KILL YOUR NEGATIVE THINKING - Jim Rohn Motivation

we all face negative thoughts at some point the I'm not good enough this is too hard or I'll never make it thoughts can creep in and take control of our minds but here's a powerful truth you need to hear today you have the ability to choose your thoughts you see your mind is like a garden whatever you plant in it whether it's positive or negative grows if you plant seeds of Doubt fear and negativity that's what will bloom but if you start planting thoughts of confidence success and resilience that's what your life will begin to

reflect the good news it's all in your hands most people let their negative thoughts take charge and let them dictate their actions but what if you could break free from that cycle what if you could Step Up take control and start thinking in a way that propels you forward instead of holding you back this video is not just another motivational speech this is a wakeup call a challenge to transform the way you think and ultimately transform the way you live I'm going to walk you through exactly how to break free from that negativity and build

a mindset that pushes you to take action to be relentless and to succeed it's time to stop letting your doubts decide your future your life does not get better by chance it gets better by change and the change starts in your mind stick with me and I'll show you how to shift your thinking Take Back Control and start winning in ways you never thought thought possible now let's dive into how you can truly kill your negative thinking and start creating the life you've always dreamed of number one make self-improvement a daily practice if you don't

take control of your mind life will do it for you and let me tell you something life doesn't care about your dreams it doesn't care about your potential if you let it life will fill your mind with doubts fears and excuses one bad experience and you'll start thinking you're a failure one setback and you'll start believing you're not good enough that's how negativity takes root it sneaks in when you're not paying attention and if you don't do something about it that negativity doesn't just sit there it grows it multiplies it starts shaping your thoughts your

decisions and ultimately your future before you know it you're stuck living the same day over and over again wondering why nothing ever changes but let's be clear your mind isn't the problem the problem is that you haven't trained it to work for you instead of against you if you want to kill negative thinking you have to make self-improvement a daily practice not once in a while not when you feel like it every single day because here's the truth your mind is like a muscle if you don't train it it gets weak it becomes lazy and

a lazy mind will always default to negativity always that's why you can't leave it up to chance you can't hope that one day you'll just start thinking positively it's not how it works you have to program your mind you have to build the habit of feeding at the right things every single day now some people hear this and think that sounds exhausting I don't have time for self-improvement every day really but you have time to scroll through your phone for hours you have time to overthink and stress about things you can't control you have time

to listen to people who do nothing but complain see it's not about having time it's about what you prioritize and if you don't prioritize your own growth who will no one is coming to fix your mindset for you that's your job so where do you start you start by paying attention to what goes into your mind most people don't even realize how much negativity they consume daily the news social media toxic conversations these things shape the way you think and if you're not careful they will shape your life that's why the first step in self-improvement

is guarding your mind like your future depends on it because it does instead of starting your day by by checking your phone and filling your mind with nonsense start it with something that makes you better read 10 pages of a good book listen to something inspiring write down your goals do something that strengthens your mindset before the world has a chance to fill it with negativity and don't just do it once do it every single day because what you do daily is what shapes you if you read 10 pages of a book today you won't

see a difference but if you do it every day for a year that's 3,650 pages of wisdom that that's the difference between being stuck and breaking through but reading alone isn't enough you have to take action see a lot of people love to learn but they never do anything with it they watch motivational videos all day but never apply anything that's not self-improvement that's procrastination disguised as progress real growth happens when you take what you learn and use it if you read something powerful today don't just think wow that's inspiring ask yourself how can I

apply this to my life today and then do it and let me tell you something when you start doing this daily you'll notice something incredible negative thinking starts to lose its power over you you stop dwelling on problems and start focusing on Solutions you stop overthinking and start doing you stop looking for excuses and start looking for opportunities and you know why because when you train your mind to grow every day it stops settling for Less it stops accepting negativity as normal it starts demanding more but here's the catch this isn't a one-time thing you

don't just wake up one day and say all right I'm done with negative thinking and expect it to disappear forever it doesn't work like that negative thoughts will always try to creep back in fear will always try to stop you doubt will always whisper in your ear that's why self-improvement has to be a daily practice it's how you fight back it's how you stay in control and I know what some of you might be thinking but what if I miss a day what if I fall off track listen to me missing one day won't ruin

you but letting that one day turn into a habit that's where people go wrong it's not about being perfect it's about being consistent you don't have to get it right every time but you do have to get back up every time because here's the truth self-improvement isn't something you do when life is easy it's something you do so that life doesn't break you when it gets hard it's something thing you do to make sure that no matter what happens you stay strong that no setback no failure no disappointment can take you back to the person

