what is that um infidelity um um men using uh men in very much infidelity on part of the woman women cheat more than men far more come on Far Far More come on Far Far and why do you think women cheat more than men um because they're in denial about the infidelity when they cheat they don't even label it as that when if a woman starts cheating it as they label it as my husband's no longer satisfying me they won't even say I'm cheating they'll say my h husband isn't S they find a way to
redirect and shift the terminology so that they are void of guilt really absolutely so how do how do we know women are cheating more than men what is it like is this public knowledge is it surveys are you just hearing this from the people you're coaching the people I'm coaching because firstly you'll know it's simple signs that you'll know firstly when the guy I always say infidelity is a result of men not being masculine and women not being feminine and what I mean by this is is if a woman is cheating it's because she has
a man that accepts unacceptable because he is unwilling to walk away when his boundaries are broken so what will happen is when women meet that man with a good woman with good morals and she doesn't want that man she's like I don't want to we she'll she'll leave she'll leave she'll replace him with somebody who has boundaries that suit her morals but woman she won't cheat because she'll have the values of like this isn't working it's sad no I don't want but I'm not going to cheat while I'm with you no desire to cheat she's
not a sexual being yeah that so she's looking for somebody who can lead a household but the woman who's planning to come home late all the time and planning to go on a bunch of holidays and planning to keep in touch with her ex and planning to post a bunch of provocative pictures online he's perfect he's perfect perfect perfect cuz he'll maybe pay for everything he maybe sort the house out maybe give her the kids he's perfect so that AG she can keep getting the validation from all these other men and who she wants and
he'll say oh babe I don't really like that bikini picture and she'll say stop oppressing me and that will be end of the conversation and that she'll carry on doing what she wants and he'll say oh are you going to come home today I'll come home when I want and that's what he he'll say okay and because she recognizes he doesn't have the willingness to walk away when the man isn't masculine he's his days are numbered his days are good women filter themselves off away from men that are too agreeable now when women get cheated
on again it's a lack of Fe femininity and what I mean by that is honestly what I noticed with married wom that she it's not that they love somebody else so much they they found someone more beautiful they simply have a wife that is no longer catering to their needs in any way shape or form so what type of needs their sexual needs their intimacy needs their supportive needs all kinds of needs so what I mean by that it could be as simple as there's a coffee ready because you're going to work or it could
be as deep as I haven't slept with you in six months it's his needs no longer matter and it's really difficult I understand when you have kids and stuff like that it becomes difficult is it when he feels his needs don't matter or he's communicating what he wants and she's not willing to provide that he's saying it he's saying it she's just like I don't have time for this or she's busy or whatever he's often saying it but she's also not predicting his needs and that's part of femininity part of femininity is I know he's
coming home let me just warm up a bit of food or I know that he's got work at an early start let me just eyeon that shirt quickly because he's going to make a mess if he does it you it's part of femininity what would the feminist movement say to that I'm just curious uh they would argue that it's not your he's not a baby that's what they would say men are not Bab babies but here's the reality they are in a lot of ways they are a lot of ways they really are baby sometimes
but you know what it is it's something about I don't understand this myself but there's something about that they could be hungry or whatever it is but when their wife makes them a meal it tastes totally different to whatever you could order or whatever they could order themselves or when they wife there's a love to it there's a there's a support behind it being seen it's being seen in a way that nobody else sees them there's something about like you of course you can make your own coffee in the morning but there's something about your
wife just putting it there without you asking for it that just makes you feel seen now what I noticed is when women do forget to do that they create they set the tone for a man to now go towards escorts and I'll tell you why because they're always creating a transactional relationship they're making him feel like an ATM anyway if he's like I'm not getting my needs met I'm paying for everything I'm paying for everything and I'm being disrespected maybe or whatever I'm an ATM interesting I'm already an ATM whether that's okay or not to
think that way that's just the interpr way he sees it so if I'm coming home and she's doesn't even notice I'm there she's never cooked a meal she's never asked me how my day is but I'm paying for everything and I'm giving her a great life I'm already on ATM I might as well be an ATM to somebody who's going to touch me and kiss me sexual needs or something EXA who's going to look at at least pretend at least even if act exactly and they and the worst thing is escorts and sugar babies and
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