son remain like this son remain like this you will never have to go through any issues and your problems in life God uh you know what I

mean it's nice to laugh at but as I walked through the gate I turned to him and told him look gentlemen I must tell you something don't think that me as a monk is free from problems anyone who lives in this doggy dog love world as you might say or anyone who lives in this world full of ratray and pressures whether it's you who are a student studying or one a few corporates or business people who's working a married man or lady who's kind of dealing with family life or myself as a monk we are

all subject to our own pressures we are all subject to our own stresses we are all subject to our own individual worries and anxieties just the flavor is different a lady asked me after the session in the Q&A session sir you said that you were an electrical engineer why did you give up your career as an electrical engineer I said Madam I didn't give up my career as an electrical engineer I upgraded my career from being an electrical engineer to a lifestyle engineer and I said to her each of us based on our particular faculties

of knowledge should be contributing to the world's solutions to problems engineering is all about offering solutions to problem all Engineers are offering solutions to problems all bodies of knowledge offering solutions to problem and I thought mine is one offering solutions to problems related to Lifestyle problems happen challenges happen struggles happen issues happen misunderstandings happen Health crisises happen Financial crunches happen markets go down and that happens all of that happens happiness doesn't happen you have to make it happen because right things don't happen you have to make the right things Fitness is the right thing doesn't

happen you have to make Fitness happen any of you want to lose any weight losing weight doesn't happen you have to make it happen not reacting when you're angry shutting that Bloody mouth up doesn't happen you have to make it happen only wrong things happen automatically right things you have to make them happen they don't happen like that I'll tell you what we all react in our own ways to lose it not reacting and shutting this up doesn't happen you have to make it happen saying a sorry when somebody hurts you or forgiving somebody when

somebody hurts you doesn't happen you have to make it happen like sometimes you find child prodigies you know they're like Masters in singing or dancing or writing or whatever they do like you see 2-year-old kids when their hands were Go on a piano he Spellbound now don't tell me that he could learn that and master it at that age don't tell me a 2-year-old can't master the alphabet don't tell me that he mastered it by learning it in fact nobody taught it to him he got it he got it now when you say he got

it don't call it genetic how does how do genes give you a music skill you know how so I know kids young little kids who are like prodigies in what they do at 1 and a half at two it's absolutely phenomenal and then now where is where is faith and belief here it's rational logic that this guy has a it not come from learning it's not come from Reading nobody imparted to him must come from somewhere How can there be an effect without a cause abent and I can't see an immediate cause right now so

there has to be a remote cause before this right you know what I mean whether I call it karma whether I call it whatever but I I can't accept an effect without a cause it's against my rational thinking you know so now if this gentleman this little boy or little little girl he or she has this in incredible Talent we call it the common parlons is he or she's god- gifted absolutely absolutely God Gifted Man look at sky yeah not learned look at how they're doing it so that is that to me is called it

luck call it Destiny call it karma Call It Whatever I didn't get I didn't grab it I got it Matthew mccon when he got the Oscar he said something phenomenal I loved it uh in fact it's written in the book as well he first of course thanked God thanked his wife thanked his father thanked his mom and he said I want to thank God I want to thank God because opportunities are not given by the human hand I didn't seek a lot and it came to me how do I explain it there's a million other

people who are seeking they don't get it that's right and I don't see and I get it what am I going to explain it by you know you know what I mean now what that little one does with that Talent or what that what this gentleman does or this lady does with the opportunity that has come is my free will correct or my choice whether to drive right or to drive left or to not drive right correct but the car for a lot of people was given yes correct now uh that Free Will part is

where I often like to quote I say uh I don't know who said it but it's a beautiful quote says when hard work beats Talent when talent doesn't work [Music] hard absolutely you know so now the talent came to you when you were two but if you don't do nothing with it it has no meaning it has no meaning so you didn't drive the car you grossly abused the Fantastic gift the car that you were given AB correct and then the others may not get a car like that but they have their own car yes

which they now need to identify that's called self-discovery yes to be able to identify what's the car you've been given what's what's it that you've been gifted with and everybody has been gifted with something there are five levels of people people on level one the lowest level is a person who only sees bad in others For Heaven's Sake that guy just cannot see any good anyone here like that I don't think so we're not so bad that we just can't see any good some people just can't see you know it's like when you like someone