you used to be because once you commit to this path there's no going back you'll start to see yourself differently you'll start to expect more from yourself and when you expect more from yourself Life starts giving you more but it all starts with one decision the decision to stop waiting the decision to stop making excuses the decision to start improving yourself every single day no matter what because the moment you make that decision you take your power back the moment you make that decision negative thinking starts to die and the moment you make that decision

your entire life starts to change number two detach from past failures and regrets your past does not define you unless you let it too many people are living today with the weight of yesterday pressing down on them carrying regrets mistakes mistakes failures like they are chained to their backs and they wonder why they can't move forward why they feel stuck why no matter how hard they try they seem to be trapped in the same cycle but here's the truth it's not your past that's holding you back it's your attachment to it it's your unwillingness to

let go it's your decision yes decision to keep reliving what should have already been left behind you cannot change what has already happened no matter how much you think about it no matter how much you analyze it no matter how much you punish yourself for it it is done you cannot go back but you can go forward and that is where your power is the moment you stop replaying your past failures the moment you stop giving energy to regrets that's the moment you start living again that's the moment you start winning now I know what

you might be thinking but I made so many mistakes I wasted so much time I hurt people I failed at things I really cared about and yet that may all be true but do you think holding on to that guilt that shame that disappointment is going to fix it do you think spending another day another week another year dragging yourself through those memories is going to make you better no it's only going to steal more of your time it's only going to drain more of your energy it's only going to keep you stuck in a

place you don't belong anymore you have to understand that failure is not the enemy mistakes are not the problem it's what you do after them that matters Ms every person you admire every person who has ever achieved anything great has failed the difference is they didn't let their failures Define them they learned they adjusted they moved on and that's exactly what you need to do there are people who spend their whole lives trapped by something that happened years ago they Define themselves by their worst moments they tell themselves I'm not good enough because I failed

before they stop trying because they think their past predicts their future but listen to me your past is only a teacher it is not your identity the only way it has power over you is if you give it power and you know how most people give their past Power by replaying it over and over in their minds by feeding it energy by talking about it like it still matters today but it doesn't the only reason it still feels real is because you keep bringing it back to life stop doing that to yourself stop reopening wounds

that should have already healed stop reminding yourself of things that are no longer relevant to who you are becoming if you failed before good that means you tried that means you put yourself out there that means you were in the game and if you keep trying if you keep moving forward you're going to succeed but only if you stop holding on to what didn't work before let me ask you something if you were driving a car would you keep staring at the rearview mirror no because you'd crash and yet that's exactly what people do with

their lives they keep looking back they keep focusing on what's behind them instead of what's in front of them and then they wonder why they're not making progress if you want to change your life you have to start acting like your future is more important than your past because it is what's ahead of you matters more than what's behind you the only thing you need to take from your past is the lesson that's it not the pain not the regret not the just the lesson and once you have it let the rest go I know

it's not easy I know sometimes the past feels like it has a grip on you but that's just an illusion the only thing keeping you tied to it is your own thoughts and the good news you can change your thoughts you can train your mind to let go every time you catch yourself thinking about an old failure stop yourself and shift your focus every time regret Creeps in remind yourself that you are not that person anymore every time doubt tries to pull you back remind yourself that you are moving forward and nothing is going to

stop you you owe it to yourself to give your future the energy you've been wasting on your past you owe it to yourself to stop looking back and start looking ahead and you owe it to yourself to finally once and for all detach from everything that has been holding you back because the moment you do you'll feel something incredible you'll feel lighter you'll feel stronger and you'll realize that the only thing that was ever stopping you was the belief that you couldn't move on but now you know better now you know that the past only

has power if you allow it to and from this moment on you are taking that power back number three stop comparing yourself to others there is no faster way to destroy your confidence kill your motivation and Rob yourself of Joy than by comparing yourself to others and yet so many people do it every single day they wake up and the first thing they do is look at someone else's life someone else's success someone else's achievements and then they convince themselves they are not enough they convince themselves they are behind they convince themselves they are failing

but let me tell you something important the only person you should ever compare yourself to as the person you were yesterday that's it because the truth is no two people have the same Journey no two people start from the same place have the same struggles or face the same obstacles and yet people make the mistake of measuring their progress against someone else's story someone else's timeline someone else's highlight re and when they do they set them elves up for misery you have to stop looking at what other people are doing and start focusing on your

own path because when you compare yourself to others you're not even comparing reality you're comparing what you see on the surface you're comparing what they choose to show you see someone winning but you don't see the struggles they went through you see someone succeeding but you don't see the failures they had to overcome you see someone confident but you don't see the nights they spent doubting themselves and yet you look at yourself with all your struggles all your insecurities all your challenges and you convince yourself that you are less than them but you are not

