A Hack That Feel Illegal To Know (How to Attract Women Like Crazy)

in this video I'll share a technique with you that when you use it will make you feel like you're cheating and if you've been following me for a while you'll know that I've spent years studying human behavior and the psychology of women I can confidently tell you that one of the easiest ways I found to attract women is the one I'm going to talk to you about today when I started talking to girls a lot over time I found myself discussing relationships and dating with them all the time I did this for two reasons first

because the topic really interests me obviously and second because girls love talking about it which makes conversations easy and fun and here I want to pause and emphasize this point there's something I discovered by chance girls love talking about relationships a lot let me go a bit off topic here but I want to share a secret about girls when a girl grows up and matures she develops a main goal to find the right partner although this goal may not seem as important in today's world it's a natural instinct deeply rooted within her and will always

stay with her the bigger goal in her life is to find a suitable man to build a family with and this is part of her inner awareness so what happens as she matures thoughts about relationships become a big focus in her mind and when she's with her friends she starts talking about it by the way if you didn't know when girls gather relationships are one of the main topics they discuss if not the main topic from this we can conclude that a girl is someone who loves talking about relationships and has a lot of information

and opinions on the subject this is natural since from the time she became aware of herself she's been discussing it with her friends which means she naturally has a lot of ideas about it now imagine that you have a topic you love and read about often let's say you're interested in politics one day you meet someone else who's also into politics and they start asking for your opinions and talking with you about it you could probably talk with them all night without stopping because they're engaging you in something you love and have plenty of ideas

about it's the same with women when you talk to a woman about relationships you could sit and chat with her all day without feeling bored try it yourself talk to a woman about relationships ask her for her opinions and notice how she will start speaking passionately as if her life depends on it and if you've watched the how to attract women series you'll know that the quickest way to reach a woman's heart is by having an emotional conversation with her and stirring her feelings I probably don't need to explain just how much emotion is involved

in this topic one last thing on this subject try to keep it as a backup topic meaning when you're talking to a girl and the conversation dies down and that awkward silence sets in start talking about relationships I can tell you that using this approach you'll never fall into awkward silence again now let's continue with the video and let let me tell you a story one night I was at a house party talking about relationships with a group of very attractive girls I remember thinking each one of them was interesting and attractive in her own

unique way then one girl said something that really impressed me we were discussing why some guys struggled to commit to relationships most of the girls were talking about how hard it is to get a guy to commit but this girl had a different view she said I don't want to make a guy commit to me I just want to be the kind of girl he wants to commit to I loved her perspective it really impressed me and in that moment I thought to myself if I had to pick someone here today it would be her

then I said it I said the seven simple words that made her focus on me for the rest of the night you know what I love that you said that I could see you as my girlfriend it wasn't just the words though it was the way I said them kind of serious kind of playful just a casual flirty comment dropped in the middle of our conversation but I could tell she loved it because after that she ignored everyone else and focused entirely on me for the rest of the night we kept talking about our future

relationship maybe we were serious maybe we were just joking but we had fun imagining how she'd tried to win me over and become my girlfriend how we'd fall in love how she'd move in with me way too quickly but we'd figure it out and make it work how I'd give her most of the space on my bathroom counter for her makeup just because I'd care about her that much how we'd spend Christmas with her family and Thanksgiving with mine and even get married and go on a honeymoon in Greece we talked for hours painting this

whole picture together and really enjoying it and this style of conversation eventually became a regular thing for me it's a technique I use often to create fun interesting and passionate conversations with women that actually lead somewhere that technique is called future pacing do you remember in this series when I told you that women look for commitment from a man future pacing Taps into her desire for commitment and links it to you I actually learned this when I was studying the psychology of marketing future pacing is a technique salese use to motivate someone to take action

by painting a picture of how amazing it will feel once they get what they want for example when you go to buy a new car the salesperson will take you on a test drive so you can feel what it would be like if the car was yours and if they're really good at selling they'll ask you questions to learn more about you then they'll use what they learn to help you imagine how life would look if you owned this car like how your wife would be so happy how your kids would have all this room

in the back seat how your friends would see you differently or how powerful you'd feel pressing on the gas and feeling the 300 plus horsepower of the V8 engine pushing you back in your soft lever seat good sales people know that if they give you the emot feeling of owning the car before you actually buy it you'll be more likely to say yes and buy it that's what future pacing means so how does this work in dating the general idea is that whatever level of commitment you're at with a woman you want to Future paace

her into the next level this means giving her a feeling of what it would be like before it actually happens this approach works best with these stages one getting her to want your approval two casual dating three becoming her boyfriend here are some examples when you've just met and are flirting with her you could say I can already tell we're going to get into so much trouble together when she does something that impresses you you might say I could totally see you as my girlfriend in a conversation just out of curiosity and with no pressure

you might ask do you think it's important to live together before marriage what kind of wedding would you like where would your dream honeymoon bee the idea is to get her to start thinking about doing all these things with you but please don't fall into the Trap of showing her that you want her and giving her full validation do it in a playful way and don't do it too often please don't fall into this trap let me give you more examples to make the idea clearer once a girl likes you start talking about relationships with

her ask her what she looks for in a boyfriend what her ideal relationship is like and tell her what kind of relationship you enjoy and what your ideal girlfriend is like tell her how much you love a woman who accepts you the way you are and supports your mission in life tell her that you love being able to relax and be yourself with a woman how you know you found the right person when you can enjoy silence together and not always have to be on and super social tell her you love chilling at home and

sweatpants watching horror movies with your girlfriend one night then dressing up in fancy clothes and going out to dinner the next night tell her you love a girl who gets along with your friends and family and adds joy and excitement to your life tell her you think she'd be a great wedding dat and to keep her plans open for next month basically give her the test drive of being in a relationship with you allow her to start seeing herself in that role and feeling good about where things are headed with you allow her to feel

the security and intimacy she craves from a man before she's officially gotten it from you yet this is the ultimate cure for casual dating frustration and the don't waste my time syndrome and of course you only want to do this with a girl you seriously want to be your girlfriend if not you're just manipulating her emotions for no reason by the way there's something I've always wanted to say but never got the chance it's about those guys who see any girl and immediately want to attract her and start talking to her listen closely the type

of women you attract reflects what you believe you deserve if you often feel that you are not able to attract the kind of woman you always desired then you have a strong negative inner belief you might not realize this but your true belief is that attractive women are beyond your reach what's around you is a perfect reflection of the story going on in your head therefore if you don't have the kind of results you desire it's more than obvious that you don't think you can achieve it a good way to get out of this is

to ask yourself the question why why are you not attracting the kind of women you desire more often than not you will come down to a conclusion that you never make any efforts to go to the next level and approach women who are stunningly goodlook you see it's All About the Block you have in your head and nothing else you can easily get anything you believe in the mind when you believe it in the mind the rest becomes very easy anyway let's continue with our video finally once you are dating and you want to take

it to the next level start making plans further out into the future and get her excited about them buy concert tickets for next month and build up how fun it's going to be talk about your brother's wedding that's coming up in a few months and invite her as your date talk about your World Travel bucket list and how you need a cute Adventure buddy to come along for the ride keep projecting things into the future and making her feel good about what's coming next by the way if you have any problems or questions please write

them in the comments so I can know what issues you have and talk about them in the upcoming episodes of the series this was the dark needle and I'll see you in the next video I can see your eyes I feel it in t