even the guy does the biggest crime you say Mar you like him but when you don't like someone even if he do the good best thing you don't like like him and if you have that experience if you just don't like someone even if he has all the good qualities you just can't like him there are some people on the lowest level they only focus on the bad they can't see the good the level higher are those who see the good and the bad but conveniently ignore the good and focus on the bad how often

it happen happens when we live with people there's so many good things in them but conveniently we neglect the good things and only focus on the bad my husband digs the nose [Music] okay he digs his nose but he also does many other good things how come you forgot all of those and only water how you only saw that how come you only saw that you know we conveniently neglect the good and focus on the bad the third category of people are those those who see good and bad equally and they're neutral they're not concerned

good bad they're in their own world the fourth category are those who see the good and bad they choose to ignore the bad or deal with the bad and focus on the good if you want to like a person you have to be on level four if you want to like a person if you're on level two where you ignoring the good and focusing on the bad how will you like that person and how will that relationship be deep when you're on level four where you choose to ignore the bad or if the need be

deal with the bad and focus on the good and the fifth level is those who only see good that's God and spiritually enlightened individuals who will only see good in others anybody here who's on level one only seeing bad can raise your hand nobody okay thank you anybody is here on level five only seeing good if you raise your hand I don't believe you oh sorry madam I do believe you I'm I didn't see you raise your hand I was just joking sorry I'm I I truly believe you madam I I didn't see you raise

your hand please I just happen to say by thinking nobody is thank you madam we really appreciate can we give a loud Round of Applause for her my God amazing okay now in your close relationships in your close relationships how many of you find yourself many times stuck at level two level two where you kind of look at the bad and forget the good that they have thank you in our relationships we need to come to level four I'll tell you what the nature of problems is that it consumes our mind imagine a tooth which

is hurting I don't if somebody's had their fingers stuck in the edge of the door and the door is slammed good Heavens it hurts like hell and then the pain is just so all consuming the mind just focuses so much on the pain right I think it's just the nature of problems that it draws our mind towards them like the tongue going towards a [ __ ] seed in my tooth when it was stuck it's like Gravity the law of gravity if we put this up and put it up here and drop it it's going

to just be pulled down yeah dragged down by the power of gravity I think there's a power of gravity existing within us as well they're just natural for us to be dragged down to our issues our problems to everything that's negative I think being being pulled into negativity is so normal it's like gravity put the bottle down it falls Stu you don't have to do anything but if I were to full water up from the ground floor to the eighth floor I need a motor correct to work against gravity and I need conscious hard work

to bring it there so it's so natural for the mind to feel negative and go towards the problem but if I have to look at 31 other teeth I have to make a conscious choice to take my tongue away right if I have to pull the water down from the ground floor to the eighth floor I have to put a pump to pull it up it's not easy work it's hard work right but hard work pays off that's when you like look at really saying okay this is fulfilling me now and that and and I

I definitely don't want to impose this this principle of gratitude in a in a unrealistic way on people because sometimes misery is so intense absolutely you know when troubles are smaller you can and still consciously look at the brighter side of life you know but sometimes troubles are just so intense and massive and they seem to be like mountains unmoving unshakeable mountains they just stand there for ages and decades how in such a situ wouldn't it be so violent to forcefully impose the principle of gratitude on a person whose life is so acutely absorbed in

intense misery you know I call that toxic positivity it's toxic it's not natural so what does one do really yeah it just yeah in such a situation when it's just so overwhelmingly painful you know my take on it is it's hard to look at the brighter side when this intense pain there but at the same time I also feel if we are consumed by negativity with that pain and that problem and occupying our mind we lose the ability to deal with it the way we are meant to correct so if we could seek help if

I'm not able to see it we could seek help of somebody it could be professional help or personal help friends whoever it could be we could seek help to be able to shift our attention to even the tiniest things so that that little positivity becomes the anchor to deal with I want to just offer to you three essential principles of gratitude being Mindful and grateful the first one being recognizing recognizing all the wonderful things that have been done to us believe me you we are in such a such a rush most of the time you

not even thoughtful and mindful to recognize the incredible gifts that have been showered upon us how many of you have loving parents most all of us how many of us feel that we've been receiving so much affection from our parents yes how many of you have loving spouses you might want to or may not want to raise your hands that is completely up to you it's your choice ladies and gentlemen whether you want to raise your hands for this how many of you had wonderful teachers good how many of you had some amazing friends great