you are just at a different stage of your journey think about this when you plant a seed do you stand over it every day and get frustrated that it's not a tree yet no you understand that it takes time you understand that growth happens below the surface before you ever see results but when it comes to life people forget this they look at someone else who is in full bloom and they get frustrated that they are still growing they forget that their time will come if they stay committed if they keep pushing if they keep

going the problem is when you compare yourself to others you start feeling like what you're doing is not enough you start doubting yourself you start rushing your progress and when you rush you make mistakes when you rush you lose focus when you rush you lose patience with your own journey and that's how people quit not because they weren't capable not because they weren't good enough but because they convinced themselves that they should be further ahead by now you have to train your mind to stay in your own lane you have to remind yourself daily that

your path is your path and it does not have to look like anyone else's some people succeed quickly others take longer some people struggle in the beginning and then take off others have steady growth some people start with all the resource ources they need others have to fight for every opportunity but in the end none of that matters because the only thing that determines where you end up is your own effort your own discipline your own mindset instead of comparing yourself to others compare yourself to who you were last week last month last year that's

the only comparison that matters are you better than you were before are you growing are you improving if the answer is yes then you are on the right track and if the answer is no then it's time to step it up not because of what someone else is doing but because you owe it to yourself to be better you have to stop measuring your success based on someone else's Journey you have to stop feeling bad about your progress just because someone else seems ahead you have to stop letting other people's success make you feel like

you're failing because you're not you are on your own timeline and your only job is to keep going keep growing keep improving and trust that as long as you are doing that you are exactly where you need to be there will always be someone ahead of you there will always be someone who seems to have it easier who seems to be moving faster who seems to be doing better but that does not mean you are losing that does not mean you are not enough that does not mean you should doubt yourself it just means that

their journey is different and that's okay because at the end of the day success is not about being better than someone else it's about being the best version of yourself and when you finally understand that you will stop wasting your time comparing and you will start focusing on what really matters your own growth your own progress number four make a decision and stand by it there Comes A Time in life when you have to make a decision a real decision not just a thought not just an idea but a firm decision that says this is

it I am going all in and when you do that everything starts to change the problem is most people never truly decide they hesitate they second guess they tell themselves maybe later or I'll wait for the right time but the right time never comes because they never commit they never say no matter what happens I am sticking to this if you want to change your life if you want to succeed if you want to move forward then you must learn the power of making a decision and standing by it not for a week not for

a month but until you get the result because that's what separates those who win from those who stay stuck the ones who win are the ones who decide and never look back they don't entertain doubt they don't waste time wondering if they made the right choice they move forward with full commitment full Focus full belief that they are going to make it work most people live in a constant state of indecision they start something but the moment it gets tough they question themselves they let fear creep in they start thinking about all the ways it

could go wrong and before they know it they quit not because they couldn't do it not because they weren't capable but because they never truly committed in the first place they were still holding on to their Exit Plan they were still keeping one foot out the door but that's not how success works that's not how you build a great life you have to be all in the moment you make a real decision everything changes your focus sharpens your energy shifts you stop looking for distractions and you start looking for Solutions you stop waiting for things

to happen and you start making things happen you stop wasting time wondering if you can do it and you start proving to yourself that you can but none of that happens until you decide until you say this is what I want and I will not stop until I get it you see indecision is the enemy of progress indecision keeps you stuck indecision makes you doubt yourself indecision wastes your time and worst of all indecision makes you live a life of regret because one day you'll look back and realize that all the things you could have

done all the goals you could have achieved all the dreams you could have lived never happened because you never fully decided to go after them you can't build a strong life on weak decisions you can't expect great results with a half committed mind you have to decide what you want and you have to commit to it like your life depends on it because in many ways it does your future depends on it your success depends on it your happiness depends on it think about all the people who have made it to the top the athletes

the entrepreneurs the leaders the artists they all had one thing in common they made a decision and they never back down they didn't let fear stop them they didn't let obstacles shake them they didn't let failure make them quit they stayed the course they adjusted when needed but they never changed the decision itself they said I'm doing this and they followed through and that's why they succeeded now you have to ask yourself what am I still undecided about what have I been hesitating on what have I been starting and stopping over and over again because

that's what's holding you back that's what's keeping you from reaching your full potential and until you decide truly decide you will stay exactly where you are stop waiting for everything to be perfect before you commit stop thinking you need more time more information more confidence you don't what you need is to make a decision and start start where you are start with what you have start today and then once you start do not stop do not let doubt pull you back do not let fear make you hesitate move forward with full commitment with full belief

