NOBODY IS COMING TO SAVE YOU - Motivational Speech

there's a moment when every boy realizes no one's coming to save him and that's when he becomes a man and some boys never get there and stay children forever the bottom line is no one's coming no one no one's coming to push you no one's coming to tell you to turn the TV off no one's coming to tell you to get out the door and exercise no nobody's coming to tell you to apply for that job that you've always dreamt about nobody's coming to write the business plan for you it's up to you and because

you're only ever going to do the things that you feel like doing right now or that feel good right now unless you understand that you've got to parent yourself you got to push yourself you're not going to make your dreams come true you're just not you know life created this person me life life created me to be this [ __ ] up person that I was back in the day and I had to realize man that's okay man it's not my fault now I got to go back and fix this [ __ ] though so

a lot of this isn't your fault why you do some things you do why you feel the way you feel but no one's coming back to save your ass you have to go back to where the [ __ ] started wherever that place is for everybody and have the courage to go back there and start fixing what broke you so whenever [ __ ] gets nasty David Goins goes you had nobody anyway [ __ ] you had nobody anyway [ __ ] look around you there was no [ __ ] team it was you but

everybody needs that P on the back they need that training partner they they need that accountability coach I don't hear that [ __ ] and neither do they but it's what we've trained ourselves to believe that we need people struggle to do things alone and the path of the exceptional person is one of an exception which means that you are not with other people and rather than fighting that or bemoaning it see it as an indicator that you're on the right path because if everyone else we cheering you on then it means you're not in

the right place because it means you're just like everyone else and that's not where you want to be life isn't fair at all at all so what are you going to do about it I knew that no one was come back to help me no one's going to Miracle me to be somebody special so mentality is the only thing that gets us through life I was an underdog we are all underdogs in life even the baddest person in the world should think that way so you said always have I've never arrived mentality and the can't

hurt me mentality isn't matter where you come from the sewer or wherever you think you're from when I got out of the sewer I got to the road and looked around and said can't hurt me I suffered on my own and developed this man who said that's who I am man there is a period in everybody's Journey where they are so different because they've started to do new things that they no longer fit in with the old set of friends but they're not sufficiently developed that they've gained their new set of friends and they're unsure

should I go back should I lean back into getting a bag in with the boys on a weekend is that the highest you know way that I can live my life passion forward CU that's what every else does and all of my friends are taking the piss oh not drinking again too good for us are we not going out again this week oh okay well like enjoy staying in home and reading [ __ ] nerd so you're going to feel the pain of being ostracized from the group of friends that you used to have but

you're stuck in this messy Middle where you haven't yet worked out who you are on the other side of this and that lonely chapter that's in the middle is something that I I would say almost nobody that I've ever met who has gone from a place where they are to a place where they want to be hasn't gone through man I've trained 99% of my life alone no one p me on the back I did all of the work alone when you train alone and I lived alone for so many years in this misery and

you're able to get out of it by yourself I it was just me me alone in the gym me alone in the mirror me alone in my head no one did it for me I worked for it and I'm never going to let someone else take that from me I can take myself to such a level of real real passion and purpose and like the feeling I get is something I can't even explain by I don't need anyone that's why that's why people come to me to motivate them no one can motivate me people want

to know how I'm always motivated it's the Unseen work I'm out running at 2:00 in the morning 1:00 in the morning in the gym long sessions by myself you were there you know this there was no one there to pick up the ruck sack to pick up the boat to pick up the log to go in that it was you it was you there was no p in the [ __ ] back at 300 at at 275 at 250 at 220 no that was you so those things that come out of me that extract from

me in the darkness people are looking for that P on the back where is it oh I don't need it because what I've done is in the [ __ ] unseen work I built Frankenstein on it so whenever [ __ ] gets nasty David Goggins goes we had nobody anyway [ __ ] but there's times where you can go without your friends you can go without going out you can go without other people around you you have to separate yourself from the pack you have to be willing to spend time with yourself you have to

be willing to uh to to start cutting things out of your nutritional program eat healthy you know get enough rest get enough sleep all of these things come into play of finding your your purpose and it's almost sacrifice it we have to sacrifice this isn't for the masses this is for those who want to leave normal behind those who are in source of a new realm it's a lonely Journey you're isolated those who used to keep Pace with you will fall off they'll see what their world ends and yours begins your ability to suffer endure

our work must be greater you must be willing to extend yourself to the Limit with no guarantee of success every day you must ask yourself did I do enough everybody's asleep man or is getting home after a long night now going out their party it's Friday night it's uh close it's 3:00 in the morning right now you know the thing is man it's always going to be a party it's always going to be a time to celebrate and a time to join friends and or a day I mean the bars are always open always open

no matter how old you are they're always open you know what's not always open is the opportunity to to check the box in life you know to achieve your dreams that's not always open man and it's funny it's like you know I'm not seeing you do it all the time and everything else cuz everyone needs a release in life but it's funny when you're coming here and you're closing the gym up and uh there's no one in the parking lot except for my car so you know that's lonely man just like being this only car

out in the parking lot but if you're cool with that man if you're cool with walking in the shadows of yourself and you know the only person you got is the man right there in the shadow man you know if you're cool with that kind of Walk of Life I tell you man the world is your playground time alone again will make you see first of all who God is second of all who you are and the third thing it lets you see what will fit you what's suitable for your life where is your sweet

spot what works for you the one companion that's always going to be with you is yourself and I think think the first thing we have to do is we have to get ourselves to the point where we don't necessarily need a companion we don't want to be left alone by oursel with oursel so we come in and we sit down and we get on our phone or we turn on the TV because we don't want to face the reality of being by ourself with ourself and so fellas I would say start making yourself a companion

that you're comfortable with the biggest thing you have to do is shut off technology you have to go dark what I mean about that is you have to be quiet in your mind get away from people we love being around people we love talking we love we love parties it's okay to be alone so you got go to the truth first who are you get get really accountable and say okay who am I what's the truth about me get to that dark place in your mind figure out it may take months may take years figure

out your purpose purpose figure out what you want to be in life and then from there okay I have my purpose it may take a long time no one knows their purpose cuz it's too loud nobody's coming to save you big dog you still don't get that your whole life everything that's happened it's all on you every decision every messed up habit every poor choice it's all LED you here you're standing in the mess you created the only person who's going to pull you out of this spot is you no more excuses no more pointing

fingers no more blaming the world for where you're at you want change you want to level up then it's time to get real with yourself get focused get ferocious you got to dig deep and find that fire inside you the one that doesn't take no for an answer it's not about what you could have done or what should have happened it's about what you're going to do right now no one's handing you a Lifeline no one's coming to bail you out it's all on you thanks for staying with us until the end if this video

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