how many of you have come in contact with some wonderful spiritual personalities great and how many of us feel that our life is a collective sum total of the so many wonderful things that have been done to us by so many in our lives show off hands please all of us isn't it so many of us have been recipients and received so so much from our families from our friends from our teachers from Saints I'll tell you something to be very honest what the world needs today is transformed individuals we have a lot of affluence

we have a lot of influence we have a lot of information we are in an age which is Laden Laden with information you know what we truly need is transformed individuals who can utilize what we have for constructive causes in the world who can truly bring light to the world who can truly bring hope to the world there's enough information what we would need is transformation and what better away but to have a spiritual culture to bring that transformation in individuals and in fact I don't want to say it but I must that spirituality happens

to be one of those major ways to bring transformation and individual people I see so many people following different parts of spirituality and change and transform to not just be a part of competition but be a part of contribution along with competition they're also looking at contribution youth is the Hope For The Wealth youngsters young men and ladies are the ones who can change the shape of planet Earth who can change the way the world functions bringing in incredible hope and light to the world you know when we're talking about science and spirituality I I

feel that I never felt there is a divide or a difference right I feel the purpose is one right when we look at both having the same purpose which is to unwe the truth correct science is trying to unve the truth right and spirituality is wanting to unve the truth correct so how are we different in our purpose correct the methodologies may be different like in science I may use uh uh equipment I may use instruments I may use telescopes I measurements I may use so many different things to be able to figure out what

that truth is correct and I will yes I will phenomenally will correct so from science and from all what I see I have facts not complete facts yet which is why it's always evolving we call it a relative science it's not an absolute science absolutely Mel's periodic table right the values were changing right we found out the truth later we assigned a certain values sorry sir this is not what it is this is the actual value so it's changing so could I say that this is it may not be if I get an instrument which

is better than what I have today I'll probably explore another layer of that same facet right now that's where I get the facts great I need those facts when we talk about spirituality it is giving the purpose of those facts so we should be working in tandem spirituality and SCI science Were Meant to work in tandem one looking at unveiling the truth by giving us factual data and one's saying giving the philosophical side saying what is the purpose of this data correct what is the purpose of this existence and both are two important Dimensions to

the same truth absolutely you know so I I feel that's an artificial divide it's an artificial divide and and it's rigidity on both parts both sides that we can't come together to sit and say hey look like like I I'll give you an example should a doctor should a doctor repair a car that's not a skill set yeah should a car mechanic try and do an open heart surgery no so if I this is my area of expertise let me do that much and not delve into something further let somebody else with this other area

of expertise come together and let's pull it all together to unve the truth together adding our own Dimension to it the one thing that I've learned over the years is that we are all so different our lives are so different our situations are so different our backgrounds are so different our upbringing is so different the Journey of our life up until now for each one of us is so different compared to somebody else and therefore it's so important that we don't judge our own life or the lives of others by comparing them with someone else's

life here's an example if Mr a can Sprint a distance of 10 km in 1 hour whereas Mr B covers the same distance in 1 and A2 hour which one of the two would you call faster and healthier the answer obviously would be Mr a now what if I tell you that Mr a had a prepared track to run on when Mr B did it by walking on a a Sandy path I think our answer will now change and we probably think that Mr B is fitter and let's say we come to know that actually

Mr a is 75 years old while B is only 20 here we go our answer changes again and we now think that the 75-year-old Mr a is healthier guess what Mr a weighs 60 kg whereas Mr B 125 kg which makes it really hard for him to run who do you think did well oh my my goodness now we correct ourselves again as we favor Mr B the more we get to know about the strengths and limitations of Mr A and B respectively our opinions and judgments about who is better keep changing and isn't life

like that as well guys we form opinions about others so quickly so hastily so impulsively so superficially without knowing much about them or their situations we end up judging people labeling people and miss out on connecting to and encouraging the immense potential that they may have life is not the same for all some may not be as talented as others but may get better opportunities and thus scale up very fast whereas others despite being super talented keep struggling just to make the ends meet some may have more resources whereas others can't find any source to

fall back on each one has different problems and so no one solution can work for all just like one size of clothing doesn't fit all so do not judge others Journey without knowing more do not judge your own life by looking at someone else's or comparing your situation with someone else's you are you and they are they your life is your life and theirs is theirs do take inspiration from their journey in a way that you can enrich yours and always remember life is the most difficult exam many people fail because they try to copy