with the absolute certainty that no matter how long it takes no matter what obstacles come your way you are going to see it through you have to be stronger than your excuses you have to be more committed to your goals than your fears you have to decide that you are done living the same way done making the same mistakes done holding yourself back and when you do that when you finally make that decision and stand by it everything in your life will start to change because decisions shape Destiny and the moment you make a real

one you will never be the same again number five replace emotional reactions with thoughtful responses there will always be moments in life that test you situations that put push your buttons people that say things that frustrate you disappointments that shake your confidence and in those moments you have two choices you can react emotionally let anger take over let frustration Cloud your judgment let fear dictate your next move or you can take control and respond with thoughtfulness with Clarity with strength One path keeps you stuck the other moves you forward most people don't realize how much

their emotional reactions are controlling their lives they think they're making choices but in reality they're being controlled by their emotions something happens and they react without thinking someone says something negative and they let it ruin their whole day they get bad news and suddenly they spiral into hopelessness they feel fear and instead of pushing through they give up this is how most people live always reacting always letting their emotions take the driver's seat and the result regret because when you react emotionally you often say things you don't mean do things you wish you hadn't and

make choices that don't serve your future but the people who win in life the people who stay in control they don't operate that way they don't let emotions dictate their decisions they don't let temporary feelings shape permanent outcomes they train themselves to pause to think to act with wisdom not just impulse because they understand something powerful emotions are temporary but the consequence es of reacting emotionally can last a lifetime think about it how many times in your life have you said something out of anger and regretted it later how many times have you made a

decision based on fear and realized later that it was the wrong choice how many times have you let frustration make you give up only to wish later that you had stuck with it that's what emotional reactions do they Cloud your judgment they make small problems feel bigger than they are they push you into decisions that don't align with your long-term goals you have to start catching yourself in those moments the moment you feel anger Rising the moment frustration starts creeping in the moment fear makes you want to run pause don't react don't say the first

thing that comes to your mind don't let emotions hijack your thinking take a breath step back give yourself a moment to process before you act because once you do that something powerful happens You Take Back Control you start responding instead of reacting and that's when you become dangerous in the best way possible possible because when you are in control of yourself nothing and no one can manipulate you most people don't even try to control their emotions they say that's just how I am or I can't help it but that's not true you can train yourself

you can build the habit of pausing of thinking of responding with wisdom it's a skill and like any skill the more you practice it the better you get the more you catch yourself before reacting the more you build the ability to handle pressure to stay calm to think clearly no matter what is happening around you because life is unpredictable you will face problems you will encounter people who try to bring you down you will deal with situations that don't go your way and if you're always reacting emotionally you will always feel out of control you

will always be at the mercy of your feelings but if you train yourself to respond thoughtfully you become unshakable you become the person who stays calm in the storm who makes smart decisions Under Pressure who doesn't let temporary emotions ruin long-term goals imagine how different your life would be if you mastered this skill imagine how much more respect you would earn if people knew they couldn't push your buttons that you don't break Under Pressure that you don't let Small Things control you imagine how much more peace you would feel if you weren't constantly getting upset

over things that don't matter in the long run imagine how much more success you would have if instead of reacting emotionally you responded with strategy with intelligence with power this is what separates average people from high Achievers the average person reacts they get emotional they take things personally they waste time and energy on things that don't matter but the high achiever the person who is going places they think before they act they don't let small setbacks break them they don't let negative people shake them they stay focused they stay in control and because of that

they always have the advantage this is your challenge starting today start catching yourself before you react when something upsets you pause when fear Creeps in pause when frustration builds up pause give yourself a moment to think before you speak before you act before you decide because that one habit that one change in how you handle situations will transform your life in ways you can't even imagine the people who Master this skill they don't just achieve more they live better they have better relationships better opportunities better control over their future because they are no longer prisoners

of their emotions they don't react they respond and that changes everything number six condition your mind for high performance thinking your mind is the most powerful tool you will ever have it determines your success your failures your confidence your self-doubt everything the way you think shapes the way you live but here's the problem problem most people don't train their minds they don't condition their thinking for Success they let their thoughts run wild filled with negativity doubt and fear and they wonder why they can't seem to break through why they feel stuck why they can't get

to that next level in life it's because they never took control of their own mind they never built the habits that create high performance thinking high performance thinking isn't something you're born with it's not luck it's not some natural ability that only a few people have it's a habit it's a mindset that you build every single day and if you don't train your mind if you don't condition it the world will condition it for you the negativity around you will take over the fear will take over the doubts will take over and before you know

