When someone doesn't value you anymore, try this simple trick and watch what happens...

have you ever felt that empty feeling that subtle sadness that comes when someone stops treating you the way they used to maybe a friend who ignores you a partner who takes you for granted a colleague who no longer recognizes your effort and so you start to ask yourself what did I do wrong what can I do to get noticed again but here's the most painful truth the more you try to be appreciated the more you lose value in their eyes but there is a trick that Chang es the rules of the game a small change

in your mindset that can transform the situation and that can even help you discover who really deserves a place in your life stay with me because what I am about to tell you may make you see all of this from a whole new perspective before we begin be sure to subscribe to the mental dose Channel and the telegram channel so you don't miss the next videos on personal and spiritual growth you will find content that inspires challenges and transforms the way you see life and now let's begin first let's look at the problem why do

people stop valuing you there are times when someone who once admired and respected you begins to take you for granted they no longer respond with enthusiasm they no longer appreciate your effort and you feel that your presence has completely lost value when something is always available it becomes predictable this is a psychological principle known as honic adaptation people get used to nice things until they stop seeing them as extraordinary think of a new phone or a dress you've wanted for a long time at first you think it's incredible then it becomes normal and no longer

excites you the same thing happens in interpersonal relationships if you are always present available and ready to give the other person may stop appreciating it another another thing also happens the more you give the less you are valued and recognized if someone receives everything from you without effort they start to take you for granted if you always make the first move if you are available even when the other person is not if you put their needs first without expecting anything in return the message you send is clear your time your presence and your affection have

no price and are constantly accessible every relationship should have a balance when one person always gives more and the other person receives effortlessly a heavy imbalance is created the one who receives Everything effortlessly feels in control while the one who gives more finds himself insecure with the fear of losing the other and it is precisely this fear that leads to behaviors that further reduce one's value in the eyes of the other person that's why the solution is not to chase but to change the dynamic people stop valuing you when they understand that your presence is

guaranteed regardless of how they treat you often without realizing it we enter a dangerous spiral when we feel that someone is moving away we try to fill the void with more attention more availability more effort to please but paradoxically the more you chase someone the less that person considers you so how can you make someone understand your value without begging for attention and without complicating things the answer is much simpler than you think there is a trick that changes the rules of the game the secret is to take a step back it seems counterintuitive because

our first reaction when we feel we are losing value for someone is to do more but we have seen that the reality is very different the more you chase her the more obvious it becomes to her that she doesn't have to do anything to have you or enjoy your presence and this further reduces your value taking a step back does not mean ignoring or manipulating it is not a punitive silence but an act of awareness recognizing your value and stopping offering it to those who do not appreciate it if someone does not seek you out

you absolutely do not have to be the one to always fill that void if they do not listen to you there is no point in repeating yourself endlessly if they do not respect you continuing to bend over backwards will not make them change on the contrary it will confirm that they can treat you however they want without consequences your absence speaks louder than any words and it's a powerful message because it forces the other person to stop and think when you're always there no one questions but when you stop giving everything and getting nothing in

return something fascinating happens the other person stops and asks wait why isn't he there anymore but why does this trick work there is a very powerful psychological law that plays in favor of this strategy the scarcity effect humans automatically give more value to what they perceive as rare precious and above all difficult to obtain this is why luxury items limited editions or exclusive opportunities are so attractive when some is always available it inevitably loses its charm the same is true in relationships if you respond immediately to every message if you are always ready to give

you become predictable and the predictable becomes ordinary the other person stops seeing you as a unique resource and starts taking you for granted but when you stop offering your unlimited attention and start investing in yourself instead of others the perception changes a miraculous reversal of the dynamic occurs your absence creates a void and that void is more powerful than any explanation or plea for attention if your value was real in his eyes he will take a step forward to get you back if he doesn't you have just received a very clear answer and information that

person didn't really value you and didn't deserve your energy not even before the amazing thing is that in both cases is you have regained control of the situation and of yourself remember that it's not about manipulating but about respecting yourself because often when we realize that we are taken for granted we desperately seek confirmation forgetting that our value must not depend on others and disrespecting ourselves instead of wasting energy chasing those who don't value you use that time to invest in yourself cultivate your passions surround yourself with people who appreciate you build your personal growth

when you become the best version of yourself you no longer need to prove anything to anyone those who have neglected you and truly cared about you will begin to notice your Evolution they will see that you do not depend on their recognition and that your life goes on beautifully and it is precisely this Independence that makes the other understand what and how much they have lost the best part is that at at that point you will be the one to decide you can choose to give it another chance or to move forward without looking back

and regardless of your choice you will have won and you have you ever felt like you were taken for granted have you ever tried to take a step back and see what happens tell me in the comments your experience will be valuable to many others we sincerely hope that this video has been helpful and inspiring for you don't forget to subscribe to the mental dose Channel and the telegram channel so you don't miss out on other similar content on wisdom and spirituality also if you liked this content share it with anyone you think could benefit

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