others not realizing that everyone has a different question paper I've done three talks in three cities in B in India early late morning like about 9ish I've spoken in Bangalore in India after that Z come to the airport go to Chennai for another one finish that and come back to Mumbai and straight from the airport go to another I've done three talk in three cities in a day what do you if I snap well you're technically right I did but you're practically wrong ladies and gentlemen I don't snap like that you can interact with me

all the time I don't snap like that but I'm a human body and a human machine in your relationships ladies and gentlemen I make a humble appeal to all of you and beg of you life is short it's very short don't mess up with people the closest people to you give time to them and understand them they may be you they may have said something here and there and you may be technically right okay look at the Hidden Mango yes your husband or your wife may not love you and that's technically right but there may

be a Hidden Mango y find that out before you brand them your son of daughter may not listen to you and you may be completely technically right that they don't obey you but find out the Hidden Mango why are they doing what they are doing they are doing that is clear everybody knows it it doesn't need two pin worth of Common Sense is it a rocket science to understand that is it a rocket science to understand he's not behaving right any damned fool can understand it it needs intelligence and maturity to go behind the technical

rightness and look for the Practical rightness it looks it needs maturity and wisdom to start seeing behind the scene to say why is this person not loving me why is this person behaving like that why is this person not treating me right and if you do that believe me hand on my heart your love for whoever you love will go so deep and your relationship with whoever you relate to will be so profound because it's based on maturity not judgmentalism how can every morning be the same how can every afternoon be the same how can

every evening be the same how can every day be the same every day is a different day and therefore they changed the greeting now greeting good morning happy morning happy morning sir happy morning how you doing this morning happy morning good morning man you can't say good morning because sometimes there may be nothing good that morning nothing good in that day so now the term is Happy morning happy morning because whether the morning is good or not you can still choose to be happy right whether it's good or not cannot be a choice whether the

morning is good or not for you cannot be a choice it's not a choice for you when you wake up some virus may enter into your head and you get up with a high fever it's not a chice you have whether the morning is good or not is not in your control whether the afternoon is good or not is not in your control the evening is good or not is not in your control whether the day is good or not is not in your control but whether you can be happy in that moment well you

can choose to be when people smile it doesn't mean things are going good it just means that they've chosen to smile how many of you breathe I am sorry for asking that question how many of you been breathing for the last couple of minutes as I started this talk I'm sure all of you have how many of you are conscious of your breathing mindful of your breathing I don't think so any of us how many of you use an Apple watch any of you here and do you know that on an Apple Watch there's a

facility which gives you giving you reminders after every 1 hour time to breathe yeah if you use an Apple Watch you know that it gives you a reminder after every 1 hour time to breathe and focus and be mindful of your breathing ladies and gentlemen none of us in the last one odd hour of shall I say through the day have been conscious of our breathing now imagine when you start breathing and you just keep breathing in and in and then and then and then can you live no and imagine if you start breathing out

and you breathe out and you breathe out and you breathe out and you breathe out and you breathe out can you live no can you imagine how life is fashioned in such an incredible sophisticated refined Rhythm the rhythm of breathing when we talk about life we talk about the rhythm of breathing where so unconsciously this taking in and this giving out this taking in and there's giving out if we just keep taking in we choke up and if we just keep giving out we choke up what an incredible balance life has to teach us what

an incredible Rhythm simply our breathing has to teach us that life can't just be a life of takers where we just keep taking taking just taking or taking not can life be just giving giving giving giving the rhythm of breathing gives us an incredible [Music] message take in to give out have to share grab to care that incredible balance that incredible equation is what makes life amazing because you made it this far in a video I want to celebrate you most people start and don't finish most most people never actually follow through most people say

they want something but they don't ever do the work to actually get it but you are different you are special believe Nation you made it here all the way to the end and I love you so as a special celebration if you put a hasht believe down in the comments Below on this video I will showcase you and celebrate you somewhere on the screen in a future video because you are awesome for 10 more rules for Success from s Guru check out the video right there next to me I think you'll love it continue to

believe and I'll see you there believe me you're not going to be here for ever I'll bless you with a long life but you're going to fall Dead one day if you're beginning to think that what you're doing is very important you need to take a holiday you cannot fight