it you're operating at a fraction of your potential that's what happens when you don't take control of your thoughts every day you have to wake up and take command of your mind you have to decide what kind of thoughts you will allow in because your mind is like a garden if you don't take care of it if you don't remove the weeds the negativity will grow and the only way to stop it is to actively condition your mind for success for resilience for confidence for power you have to build the habit of feeding your mind

with the right things start by paying attention to the thoughts that run through your head are they empowering you or holding you back are they making you stronger or weaker most people don't even realize how negative their thinking is because they've never stopped to examine it they just accept whatever thoughts come up but if you want to perform at a high level in life you can't afford to do that you have to challenge those thoughts you have to rewire your thinking because your thoughts are shaping your future the way you think affects the way you

feel and the way you feel affects the way you act and the way you act determines the results you get in life if your mind is filled with doubt you'll hesitate if your mind is filled with fear you won't take action if your mind is filled with negativity you'll sabotage your own success but if your mind is trained for high performance if it's conditioned for confidence for resilience for discipline you become Unstoppable this is why successful people think differently it's not because they are smarter or luckier it's because they have trained themselves to think at

a higher level they have built mental toughness they have created a habit of high performance thinking and because of that they act differently they move differently they don't waste time with negative thoughts they don't let fear stop them they don't let setbacks break them they keep going they keep pushing they keep winning you have to start building this mindset now you have to start training yourself to think in a way that serves your future stop letting old habits of negative thinking hold you back stop entertaining thoughts that weaken you every time you catch yourself thinking

something that doesn't serve you replace it with something that does every time fear Creeps in remind yourself that you are capable every time doubt shows up remind yourself that you have overcome challenges before every time negativity tries to take over shift your focus to what you can do what you can control what you can build most people don't do this because it takes effort it's easy to let your thoughts control you it's easy to stay in a cycle of doubt and fear but easy won't get you anywhere if you want to achieve more if you

want to be better if you want to reach your Highest Potential you have to do the work you have to build the habit of thinking like a high performer because once you do everything changes imagine what your life would look like if you had complete control over your thoughts imagine how much more you could accomplish if you never let doubt slow you down imagine how powerful you would be if you trained your mind to focus on Solutions instead of problems on possibilities instead of limitations that's what high performance thinking does it turns you into a

person who can handle anything a person who doesn't break Under Pressure a person who moves with confidence who acts with purpose who achieves what others only dream about this is not about motivation it's about discipline it's about rewiring your brain for Success because when you build the habit of high performance thinking success is no longer a question it becomes a certainty you won't have to wonder if you're going to win you will know because you have trained change your mind to operate at the highest level and once you do that nothing can stop you number

seven reconstruct your identity around strength not weakness there comes a point in life when you have to decide who you really are not who the world says you are not who your past mistakes try to Define you as not even who your own doubts whisper you might be no you have to reconstruct your identity based on your strength not your weakness because if you let weakness Define you if you let let failures and insecurities dictate the way you see yourself you'll never break free from the cycle of limitation you'll stay stuck you'll keep playing small

you'll keep doubting yourself and worst of all you'll keep proving yourself right that's the dangerous part when you believe you're weak you act weak when you believe you're not capable you don't even try and then you look around and say see I knew I wasn't good enough that's how people trap themselves in a life they don't want but you don't have to stay there you can decide right now that from this moment on your identity will be built around your strength not your fears not your doubts not your failures only your strength the problem is

most people never take the time to decide who they are they accept whatever identity has been given to them by Family by teachers by Society by past mistakes someone calls them lazy and they believe it someone tells them they're not smart and they carry that label for years they fail once and suddenly they see themselves as a failure forever that's how most people live but you can't afford to think like that because the way you see yourself determines everything the way you act the risks you take the opportunities you chase the challenges you face the

goals you believe you can reach your identity is the foundation of your success or your downfall and if if you want to rise you have to reconstruct that Foundation the right way strength is not about never failing it's not about being Fearless it's not about having all the answers strength is about resilience it's about knowing that no matter what happens you will get back up it's about proving to yourself that you can handle anything even when it's hard even when it hurts even when you feel like giving up that's strength that's the identity you need

to build but here's the key no one is going to give you that identity no one is going to come along and tell you you are strong now no one is going to hand you confidence discipline or self-belief that's something you have to take for yourself that's something you have to build Brick by Brick every single day look at how you talk to yourself pay attention to the words you use in your own mind because those words are shaping your identity do you do you tell yourself that you're not good enough that you always mess

things up that you'll never succeed or do you tell yourself that you are strong that you are capable that you can handle whatever comes your way if you've been feeding yourself negative beliefs it's time to stop it's time to tear down the identity that's been holding you back and build a new one think about the strongest version of yourself think about the person you want to be the version of you who doesn't give up who pushes through fear who stands tall even when things get tough that version of you already exists it's not some distant

dream it's inside you right now you just have to bring it out you have to act like that person every day because identity is not something you wait for it's something you create you don't become Strong by waiting for strength to appear you become Strong by making strong choices by thinking strong thoughts by taking strong actions and the more you do that the more your identity shifts you stop seeing yourself as someone who tries and start seeing yourself as someone who does you stop seeing yourself as someone who wants to change and start seeing yourself

as someone who is already changing that's the key you have to live as that person now not someday not when you feel like it right now there will be moments when you feel like the old version of you is trying to pull you back when the doubts creep in when the fear tries to take over when you feel like slipping into old habits that's the test that's the moment when you decide am I going to stay the same or am I going to fight for the identity I want because make no mistake it is a

fight your mind will try to pull you back into what's comfortable into what's familiar but you have to stand your ground you have to remind yourself that you are not your past you are not your failures you are not your fears you are only what you decide to be today start proving your new identity to yourself not with words but with actions you don't need to convince anyone else just you if you say you're strong then act strong if you say you're discipline then keep your promises to yourself if you say you're confident then walk

like it talk like it move like it because every time you do you're reinforcing your identity you're telling your mind this is who I am now and the more you do that the more real it becomes you don't have to be perfect to build a strong identity you just have to be consistent every small choice you make is either reinforcing weakness or reinforcing strength every time you push past fear every time you refuse to give up every time you take one more step when you feel like stopping you are proving to yourself that you are

strong and once you start seeing yourself that way Everything Changes because When You Believe in Your Own Strength you stop looking for approval you stop waiting for permission and you stop holding yourself back you move differently you think differently you become the kind of person who makes things happen so right now in this moment decide who you are decide that from this day forward your identity is built on strength no more doubting yourself no more carrying around old labels no more acting like someone you don't want to be from now on you stand tall you

move with confidence you take control of your life because when you reconstruct your identity around strength nothing can break you nothing can stop you and that is when you become truly UN number eight avoid people who drain your energy there Comes A Time in your life when you have to make a decision not just about what you want to do but about who you allow to be around you because whether you realize it or not the people you surround yourself with are shaping your mindset your energy and your future some people add to your life

they push you forward they challenge you to be better and then there are the others the ones who drain your energy who bring nothing but negative it who pull you down every chance they get these are the people you cannot afford to keep in your life because if you do you will never reach your full potential there are people who will never support your growth not because you're doing something wrong but because they can't stand to see you rise they are comfortable where they are and the moment you start changing the moment you start working

on yourself they feel threatened they see you putting in the effort making sacrifices pushing yourself beyond what they ever dared to do and instead of being inspired they feel insecure so what do they do they try to pull you back they make fun of your goals they tell you it's impossible they remind you of every time you've failed before they discourage you and if you're not careful if you're not strong you'll start listening to them you'll start doubting yourself you'll start believing that maybe they're right that's how dreams die not because of failure but because

of the wrong WR people whispering in your ear you need to understand this your energy is everything the way you feel the way you think the way you act it all comes down to your energy and if you let the wrong people drain you if you let them fill your mind with negativity self-doubt and excuses you will never break free you will stay stuck you will carry their weight on your shoulders and before you know it you'll be moving slower thinking smaller giving up easier not because you wanted to but because they made you believe

that's all you were capable of you cannot let that happen you cannot allow toxic people to rob you of your potential sometimes the hardest thing you'll ever do is walk away from people you once cared about friends co-workers even family members people who have been a part of your life for years but you need to ask yourself are these people pushing me forward or holding me back are they they Lifting me up or draining me dry because here's the truth just because someone has been in your life for a long time doesn't mean they deserve

a place in your future loyalty should never come at the cost of your own growth there are people who are always complaining always blaming always talking about what's wrong with the world and the more time you spend around them the more their negativity seeps into you at first you might think you're just listening just being a good friend but over time you start picking up their habits you start focusing on the negatives you start seeing obstacles instead of opportunities you start making excuses instead of taking action and before you know it you're living in the

same cycle they are stuck frustrated and blaming everything except yourself that's what happens when you surround yourself with people who drain your energy you need to be ruthless about who you L into your circle not everyone deserves access to you not everyone deserves to be in your space to hear your ideas to be a part of your journey you need people who challenge you who push you who inspire you to be better people who celebrate your wins who encourage your growth who make you feel stronger not weaker those are the people who deserve a place

in your life anyone else you need to distance yourself and I know it's not always easy it's not easy to cut ties with people you've known for years it's not easy to say no to those who have been a part of your past but you have to understand your future is more important than your past and if you want to get to where you're going you can't afford to carry dead weight start paying attention to how you feel after spending time with certain people do you feel motivated energized excited about your goals or do you

feel drained frustrated full of Doubt because that feeling is your answer the wrong people will drain you in ways you don't even realize they don't have to say anything negative directly they just bring an energy that pulls you down and over time that energy can destroy your motivation your confidence and your belief in yourself that's why you have to make a change now it's not about being cruel it's not about thinking you're better than anyone else it's about protecting your energy it's about understanding that your time your focus your mental state these are your most

valuable assets and if you spend them on the wrong people you won't have anything left for yourself you won't have the energy to chase your goals to build the life you want to become the person you're meant to be some people will try to make you feel guilty for distancing yourself they'll say you've changed they'll say you're being selfish and you know what they're right you have changed and you are being selfish with your energy with your time with your future and that's exactly how it should be because the only people who get upset when

you set boundaries are the ones who benefited from you having none right now you need to make a choice are you going to keep allowing toxic people to drain you are you going to keep letting their negativity control your mindset your energy your life or are you going to take control surround yourself with people who lift you up and protect your energy like your success depends on it because it does the people around you are either fueling your fire or putting it out and if you want to win if you want to grow if you

want to become the person you know you can be you need to choose wisely because your future depends on it number nine keep moving forward no matter what life doesn't always go as planned in fact it rarely does the road to success is often filled with unexpected twists bumps and detours there will be times when things don't go your way when the obstacles seem too big the challenges too tough and the odds stacked against you but here's the thing those are the moments when you have to keep moving forward no matter what it's easy to

get discouraged when things aren't going the way you imagined when you've put in all that effort and still face failure after failure it can feel like the universe is against you you start doubting yourself you question whether all the hard work the late nights the sacrifices were worth it and in those moments the temptation to stop to give up to throw in the towel becomes overwhelming but you have to understand something important those moments of struggle of Doubt are the exact moments when you need to push the hardest you see success is not about avoiding

failure it's not about never encountering setbacks no one has a straight path to success everyone faces challenges everyone has doubts but what separates the ones who succeed from the ones who don't is their ability to keep moving forward in the face of adversity you can't let the tough times stop you you can't let the setbacks Define you you need to get back up no matter how many times life knocks you down think about the great Achievers in history think about the people who changed the world the people who made a real impact were their lives

smooth sailing were they free of challenges setbacks or failures absolutely not they faced rejection criticism disappointment and failure just like you the difference was they didn't let any of that stop them they didn't quit when things got hard they didn't throw in the towel when the world told them they couldn't do it they kept going even when every part of them was screaming to stop and that's why they succeeded the key to making progress to achieving greatness lies in your ability to keep moving forward no matter how hard it gets the greatest achievements in life

don't come from moments of comfort they come from moments of struggle every time you feel like giving up every time you face another setback that's just life giving you another chance to prove yourself that's another opportunity to show the world What You're Made Of now I know it's not easy it's easy to say keep moving forward but when you're in the thick of it when you're facing failure after failure it feels impossible it feels like you're running on empty like you don't have the strength to keep going but this is where your mental toughness comes

in you have to train yourself to keep moving forward even when you don't feel like it you have to build that muscle of resilience that ability to push through the tough times the truth is you'll never feel fully ready you'll never feel like you have it all figured out and guess what that's okay it's all part of the process you don't need to know exactly how everything will unfold you don't need to have all the answers what you need to do is show up day after day and keep moving forward even when the path is

is unclear here's the secret that most people don't tell you progress doesn't always look like progress there will be days when you feel like you're stuck when it seems like you're not getting anywhere but the truth is every step forward no matter how small is a step in the right direction every single day that you don't give up every time you choose to move forward instead of quitting is progress it may not be obvious but it's happening and one day you'll look back and realize just how far you've come success isn't a destination it's a

journey and that Journey requires you to keep moving forward no matter what it's about showing up every day even when things are tough even when you don't feel like it even when you doubt yourself it's about pushing through the fear the uncertainty and the setbacks and knowing that every step you take is one step closer to your goal when you're in the middle of a struggle it's hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel but I promise you it's there the the hard times won't last forever the tough moments won't Define you

the challenges will pass and you'll come out the other side stronger smarter and more capable than ever before but only if you keep moving forward so the next time you face a setback the next time you want to quit I want you to remember this the most successful people in the world didn't get there by avoiding failure they didn't get there by giving up when things got tough they got there by keeping moving forward they got there by staying persistent by staying resilient by refusing to let failure Define them you have that same power inside

of you the power to keep going to keep pushing to keep moving forward no matter what you just have to make the decision to do it and when you do you'll be amazed at what you can achieve keep moving forward and nothing can stop you number 10 decide right now that you will win there's one one thing that all successful people have in common no matter who they are or where they come from and that one thing is this they made the decision to win and I'm not talking about some vague decision some wishful thinking

or hoping that things work out I'm talking about a deep committed decision a decision that comes from the core of who they are they decided right then and there that they would win no matter the odds no matter the obstacles and no matter how many setbacks they encountered along the way success doesn't come by accident it's not something that just happens to you if you sit around long enough and wait you have to decide to win you have to make the choice that you will succeed and then go all in no matter what but making

that decision is where most people go wrong they sit on the fence unsure of what they want and because of that uncertainty they miss the opportunity to truly commit to their success it's time to stop waiting for permission stop waiting for the right moment that moment you've been waiting for it's right now the decision to win is something you can make today you don't need to wait for everything to line up perfectly for all the stars to align you don't need to wait for someone else to tell you that you're ready you're ready now the

only thing standing in your way is the decision to take action think about the people you look up to the ones who have achieved great things who have reached the heights you aspire to what makes them different from you do they have some kind of special talent that you don't no the only thing that separates them from the person who doesn't achieve their dreams is the decision to win they decided that success was non-negotiable they decided that they would keep going until they succeeded and that's exactly what they did it doesn't matter what anyone else

says it doesn't matter if the world tells you it's too hard too competitive or too risky if you decide that you will win nothing can stop you the moment you make that decision you unlock a new level of focus of power and of determination you become Unstoppable but you've got to be ready for the sacrifices that come with making that decision winning isn't easy it requires hard work long hours and sometimes it will feel like the world is against you there will be days when you feel like quitting when the obstacles seem too big and

the journey feels too long but that's when your decision will matter the most because when you've made the decision to win you don't quit when things get tough you push harder you find a way you dig deeper you've got to develop a mindset that is locked in on your goal you can't afford to let distractions derail you to let negativity from others shake your resolve this isn't a game this is your life and if you've made the decision that you will win then everything you do from this point forward must align with that decision every

choice you make every action you take must be in service of your success it's time to stop making excuses it's time to stop holding back the only thing standing between you and your dreams is the decision to go after them and that decision when made with absolute certainty and commitment will change everything you'll start to see opportunities where you once saw obstacles you'll start to find Solutions where you once saw problems and slowly but surely you'll start to build momentum the more you move toward your goal the more you will believe that success is inevitable

you need to understand that success doesn't belong to the lucky or The Talented success belongs to those who make the decision to keep going to keep fighting and to never back down that's the key decide right now that you will win and nothing will be able to stop you the only way to fail is to quit and if you don't quit if you keep going if you stay committed to your decision then success will eventually be yours so make that decision today decide with all of your heart and mind that you are going to win

and let that decision go guide every thought every action and every choice you make moving forward you have the power to shape your future but it all starts with a single decision the decision to win once you make that decision you'll notice that the world starts to shift your energy changes your focus sharpens you'll attract people who support you opportunities that help you and the strength you need to push through the toughest moments because when you decide to win you become magnetic to success but you've got to commit you've got to decide with absolute certainty

no hesitation no second guessing just a clear unwavering commitment to your success and when you do that there's no stopping you you'll rise above the challenges you'll push through the pain you'll break through the barriers that once held you back and when you look back on your journey you'll realize that the moment you decided to win was the moment everything changed you're ready now decide to win and never look back but you can start fresh right now you can decide to stop letting negative thoughts control you you can choose to focus on what you can

do not what you can't and every time those doubts and fears creep in you can replace them with the kind of thoughts that will push you toward your goals remember you have the power to control your mind your thoughts shape your reality and your actions will follow your thoughts if you want to succeed start by thinking like someone who's already succeeding the mind is a powerful tool use it wisely so take a deep breath stand tall and step forward with confidence the future you want is waiting for you and it all starts with how you

choose to think today if you're ready to take charge if you're ready to break free from those negative thoughts then commit to making that change because when you change your mindset you change your life thank you for watching and remember the best time to take control of your thinking is now keep pushing forward and let's make those dreams a reality